Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 170
I understand this very well, and so does Shi Yun. She has all the age-appropriate toys, but she still can't satisfy her!Don't give her any toys, go crazy with her, run with her, laugh with her, and she can't stop being high.

Children's emotions are probably much richer than those of us adults. They instinctively accept others and yearn to be loved!He likes people to accompany him, but his thinking has certain limitations!He can't tell the difference between virtual and reality.Dads on TV love children, and teachers always ask them to prepare gifts for Dad on Father’s Day, draw a picture for Dad at school, make a handicraft, and give it to Dad to thank Dad for his hard work .

I restrained myself, in fact, I said a lot of bad things about his father in front of Haohao!But, amazingly, he doesn't hate his dad at all!I must have told him that I hated his dad, and it was amazing, as if he had never heard this sentence.Every time he mentioned his father calmly in front of me, talked about some of his father's habits, and told them what the teacher told them to love their father.

Of course, no matter how annoying I am, I will not express any views and opinions on this!That person has nothing to do with me, but his relationship with Haohao is inseparable.Moreover, the relationship between them is much closer than that between me and Haohao!

My sister thinks I'm meddling in my own business, but at Haohao's level, I have no reason to interfere!And since no matter how good I am to him, the person he cares more about is his father.Why should I worry about him.

Although I have spent a lot of thought, time and money on Haohao in the past!After I understand this truth, I rarely ask about Haohao anymore!I have so much to spend my mind, time and money on!I have a lot of things that need to be prioritized.Although as the first child in our family, I used to love Haohao with all my heart, but now the love is very weak!

For this, I sometimes feel sorry for Haohao!But what makes me so chilling is his parents, they only did that!They still have the attitude towards a person who is very good to their children, how can they love their children?

After my feelings for Haohao faded, not only did Haohao not get the love of his parents (they didn't have time, as before, they were too busy getting ahead).There is one less aunt who loves him!

Of course, it was not Haohao who suffered, but my mother.Without me who took the initiative to help her share, my mother has two children, and her energy seems to be deteriorating!At this time, she will only complain about me!

It seems that without me, that person will help with it, as if there are not many, the mother-in-law over there will help with it!
Haohao is also very strange.Didn't it mean that all children brought up by grandma kiss grandma?Haohao prefers his parents!
Probably because the mother takes care of two children by herself, and sometimes she doesn't have enough energy, so she pays more attention to the younger ones, and sometimes reprimands Haohao.

This was originally the fault of Haohao's parents, but Haohao didn't understand!Whoever is strict with him, he will have resistance to anyone.On the contrary, those who play with him once in a long time and are obedient to him, he thinks it is good!I really love him!
We were also like this when we were young, it's normal for Haohao to do this!

This can make mother unhappy, because Haohao's parents are really selfish.Every time Haohao showed that he was closer to them, they felt complacent, thinking that this was a sign of blood relatives, and that the son must be with his parents, even if he was not with him!

And they never thought about saying something nice about grandma in front of Haohao!Grandma has worked so hard, you should love grandma!

When Haohao first learned the word love, he often said that he loves this and loves that one, but now he has a little bit of his own mind, and often misses his mother!This is probably why my mother always said frustrating words.

Think about her all her life devoted to her children, almost all of her time is spent on her children, when the children grow up, she will take care of her grandchildren!There is no moment of every day that belongs to me, but in the end, I am the only one who does not get the love of my children.

Every time Haohao's parents hear Haohao saying that he loves his parents the most, how does my mother feel?

Xiaobao can talk now, just like Haohao when he was a child, he can only sleep with his grandma, and he will cry if he can’t see his grandma when he sleeps, and cry when he wakes up at night and sees his mother sleeping next to him, not his grandma!After playing with my mother for a while, I am going to find my grandma again, she is my little follower!
Mom said, don't look at your heels now, once you're three years old, you can still kiss her mother, not me!

Maybe Mom was right about something.It is correct for one generation to be responsible for one generation, and one generation for one generation.

Tang Yufeng's relationship with Xiaojia and her mother-in-law is better than Shi Yun's relationship with her mother-in-law!Although Shi Yun was also brought up by her mother-in-law.Shi Yun also loves her grandma very much, but she desires me and Tang Yufeng to be with her even more.Because all children are closer to their parents, at least in cartoons, and teachers say so.

But here in Shiyun, no one cares who she loves more, she is very fraternal, like her father, always full of sunshine, so that everyone who knows her can feel the kindness from her!
Of course, Haohao is also such a child, but why does he always feel that he is not as much loved as we are?I always feel that I will love him for nothing, because he belongs to someone else!Belongs to people who don't care about you!

Yes!That's what it feels like!It feels like Haohao belongs to his parents, and his parents always disdain their love for others!Then this love has been betrayed while giving.This kind of love cannot be given.In order to avoid feeling helpless when facing Haohao, all I can do is to meet him less!The natural result of this is that he is increasingly alienated from me!

In this regard, I should not feel sad, should not have any bad thoughts!

Although my sister will tell Haohao now, how good I was to him in the past!If he doesn't remember, my aunt will be sad!I really want to say, I'm not sad!I'm not sad anymore!I like Haohao because he is my sister's son.I am sad and sad, and it is only because of my sister!I was sad with my sister, but I really didn't feel much with Haohao.

For Xiaobao, there is nothing more!From the beginning to the end, I don't seem to have given any affection to this child, let alone anything else!I didn't even know that she and Shi Yun wore the same size clothes.To be so incompetent as a aunt is also something I didn't expect.So much so that I feel heartless!
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