The day I shared a flat with my female boss

"Brother, I told you that," Gu Tong said in a low voice with a hook on his face, "Arthur is introverted. He is a little shy when he meets strangers..."

"What are you talking about?" I interrupted Gu Tong's words, looking at her way, "a big man even strangers dare not see, is still a man?"? Besides, I'm your brother. I'm your only parent in Binhai! Tongtong! I'll tell you, if that King Arthur doesn't come to see me again, I'll forbid you to keep going with him! "

Even one side did not see the man, how can I rest assured to let Gu Tong go on with him! The girl of first love is stupid, it's easy to be cheated!

I will never allow such a thing to happen to Gu Tong!

"Let me try, brother..." Gu Tong looked up at me and said.

I pretended to be tough and said, "no, try! He must be called here! If he doesn't come, he won't want to go on dating my sister! I can't have my sister with a man I don't know! "

"Brother! Don't be so autocratic, will you? " Gu Tong frowns at me, some dissatisfied ground says.

I took a drink from my glass, looked at her and said, "this is not despotism! It's for your own good! Is your King Arthur also Aries? You're also looking at astrology. Do you know that Aries men are playful

"But you are also an Aries man..." Gu Tong replied to me.

I said, "it's true that your brother is Aries, but there are exceptions to Aries!"

"Arthur may be the exception..." Gu Tong said.

I said, "the chance of this exception is very low! I won't allow my own sister to take the risk! "

"Brother, you only see the bad side of Aries, don't you see the good side of Aries?" Gu Tong looked at me and said.

Then she read out a passage of astrology with great pride.

"When you really become his wife, you will believe that everything you pay has a price. Aries man has a sense of responsibility, once he marries you, he will take care of you as his lifelong responsibility, he will spoil you, he will think you live well, he will have face. Although he will not be very careful to understand your emotions, but he will not be in the family or money, you have any restrictions and requirements. And unless you insist on leaving him, an Aries man will rarely leave his wife. His personality is really selfish, but if he includes you in his selfish range, then you are really blessed. "

I shook my head disdainfully, looked at Gu Tong and said: "Tong Tong! All your knowledge of love comes from books. You don't have any real love experience. In other words, in your case, all you have is a lot of wonderful fantasies about love. But fantasy is just fantasy, not love itself, nor the happiness you are about to have

There is a saying that you are not so much in love with others as you are in love with your own illusion of love. As another saying goes, you can't forget him, not because you can't forget him, but because you can't forget the feeling he once brought to you.

All these words must be reasonable. However, the girl who falls in love, especially the girl who falls in love for the first time, will experience the ecstasy brought by love for the first time. This ecstasy will dazzle her mind and make her blindly submit to the man who brings her this ecstatic experience.

In other words, the girls in this situation are very irrational and untrue. Her whole body and mind are still trembling in ecstasy. She can't tell right from wrong, right from wrong. Even if she falls in love with a murderer, she will feel that she is a different murderer!

How can she listen to other people's persuasion?

"Brother! You look down on me! Although I have no love experience, I know a lot about love. No pork. Haven't I seen pigs run? Not all knowledge and experience must come from practice. I don't allow you to treat people like children! Hum Gu Tong put down her chopsticks and looked at me, pouting angrily.

She is so angry, which proves that she has no self-confidence! This is the problem of psychology! For example, if a person is rich and you say he is poor, he will not care! Because he knew he was very rich! But if he is a poor man and you say to his face that he has no money, he is likely to contradict you fiercely!

Unreasonable voice high, the more guilty, the more want to cover up, the more timid, the more will put on a pair of know astronomy know geography posture, in fact, just want to embolden themselves!

Girls who fall in love are very cute and stupid. Any girl who is really in love can not hide the fact that she is in love.

Even if she doesn't speak, people around her can clearly feel that she is in love. Maybe only she can't feel the earth shaking changes that have taken place in herself.

Since Gu Tong fell in love, her attention has been lost. She was talking to me with wide eyes, but when I asked her for a long time, she was at a loss. It's obvious that she's out there.

Another performance is that the mobile phone does not leave the hand. For a moment, look at the mobile phone. For a moment, look at the mobile phone, as if she has hearing loss, or extremely distrust of her own hearing. When the phone or message comes, she can't hear it.Rainy days, or other reasons, made her date with Arthur impossible. She was restless, not thinking about food and tea, wringing her hands together, walking around the room, like a poor little girl who lost her soul.

As soon as I have the opportunity to instill love knowledge into her, in my opinion, love is not only a matter of sincerity, but also a skill! Like anything else, love needs skill! Moreover, this kind of skill is also very strong!

Stendhal, a French writer, said that in the theory of love, women regard the degree of stinging their lovers' heart to obtain the rights between men and women! In order to understand and cherish each other's heart, loneliness is absolutely necessary!

I quote the French writer Stendhal's original words to "educate" Gu Tong so that she can't fall in love foolishly and unskilled, which can easily lead to heart fatigue and no good results.

In order to let Gu Tong understand this truth better, I also quote her familiar knowledge of astrology to illustrate the problem.

"If you fall in love with an Aries person, please don't take the initiative to show favor to him before you are sure that he has fallen in love with you. For the son of Mars, the most interesting thing in the world is "challenge and conquest". Wouldn't it be too boring for you to take the initiative?

Aries man is not very difficult to understand, as long as you calm down a little bit, pay attention to the observation, it is not difficult to find what kind of dress he likes girls, what kind of feeling. You might as well throw in his favor, let his eyes involuntarily stay on you.

Let him feel that you have a good impression on him, but don't let him think that all your clothes are for him, you should have a little pride. Of course, I don't want you to be cold (straightforward Aries won't like girls who are too fake Fairy), you should try your best to play to your advantages "What are you trying to say? Brother... "

Every time I teach others tirelessly, Gu Tong frowns at me and asks me in this way.

"What I mean is very clear!" I looked at her and said with a smile, "Miss Gu doesn't seem to understand a man's heart! Many men are usually like this, the more you show your strong love, the less they cherish it! In love, who cares more about each other, who is more likely to be passive! What's more, the active party tends to despise the infatuation and devotion of the passive party! "

"Oh? Is that right? " Gu Tong still frowned at me and said, "what about that?"

I continued to deepen the Ideological Education: "Stendhal made it very clear! In order to understand and cherish each other's heart, loneliness is absolutely necessary! The more easy to use things, the more people do not cherish! To keep a proper distance from the people you love, a distance that can produce the beauty of imagination is very necessary! For example, Romeo and Juliet, if it wasn't for the feud between the two families, if they could get each other easily, maybe they wouldn't have such a stirring love legend! So is Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai! Therefore, it is very necessary to observe the appropriate distance! "

"Brother! Don't forget Gu Tong looked at me and said, "what distance produces is not necessarily beauty, but loneliness and separation."

I said, "please pay attention, Miss Gu. I mean the right distance. things will develop in the opposite direction when they become extreme. The extreme example you said. Although I can understand the extreme emotions you are showing now! However, please believe me, your brother. As a veteran in love, my suggestion is absolutely of far-reaching and important guiding significance! "

"All right! Gu da love expert! What do you think I should do? " Gu Tong looked at me and pouted. I puffed out a puff of smoke, looked at her and said with a smile, "what you have to do now is to control your emotions! Restraint! Restraint! More restraint! The more restrained you are, the more likely you are to take the initiative!

It should be said that the success or failure of a girl in a love affair often does not depend on how fierce her offensive is, but on her ability of restraint! Static braking is the key to girls' love! As long as you control properly, you can make those men willing to go through fire and water for you! From now on, don't take the initiative to call and send messages to him. Within three days, he will collapse and turn around you! "

Gu Tong blinked at me and said, "it sounds reasonable! But I'm not sure you're right? "

"Of course! Your brother, I'm an old soldier who has been honed in the battlefield for a long time! " I looked at her, patted her chest with a smile and promised, "believe me! If it doesn't work, you'll settle with me! You can find something you like to do now and turn your attention away from him! Don't keep thinking about him