Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 169
But when my daughter came back, she saw her mother living in a house that was cold in winter and hot in summer. At that time, the weather was very hot, and her mother didn't even have a fan.Aunt Su played the fan for her daughter until midnight, and was so disturbed by the "noisy" sound of the fan that her daughter couldn't fall asleep at all. She said that she should buy a fan!
Aunt Su said that they won’t be able to live here for a long time. Their daughters will definitely not live here after graduation. When they move, they will have to move a lot of things, so forget it!

My daughter said, no, I have to live comfortably every day, even if I only live here for one day.

Aunt Su said that she would go tomorrow, but her daughter went out without saying a word, so Aunt Su had no choice but to go out with her!At that time, the daughter looked really willful and savage, but thinking about it now, she can understand her behavior!She wants her mother to have a better life after divorce, so that her father will regret it!Dad thought that he would have a bad life if his mother left. This was a punishment for his mother's inability to teach his daughter.In fact, leaving Mom should be punishment for Dad.Mother is innocent, so why should she be punished!Therefore, the mother is having a bad life, and the daughter cannot accept it.

At eleven o'clock in the middle of the night, they went to the street to buy fans. At this time, there is no place to sell these things.

Large supermarkets and shopping malls were closed, and after passing through a few small alleys, they saw a small grocery store with lights still on, and there were a few cold mats rolled up and put in a bucket at the door of the small store.Going a little further inside, small fans are displayed on the shelves.

After buying something they wanted, the mother and daughter walked home with smiles on their faces, but suddenly the wind blew up, at first it was a breeze, and then it gradually picked up. It felt like a storm was coming, no wonder it was so sweltering today.The two hurriedly walked home.As a result, the rain still fell before they got home, and the two of them were soaked in water. The mat they just bought became rain gear, but it couldn't stop the rain.My daughter cried silently again. Why is she always the one who is wrong? What she wants is to let her mother sleep well, so she bought a fan and a mat. Why is it raining? The air is cold after the rain. Meaning, the mat is even more so, what is this?God, how long are you going to play with this poor child.

When she got home, Aunt Su asked her daughter to take a hot bath quickly, and she went to boil some water to drink.The daughter cried again to the sound of bathing water.

They have suffered too much humiliation and embarrassment, in the matter of renting a house!So Aunt Su likes the job of living at home.Moreover, during the two years of living at home, she saved a sum of money, which was used to rent a house for her daughter, which should be enough for her to use for two years!
Although the most ideal thing is to be able to save money to buy a house, so that my daughter can live in a stable place from now on!It's a pitiful thing to be chased around!But this is really unrealistic for Aunt Yu Su.

Mothers are very great. They can suffer and suffer or even lack food and drink, and they can't let their children suffer a little bit of grievance.

During the more than a month that my daughter lived with Aunt Su, a lot of things were added to the house, and everything was needed, so I added it immediately.After her daughter went back to school, Aunt Su saw that everything was unnecessary. There was only such a small space in the house, and it would be an eyesore no matter where it was placed!
Later, when I moved, I threw away a lot. Aunt Su felt very distressed. After all, for her, everything was paid for by hard work.And if the money is given to the daughter... anyway, it is given to the daughter, so you should think so.

Those abandoned women on TV have lived a more exciting life, which seems to have given more women the confidence to divorce!Of course, the more important thing is:

Marriage in the past was not easy, but most people entered into marriage on the basis of compromise, and because women had no way out, after enduring all grievances and inequalities, the marriage continued.However, most of the new generation are only children who have received higher education and have never learned to endure grievances and blindly sacrifice to please the other party. They have the strength to survive in society and have a family back home. They can feel that they are being abused. Love is still being used. No one came to this world to serve someone or a certain family. The era of the male leading the outside and the female leading the inside has long since ended. Everyone is looking forward to having a good time for their own ideals, careers, and hobbies. Every day, I don’t want to be burdened by family chores, but the matter of childbearing is obviously quite unfair to women. If men are glad that they don’t have to bear this matter, they should be assumed by women, and they have not given enough care. If there is help, the woman will naturally choose to terminate the marriage, and most of them will be supported by their family members. This is probably the reason why divorce often occurs in the year of childbirth.

And Aunt Su belongs to the previous generation who could not go back to her natal family.

Just like what my mother said to me back then, get more partners and get to know more men before getting married. Don't be like them before, wishing to talk to someone a few more times, and people will make irresponsible remarks!The words my mother said to me would never appear in the mouths of their parents.

So, I really think that my sister's divorce is actually nothing in today's society.

Sometimes I still feel that if she doesn't look for a partner, is she doing it for me to see, which makes me feel uncomfortable and feel sorry.

My sister said, she didn't do it for me to show, she can't do it!It's just that the details of raising children are too tossing!Especially when the two children were having trouble, Xiaobao wanted to coax her, but Dabao insisted on playing with her toy with her, so he bought a new toy that he likes very much.Originally, I bought toys for him so that he can play by himself without adults taking care of him, but he loves toys sincerely, so he wants you to play with him even more!
My sister questioned Haohao once, "I bought you a toy, but you don't want to play with it, why do you keep pestering me? You don't want to play with toys, just tell me straight up! You have to argue about buying them again, but you don't play with them after buying them, and you still pester others." !"

Haohao said, "I play with toys, I just want you to play with me! It's fun if you play with me!"

Hearing the child's honest answer, my sister regretted getting angry with Haohao at that time.But having a baby means you can't do anything else!He needs your undivided attention and won't allow you to direct your energy anywhere else.Otherwise, he will not be happy!
One person's energy can only coax one child, so he ignored Dabao, and then Dabao was playing by himself, and suddenly cried, shouting, "The toy is broken, so I want you to play with me!"

At that time, my sister cried with her two children. The mother is not a superman, and she is not omnipotent!
I understand this very well, and so does Shi Yun. She has all the age-appropriate toys, but she still can't satisfy her!Don't give her any toys, go crazy with her, run with her, laugh with her, and she can't stop being high.

(End of this chapter)