In your 20s, you must understand the wisdom of success

Chapter 10 Success Qualities (4)
The sister told Tom what had happened, and Tom understood everything.Since then, Tom and Jack have become good friends, and his personality has gradually become cheerful.

Enthusiasm from the heart can often achieve shocking effects, bringing sunshine and warmth to people.Enthusiasm is indeed the most precious asset in life.

Enthusiasm and positivity are to the process of success what petrol is to the engine of a car: enthusiasm is the fuel for action.

Enthusiasm is a force that, together with confidence, defeats adversity, failure and temporary setbacks.By controlling your enthusiasm you can turn any negative manifestation and experience into a positive one.

True passion means you believe that everything you do has purpose.You are determined to achieve your goals, and you have a burning passion that drives you to reach your goals until you get what you want.

Dolly Parton was born the fourth of 12 children in a two-room log cabin in Sevi County, Tennessee.The family eked out a living from her father's hard work on a small piece of mountain land.Dolly Parton lived the poorest life in the mountains, with a wooden shed as her home, washing and working hard, and being extremely miserable.However, she didn't want to be a mountain woman with children and children, so she put all her enthusiasm into life in order to change her destiny.

She has been learning to sing since she was a child and was able to compose lyrics at the age of 5, which her mother wrote for her. At the age of 7, Dolly Parton built her own guitar from the remains of old instruments.The following year, an uncle gave her a real guitar.She has been practicing singing.

In high school, she doesn't have any beautiful clothes, but she has enthusiasm, and she has her own dreams.One of her younger sisters later recalled: "Dolly was not shy at all about telling others about her dreams. In the mountains where we lived, no one thought about it like this, and of course the children would laugh at her."

Dolly Parton would later sing for her entire life, becoming the first star to sell more than a million records, all because of her never-ending enthusiasm.

Enthusiasm is the key to any door of success, the first step you must take in any endeavor.Consciously make yourself a habit of enthusiasm and take the first step firmly!

No matter when and where, you have to maintain a high level of enthusiasm, and it is best to start now.

We should all be convinced that an enthusiastic attitude is a necessary condition for doing anything.Anyone, as long as he meets this condition, his career will surely flourish.

Cultivating enthusiasm is not like infecting enthusiasm
Being passionate about life will bring you many benefits:

increase the intensity of your thinking and imagining;
Allows you to acquire a pleasing and persuasive speaking tone;
make your work less hard;
give you a more attractive personality;
make you gain self-confidence;

Strengthen your physical and mental health;

build your personal initiative;
Easier to overcome physical and mental fatigue;
Infect others with your enthusiasm.

Cultivating enthusiasm is not like infecting it, it puts you in control and enables you to generate momentum to achieve your dreams in the most important areas of your life.Although it takes more work to develop enthusiasm than to infect it, once you understand and learn the steps you must take, you will know that it is not as difficult as you think.

1. Develop positive self-talk.Such as: "I am the best", "I am the best", "I am full of passion".

2. Develop the habit of using positive and positive words.For example, instead of saying "I can't", say "I can", instead of saying "I will try", but say "I will" and other positive words instead of negative words.

3. Be willing, let go, forget.Too many people spend a lot of time each day thinking about past trauma.Don't waste your energy on these places.Use your wisdom to learn to forgive, then forget.

4. Do as many good things as possible.No one has ever found lasting satisfaction in abundance and possessions.True happiness comes from acts of charity, generosity and gratitude.

5. Bright thinking and optimistic attitude.

6. Find enthusiasm and happiness in the group.The world-renowned potential master Brian Tracy said: "80% of a person's happiness comes from the people he gets along with, and 20% comes from his own heart." A positive and active team is the source of your enthusiasm and can convene Some positive-minded people meet once a month to discuss ways to accomplish goals and stimulate each other's brainpower.

7. Live in the moment.Most importantly, make every day, every night the best moment.Once time passes, it is gone forever.

8. Behavior affects emotions.To have different emotions, you need to have different behaviors.

9. Role assumptions.Assume that you are the person you yearn for or admire in your heart.

10. Cloak principle.Cloaks are generally worn by leaders and important figures, and wearing a cloak will give you a sense of pride.

Keyword insight: passion
An outstanding person, a person with charismatic personality, must also be a person who can care for others enthusiastically.

Doing something with enthusiasm, itself heralds the beginning of success.If you can give full play to your hobbies and specialties with the spirit of continuous improvement and fiery enthusiasm, then no matter what you do or what situation you are in, you can have both ways and experience the true meaning of a happy life.

(Chapter 8 Perseverance-Having the power to wear water through rocks
When you want to give up, think about it, maybe the sun is not far from the turn, if you give up at this moment, you will never touch the hope of success, then you might as well say to yourself: Hold on, success comes from persistence.

Persevere, there will always be a turning point

A salesman went to a company to sell products.He respectfully asked the secretary to hand over his business card to the chairman. As expected, the chairman threw the card back tirelessly.The secretary returned the business card to the awkward salesman standing outside the door, and the salesman handed the business card to the secretary disapprovingly.

"It's okay, I'll visit again next time, so please leave the chairman's business card."

Unable to resist the clerk's insistence, the secretary bit the bullet and entered the office again. The chairman got angry and tore the business card in half and threw it back to the secretary.

The secretary stood there at a loss, and the chairman was even angrier. He took out 10 yuan from his pocket, "Buy him a business card for 10 yuan, that's enough!"

Unexpectedly, when the secretary handed back the salesman's business card and banknotes, the salesman happily said loudly, "Please tell the chairman that 10 yuan can buy two of my business cards, and I still owe him one." Then he took out another business card and handed it to the secretary.Suddenly, there was a burst of laughter in the office, and the chairman came out: "Such a salesman, if you don't talk to him about business, who else should I talk to?"

Persistence, not backing down and never giving up is the moral of the story.Many people often give up halfway. In fact, as long as they put in a little more effort and persevere, there will always be a turning point.Hold on a little longer, and what you've worked so hard for will be yours.The British poet William Cooper once said earnestly: "Even if it is a dark day, if it lasts until dawn, there will be dawn again."

Movie star Sylvester Stallone was very down and out before he became famous. When he was the most down, he only had 11 dollars on him. He couldn't even afford to rent a house, so he slept in the car every day.Determined to be an actor, he confidently went to a film company in New York to apply, but was rejected because of his unremarkable appearance and bad words.After being rejected 1500 times, he wrote the script of "Rocky" and introduced himself with the script, and was rejected another 1800 times.

Still not discouraged, Stallone finally met a boss who was willing to accept him. Stallone, who persisted to the end, got his wish and finally became a superstar in the international film industry.

If the elevator to success breaks down, take the stairs one step at a time.As long as there are stairs, or any ladder, you can go wherever you want.It doesn't matter whether the elevator is malfunctioning or not, what matters is that you can continue to climb up step by step.

If you run into trouble on the way to your goal, you face it, fix it, and move on so the problems don't pile up.At the same time, you solve one problem, and other problems sometimes disappear by themselves.Time can eliminate many problems, as long as you stick to the end, one by one, do not rush, many problems will be solved.

A person's life cannot be smooth sailing, there will always be some ups and downs and twists and turns.The reason why people are divided into strong and weak is that the former said when accepting the challenge of fate: "I will never give up." The latter said: "Forget it, I can't bear it."

A successful person just has a little more persistence than a failed person, and it is this last persistence that determines his success or failure.Just like the last few minutes of a game, it is often the key to winning or losing.

A reporter interviewed a successful entrepreneur: "Why have you experienced so many difficulties and obstacles in your career, but never gave up?" The entrepreneur replied: "Have you ever observed a stonemason Is it? He probably knocked 100 times on the same spot on the stone, but nothing happened. But at that 101st time, the stone suddenly split into two pieces. It was not the 101st blow that split the stone , but the previous 100 knocks." "Drips of water wear through rocks" is also the final result of persistence.

Bill Gates believes that great success is not about strength but tenacity.Social competition is often a persistent competition, and those with perseverance and perseverance are often the ones who have the last and best laughs.From the story of the tortoise and the hare, we can know that the winner of the race is the clumsy tortoise instead of the rabbit, because the rabbit lacks the spirit of perseverance in the competition.Therefore, perseverance and perseverance are necessary conditions for those who want to succeed in their careers.

The front of persistence is success

A young man once said: "I want to write a novel that can create a sensation." At that time, he really had a fiery passion, and he wrote more than 6 words in one breath, and presented it to his friends with confidence. Look.Friends thought that his writing skills were very high and his language skills were good, but the structure of the story was flat and clichéd, and the plot was somewhat nondescript. Not only could it not produce a sensational effect, it was even difficult for ordinary magazines to accept.But his friends still encouraged him with enthusiasm, hoping that he would disrupt the existing structure and redesign some details in the story.But he was completely deflated like a deflated ball, and he didn't want to rethink.Later, he submitted the novel to two magazines and both were rejected.Since then, he no longer has a strong interest in writing novels, and his self-confidence has also disappeared.Since the manuscript was rejected, although I had the urge to start writing a few times and started a few novels, so far there has been no result.Later he gave up the literary path.

In terms of his literary foundation and his creative conditions, this young man is fully capable of achieving success in literary creation, but sadly he lacks patience, lacks tenacity, and lax emotions suffocate his creative talent .If he can persist in his enthusiasm for creation, there will be a road to success ahead.

Napoleon Hill said that everyone who achieves success should know that progress is accumulated bit by bit. If you succumb to difficulties, what else awaits you besides failure?Then, your dream becomes a fantasy.

In short, doing it is the only smart way to achieve any goal.Persevere, you can get twice the result with half the effort.Any success has to go all out and persevere to the end, otherwise you will never get everything you want.Many examples illustrate this point.

It took Marx 40 years to write Capital.

It took Darwin 20 years to write On the Origin of Species.

It took Copernicus 36 years to write "On the Revolutions of the Celestial Spheres".

It took Morgan 40 years to write Ancient Society.

It took Goethe 60 years to write Faust.

It took Tolstoy 37 years to write War and Peace.

It took Sima Qian 15 years to write "Historical Records".

It took Zuo Si 10 years to write "Sandu Fu".

It took Hong Sheng 9 years to write "The Palace of Eternal Life".

It took Cao Xueqin 10 years to write "A Dream of Red Mansions".

It took Xu Xiake 34 years to write "Xu Xiake's Travel Notes".

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