Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 42 Scene 42 - When the atmosphere is not active

Chapter 42 Scene 42 - When the atmosphere is not active
In socializing, we often encounter scenes where the atmosphere is not active due to the first meeting or some reason. At this time, if you can use

If your eloquence dilutes this situation and creates a pleasant and lively scene, then you will be more popular with everyone.The following method

Can help you become a master of active atmosphere. ?
([-]) Exaggerated praise?

After meeting old friends and new colleagues, it is inevitable to introduce some pleasantries. This is an excellent opportunity to activate the atmosphere.post this

"Diplomatic rhetoric" is an exaggerated show-off and exaggeration of everyone's talents, achievements, talents, status, and specialties.
It can make friends feel that they are deeply understood and admired by you.Especially using this method to recommend friends to third parties

, No one will care about the authenticity, but you publicized the content that your friends like to be publicized most.This kind of elevates people very high,
But an introduction without a sense of hypocrisy or flattery will immediately make the whole atmosphere extremely lively.Take a look at the example below: ?
At a friend gathering, Xiao Zhang introduced a few new friends to everyone. He said: "This tall man, Liu Jian, has a trick of dunking.

, it is said that his skills are second only to Jordan; the man in Huangyi, Li Zhengping, likes to play table tennis, and he can draw with Kong Linghui;

Face Xiaosheng, Wang Yu, the calligraphy is absolutely top-notch, it is said that it originated directly from Wang Xizhi..." Everyone laughed when they heard this, and the atmosphere was tense.
It became active. ?
Xiao Zhang here uses exaggerated methods to show the strengths of everyone introduced, which is both humorous and profound.Everyone

You can have a pleasant conversation in this lively atmosphere. ?
([-]) Cleverly analyzing names and distinguishing names?

When the atmosphere is not active, you can make a unique interpretation of some people's names, and the effect will often be unexpected, thus making the life more lively.
Jumped the atmosphere.In this regard, the great leader Comrade Mao Zedong is very accomplished. ?
When guests meet for the first time, they often have to introduce their names.Mao Zedong was good at seizing this opportunity, using his profound knowledge, to bring the guests'
The interesting analysis of the name makes the other party's nervousness eliminated at the beginning of the conversation, making it appear cordial and easy-going. Ordinary cadres, group members
The gap between the public and China's supreme leader was instantly bridged.The conversation atmosphere is more active. ?
In September 1957, Mao Zedong went to Shanghai and invited Zhao Chaogou (Lin Fang), the president of Xinmin Evening News.Zhao Zheng died because of the political turmoil at that time.

panic.Unexpectedly, as soon as Mao Zedong saw Zhao, he said to others: "Song Gaozong's brother is here!"

", astutely think of Gaozong's name "Zhao Gou". Since the former is "Super Gou", can't he be called Song Gaozong's elder brother?

?This remark was beyond people's expectation, and the listener was taken aback at first, but after thinking about it, he could justify his statement, which was quite humorous, and he would

There was a sudden burst of enthusiastic laughter in the arena.Zhao Chaogou's mental burden was immediately lifted.Mao Zedong contacted the names of historical figures,
The "distortion" of Zhao Chaogou's name made people smile knowingly after thinking about it. ?
In the 70s, Tang Youzhi served as Mao Zedong's health care doctor. When he first met, he was very nervous.Unexpectedly, Mao Zedong looked at Tang,

Repeatedly read his name: "From it, from it..." and asked: "Your name comes from "The Analects of Confucius"'The people can make you, don't you?"
Can you know it'? He also said: "Don't do it according to Confucius' 'From It', but according to Lu Xun's 'From It'."

"Then he hummed Lu Xun's poem in a melodious manner: "Is there any pride like the old days, when flowers bloom and fall..."Mao Zedong
The words became funny, which made Doctor Tang laugh out loud, and a harmonious conversation began.Here, Mao Zedong's method of "analyzing surnames and distinguishing names" is the same as the above
The surface is different, and the method of analyzing the source of the name and playing it randomly is adopted. ?
([-]) Live in harmony?

There is a need for gravitas in socializing, but maintaining it all the way through can seem tense.The way of talking in a dignified and harmonious way is relatively free,

Can be used on many occasions.Humorous and witty language can also express more important content.Chairman Mao Zedong

When Xi Jinping met Mr. Liu Fei, the negotiator of the Kuomintang, he said: "You are from Hunan, right? My eyes are full of tears when I see my fellow countrymen."
These words immediately relieved more than half of Mr. Liu Fei's nervousness, dispelled the sense of restraint, and eased the tense atmosphere of the meeting.
down. ?
In 1972, US President Nixon visited China and had a historic meeting with Mao Zedong.China and the United States have been at loggerheads for more than 20 years.

Once broken, the first meeting between the two leaders will certainly be covered by a veil of mystery, and there may be a stalemate or some kind of embarrassment

situation.However, after Mao Zedong greeted Nixon, he said: "Our mutual old friend, Chairman Jiang, doesn't like this.

. After a short pause, he said again: "Actually, our friendship with him (Jiang) is much longer than your friendship with him." "These words
, Immediately created a relaxed and happy atmosphere. The ingenious terms of "old mutual friend" and "friendship" express the
Very rich in meaning, which makes people laugh. ?
Nixon admired Mao Zedong's humorous opening remarks.Nixon later wrote in his memoirs: "Mao Zedong had a
An extraordinary sense of humor.He is always the center of the conversation.Under his guidance, this historic and important meeting took place in the
It was carried out in a joking and joking atmosphere.Light-hearted one-liners make it seem like regular acquaintances are chatting

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([-]) Deliberately asking ridiculous questions?
In life, people who are always serious will give people a rigid, monotonous, and boring feeling.interspersed with some friends from time to time in the conversation
Unexpected, seemingly absurd but actually very meaningful questions are a good common sense to activate the atmosphere.maybe someone
Ask you some absurd questions from time to time, if you denounce the other party as absurd or dismissive, it will not only destroy the atmosphere of the conversation, interpersonal

relationship, and would be perceived as lacking a sense of humor. ?
Learning to ask absurd questions that make people laugh and answer them smartly will help to form a good social atmosphere. ?
([-]) Cause a sense of resonance?
When friends and colleagues get together, it is most taboo to sing a one-man show alone, and everyone should be the audience.A successful social network should allow everyone to speak freely.respective

All brought out their best talents and put on the best performances.In order to achieve this goal, it is necessary to find the most widely
Content that resonates.Only when there is a common feeling, can each other express their own opinions. The benevolent see benevolence, and the wise see wisdom, and the atmosphere will be warm.

Therefore, if you are the host of a social event, you must compare the content of the event with the likes and dislikes of the participants, the topics you care about most, and the most important topics.
They should be connected with factors such as what they are good at, what they are good at, and other factors, so as to avoid a cold silence.

([-]) Immediate performance?

When talking with people, there are often various "scenes" in front of you: teacups, cigarettes, coffee tables, the other party's clothing, etc.If it can be based on the immediate "

"Scene" can be used to enliven the atmosphere of the conversation. This trick is often very effective. Comrade Mao Zedong is very good at using

The discussion of "scenery" not only enlivens the atmosphere, but also leads to the following conversations. ?
American journalist Anna?Louis?Strong spent his 1965th birthday in China on November 11, 24.Mao Zedong participated in the birthday celebration

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Long recalled: "He lit a cigarette and said jokingly, I, a smoker, was a faction, and Comrade Strong—

- He smiled and glanced at me - it was the opposition, the non-smoking faction... Dr. Ma Haide saved me, and he directly asked Mao

A challenge was issued: 'Do you see this as a factional issue? ''Of course,' countered Mao, 'between me and the doctor

In the meantime, the doctor said I shouldn't smoke, but I thought I should. '"?
Mao Zedong "made a big deal out of a molehill" and made smoking or not a factional issue, which seemed extremely funny.Lead the topic from the "scenery" in front of you

We started a pleasant conversation, completely using the "factions" as an introduction, and talked about the international issues at that time.Mao Zedong's humorous opening remarks
Be part of the whole conversation. ?
The above six methods are just frequently used methods of activating the atmosphere. Besides, as long as you pay attention, you can always find a suitable activity.

Other ways to liven up the atmosphere.

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