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Chapter 46 Scene 46 - When Encountering Embarrassment
Chapter 46 Scene 46 - When Encountering Embarrassment
In language communication, we often encounter some embarrassing questions, such as involving the secrets of countries and organizations, involving personal
Income, personal life, interpersonal relationship and other issues.To deal with such questions, if we use "can't tell you" back and forth

, it will make you appear vulgar, and if you use the diplomatic expression "no comment" to answer, it will make the questioner feel uncomfortable.

Disappointment and unhappiness.In short, when dealing with such weird questions, if we don't answer them well, we may give ourselves

Putting on an unsolvable rope, making oneself fall into a very embarrassing quagmire, unable to extricate oneself, resulting in a great loss of face. ?
If you are in such an embarrassing situation, you need to have the language art of "talking about him", so that you can face the embarrassing situation.

Embarrassing but with twists and turns, it achieves a humorous effect.

([-]) Desalination method?
On August 1988, 8, British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher visited the city of Melbourne when she was visiting Australia, and she was suddenly met by Ireland.
Amidst the siege by supporters of the Republican Army of the Republic of Ireland, amidst the abusive voices of demonstrators, Mrs. Thatcher was defended by the Australian police.
The escort left in a hurry.Even for a veteran politician, this is an embarrassing thing, but for the host Australia
Italy
For Ya, it was also a big embarrassment.At the banquet that night, Mrs. Thatcher met the curious expectations of the guests and the inevitable difficulties of the host.

Embarrassed, he easily commented: "Melbourne is a beautiful but noisy city." After bursting with laughter, the audience enthusiastically
applaud
, everyone was amazed by Mrs Thatcher's ingenious downplaying and getting rid of embarrassing skills.She played down a violent political demonstration

Due to the city's high population density, the inevitable hustle and bustle makes the embarrassment of the two parties disappear in the smiles of each other's understanding.
do. ?
([-]) transfer method?
When someone is about to hurt you and speaks to you with harsh words, but you keep your composure, pretending that you did not understand what he meant, instead

Give the other party an inexplicable answer, so that the other party's attempt to hurt you will fail. ?
Former British Prime Minister Wilson was provoked by a troublemaker during a campaign speech.Speech going on, troublemakers
Suddenly shouted loudly: "Shit! Garbage! Smelly shit!" This person obviously meant to scold Wilson's speech for being stinky
, not worth listening to.But Wilson ignored his intentions, and just responded with a tolerant smile, comforting him and saying: "Mr.

, I'm going to talk about the dirty and messy environment you raised soon. Following that, applause and laughter erupted from the audience, cheering for Wilson

Bravo for wit and humor. ?
No matter how harsh someone's words are, but if you keep your composure and give an irrelevant answer, he will be "a hero with no room for prowess".so

In the first place, it will be the other party who is dejected. ?
([-]) Fork method?
The method of switching is to switch to a new topic aimed at the other party's topic. It literally answers the other party's question, but the substantive meaning is different.
These are two unrelated questions.It usually gives people the feeling of being crisp and neat, and can show a more forceful expression.

For example, a diplomat from a developed country asked the ambassador of an African country: "The death rate in your country must not be low?"

After picking up the topic, he immediately threw out a sentence: "Just like your country, everyone dies once."?
The reporter's question was aimed at the entire country, but the ambassador changed the subject and bluntly changed his answer to "everyone's death",
It shows a tough attitude towards wheat awns. ?
([-]) Humor method?
"Humor is power." On the one hand, it can bring relief and joy to others, and on the other hand, it can also save yourself from embarrassment
awkward situation. ?
There is a person who is "fearful of internal affairs". Colleagues in the unit often make fun of him, asking: "Who has the final say on your family affairs?"
Answer: "Big things, I have the final say; small things, my wife has the final say. For example, decide what is a big thing and what is a small thing.

It's the lady who has the final say! "Everyone laughed, and he laughed too, feeling relaxed and happy.?
Others wanted to make fun of him for "fear of internal affairs" and make him "make a fool of himself" in front of everyone. However, his humor aroused laughter, and he himself
Cleared easily. ?
([-]) Irony method?
This is a kind of counterattack technique that treats the person in the same way.When the other party hurts your self-esteem with an unfriendly attitude,
When you lose face and get into an embarrassing situation, irony can turn the situation around and restore your self-esteem. ?
The great poet Pushkin once participated in a family ball of a prince in Petersburg. When he invited a lady to dance, the little girl
My sister said arrogantly: "I can't dance with children!" Pushkin bowed very politely and said with a smile: "Is that right?"

rise!Dear lady, I didn't know you were pregnant. "After finishing speaking, he left, and the beautiful young lady was speechless, her face
on blush. ?
Irony is not an exasperated clamor, nor is it a cry of "the poor donkey has no skills", it should be an occasional towering, sharp edge.
A flash of light. ?
([-]) Combine Zhuang and Harmony?
In interpersonal communication, due to various reasons, there will be such unexpected but very embarrassing scenes.At this time, often
It is necessary to be quick-witted, adapt to the situation, and use the art of speaking in harmony and harmony to ease the atmosphere, get rid of the predicament, turn the crisis into safety, and

Harmony and friendship can be achieved in interpersonal relationships. ?
Ms. Zhang, a female member of the trade union of a school in Shanghai, introduced a boyfriend to Wang, a young female teacher of the school, and agreed to next Sunday at 9:[-] a.m.

in zhang
Meet at the teacher's home.The two parties arrived as promised, but it was unexpected that Teacher Wang made up too much: the eyes were as black as coal balls, and the lips were as red as cherries
, set off by the snow-white powder face and gorgeous costumes, it seems a bit "scary".Teacher Zhang knows that the man likes to be indifferent, and belongs to
Tranquil and far-reaching type, I definitely don't have a good impression of heavy makeup, but I'm afraid that good things will fail if I don't see them, and I can't bear to hurt the woman's feelings
self-esteem.As soon as she had an idea, she immediately calmed down, and casually said in a relaxed tone, "Oh, Xiao Wang,
Look at how beautifully you are dressed up today, you are really refreshed on happy occasions!But the 'one center, two cardinal points' on your face seems
It almost needs to be adjusted! "One sentence made both the host and the guest, as well as the men and women who met for the first time, laugh heartily. Fang
The atmosphere in the room was immediately relaxed and relaxed, and mutual respect and understanding were integrated into the interpersonal relationship.The reason why it will be obtained
Such a significant effect is all due to Teacher Zhang's on-the-spot response and outstanding performance. She used it to express the basic national policy of our country at this stage.
The political term temporarily lowers its status and changes its solemn color, and is used to explain the small problems of life details such as makeup and beauty,
Humorous and witty language is added, so as to achieve the actual effect of changing the embarrassing situation. ?
The six methods described above are just a few of the many techniques for coping with awkward situations.To cope with embarrassing situations, it is necessary to

Sensitive thinking, rich vocabulary, profound knowledge, and skilled skills, only in this way can we calmly deal with various embarrassing situations
Face, make yourself invincible.

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