The day I shared a flat with my female boss

Being able to call the boss boss first indicates that the company is indeed irregular, at least compared with a big company like Simei. Only when the scale is very small and the company needs to follow the line of human relations, the boss will get along with the employees, even become brothers, and maintain the operation of the company with friendship rather than salary.

Secondly, it shows that the boss is easy to approach. Although it may be just a management method, there will not be too much pressure on the employees. They don't have to worry too much about being scolded or dismissed by the boss because they are incompetent.

At least, for these fresh graduates, this kind of humanized management route is suitable for the time being. It is also in line with the actual situation of the company.

This is actually a kind of corporate culture and atmosphere. Newcomers are always the most sensitive group and have the clearest perception of corporate culture. As long as they agree with this way, they will stay at ease.

I didn't get home until almost 12 o'clock that evening, and the TV in the living room was still on.

Gu Tong fell asleep on the sofa in the living room with an open book in her hand.

Every time I work night shift, Gu Tong doesn't dare to go to bed first. To be exact, she doesn't dare to go to bed on time as I do at home.

Gu Tong, like other girls of the same age, is afraid of sleeping at home alone at night. Just like when I was a child, when an adult was not at home, she had to hold me. She would slowly fall asleep in the story of "grandma wolf" I told her, but when I was together, she would wake up accurately.

"Brother Where are you going? " She opened her eyes wide and looked at me warily.

I had to lie down and smile and scratch her again Don't worry about sleeping. I won't go away... "

"I'll tickle you..." Gu Tong nestled her little face in my shoulder and stretched out her chubby little hand to scratch my back.

I still remember the feeling of her little hand scratching my back.

Gu Tong has been very dependent on me since she was a child. Her deep attachment to me seems to be mixed with other strange feelings on the basis of brother and sister's feelings. Maybe it's the girl's feelings for lovers, or the daughter's feelings for father!

When I was a child, this kind of dependence was more obvious. My father died early and now I have to work hard to support my family. At that time, I was the only little man in my family. Naturally, I became the most trusted and dependent person in Gu Tong's young heart.

After entering school, I have always been the patron saint of Gu Tong in school. Who bullied Gu Tong, I will take revenge for Gu Tong. So that later those boys in the school were afraid to meet Gu Tong, so that some boys laughed at me as Gu Tong's boyfriend behind my back.

When I was a child, Tongtong followed me wherever I went. Although I laughed at her followers, although I laughed at her three-year-old girl, she still followed me, timidly and full of attachment!

This scene is clearly printed in my mind!

For a long time, I can't explain it clearly! I always feel that I am playing the role of father in Gu Tong's spiritual world!

Of course, I love this sister very much. I know that the early death of my father has had an irreparable impact on Gu Tong's psychological growth. I have been protecting my sister like my father!

After I went to college, I read Freud, and he really understood his sister's unique psychology!

The Oedipus complex and the Oedipus complex are put forward by Freud in the analysis of dreams. There is a detailed explanation about the related discussion in that book.

The Oedipus complex is also called "Electra complex". Freud pointed out: "the results of the analysis show that children show the most primitive" sexual desire "at a very young age. The earliest emotional object of the daughter is the father, while the emotional object of the son is the mother."

Of course, this kind of psychology will generally ease with the growth of age, but it will still be deeply hidden in people's unconsciousness, and will continue to show at an appropriate time.

According to Freud's research, Oedipus is a common phenomenon in the process of children's psychological development. Every girl in her childhood, when she was young, had a special feeling and worship for her father. Every girl, in fact, has more or less an "Oedipus complex", but most girls in the process of her growth, her Oedipus complex will gradually shift, she will mature, she will project to the opposite sex who should be with her, and some other people who can't slip this complex will form psychological problems. If the Oedipus complex can not be overcome, people may be affected by it all their lives!

Father is the enlightener of daughter's emotional world! Freud also said that paternal love or maternal love is a prerequisite for children's instinctive needs to be met, and the loss of parents' love and care means that instinctive needs will not be met. Therefore, the possibility of losing parents' love and care is perceived as a dangerous situation by children, and the anxiety associated with it can also be called "separation anxiety"!

It was not until Gu Tong went to university that her "love father complex" gradually faded down, which can be perceived from her reduced dependence on me.

Of course, I don't think it's a big problem or weird. Gu Tong has no psychological problems. She is beautiful and intelligent. At the age of 17, she was admitted to the famous clothing college in the provincial capital! And academic performance has been among the best. She has always been a very good student, focusing on her studies!I believe that she will find a man she loves very much, and she will find her lifelong happiness. At that time, her Oedipus complex will be completely transformed into the love for the man she loves.

It's a process. Life is actually a process of constant change.

I put down the bag, walked to the edge of the sofa, took the book in Gu Tong's hand away, picked her up and walked to her bedroom.

Gu Tong instinctively put her hand around my neck. Her eyes were still closed. She was still asleep. She just mumbled like a babble: "brother I just came back... "

I don't know how many times I've done it since I grew up. When you are a child, you seem to fall asleep very easily. Gu Tong is like this.

Sometimes when I was watching the comic books at the table, I fell asleep on the comic books. Sometimes I fell asleep when I was eating. Sometimes I even had a good time on the Trojan horse. When I looked back, she fell asleep again.

At this time, I would smile and watch her shake her head helplessly, put down the things in her hand, come over and gently hold her up. She also habitually hooped my neck or waist and said, "brother Tong Tong is sleepy... "

I took Gu Tong into her bedroom, gently put it on the shop, helped her take off her shoes, pulled over the quilt cover, tucked in the corner, stood at the edge of the shop, looked at her dense eyelashes, and then walked out of the bedroom with a helpless smile and shaking her head.

I went back to the living room, lit a cigarette, turned off the TV, saw the book Gu Tong read before going to bed on the sofa, bent down and reached for it. It was a book about astrology.

The page that the book turned to was about Aries boys. I raised my hand and pinched my nose. I thought, "King Arthur" is an Aries man just like me?

As I smoked, I looked down at a description of the character of an Aries boy.

"A lot of Aries men will give people a kind of playful feeling. He is always looking for snow white in his dream, but naive he often impulsively breaks into the love net, and then feels full of disappointment, and every time his love is broken, it will cause him great pain. As for the reason why he is lovelorn, one may be that the girl's personality is too far away from him; the other may be that his own personality is too egocentric for women to bear. "

I closed the page and puffed out a puff of smoke, thinking that if King Arthur was an Aries boy, I would have to remind Gu Tong to be more cautious.

I don't want my sister to fall in love with a playboy! Although I am also an Aries man, but I don't think I have much fun? What's more, even if my nature is fickle, I am a man, and my flower is also a girl in other people's family! Gu Tong is my own sister, how can I let other playful men spend my sister?

I think any love is selfish, not only love, family is the same reason.

I'd like to see Gu Tong's first love boyfriend, King Arthur. I hope it won't take too long. I don't want my sister to be cheated before I beat the playboy. It doesn't help!

The next morning, Gu Tong cooked two eggs for me, so I had to eat them, because today is my birthday. Our hometown has the custom of eating eggs for my birthday.

Gu Tong ate the noodles in the bowl and looked at me with a smile: "brother, I guess you will receive many unexpected birthday gifts today. My sister-in-law must have prepared a big gift for you. Hey, hey. "

I peeled the eggs in my hand and said with a smile, "that's not to say! Of course my wife loves me

"My sister loves you, too." Gu Tong said to me with a smile, "little sister, I also prepared a mysterious gift for you."

I looked up at her and said with a smile, "what is it?"

"Not yet." Gu Tong said with a mysterious smile.

I said with a smile: "yo! It's quite mysterious! "

At this point, I think of the unknown "King Arthur".

I sent the egg to my mouth and took a small bite. Looking at Gu Tong, I said with a smile, "Tong Tong, why don't you call your King Arthur to drink with me tonight?"

Gu Tong slightly a Leng, looking down at the bowl of noodles, chopsticks mixed with noodles and green pepper shredded meat.

"Brother, shall I do my best?" Gu Tong looked up at me and said, "a record company found Arthur's band and wanted to make a single for them, so Arthur has been very busy recently... "

I said, "how long does it take to have dinner? No matter how busy you are, you can't be so busy."