Gan Family Instructions

Chapter 10
The relationship between name and reality is like the relationship between form and shadow.If the virtue and skill are thick, the name must be good; if the appearance is beautiful, the shadow must be beautiful.Today, those who do not cultivate themselves and seek to be famous in the world are still very ugly and blame their shadows in the mirror.The sergeant forgets his name, the sergeant establishes his name, and the corporal steals his name.Those who forget their names, embody morality and morality, and enjoy the blessings of ghosts and gods, that’s not why they seek fame; , the false name of being flashy, not the reason why it got its name.

Human feet can only walk a few inches, but within a short distance, they must collapse on the cliffs, and the beams of the arches, every time they sink into the valley, why?Because there is no room for it.A gentleman's self-reliance is the same.Sincere words are not believed by people, and pure deeds, things or doubts are all based on words and deeds, and there is no room for them.Every time I am ruined by others, I often blame myself for it.If you can open the road of square rails and build a boat with a wider sail, Zhong You's words and trustworthiness will be more important than the alliance on the altar, and Zhao Xi's surrender to the city will be better than Zhechong's general.

I have seen people in the world, who have a clear name and a golden shell, their reputation is obviously lost, and they don't know the spear and halberd of the future, and the dry oar that destroys the front.Zhuo Zijian said: "What is sincere in this is true in that." The truth of a person depends on the heart, and everything is invisible, but he is not familiar with it.One is the lesson learned from observation, cleverness and falsehood are not as good as clumsy sincerity, and it is shameful to inherit it.When Bo Shi made Qing, Wang Mang resigned from politics, he thought it was a clever secret; later generations wrote it down, and passed it down for generations, which can be regarded as cold and hairy.There is a great noble nearby, who is famous for his filial piety, and has lived in mourning before and after, mourning and destroying beyond the system, which is enough to be higher than others.And taste it in the thatch block, and smear the face with croton, so that it becomes a sore, which shows the fault of crying.The children on the left and right are vertical, and it cannot be concealed, so that outsiders will not believe it when they say that they live and eat.Those who lose all sincerity with one falsehood are greedy for fame.

There was a family of nobles who had read no more than two or three hundred volumes. They had a blunt genius, but their family background was rich, elegant and reserved.The imperial court thought it was Wenhua, and also tried to hire abroad.Han Jinming, the king of Donglai, was very fond of literature, and suspected that his productions were not clever, so he held a banquet to talk about it face-to-face.The whole day is joyful and harmonious, and the seats are full of speeches. It belongs to sound and rhyme, and the pen is called poetry.All the guests meditated on their own, and there was no one who felt it.

Han Tui sighed and said: "The fruit is as you can measure!" Han asked again: "What shape should the sunflower head end on the jade 揽杼?" If you have learned, you can tell me with a smile.

It is also a big disadvantage to treat some children's articles.One is that it cannot be continued, and it will eventually reveal its feelings; the other is that scholars have evidence, and they will not be motivated.There was a young man in Yexia who came out to be the order of Xiangguo, and he was quite self-encouraging.In business affairs, every time a pension is added, it is for the sake of reputation.

When sent to military service, they shake hands and see off, or give pear and jujube cake as bait, and everyone gives them farewell, saying: "The fate is annoying, and love can't bear it; the road is hungry and thirsty, so I think about it." The common people call it, and it is not acceptable.And moving to Sizhou Biejia, the cost is increasing day by day, and it cannot be used for a long time. Once there is a hypocrisy, it will be difficult to continue, and the achievements will be lost.

Or ask: "The spirit of the husband disappears, and the remaining value of the voice is like a cicada shell and snake skin, a beast <辶康> and a bird's ear. How can it predate the dead, and the sage thinks it is a name?" Confrontation: "Persuasion Also, if you persuade him to establish a name, you will get the truth.” And if you persuade a boyi, thousands of people will establish a clean wind; Hey; persuasion of a Shiyu, and tens of thousands of people stand upright.Therefore, the sage wants his fish scales and phoenix wings to be chaotic and uneven, and to be endless in the world. Isn't it great?The four seas are long, all admirers, because of their affection, they are good at ears.In other words, the good name and good reputation of the ancestors are also the crowns and walls of the descendants. From ancient times to the present, there are many people who have been sheltered by them.Those who are good at establishing a name are still building houses and trees and fruits, and they will reap their benefits when they are alive, and they will leave their luster when they die.Those who absorb in the world do not reach this point. If they rise together with the refreshment of the soul, and the pines and cypresses grow together, they will be confused!
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