Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 5 Scene [-] - When Introducing Others
Chapter 5 Scene [-] - When Introducing Others
Introducing others refers to the process of introducing and introducing someone to other people in social situations.The introducer's introduction is like the same
A bond connects two parties who do not know each other. Whether this "bond" is flexible and strong determines whether the two parties to be introduced can go smoothly and successfully.

communicate successfully.Good at introducing others, on the one hand, it is to show your expressiveness in social situations;
On the one hand, it reflects one's ability and quality in dealing with people, and can improve one's prestige and influence among friends and colleagues.exist
In the process of introducing others, we must be correct, generous and decent, so that we can truly enhance communication.

When introducing a party, the gaze should be fixed on the other party enthusiastically, and it is disrespectful to the person being introduced if the gaze is moved elsewhere or wandering.

At the same time, you should pay attention to smiling and guiding the other party's attention with your own eyes. ?
When making introductions for others, it is necessary to accurately introduce the basic information of both parties, such as their respective identities and status.When presenting, follow the respected
One party has the principle of knowing the priority of the other party.This should be noted. ?
When making introductions to others, gestures should be graceful.No matter which side is introduced, the palm of the hand should be facing up, the back of the hand should be facing down, and the four fingers should be together.

, thumbs open, pointing to the party being introduced, nodding and smiling at the other party, and introducing in order.When necessary, it can be stated that the
Introduce the relationship between the other party and yourself so that new friends can understand and trust each other. ?
Both parties being introduced should show enthusiasm for getting to know each other, and both parties should face each other head-on.Introduce except ladies and long

Otherwise, generally should stand up.However, if the meeting is in progress, or at a banquet and other occasions, there is no need to get up, just a little less

Compliments will do.Let's take a look at the order, content and method of introduction.

([-]) The order of introduction?
The order of making introductions for others, that is, the question of who to introduce to whom first, there are some rules and particularities involved, involving
The etiquette of the humble, so only acting in accordance with this is the correct choice.Generally speaking, the order of introducing others is as follows:

kind:?

1. Introduce men to women?
According to Western customs, men should be introduced to women first, and then the latter should be introduced to the former.It's the spirit of "ladies first"

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The body reflects the respect for women.If it is according to the customs of the oriental people, if the male is older and has a higher status

, you might as well introduce women first.There is nothing wrong with this, because Orientals all have this tendency.If the age is similar, and

If you are in the same position, you might as well follow the Western method and introduce men to women first. ?
2. Introduce the juniors to the elders?

That is to consider the age difference between the two parties in advance, and respect the elders. ?
3. Introduce a low-ranking person to a high-ranking one?
It is suitable for more formal occasions, especially for people with the same occupation. ?
4. Introduce unmarried people to married people?
It only applies to the premise that the introducer knows both parties very well.

If you are not sure, you can choose from other angles. ?
5. Introduce the guest to the host?

It is suitable for occasions with many guests, especially when the host does not necessarily know all the guests.

when.If you want to introduce guests to your parents, you should introduce your mother first.If an introduction is made between guests, it is generally

Late guests are introduced to early guests. ?
6. Introduce individuals to groups?

It is often to introduce a person before the crowd.If sometimes it is necessary to put the present

When people are introduced to a person one by one, they should follow a certain order, such as clockwise or counterclockwise, from right to left or

From left to right, proceed sequentially, you should not pick and choose "jumping" to proceed, otherwise it will hurt those who are "jumped" past
human feelings. ?
([-]) What is the introduction?
When making an introduction to others, first of all, you must introduce the respective situations of both parties in a realistic and concise manner, such as full name, position, etc.

, the relationship with oneself and the purpose of knowing each other, etc., so that both parties know how to address each other and understand the meaning of communication between the two parties
righteous.At the same time, when introducing each other, avoid favoritism. You can't introduce everything to one party, but only a few words to the other party.
few words.Nor can one party be crowned "this is my good friend" without giving the other party
"Equal treatment".When explaining your relationship to a party, don't forget to mention their name, as in "This is my neighbor"
The statement lacks the necessary name prompt. ?
Secondly, when introducing others, it is necessary to attach necessary instructions to prompt the topic. After introducing the basic situation of both parties, the introducer does not
You should leave in a hurry, create conditions for further conversation and communication between the two parties, and introduce some personal characteristics to both parties
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([-]) The way of introduction?
When introducing, pay attention to the language and expression of the introduction. Just like self-introduction, the voice should be clear and accurate.
People can't hear clearly or hear wrongly, the language should be decent, dignified, elegant, in line with etiquette and occasion. ?
The most polite way to introduce is to ask in an inquiring tone: "Miss Zhao, can I introduce you to Miss Wang?"
This is a decent way to introduce a friend to a teacher or an older person.among friends and
Among people of roughly similar age and status, a relatively simple method can be used: "Miss Wang, Mr. Xu."
It's a handy way to go at a big gathering with a lot of people in need of introductions.There is also a more casual, friend-style

Introduction: "Mr. Gao, do you know Ms. Wang?"
, is the more important one of the two people who want to know each other.Of course, many other statements can be used in the introduction, such as

: "Miss Wang, this is Mr. Xu." "Mr. Gao, I hope you meet Miss Wang." "Mrs. Chen, this is my

My friend Miss Wang. "Don't say "Please meet Mr. Xu." "Sometimes, some people say that, but it's impolite

. ?
When a person comes among a group of people, his name is usually said first, and then in the order of sitting or standing.
Name everyone in the crowd.You might as well say: "I hope everyone will meet Mr. Lin who just came from Guangzhou. Miss Feng,

Mrs. Chen, Mr. Gao, Miss Kong, Mr. Yang and Mr. Jin. "?
In terms of expression, we can also write more articles to create a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere.First of all, according to the referral

The typical characteristics of the introducer, flexible use of a variety of sentence patterns to enliven the atmosphere, especially when there are many introducers, the same
The sentence pattern of "this is ×××" will appear very monotonous and boring, and a simple name cannot arouse the other party's attention.

s concern.On the contrary, it is much better to use a focused and flexible expression to create a much better effect, such as: "Have you read a small

Say "×

××”, this is the author ×××. "At last year's college track and field meeting, there was a petite girl
Won No.1 in women's long jump, won honor for our school, this girl is sitting among us at this time, she is ×
××. ""XX is the tallest in our unit, with a full 1.9 meters ○!" "...these concise introductions can

Quickly outline a vivid and unique image of the person being introduced to the other party, so that the other party will never forget it. ?
Secondly, since everyone's name is almost thought out by their parents, if we can learn from the name of the person being introduced

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Bringing out interesting connotations can not only eliminate the tension and reserved psychology of both parties, but also allow the other party to remember the name of the person being introduced.

For example: "Her name is Ai Si, this girl really lives up to her name, she loves to read and think, and the articles she writes are very inspirational
! "This young man's surname is Gao Mingshipin, and he has no relationship with Mr. Gao Shiqi!" "...by name
The extended meaning derived from the homonym or the literal meaning, as long as the words are reasonable and the language is appropriate, can make the other party smile.

(End of this chapter)