Gan Family Instructions

Chapter 4
Ji Fu, a good father, Bo Qi, a dutiful son, using a good father to control a dutiful son, finally get along with nature, and then let him go between wives and Bo Qi.When Zeng Shen's wife died, he said to his son: "I am not as good as Jifu, and you are not as good as Boqi." When Wang Jun lost his wife, he also said, "I am not as good as Zeng Shen, and my son is not as good as Hua and Yuan." enough as a warning.Afterwards, the false heirs cruelly tortured orphans, separated flesh and blood, and heartbroken, how countless.Be careful!Be careful!

Jiangzuo did not shy away from misdeeds. After the funeral, most of the family affairs were ended by concubines; scabies, mosquitoes and horseflies may not be avoided, so they are limited to large points, so it is rare to be ashamed of fighting.Hebei is contemptuous of going out on the side, and does not prevent abortion, so it is necessary to remarry. As for three or four, the mother's age is less than that of the son.The brother of the stepmother and the brother of the ex-wife, clothing and food, love and marriage, as for the separation of the noble and the humble, it is commonplace.After death, there are often those who resign to prosecute the family, slander and promote the road, sons falsely accuse their mothers as concubines, brothers dismiss their brothers as servants, spread the words of their ancestors, expose the strengths and weaknesses of their ancestors, and seek to straighten themselves.sad husband!Since ancient times, treacherous officials and concubines have trapped people with a single word!Kuang and his wife's righteousness is changed at dawn and evening. The servants beg for forgiveness, help each other and talk to each other. Over the years, is there a filial son?This must not be feared.

With mediocre nature, the second husband favors the orphan of the former husband more, and the second wife will abuse the son of the first wife; it is not only the wife who is jealous, but the husband is secluded and confused, and the situation makes it so.The ex-husband is lonely, dare not compete with my son for the family, support and raise him, accumulate love, so he dotes on him;If a different surname is favored, the parents will be resented, and if the step-in-law abuses the brother, the brother will become a tyrant. If the family has this kind of family, it will be the disaster of the family.

Silu and others are from his uncle Yin foreign ministers, and scholars of Boda.Youziji and Chen have both been established, and they will marry the Wang family again.Every time Ji visits his stepmother, he sobs with admiration, unable to restrain himself, and his family cannot bear to look up.The king was also sad and didn't know what to do. He asked for a retreat in ten months, and he was sent with courtesy. This is also a regret.

"Book of the Later Han Dynasty" said: "At the time of Emperor An, Xue Bao Mengchang in Runan was eager to learn and practice, lost his mother, and even filial piety. His father married his second wife and hated Bao, and separated her. Bao cried day and night, could not go, until he was beaten Stick. As a last resort, the house is outside the house, and as soon as it enters, it is sprinkled. The father is angry and chases it away, but the house is in the inner gate, and it will not be abandoned in the evening. Over the years, the parents are ashamed and return it.

After six years of service, mourning is more than mourning.Since the disciple asked for a share of the money and lived in a different place, the bag could not be stopped, but the money was divided among them: the servant and the servant cited the old man, saying: "Work with me for a long time, if you can't make it." ”Tian Lu took the one who was absurd, and said:” When I was young, I thought about it, and I loved it. "Utensils choose their rotten ones, saying: "What I eat is what I eat, and my body and mouth are safe. The disciples broke their property several times, and returned the relief.Jianguangzhong, the characteristics of the bus, to Baishizhong.Baoxing is quiet and empty, saying that he can't afford to be sick, and begs for death.There is an imperial edict to tell you to return. "

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