Scene language skills that college students must know

Chapter 41 Scene 41 - When the situation is disadvantageous

Chapter 41 Scene 41 - When the situation is disadvantageous
Chapter 41 Scene 41 - When the situation is disadvantageous
In daily life, it often happens that you put yourself in a disadvantageous position due to factors such as words or actions.exist
In this case, if you can reverse the situation in some way, then you can be freed.At this time, you have to use your own

own wisdom.The following methods and techniques will be of great benefit to you. ?
([-]) Set up traps cleverly?

Ingeniously setting up a trap is to aim at the other party's psychology, put forward some reasonable wishes or requirements, and obtain the other party's commitment.when the other party enters
After revealing the truth after the trap, the other party will not be able to repent. This trick is usually very effective. Please see the following example: ?

During the war between Persia and Arabia, the prince of the Persian Empire was captured by the Umayyad King of the Arab Empire. His Majesty the Umayyad King

order to behead him. ?
The former heroic and mighty prince has become a prisoner, and has long lost his prestige.He asked the Umayyad king to say: "

Your Majesty who dominates everything, I am so thirsty now, you should be merciful and let your captive drink enough water before it is too late to kill
what! "?
The Umayyad king agreed to his request and asked his guards to bring him a bowl of water. ?
The prince took the bowl of water, but did not dare to drink it, and said tremblingly: "Your Majesty, I am worried that when I am drinking this bowl of water, there will be
People raise their knives and kill me. "?
The king said: "Don't worry, it won't be like this." So the prince asked the king for assurance. ?
The king said solemnly: "I swear in the name of Allah that no one will dare to hurt you until you drink this bowl of water."?
Upon hearing this, the prince immediately poured the bowl of water on the ground.The Umayyad king was furious, but as a king, he had sworn that he would not

Hurt him before he drinks the bowl of water.Now, the water has been poured on the ground by the prince, and the prince will never drink this bowl of water again, Umayyad

The king will never be able to hurt the prince. ?
The Umayyad king knew that he had been fooled by the prince, but he had no choice but to let the prince go. ?
Here the prince saves his own life by taking advantage of the sympathy of the Umayyad king.He cleverly set up traps, which attracted the Umayyad king step by step.
, and finally succeeded. ?
([-]) Clever distinction?

For some situations involving authority figures, in order to save face for the other party and at the same time properly maintain one's own dignity, it is necessary to

It is usually very effective to distinguish cleverly and solve it from different angles. The following is such an example: ?

In the Southern Qi Dynasty, there was a calligrapher named Wang Sengqian, who wrote excellent official script, but the current emperor Qi Gaodi Xiao Daocheng was also a

A master of brush and ink, he wants to compete with Wang Sengqian, and both of them have finished writing a picture. ?
Emperor Gao asked Wang Sengqian: "Who is the first?"?
If an ordinary courtier, of course he would flatter the emperor immediately and say: "It's not as good as a minister." But Wang Sengqian is arrogant, clearly knowing his own

Calligraphy is higher than the emperor, why do you answer against your will?This quick-witted calligrapher actually uttered a unique sentence that has been passed down through the ages.

The clever answer:?

"The minister's letter is the number one among the ministers; the letter of your majesty is the number one among the emperors."?
He cleverly divided the calligraphy competition between ministers and emperors into "subject group" and "emperor group" for evaluation, which not only satisfied Gaodi's "crown group", but also "emperor group".
"Military desire" and defended his honor and character. The emperor could only laugh when he heard this.?
Wang Sengqian cleverly used the method of "clever distinction" here, making his answer tactful and round, and the emperor had nothing to say.
Say. ?
([-]) Clever use of allusions?

There are many allusions in Chinese history that have been handed down to the present, and their contents involve various aspects.If it can be based on a certain scene, properly

If you choose allusions, you will be more persuasive and often help you get out of unfavorable situations. ?
Please see the following example: ?
Once, Emperor Qianlong of the Qing Dynasty and Ji Xiaolan swam in the Miluo River together. During the Warring States Period, Qu Yuan, a senior official in the state of Chu, committed suicide and died here.

At that time, Qianlong had a sudden whim and asked Ji Xiaolan: "If the king wants the minister to die, what should the minister do?"?
Ji Xiaolan answered in response: "The minister will die without hesitation."?
Qianlong: "Qing is my loyal minister. In order to show your loyalty, I order you to throw yourself into the water immediately."?
Ji Xiaolan: "The minister leads the decree."?
Ji Xiaolan ran towards the bow while talking.How could Ji Xiaolan, a genius of this generation, be reconciled to such an innocent death?It's just a fate

, can not but jump.In fact, why did Qianlong want Ji Xiaolan to die, just to embarrass him, if he jumped off, he would naturally
Someone rescued her, but she lost all face. ?
But seeing Ji Xiaolan standing on the bow of the boat, instead of jumping into the river, talking to herself, she turned around and knelt in front of Qianlong.Qianlong asked him why

Don't jump into the river, Ji Xiaolan reported: "The minister was about to throw himself into the water, but Qu Yuan, the doctor of Sanlu, suddenly jumped up from the river and scolded me: 'Ji Xiaolan boy,

Do you want to be a sinner through the ages?Back then, I threw myself into the water because the king of Chu was fatuous and the state of Chu was about to perish.Now the emperor is wise, the country

Prosperity, but you want to imitate me and jump into Miluo, who do you compare the current hero to? 'After hearing this reprimand, the minister dared not throw himself into the water.
. "?
After hearing this, Qianlong laughed heartily, and helped Ji Xiaolan up with his own hands. ?
Ji Xiaolan here applies the allusion of Qu Yuan committing suicide by throwing himself into the river.The reason why Qu Yuan committed suicide by throwing himself into the river was because the king of Chu was too fatuous to listen to
The words of loyal ministers have caused the country to face the danger of extinction.So the ball was pushed to Emperor Qianlong: let him stand between Ming Jun and Hun Jun
Make a choice.This became the prerequisite for Ji Xiaolan to jump into the river.Under such circumstances, Emperor Qianlong could only withdraw his order.

([-]) Cleverly telling the truth?

When you are in a disadvantageous situation, if you tell lies in order to cater to the other party, you will go against your own heart.but tell the truth

, may not make the other party accept it, but if you pay attention to some skills, you will not only tell the truth without violating your own heart, but also make the other party accept it.

Accept, wouldn't it kill two birds with one stone.Here is an example of this: ?

In the Song Dynasty, there was a minister who was just and upright as an official.When I was young, I traveled around to study, and by chance, I met Weifu

The current emperor who visited privately.The emperor wrote calligraphy and paintings on a whim to sell, but unfortunately the level is really not high.The official told

Emperor, his paintings are only worth a tael of silver.The emperor was both unconvinced and angry, but it was not easy to attack. ?
The next year, this young man went to Beijing to rush for the exam, won the top prize in high school, and became a student of the emperor.When I met the emperor, I found out that it turned out that the artist who sold paintings back then
The old man turned out to be the emperor, and the emperor recognized him.The emperor backed away from the left and right, and only kept the minister, and took out the money that was only worth that year.

The painting of one tael of silver, asked: "How much does the Qing family think this painting is worth?"?
The minister hastened to step forward and said: "If your majesty gave this painting to your minister, it would be worth tens of thousands of gold, because no matter your majesty

Whatever is sent down is a priceless treasure to the minister.But if you sell it, the painting is worth a tael of silver. "?
When the emperor heard this, he couldn't help clapping his hands and laughing, knowing that he had a loyal man with profound knowledge and integrity. ?
The minister did not violate his original intention here, but told the truth. This ingenious expression also made the emperor feel reasonable.

, and therefore very happy. ?
([-]) Clever explanations?

When encountering an unfavorable situation caused by your own carelessness, if you explain it cleverly from an unexpected angle, it will often make the other party feel uncomfortable.

no longer test

Consider your faults.And accept your clever explanation, and you get out of a bad situation.History is full of such examples. ?
Chunyu Kun was an eloquent man in the state of Qi. Once, the king of Qi sent him to the state of Chu to present a swan.Didn't go far, accidentally

Let the swan fly away.Chunyu Kun still went to the state of Chu, and said to the king of Chu, "The king of Qi sent me to present the swan.

When he was thirsty, he let it out to drink, but unexpectedly it flew away.I am very sad because of this, I want to commit suicide, and I am afraid that the world will talk about King Qi

, Said that he killed a courtier because of a bird.I want to simply escape to another country, but then the two countries of Qi and Chu will not use it.

If the contactor is contacted, there may be a misunderstanding.After much deliberation, he still came empty-handed and pleaded guilty to the king. "?
After hearing this, the king of Chu not only didn't blame him, but praised him instead. ?
(End of this chapter)

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