Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 62 Scene 62 Visiting In-laws for the First Time

Chapter 62 Scene 62 Visiting In-laws for the First Time
When the woman goes to her boyfriend's house for the first time, she must also make corresponding preparations. ?
Generally, the parents of the man are more concerned about the character of the woman.Most of them want their future daughter-in-law to be kind, docile and diligent
, Capable, with the virtues of traditional oriental women.Of course, this is an overall, general requirement, and there are many slightly different requirements.
beg. ?
([-]) Talking flexibly?
Some male parents are not good at talking. They are used to the quiet atmosphere at home, and they will not be angry or angry about anything.
Yu Se, even if the future daughter-in-law came to visit them, on the surface it was nothing more than an extra guest, but in his heart, there was

They will criticize you carefully, so you have to be fully prepared to resist their seemingly indifferent but in fact probing.

Eyes, speaking and demeanor should be both traditional and modern.Be articulate, gentle, and slightly shy in speaking

, and treat them with respect.Try to avoid laughing, shouting, or being intimate with your boyfriend in their presence, let alone

Rebuke your boyfriend in public or play petty temper, self-willed, coquettish, angry, etc. ?
Take a look at the example below: ?

"Uncle and aunt, I..., I think I should come and see you after talking with Amin for so long. Amin must have told you
Come on! "?
"My mother also asked Amin to bring me to meet you. You are similar to what I imagined, and it seems that we will get along well.
Well done, what do you think? "?
"Auntie's cooking is so delicious! Teach me more in the future, so that I can cook it for Amin, and save him from getting used to my cooking
vegetable……"?
The above topics can be discussed with any parent. It seems that you are very flexible and sensible. You might as well give it a try. ?
([-]) Should the conversation be sincere?
There are also male parents who are just the opposite of the above. They love their children eagerly and are eager to find a wife for their sons as soon as possible. They are not very picky

Daughter-in-law, as long as your son likes it and is willing to bring it home, they will hold you like a fairy, as if they are afraid

Once they offend you, their son will be unable to find a wife.For such a family, you have to exchange good for good, honesty for sincerity, and be able to

Entering such a family, as long as you take care of the overall situation a little bit, you will definitely enter the Fumen, which is no different from your natal family.
No, even more pampered than at home, although it is the first visit, but their enthusiasm for you is enough to make you unbearable, so you say

You might as well be lively and interesting when talking. ?
"Uncle, Auntie, I'm here for the first time, you treat me like a daughter, I'm so touched!"?
"Since I fell in love with Aqiang, he has talked about how good you are many times. It's really better to hear than to see. No wonder Aqiang

Say hello!You spoil him too much, be careful to spoil him. "?
"He once said that I am not as good to him as my aunt. It seems that I am really not as careful as you. Look at you, I am not willing to let you go after eating.
He washes, come, let me help you! "?
As you can see from the examples above, you can naturally make yourself part of a family that is very welcoming to you.

Don't let others treat you with sincerity, and you can't pretend to be noble, indifferent or hurt others' sincerity, otherwise, you must

will regret it. ?
([-]) Give the other party a sense of trust?
There are also such parents. When you first went to your boyfriend's house, they had a certain amount of distrust because they didn't know you well, and some even

If you are a little cold, you must not be frustrated and discouraged, because this is a normal psychological state of human beings, and you can use your
Words and deeds let them feel your sincerity and sincerity, but don't act like a baby and offend them. ?
"Uncle, aunt, are the two elders still in good health? They look tough and energetic, and they are younger than I imagined.
many. "?
"I'm going to Sichuan after the new year, just tell me what you need, you're welcome!"?
When I have free time, I will knit a sweater for you, the elder and the other. My knitting skills are not bad. The sweater on Ah Song is
I knit it, what do you think, Auntie? ?

"I can do housework at home, so if you need me to do anything, just let your son call me."?
No matter how they treat you?You can treat them objectively and calmly, which more or less includes your love for their son, so it is very
We will accept and accommodate you very quickly. ?
The best virtues of a woman are tolerance, generosity, cheerfulness, dignity and cheerfulness. If you have these advantages, then any

You can open any kind of home door; you can impress any parental heart with any personality.But one thing to note is that, yes

While you are investigating and probing, you might as well make guesses about them. The so-called heart-to-heart comparison, if they do it before you

The above points, but still not welcome your words, maybe there are hidden difficulties or reasons unknown to you, that is, what do you say?
Nothing is superfluous, but it will increase the psychological burden on each other, so the best way is to keep silent or find an excuse to walk away. As for him

Our son, you may wish to investigate for a period of time, and then determine whether you have further developed the relationship. ?
As the saying goes, women are made of water, so please show your tender feelings like water to influence or touch all the people around you.
At the same time, it also affects and touches your future father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and uncle, and let them become a member of the family for owning you

And proud, and happy.

(End of this chapter)