Rekindle 2003

Chapter 494: Why didn’t you avoid it even though you knew you were drowning?
Seeing that the atmosphere was a bit tense, Emperor Yun took a sip of bright orange and sneered, "What if the situation you mentioned can be avoided with a high probability from the source?"

Kong Ziqian, who had been buried in silence, immediately raised his head when he heard this and immediately asked, "How is that possible! You will only know many things if you have been in contact with her for a long time!"

Qing Yun's sneer was very harsh. He felt that Qing Yun said this just because he was talking while standing without pain in his back.

Qing Yun shook his head and did not respond directly to his question. Instead, he followed his words and said, "Yes, you can only know many things after being in contact with them for a long time. I can even tell you that the situations you mentioned are too wonderful. .”

Ignoring the surprise on Kong Ziqian's face, Qing Yun changed to a leisurely sitting posture, playing with the drink bottle in his hand, smiling playfully,

“Some people use hourly housing to experience the love of other people’s lives, and some people use half their life savings to marry the love of their lives;
Some people get happiness with just one mouth; some people get a lifetime of lessons with a sincere heart;

If someone doesn't love you, you've had enough sleep; if someone doesn't touch you, you've already fallen madly in love.

Come on, tell me, what would you do if you encountered this situation? "

In China at the beginning of the century, under the impact of diverse ideological trends, the level of impetuousness in society was actually much higher than 20 years later. The bad things that college students encountered in 2023 were actually nothing at all in 2003.

A simple data shows that in 2003, there were 721.54 million legal abortion cases in hospitals, and in 2022, there were 976.2 million legal abortion cases in hospitals.

The data seems to be growing, but the logic behind it is not. The historical background of the two is completely different.

In 2022, whether it is girls' awareness of self-protection, parents' tolerance, or even society's tolerance, it will be much better.

In 2003, many operations were performed in small private clinics and were not included in the statistics at all.

This data is actually enough to illustrate the degree of openness at the beginning of the century.

Actually understandable.

Universities at the beginning of this century were not that demanding. Many college students basically spent their four years in "falling in love and falling out of love."

Although there will be many such situations in universities 20 years later, most college students are actually living a very hard life due to involution.

In society at the beginning of the century, urban and rural areas were extremely divided. The young people standing at that intersection were actually even more confused.

Therefore, as soon as these words came out, not only Kong Ziqian, who was already a little depressed, became even more depressed, but Cheng Bing and Guo Ke next to him almost cried.

Compared with what Confucius said, what they saw on the Internet and in forums was basically what Qing Yun said.

What they want to hear is the techniques for chasing girls, not the copywriting that causes depression.

Qing Yun tapped her fingers on the table to attract their attention, and said in a funny voice, "There is a bias for lucky people, and there is also a bias for unlucky people. In real life, 80% of people are ordinary people with ordinary characteristics. Don’t worry about people’s values ​​and destiny.”

At this point, he shook his head and asked softly, "Why didn't you avoid it if you knew you were drowning?"

"How to avoid it? If we encounter him, who can escape?" Kong Ziqian's eyes were filled with confusion as he murmured.

Emperor Yun was suddenly shocked when he saw this little look in his eyes.

This stuff...

Is the passive skill of dog licking fully charged?

Qing Yun shook his head and ignored this, "I'll talk about this later. Let me first talk about the first thing you need to solve when you fall in love."

He forcefully brought the topic back. It was obvious that this little kid needed psychological counseling, so it was better to calm down first and make him feel more relaxed.

"When it comes to falling in love, the attribute of being tall, rich and handsome actually represents the three dimensions of a man.

Let me talk about wealth first, which means wealth. To put it bluntly, it means that the family has money but does not have any money.But you must be clear, at least the undergraduate stage of college is the only four years left in life when most girls do not consider money as their primary consideration, so the money factor can be ignored.

Hey, you are all adults, your height is basically fixed, you don’t have to worry about it, you are not short either.

And handsomeness, appearance or appearance, is composed of three aspects, one is the basic facial features, the second is temperament, and the third is figure.

The foundation of your facial features was given by your parents, so don’t blame anyone. Frankly speaking, the three of you look...ahem! "

At this point, Qing Yun coughed twice, and Kong Ziqian and the other two glared at him with resentment, their eyes warning him not to pick up any of the pots.

If it weren't for the fact that this guy's tendon-covered body wasn't easy to mess with, they would have wanted to beat him up.

Emperor Yun did not go to drink water. He was very honest and worried about choking himself. He stabilized his throat and continued, "It's not that shameful. You don't need to consider this. It really can't be a bonus for you, but it's okay. It’s definitely not a minus.”

The hands of Kong Ziqian and the others placed on the table were constantly switching between fists, palms, and claws.

Qing Yun quickly continued, "As for the second temperament, you can decide it yourself. I will talk about this later. Let's talk about body shape first."

The three of them immediately sat down obediently like three kindergarten children.

Qing Yun raised her index finger, "Let me start by saying that love is essentially a value exchange. Your own value determines the value of your girlfriend."

He pointed his finger at Kong Ziqian, "Tell yourself, if you were thinner, would you be more pleasing to others?"

Kong Ziqian couldn't help but nodded.

It's not that he didn't want to fall in love early in high school.

As a recommended student, I have absolutely no time during the second semester of my senior year. Isn't it normal to have a late-night romance in my senior year?

Is there anything more romantic than tutoring your girlfriend to enter college together and then living together together?
but……

Confucius Ziqian, who was full of longing for "sunset love", finally sadly discovered that his female deskmate, who he had a crush on to the point of being in love, actually said to the teacher, "Since he has been admitted, can you change his seat? He is in my room I always take my place around you!”

This made Confucius extremely sad.

After the college entrance examination, the female classmate quietly listened to his confession and just smiled slightly, "You are really good. You are a fat man with a beautiful heart... But I'm sorry, I like to be thinner."

Hearing Kong Ziqian's tragic experience, Qing Yun smiled faintly, "Being fat or thin does not determine the difficulty of chasing girls."

"Chief, don't you think your words are somewhat contradictory?" Guo Ke looked at Qing Yun curiously.

On the one hand, they say that being fat or thin does not determine the difficulty of chasing girls. On the other hand, they say that if Lao Kong is thinner, others will look more pleasing to the eye.

Isn't this schizophrenia?

"I just said that love is essentially value exchange."

Qing Yun paused and then said, "This cannot be achieved by personal will, so the first thing you have to do is to improve your own value. This value refers to your whole body, not just how fat or thin you are. "

The Lin'an horse looks like an alien. Women who want to crawl into his bed can arrange to go to Horgos from Lin'an.

Seeing that the three of them had some understanding, Qing Yun continued, "If you want to improve your own value, you must first manage your own image. You must know that a person's external image is actually a part of his value."

"What kind of management method? Lose weight?" Kong Ziqian asked curiously.

In his opinion, losing weight is the first priority.

Qing Yun shook his head, "The first thing is to dress," and then explained, "You won't see the effect of losing weight in the short term, but wearing the right clothes can have immediate results."

If losing weight were that easy, it wouldn't be a worldwide problem.

Judging from the speed at which Confucius was eating like a vicious dog and the combination of 'fried + carbohydrate' recipes, he was embarrassed to say, it's strange that you can lose weight!
"In college, dressing cleanly and neatly is the most basic thing. If conditions permit, you can also pursue fashion trends appropriately. But remember, don't pursue it too much, otherwise it will give people a nondescript feeling."

He took a sip of fresh orange juice and said, "The second thing is hair style and face. Hair style should be trimmed regularly, not too long or too short. As for the face..."

Qing Yun paused and continued, "Pay attention to personal hygiene. Wash your face and brush your teeth every day. Acne on your face is not a problem. Cheng Bing, don't squeeze it with your hands. It will leave scars. I will give you a medicine later. , you go to the drugstore and buy it yourself."

Cheng Bing's face turned red and he agreed softly.

"The next step is to get in shape, right?" Guo Ke asked immediately. What he was most concerned about was how to gain weight.

Qing Yun looked at his bamboo pole-like body and was speechless. This guy's eating habits were the opposite of Confucius.

What a grown man, the way he chews his food carefully makes people clenched their fists. "The figure is indeed important. A good figure can give girls a lot of points over boys. But don't pursue it too much. After all, health is the most important thing.

You two change your eating habits. You eat faster, don't just eat vegetables, eat more protein, gain weight and go to the gym to get in shape.

Kong Ziqian, please eat slowly, chew each mouthful of food at least 15 times, and then give up carbonated drinks and fried foods.I will teach you a few freehand training movements when you go back. Practice them first. After activating the muscles of your body for half a month, go to the playground and run laps by yourself. "

Confucius suddenly felt hopeless.

Everything else is easy to say, carbonated drinks are his favorite.

"Can I drink Bingkuoluo?"

Qing Yun thought for a while and decided to spread the rumor to the end.

He lowered his voice and whispered, "Kuo Luo Sha Jing, if you don't think you can lift a gun in the future, just keep drinking."

Confucius' face turned green when he heard this.

He is at the age where he "stands silently with his spear in the cold, waiting for his beauty to pass by". He also wants to "the iron horse fires with the gun, and the war is restless at night" in the future!

Qing Yun suppressed her laughter and did not dare to look at him, and continued, "In addition to your external image, you must also pay attention to your words and deeds.

Don't use bad words, don't litter everywhere, don't make loud noises in front of girls, etc. Make it a habit to use handkerchiefs.

These seemingly insignificant details are actually part of enhancing your own value. "

"Oh..." Guo Ke and Cheng Bing nodded thoughtfully.

Confucius asked in confusion, "Why use a handkerchief instead of handkerchief paper?"

Qing Yun chuckled, "If a girl cries, what's the difference between handing her a handkerchief and handkerchief paper?"

Kong Ziqian was about to say there was no difference, but suddenly he understood, and then gave a thumbs up to the dormitory chief, "High! It's really high!"

Both Guo Ke and Cheng Bing couldn't help but laugh. They were both from that era. It must be said that the actions of the fat Kong Ziqian were somewhat similar to those of the fat translator.

But it does make sense. Handkerchief paper is purely a meat bun to beat a dog. There is no return, but handkerchiefs are different. Not to mention one contact or two, when a girl gives you a handkerchief, she will also carry it in her mind. To create your image, it is equivalent to providing three contacts with a handkerchief, which is a great deal.

Emperor Yun, who was passively acting as a general, rolled his eyes at him and continued, "In addition, you must also pay attention to your mental outlook.

You must maintain a positive attitude, don't be idle all day long, read more and exercise more, and make yourself look energetic, confident and enthusiastic, so as to attract the attention of girls.This is actually...temperament. "

In fact, he really wanted to say that this is the character.

"By the way, there is one more important thing." Qing Yun finally reminded, "That is to stay confident. Confident people are the most beautiful and handsome. Don't feel inferior because of some of your shortcomings. Believe in your ability to attract girls. Only in this way can we pursue girls better."

Hearing this, the three of them suddenly realized.

Although they had paid attention to their image before, they had not systematically managed their image.

Now after listening to Qing Yun's words, I immediately feel that I have benefited a lot.

“It turns out that what we did before was not systematic enough!” Confucius sighed.

Qing Yun tapped him with her finger in the air, "You're right, image is a systematic project. So body shape is only a small part of it."

Then, he spread his hands and said, "So, if you want to catch up with girls in college, you must first manage your own image. If you do this well, other things will be much easier to handle.

In fact, this also improves your own value and you can find better girls. "

Confucius realized, "Since image is a systematic project, then is it not so important for me to lose weight? I can gain points from other places!"

Qing Yun laughed angrily, "Don't you want to find something better?"

Confucius smiled coquettishly, and then suddenly became energetic, "Then the question is, what is what you just said, to avoid inappropriate situations from happening in the first place."

Qing Yun looked at him deeply, but Kong Ziqian avoided his gaze with a guilty conscience.

Emperor Yun sighed inwardly and turned to look at Cheng Bing, "What kind of girl do you like?"

Cheng Bing's face suddenly turned red and he muttered, "I...I don't have a girl I like yet."

Qing Yun smiled bitterly, "Okay, let me put it another way. Do you like long hair or short hair, medium-long hair, straight hair or curly hair, black hair or blonde hair, or are you okay with any color?"

Cheng Bing was stunned for a moment, then tilted his head and thought for a moment before answering affirmatively, "Hei Changzhi!"

He probably understood what Qing Yun meant, "First of all, beautiful, you must be beautiful! Emmm... I don't mean the kind that is very beautiful, just like... not like... Qin Manman and Teacher Su! I don't care about that kind. Even if you can catch it, you will definitely not be able to defend it.

It's that kind of thing, how should I put it..."

Qing Yun blinked, "Suppose Qin Manman's appearance is a 10 point, and the senior girl over there wearing a diagonal suspender belt is a 5 point. What do you hope... no, should you accept your girlfriend's appearance? "

Cheng Bing quietly looked at the delicate collarbone of the senior sister not far away. He thought about it again and again, and changed the score several times in his mind. Then, he solemnly said, "5 points! But you must have long legs, C or above!" "

Qing Yun nodded and motioned for him to continue speaking.

"Second, they must be smart. The children's IQs follow their mother's. Girls who are too stupid will make it very difficult for me in the future."

"Third, to be emotionally stable, you don't have to be very gentle, you can have a stronger personality."

"Fourth, integrity and kindness..."

"Fifth, I like to watch movies, read, and stay quietly instead of rushing around the world. This way we have common topics and a basis for communication."

"Sixth, I have lived in a northeastern city since I was a child, and I hope she does too, so that we won't have any differences in living habits."

"Seventh, I know how to knit a sweater."

Guo Ke was stunned when he heard this, "No, I understand the previous ones easily, but you, the seventh...are you a little embarrassed?"

Cheng Bing chuckled, "Seventh is a restrictive condition. I think if you know how to wear a sweater now, there is a high probability that you will be a good girl."

After that, he added, "No, you can learn if you want."

Just when Kong Ziqian was about to roll his eyes and show him, Qing Yun nodded, "This is actually a good way to screen."

Upon hearing this, Kong Ziqian hissed, "No, don't you think that a lot will be missed through such screening? To be honest, many girls in rural areas now don't know how to beat them, and you still want those in the city."

Qing Yun shook his head, "No, you are wrong about this. You are in Bamin Province, and the countryside you saw is different from the countryside Cheng Bing mentioned. His home in Shenyang is in Dongliao Province, and there is a huge difference between urban and rural areas. ”

Although Fujian and Fujian cannot keep up with Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, they are also coastal areas and their economic development is not bad.

In Fujian Province in 2002, the annual per capita net income of urban residents was 9847 yuan, and the annual per capita net income of farmers was 5920 yuan.

The two figures in Dongliao Province are 6150 yuan and 2822 yuan respectively, which are much lower than those in Xishu.

Taking into account the easy availability of agricultural and sideline products born by farmers, farmers in Bamin Province were actually much wealthier than urban residents in Dongliao Province at that time.

The income gap between farmers in Fujian Province and Dongliao Province is more than double. In the era of relatively low prices at the beginning of the century, these were two completely different lives.

Kong Ziqian was shocked to hear this gap, but he also became more curious, "But why do you mind so much that the woman is from the countryside?"

Cheng Bing was stunned when he heard this. He said that the child was shocked, "In the countryside, you sleep on a heated kang in the winter, and the whole family sleeps on the same kang. Don't you think there is no privacy? Have you never lived in a rural area?"

Kong Ziqian was immediately confused, "Fire Kang? What the hell?"

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