Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 58 Scene 58
Chapter 58 Scene 58
When you meet someone you like, you will be tempted by him, and then you will try every means to get close to him.but close to the soulmate

You need to pay attention to the way you use it. If it is not appropriate, let the other party see your purpose at a glance, and your plan may fail.art
Getting close to your crush skillfully is something every first-time lover aspires to do.In this process, the mouth will play a big role.

use.If you are a man and you want to approach the girl you like and talk to her, you will be excited and nervous, worried that she will not

Pay attention, how embarrassing that is!It is this fear that hinders your determination to approach her.Actually, you don't have to be blind
Worry, as far as most girls are concerned, they really long for a man to approach her and talk to her.Although some

The girl is calm on the surface, but her heart has already sprouted, why don't you boldly give it a try?when you start
You can have a symbolic "talk" with her.After choosing a suitable opening statement, you can say whatever you like next, as long as you

You can talk about everything you can think of in your head, maybe, in the process, the girl will have a good impression of you

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How to get close to the person you like?Here are some tips and methods: ?
([-]) Start with the similarities between the two?
When you have someone you like and want to get closer, it's time to find a way to talk to them.But "it's not speculative, half a sentence is too much", you and
The person you like has never met before, and if you want to communicate with each other, you can only do it when you feel like you are.then you can

Use a common point to express your surprise and joy at the coincidence, and give the other party the impression of being "like-minded",

Encourage them to break through the barrier of strangers and talk to themselves.Here is an example of this: ?

A girl loves reading very much and often goes to the library.In the library, the girl noticed a young man.He is easy to learn, and

He was so handsome, especially the focused expression on his reading book fascinated her.She goes a little later than him every day and always sits
In close proximity to him, sending occasional affectionate glances.After a few days, he finally noticed her, and she knew her chance had come.

So one day she whispered to the young man:?

"You seem to come here often to read. What book are you reading?"?
""Television WPS97 Tutorial". What book are you reading?" In his heart, she was no stranger to her. ?
""Office97 Training Course". Oh, we are 'like-minded'!" She smiled charmingly. ?
In this way, they met and made "friends". ?
The girl was interested in the young man, but she had no chance to strike up a conversation. Later, she found out that she and the young man were reading the same kind of books.

So I seized this common interest, said that I and the young man were "like-minded", and quickly shortened the distance between each other.

Made friends with each other. ?
([-]) Using tickets as a medium?
Tickets are a tried-and-true method when you're trying to get close to your crush, and a common saying goes, "I just happen to have two tickets here."

,so……. "This is a strategy that everyone can think of, so use it. You can also say to your Quarry: "This

Piao couldn't go because my friend happened to be in a hurry. If I don't have other things, do you want to go together? "If you feel that you have specially invited the other party

It seems inappropriate to watch, you can try to say: "Is there anyone willing to go with me?" If the other party is willing to watch with you
, the follow-up actions can be carried out naturally, but it is also possible to recruit people you have never thought of, so it is necessary to

Predict that the companions around him will not speak. ?
Sometimes the other party is not very willing to go out with you, but this is not absolute, the other party will have different reactions depending on the nature of the ticket

.If you get tickets to a popular concert from your friends, everyone will probably be envious if they find out!
You can seduce the other person by speaking casually or with a slightly high-profile attitude.better way is to talk to her about the concert

And said to her: "If you want to go, we can go together. As for the tickets, I can find a way." Of course you already have the tickets
Ready to go. ?
When the other party asks you back: "Is it not easy to buy your tickets?" You can answer: "I will try my best to find a way.
If you want to go, I will do my best no matter what! "The other party will be very grateful for your answer like this. Then they will agree.

Your invitation, this is a "classic way" to get close to the person you like. ?
([-]) Express your concern?

People who care about others often give people the impression of kindness and enthusiasm, and people will always treat people who care about themselves from the bottom of their hearts.

Create a sense of gratitude and closeness.Therefore, when you want to get close to the person you like, you may wish to remind
The other party's negligence or loopholes in a certain aspect expresses their concerns.It will be natural for the other party to avoid mistakes under timely reminders.
If you pay attention to your concern, you will be happy to talk and get acquainted with you.Your goal will be achieved.Please see the following example: ?

A young man takes the bus to work every day, and he finds that there is a beautiful girl who often takes the same bus

, Read as soon as you get in the car, until you get off the car.She always hangs her umbrella on the handle by the door, and several times she almost forgot to put it on
take away.The young man had admired her for a long time, and this umbrella gave him a chance to strike up a conversation.One day, when she was about to get out of the car, he shyly

Said to her:?
"You forgot to take your umbrella."?
She smiled sweetly: "Thank you."?
In this way, they met. ?
For a few weeks after that they sat together and talked vigorously.Later, they started dating. ?
In order to get close to the girl he has admired for a long time, the young man pays attention to her every move. He realizes that the girl almost forgot several times.
The umbrella was taken away, so he kept it in his heart. When the girl was negligent again, he reminded her in time.

The kind-hearted young man had a good impression and soon started talking with him.The lad's concern paid off. ?
([-]) Can you pretend to know each other?

When you want to get close to the person you like, it is often very abrupt to ask directly, and the other party will often respond to such presumptuous requests

feel
Unprepared, so he quickly refused.Therefore, you can first try to catch up with the other party, and then gradually deepen your understanding.

Pretending to know the other person is a common technique to get close to the person you like. Asking each other on the pretext of deja vu, in most cases

, the other party will recall carefully and answer this question seriously.At this time, you should seize this opportunity, be persuasive, and make the conversation
Start slowly to achieve the purpose of getting to know each other.The following is such an example. ?
Wu Ying can often meet a handsome young man on weekends. She wants to get close to him but has no chance. Once, she saw
I saw this young man standing in front of the window of a department store, concentrating on looking at the men's clothing displayed inside.he didn't notice

Not far from him a girl was watching him.When he was about to leave, Wu Ying came over, smiled and said to him:
"With the liberty to ask, do you work for the city government?"?
"Oh no, you may have mistaken the person!"?
"No way, I went to the city hall to do business a few days ago, and I seem to have seen you there. So, where do you work

Woolen cloth? "?
"I work at the University of Foreign Studies." He said politely. ?
"It's really enviable that you work at the University of Foreign Studies! I work in a department store." Wu Ying took the opportunity to say. ?
"I think we must have met somewhere, may I ask your surname?" she asked. ?
"Miangui's surname is Lei, and his name is Zhen."?
"Lei Zhen, what a good name! My name is Wu Ying."?
"We didn't know each other before!" he said with certainty. ?
"I must have been mistaken, but it has been a pleasure to meet you," she said. ?
"I feel the same way, so what do you do for work?"?
"I'm the clothing manager, what about you?"?
"I teach English at the University of Foreign Languages."?
"Really? Then your English must be great! I'm learning English, and I have a lot of doubts. May I ask you for advice?"?
"You're welcome, we can study together." He was a little proud. "Do you have time now? Let's go for a walk in the park,
Let's talk while walking, okay? "?
"Today I happen to be off, I'm happy!" ?
Look, Wu Ying succeeded! ?

In order to get close to the young man, Wu Ying pretended to know the young man and approached him on the grounds that she had met him in the city hall.
Although she was surprised by Wu Ying's words, she still answered her question politely.
Fang's name, unit, the two talked more and more speculatively, and she finally succeeded in getting acquainted with the young man.

(End of this chapter)