Low-key life, high-profile work

Chapter 19 Pay attention to details and be an excellent manager (4)
A little bit of sincerity makes colleagues like you
As the division of labor becomes more and more detailed, colleagues become the people who interact with each other and have the most contact with each other in daily life.Only by treating every colleague sincerely can we successfully accept the test of character and morality.As the saying goes: "Being kind to others is equal to being kind to yourself." Only when you have a harmonious relationship with your colleagues at work can you keep your working state happy and comfortable.

Although today's workplace believes in the principle of "survival of the fittest and survival of the fittest", as a social animal, human beings can independently choose to cooperate with others to survive.Smart employees will draw a beautiful blueprint for the future of the workplace, and know how to build a good relationship with colleagues and lay a solid interpersonal foundation.Walking in the workplace, if you want to weave a solid interpersonal network, you must remember the word "sincerity".Only sincerity is the foundation of communicating with colleagues, and only in this way can you become the king of popularity in the office, thus infinitely magnifying the space for upward climbing in the workplace.

When it comes to sincerity, two simple words have deep meanings.Sincerity must first come from the heart. Interacting and caring with colleagues are not hypocritical or playful.Acting hypocritically in the world not only cannot win the favor of colleagues, but can only arouse the disgust of the other party and label you as a hypocrite.Do things with heart and treat colleagues with heart. Only by touching each other with a sincere heart can the bridge of friendship fly across the distance of the heart and establish a colleague emotion that transcends blood relationship.

Three mice went to the same oil tank to steal oil to drink. If they couldn't reach the oil, they thought of a way, that is, one mouse bit the other mouse's tail, and hanged to the bottom of the oil tank to drink oil. Everyone took turns to drink. Enjoy.

The first mouse was the first to hang down to drink the oil. It thought: There is only so much oil, and it is not enough for everyone to drink a little bit in turn. I am lucky today, so I might as well jump down and drink to my full.The mouse caught in the middle thought: There is not much oil below, what should I do if the first mouse drinks it up?I think it's better to let it go, and jump down and drink it to your heart's content!The third mouse thought: There is so little oil, so when they are full, where will I have my share?It's better to put them away at this time, and jump to the bottom of the tank to have a full meal.

So, the second mouse let go of the first mouse's tail cruelly, and the third mouse also quickly let go of the second mouse's tail, and they jumped into the tank vying to be the first.In the end, all three mice drowned in the oil tank.

Although this little story is simple, it contains profound truth.The three mice, who were supposed to work together, ruined their lives because of selfishness.In fact, the same is true for employees in the workplace. When encountering unfamiliar business at work, with the help of colleagues, they will tide over the difficulties smoothly; when encountering troubles in life, the help of colleagues can pull you out of the quagmire.However, whether a good colleague relationship can be established, sincerity becomes the touchstone to test the character.Winning the love of colleagues is not something that can be achieved overnight. It needs to be accumulated with bits and pieces of sincerity. All of this is like an echo in the valley. What you give, you will get.Only when you treat people sincerely in every detail, can you also gain the sincerity of others.

In the traditional workplace, the definition of colleagues only exists at work and has no intersection with life.In fact, with the progress and development of the times, colleagues who get along day and night are more and more like confidants and close friends, and the concept of colleagues is constantly expanding.Therefore, it is very important to be able to get along harmoniously and harmoniously with colleagues.

Most people in the company don't like John because he is a headache to work with.

John is always self-centered and doesn't consider the feelings of his colleagues at all.For example, the faxes sent by John will all say: Urgent!urgent!Nevertheless, colleagues did not give up on him.

One day during the lunch break, my colleague Jenny brought a big and plump fruit. She thought: It would be too wasteful to eat such a good fruit alone, everyone should try it.So Jenny cut more than half of the fruit and gave it to John.

One day, John suffered from an old stomach problem. Without further ado, Amanda carried John on her back and went straight to the hospital, and then took good care of John until late at night.

John on the hospital bed recalled that his colleagues treated him sincerely, but he was so selfish and indifferent before. Thinking about it, salty tears rolled down his face.

After being discharged from the hospital, John seemed to be a different person. He was polite and responsive to his colleagues.Because John understands that the sincerity and love of his colleagues is a priceless treasure, which is worth cherishing for a lifetime.

Some people may say, "I want to be honest with my colleagues, but I don't have the right opportunity." Is this really the case?If you want to treat people sincerely in your heart, you will subconsciously reveal your will and put it into practice.A cup of warm tea, a word, a smile, or even a kind look can convey your sincerity.Sincerity is like silent drizzle, silently nourishing the hearts of colleagues, colleagues will naturally have a good impression of you and establish a strong friendship.

Wisdom
This is a society of division of labor and cooperation. Only when colleagues like us can we form a strong cohesion among the teams, enhance individual combat effectiveness, and maximize our potential.Therefore, the relationship with colleagues is largely related to your career destiny.Treat colleagues with sincerity, impress colleagues with little things, and win the love of each other. Only in this way can you walk smoothly in the workplace and become a real strong.

Perfect the details of how you do things

No matter how smart, how capable, and how superior a person is, if he doesn't know how to behave and do things, his end will be failure.Being a human being is both a science and an art. It seems simple, but it actually has profound knowledge.Everyone in this world is doing things, but there are very few truly successful people. There is only one fundamental reason, that is, they don't pay attention to the details of life.Only by mastering certain skills and working hard to perfect the details of being a person and doing things can one be able to swim freely in the workplace and in life, otherwise it will be difficult and a dilemma.

In real life, everyone is longing for and pursuing success, but some people get very little after paying a lot for it and sacrificing a lot.Why do hard work and self-improvement get mediocrity and nothing?
Looking at the surface, it is very simple to be a person and do things. It is nothing more than communicating with people and dealing with various matters.In fact, it is not the case. Your subjective wish is to be a good doctor with superb medical skills and respected by patients, but things are counterproductive, and patients are unwilling to accept your diagnosis and treatment; Dizziness.Putting aside the superficial phenomena and digging into the crux of the problem, it is not difficult for us to find that the crux of the failure is that we have not fully grasped the knowledge of being a person and doing things.

Being a person and doing things is a profound knowledge, which involves all fields of life and work. If we only start from a certain link, we often cannot see the whole picture, and there will be disadvantages of missing details.If you want to master this knowledge, you must grasp the essence, be good at observing and summarizing small precautions, so that you can follow the rules.

At the end of the 18th century, the statesman and thinker Burke once said: "Education is more important than the law... They either promote morality, or promote morality, or completely destroy morality according to their own performance." Good education is the foundation of doing things for people. It is as A person's foundation, if the foundation is not strong, even the most glorious building will collapse.In the process of interacting with people, good upbringing can be reflected in any tiny link, such as gestures, speech and behavior, and even dressing and dressing can reflect the basic qualities of a person.Do things aboveboard, be honest and honest with others, and those with good self-cultivation will be loved and trusted by others everywhere.

Mr. Li Ka-shing has won unlimited business opportunities and huge wealth by perfecting the details of being a man and doing things.Feng Lun, chairman of Vantone Group, told such a story: "One autumn, nearly 20 people, including Niu Gensheng, Ma Yun, and Jiang Nanchun, and I went to Hong Kong to visit Li Ka-shing. We thought that we should arrive early to meet important people; we had to hold business cards in both hands. Give the big man, but the big man does not have a business card; the big man will say a few words, and then take a group photo, he stands in the middle, and we stand on the side; when eating, the big man sits at the head of the main table, and we sit on the side, or at another table; After we finished eating, maybe before we finished eating, the big shots would say that they left because they were busy. But when we met Mr. Li, all the procedures did not happen like this. When we got to the top floor, Mr. Li was already standing when we opened the elevator. There, he sent us his business card. A waiter brought us a plate and asked us to take the number, and told us which chair to sit in when we got the number. Mr. Li thought carefully, which would avoid embarrassment, because today Where you sit is not because of your status.

"I also found that each table left a pair of bowls and chopsticks for Mr. Li. He sat at each table for an average of 15 minutes, and all people had the same probability of contacting him. At the end, he shook hands with us. After finishing handing, he suddenly found a waiter standing at a table 30 meters away, and he ran over to shake hands with the waiter. Then he took us to the elevator and waited for everyone to leave before he left.”

Li Ka-shing has a prominent status, but he is still constantly improving the details of his life and work.In fact, the details are not only seen by others, but also remembered, thus creating an overall impression score for your personality.Therefore, doing things for people can't just rely on superficial articles. If you want to gain the recognition and respect of others, you must improve with a sincere attitude.

Wisdom
How to gain a foothold in the increasingly competitive social environment, how to communicate with people in life and work with ease, these are the big questions that everyone should think about.In the process of thinking, it is not difficult to find that only those who constantly improve the details of their own behavior and work will accumulate a lot and usher in success.

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