Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 4 Scene [-] - When introducing myself
Chapter 4 Scene [-] - When introducing myself
Self-introduction refers to the process by which people introduce themselves to others in social situations.Self-introduction is to sell your image and value

Therefore, the success of this kind of "selling" often determines whether the deep-seated interpersonal communication is
Can be achieved.Appropriate and unique self-introduction can push your own beautiful and unique image into the other party's sight, while

It will leave a deep and good impression on the other party, thus paving the way for further communication and understanding between the two parties, and for their own social purposes
Realization creates opportunities.On the contrary, a plain self-introduction will only make you feel like a passing cloud in front of others, and you can't impress others.

However, when introducing yourself, domineering or inferiority will arouse the other party's disgust or
Contempt, set up obstacles for future exchanges.It can be seen that self-introduction does not just mean a simple self-reported name,
In a sense, self-introduction is a key to social interaction. If you use it well, it can make you feel better in social activities.
Everything goes well, otherwise, it may bring you all kinds of difficulties. ?
Consider this example below: ?
It is said that after Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor, his former poor friend came to the capital to visit him.One person introduced himself thus: "Do you remember
?Once upon a time, I was a cowherd boy. One day, you and I cooked stolen beans in a crock pot in Luhuadang. Before they were cooked, everyone robbed them.

While eating, the pot broke, the beans were scattered on the ground, and the soup was spilled on the ground.You only grab beans from the ground, and accidentally even the red grass leaves
If you eat it, it gets stuck in your throat. It was my idea. I told you to pat the green vegetable leaf on your hand and swallow it, and then the red grass leaf
The child took the stomach. "This person bluntly introduced a secret relationship between himself and the emperor. Zhu Yuanzhang not only refused to repay him, but also became angry from embarrassment.
ordered him to be killed.Another person introduced himself using the method of associative hints: "Long live my lord! Back then, the humble minister accompanied the sweeper

Luzhou Mansion, break Guanzhou City, Marshal Tang is at large, capture General Dou, Honghaier is in charge, thanks to General Cai. "After hearing this, Zhu Yuanzhang
Longyan was very happy and made him an official. ?
In this legend, the first person broke Zhu Yuanzhang's taboo when he reminded Zhu Yuanzhang, so he was killed, while the other person violated Zhu Yuanzhang's taboo.
I personally used the matter of the emperor and his ministers as a metaphor for my friendship with Zhu Yuanzhang, taking into account the face of Zhu Yuanzhang who has become the emperor, and thus gained

succeeded.It can be seen that the importance of eloquence in self-introduction.So, how to do self-introduction in order to achieve the success of communication?
([-]) Pay attention to the first impression?

When introducing yourself, the first thing to do is to report your name, but many people do not do well in this regard.
Simply report your own name: "My surname is ×, and my name is ××." I thought that the introduction had been completed, but such an introduction would definitely
It's not a skill, maybe after only three to five minutes, others have completely forgotten his name.so it can't give
other people
Make a great first impression.So what method can be used to increase the amount of information in self-introduction, so that the other party will leave a deep impression after hearing it?
What about a good first impression?Simply put, you can increase the amount of information, but the added information must match your last name.
It is related to the name, and it should be beautiful, so as not to cause negative effects.Here are some effective practices. ?
1. Use the method of splitting characters?
Chinese characters can be disassembled, and people take advantage of this to give Chinese characters "aliases", such as "Sanhengwang, Caotouhuang, Erdongchen,

He Pangcheng, Mu Zi Li, Gan Gou Yu, Ren Ke He, Gu Yue Hu, Kou Tian Wu, Dao Kou Shao, Quan Ji Zhou, Gong Chang Zhang, Bi Wei Zhu,

Yan Wuxu, Shuangren Xu, Zou Xiaozhao, Nv Zhaoyao, Fang Renyeshi, Shuangmulin, Beauty Jiang" and so on. There are endless ways to dismantle these words

Similarly, some are completely dismantled into radicals, such as "Gong Changzhang", and some only have a certain characteristic part, such as "Caotouhuang".

The advantage of the Zhaizi method is to use the shape of Chinese characters to deepen the impression, tell others how to write your name, and increase the sound beyond the pronunciation.

Like information, the impression is naturally deeper.On the other hand, it is to distinguish surnames with similar pronunciations. For example, "Lee Wei Zhu" refers specifically to "

", which is different from "Zhu". Southern dialects do not distinguish front and back nasal sounds, which leads to no distinction between Chen and Cheng. "Er Dong Chen", "He Pang Cheng"

It came into being. There is no distinction between "He", "Hu" and "Wu", and there is no distinction between "Wang" and "Huang". The method of splitting characters uses the radicals of Chinese characters.
Overcoming dialect interference is also a last resort. ?
If your name is Zhang Yu, you can say when introducing yourself: "My surname is Zhang, Zhang Gongchang, Zhou Yu's Yu."

Others know that you are "a long bow", not an "early chapter". ?
2. Lenovo deepens the impression?

For example, a classmate named Xiao Xinfei would introduce himself like this: "My surname is Xiao, and my name is Xiao Xinfei. Xiao He's Xiao, Han Xin's letter,

Yue Fei's flying. "The vast majority of people are familiar with the allusion of "Xiao Heyue Chasing Han Xin" and the national hero Yue Fei.
Come on, everyone will be deeply impressed by his name. ?
3. Clever use of paraphrase?
The method of explaining the meaning of one's own name to deepen the impression of others is called paraphrase.Sometimes, paraphrase and origin
The law has something in common.For example, a classmate introduced himself like this: "My name is Wen Lei.
I must hope that I am both gentle and refined, but also open and aboveboard. "This can be regarded as a paraphrase or as a source. But it is different from the source method.

Compared with the interpretation method, there is more room for free play, such as the following examples: ?

Xia Qiong——Hainan in summer has infinite scenery. ?
Yang Fan——Smooth sailing, setting sail for a long voyage. ?
Haobo - the silver moonlight shines on the water waves. ?
Xiuhui--Xiuwaihuihuizhong is not just for show. ?
"Xia" and "Yang" are surnames. When choosing a name, the surname has no choice and cannot be changed, so it cannot be explained by "origin".

release.The interpretation is much more free, and it can make the name play as a whole. ?
Sometimes, using the paraphrase method can also borrow some literary works to arouse everyone's beautiful associations. For example, a classmate named "Hao Bo

"How can the waves be white and shiny? This reminds us of the water waves under the moonlight, and also reminds us of Su Dongpo's
"Chibi Nostalgia" has a good sentence through the ages, "The stormy waves hit the shore, and a thousand piles of snow are rolled up."Because the water is fast and the waves are high, hold up the water flowers, as if
Thousands of crystal white pearls... what a beautiful impression! ?

The above methods are some of the main introduction methods.There are also some taboos when introducing yourself: ?

1. Avoid a bad impression?
A student surnamed Wang introduced himself: "My surname is Wang, Wang of Wang Jingwei. But I am not as bad as him." Everyone cheered

Laugh: "Are you going to compare who is worse with the traitor?" The purpose of self-introduction is to leave a deep and good impression on people
, so to avoid negative, ugly factors. ?
2. Avoid negative associations?
A classmate named "Jia Meng" introduced himself: "My parents gave me this name, probably because they hoped that my life would be a happy life.
good dream. "A good dream is better than a bad dream, but a dream is a dream after all. No matter how good a dream is, it will be empty. Let's think about it deeply.
It is easy to associate negative factors such as "life is like a dream".So such an introduction is not ideal. ?
3. Avoid long-winded words?
Not good at succinctness, said a lot of unnecessary words, and when meeting for the first time, it is impossible to have a lot of time to introduce yourself.when you

When Rory is nagging, don't

It's not easy for people to walk away, so they feel bored from the bottom of their hearts, and the impression is not good.Be concise and catch

The key point is to grasp a certain character in the name and play it.Because the purpose is to impress, and off
The key lies in being different, not in the number of words.For example, a classmate named "Zheyuan" introduces herself like this: "I
In his name, Zhe means learned.As for circles, it's more complicated.My parents are educated youth.I am still separated from my parents
In the two places, my parents hope that we will be reunited one day, so they named me 'Yuan', and also hope that my life will be complete

Full. "?
There is knowledge, reunion, and a fulfilling life, which is complicated, and the most characteristic "hope for reunion" is diluted instead.
up.After modification, it became concise and to the point: "My name is Zhe Yuan, and the word 'Yuan' entrusts the hope of my parents.

.They are educated youths, and my parents and I still live in two places.I believe that we will be reunited in the near future. "

([-]) Be humble and realistic?
Pride and arrogance are like the needles of a hedgehog, which makes people stay away, and hypocritical exaggeration can't win the trust of others. Therefore, I
We should have the spirit of modesty and truth-seeking when introducing ourselves. Modesty can reflect your good self-cultivation and respect for each other.
Show your true self to the other party in a timely manner, so as to win the trust of the other party. ?
Wang Jingyu, a well-known mime master and comedy artist, introduced himself like this:?

"I am Wang Jingyu, the Wang Jingyu who performed "Eat Chicken". People call me a sentimental comedian, I am really ashamed
Dang, just an 'obsessed' pantomime fan.Look at my thin body of more than 40 kilograms, but I often carry a lot of load.

I have a lot of worries and troubles, and most of these worries and troubles are my own; I am not good at expressing respect and respect to those I love.
Love, but good at expressing hatred and hatred to those who hate, but not very courageous.Although I am stubborn, I often deny myself.

If I deny that I am both painful and happy, I will live in the intertwined web of pain and happiness, and I will never be able to get out;

It is said that I am a strong person who dares to fight hard, but in the face of complicated interpersonal relationships, I am also a weak person who has no understanding and no understanding

, so in life, I alternately play the role of the strong and the weak. "?
Wang Jingyu did not use other people's praises to brag, but strictly analyzed his "sentimental joy" in his self-introduction.

Playwright", "the strong man who dares to fight" and other famous contradictions that are actually difficult to overcome, and truthfully enumerates his own weaknesses. Like this
Self-introduction, not only will not lose other people's trust in yourself, on the contrary, the other party will see self-knowledge from their own introduction.
Wisdom and strict self-discipline character, so as to respect and trust yourself more. ?
([-]) Want to find a new way?
Our common way of self-introduction is often to report the name first, and then say the work unit, occupation, culture, specialty or interest, etc.

Wait, it is inevitable.Such an introduction has a mediocre impression in people's minds.To leave a good and unforgettable first impression

To make an impression, you must find a unique way, choose the content that surprises the other party and feels natural from a unique perspective, and adopt

Use lively language to "sell" yourself to others.For example, the introduction of the famous singer Crimea at a concert is very interesting.
Novelty, leaving an unforgettable impression.He said that since he was 12 years old, he has been riding his beloved little donkey upside down, in order to meet the
Thanks to the kind criticism from young friends, I reluctantly gave up the old donkey that was behind the times, bought an imported car from abroad and drove it to the performance

site.At this point, he stopped for a moment, and then said: "Guess what brand of car it is? It's from India—a caravan!"
Li Mu connected with the little donkey from the song that impressed the audience the most - the episode of the movie "The Story of Avanti", and then from

Speaking of the little donkey, it is unconventional, and the language is humorous. ?
([-]) Should it be complicated or simplified?

Self-introduction should be concise and appropriate, because the purpose and requirements of the conversation are different.Therefore, the degree of complexity of introducing yourself is also different.

For example, under normal circumstances, it is enough to state the name, identity, purpose, and requirements clearly, but in other cases, self-introduction

The content needs to be more detailed, not only to explain the name, identity, purpose, requirements, but also to introduce your own experience, education,

Qualifications, personality, expertise, experience, ability, interests, etc.In order to gain the trust of the other party, sometimes you have to talk about some specific things.
example.For example, in recent years, many enterprises have implemented leasing and public bidding, and the first thing bidders have to do is

The first thing is to make a detailed self-introduction to the person in charge of the bidding unit.The following is the self-expression of Xu XX who rented XX Automobile Oil Pump Factory

I introduce:?

"I am a 1984 graduate of XX Industrial University majoring in mechanical processing. Since 1986, I have worked in the oil pump workshop of XX Automobile Factory
As a technician, responsible for product quality inspection. Promoted to engineer in 1992.Since 1998, the contract factory service company's automobile
车修
distribution factory until now.Over the years, I have been studying the advanced technology of mechanical processing at home and abroad.

The variety, specification, model, quality, technological process and sales situation of the company are also familiar with, and have certain management experience.this year, I
At the age of 45, I am in the prime of life, and I really want to start a career.My mind is relatively open, and I am more open to the current economic system reform.
Very interested, want to try my hand at it.Regarding the above situation, if necessary, you can go to verify.I came today, just to

Start a competition with other bidders, and I believe I can win.I am a decisive person who dares to make decisions, as long as I

If you give me ten days, you can figure out the situation in the factory, come up with a specific plan for setting up the factory, and propose a profit target to be handed over.

"?
This self-introduction is more detailed and powerful, so it won the initial trust of the tendering unit and created a powerful foundation for the subsequent bid winning.

favorable conditions. ?
([-]) Are you good at adopting multiple methods?

In many occasions, in addition to oral explanations, self-introduction can also take a variety of auxiliary means.For example, presenting a letter of introduction,

Business cards, work ID cards, student ID cards, etc., to enhance the other party's trust in themselves.Pay attention to various etiquettes when sending business cards.

Put your hands out, and say a few necessary polite words.

(End of this chapter)