Low-key life, high-profile work

Chapter 12 Accepting injustice and calmly facing life's unsatisfactory (4)
He was not depressed because of this, and the deep lovesickness did not turn into hatred, but into love, into diaries of love, love poems of love one after another.The more fragile life is, the more he cherishes it.He knew that his time was running out, so he decided to ignite this last period of life, let it turn into a beautiful flame, and burn to his heart's content.Every day, despite the torment of his illness, he insisted on writing letters to her.The letters, long and short, were all recorded in a black diary.Some are a beautiful and sad love poem, some are his records and descriptions of his current situation, some are his thoughts about her, some are hallucinations he had when he was tortured by illness, and some are his memories of the good life in the past...

He wrote on the first page of the diary: I can't do everything I promised you, but I am willing to burn all my life and love you for the rest of my life.If these letters are fortunate enough to come into your hands, you may not have to open them, it all depends on whether you are willing or not.Don't be sad when you receive it.It represents my heart, don't drop your tears on my heart, because I like the way you are happy.

A few months later, after a violent convulsion, he closed his eyes, with a smile on his lips, a tear in the corner of his eye, and a black ballpoint pen in his hand.The diary fell to the ground like a heavy sigh.With this sigh, he left forever this world that made him reluctant and painful.

When she got his diary, she was devastated.Open the diary and turn down page by page. Those familiar handwritings seem to be his breath. In his breath, she gently touches his heart, his painful soul, his love and longing for her.Her tears fell on his heart in a "batterbatter"...

She cried and turned to the last page of the diary.He said that he knew that he would not have much hope of living, and he no longer planned to fight against fate, but he still thanked fate for allowing him to meet her, because of love, his life became very beautiful.

On the last page of the letter, he said: "We were too stupid before, always looking forward to the future, thinking that the future is where all the good things are. In the future, we can love each other well and live happily in the future. Then we got sick and were alone. Lying on the hospital bed, I realized that the future is not credible.

"Thanks to fate, thanks to this sudden illness, which made me understand life. I don't talk about the future anymore, I just want to love you in the last minutes and seconds of my life. These few months, I love you So hard, so hard, I love you more than ever before, and I cherish life more. Maybe you can't see it, but it doesn't matter, my heart is here, in this diary, in this letter, I believe, you and mine Hearts will meet..."

When an old friend is gone, the heart can stay; when life is over, love can stay.There is nothing sadder than parting, and nothing more beautiful than love at parting.Don't hate that fate has given you too many disasters, just accept it.Think of suffering as a date, maybe it is a little sad, but it is also extraordinarily beautiful.

Wisdom
The reason why people are sad is that we can't resist bad luck and keep the years.The value of human beings lies in the fact that we grow up in life as time changes.Although suffering is helpless, we can read another meaning of life in suffering, which is not a harvest.

Frankness is always with those who have a heart

Be an honest person, like a tree, half firmly rooted in the soil, half standing upright, dancing in the air.A tree has the posture of a tree, and a person has the character of a human.Honesty comes from the cherishment of fame and the desire for inner peace.

In the Qing Dynasty, there was a famous Confucian businessman in Qixian County, Shanxi Province——Qiao Zhiyong, known as the "Bright Rich Man".He was born in a merchant family, his parents died when he was young, and he was brought up by his elder brother.Qiao Zhiyong was originally an elegant and Confucian scholar, but unfortunately his eldest brother died of illness when he was young, and the burden of revitalizing the Qiao family business fell on his shoulders.

At that time, due to the impact of the war, the business of Qiao's family was hit hard, and they were almost on the verge of bankruptcy.Qiao Zhiyong's elder brother couldn't bear such a blow, so he couldn't get sick.After Qiao Zhiyong took over the business of the Qiao family, the business of the Qiao family was uncharacteristically prosperous in the era of war and turmoil.By the end of the Qing Dynasty, the Qiao family had owned more than 200 ticket offices, banks, pawnshops, and grain stores in various places, with assets amounting to tens of millions of taels of silver.

The reason why the Qiao family's business was able to turn around and straight up was not due to opportunism and running around, but a word of "faith".Faith means honesty and honesty.Qiao Zhiyong is easy-going, honesty-based, and business ethics.As a businessman, among the three characters of "faith", "righteousness" and "li", the word "faith" is the first, followed by "righteousness", and "li" is placed last. "What people abandon, take what others give up, sell widely with small profits, maintain reputation, and avoid hypocrisy" is Qiao Zhiyong's lifelong business philosophy.

The Qiao family owns Fusheng Xipu in Baotou, which is a large grain and oil business.Once, when Fusheng Oil Factory shipped a batch of sesame oil to Shanxi, a worker wanted to profit from it and secretly adulterated the oil.Such a move was not uncommon in the business field at that time. It was not uncommon for merchants to tamper with rice, flour, grain and oil, and to be short of catties.After the shopkeeper of Fusheng Xipu learned about this, he not only reprimanded the clerk severely, but also poured out all the adulterated oil, and exchanged it for genuine flax oil.This action caused the Qiao family's business to suffer a lot of losses, but the reputation of the Qiao family's trustworthiness has been spread far and wide, and it has also won more customers.

"Faith" is not only frankness and integrity, but also faith.Tonghe Store, a subsidiary of the Qiao family, can be regarded as a leader in the grain, oil, rice and noodle business in Baotou.At the end of the year, no matter whether they are high-ranking officials or ordinary people, they all come to the store to buy grain and oil for the New Year, and the business in the store is extremely busy.At this time, in order to allow poor people to eat good rice and noodles, Tonghe store often mixes some high-quality rice noodles with ordinary rice noodles, and sells them to the poor at the price of ordinary rice noodles.The poor are very grateful to Qiao's family for their kindness and integrity, and gradually become frequent customers of Qiao's shop in the future.

With such faith, the Qiao family's business is sure to win in the market game, and it is prospering day by day.However, success is also Xiao He and failure is Xiao He. The Qiao family was established because of "faith", and finally lost because of "faith".

At that time, it was already the 20s, coincided with the general trend of chaos in the Central Plains and economic recession, and a financial crisis appeared in the country.At that time, Jin banknotes depreciated greatly, and the exchange rate between it and the new currency was about 30 to 250000.If at that time all depositors were paid with Jin notes instead of SGDs, Daedeok Pass, which was already on the verge of bankruptcy, could have made a fortune by taking advantage of the price difference between Jin notes and SGDs, thereby winning a chance to turn around.But Qiao Zhiyong's descendants gave up the last chance and resolutely made the decision to accept Jin banknotes and new coins.

At this time, if it is someone else, it is very likely to do things that harm others and benefit oneself for one's own self-interest, and still argue afterwards that "I didn't know" and "I did it as a last resort" in order to win the sympathy and forgiveness of the world.However, a perfect lie may deceive the world, but it will never deceive itself; it can deceive for a while, but it cannot deceive the whole life.The so-called "the pure will be clear, and the turbid will be turbid" means that lies will eventually surface, and that evil deeds will not feel at ease even if they get benefits.

The descendants of the Qiao family are well versed in this. They understand that no matter whether it is a family or a single person, the sun, moon and stars cannot last forever. It is an inevitable fate from prosperity to decline, and it is only a matter of time.To live in vain will lead to the uneasiness in one's heart, which will be infamy for generations to come; if one lives honestly and dies for one's faith, one can keep one's fame for a lifetime.

A family is like this, so why not a person.Those who are upright are bright, and those who are honest are righteous.In life, once there is a conflict between interests and righteousness, do you choose to violate your conscience and secretly do things that harm others and benefit yourself, or do you choose to face it honestly?
There is a private enterprise that wants to select a suitable candidate from two current managers to serve as the director of the company.Of the two candidates, one is Chen Hui, the manager of the External Relations Department, and the other is Hao Ran, the manager of the Design Department.Since both of them have outstanding achievements in normal times and are very popular in the company, they are comparable in strength and it is hard to tell the winner. The board of directors of the company decided to use the method of democratic election for all employees to choose.

Chen Hui was very eager to take the position of director. When he learned that he was going to be elected by the people, he immediately started to operate in secret. While actively pleasing the employees, he secretly spread rumors and said some words that deliberately derogated Haoran.Haoran saw everything Chen Hui did, but he didn't report it to his superiors, nor did he secretly fight against them, but took an attitude of letting things go.Because he believes that gold will always shine, and rumors will always be eliminated.

On the day of the election, the competition for votes between Chenhui and Haoran is fierce.After three rounds, the two were tied in each round, which made it difficult for the person presiding over the election.At this time, Chen Hui took the initiative to step onto the podium, and delivered an impassioned speech in front of all the leaders and employees.As the person in charge of the external relations department, Chenhui's specialty is being eloquent and eloquent. He talks endlessly, from his hard work and achievements in the past few years, to his future planning and vision for the company, The speech was full of praise and thunderous applause from the audience.

Chen Hui is very good at talking. He not only boasted of his own achievements, but also intentionally exaggerated Haoran's mistakes and deficiencies in work with ingenious words, and pushed the responsibility to Haoran.

Haoran understands Chen Hui's thoughts very well, but he doesn't want to compete for fame and fortune, nor does he want to compete with Chen Hui in front of everyone or defend himself on the spot.He stepped onto the podium and said calmly: "In the past few years, although I have made some small achievements, there are still many shortcomings. I think that the awl will always come out, and the gold will always shine. If every The votes of my colleagues represent their ratings for me. Judging from today's situation, half of my colleagues don't recognize my work, and my work is only enough to score 50 points. Therefore, I want to continue to stay in the design department to hone..."

Later, Chenhui became the director of the company, while Haoran remained in the design department as a manager.Haoran is still conscientious in his work, and he is also very supportive of Chenhui's work.

Once, Chenhui talked to Haoran and asked him why he gave up the position of director to him.Haoran replied: "When you become the director, the employees of the company can work together in one direction; if I become the director, the situation may not be like this. I do this, which is good for everyone." The implication is that if When Haoran became the director, Chen Hui would definitely hold a grudge and not actively cooperate with his work, which would be of no benefit to anyone.

Chen Hui heard Haoran's implication, and felt very ashamed.

Although Haoran has not been promoted, he is an upright gentleman; although Chen Hui has become the director, he is not honorable at all.

Wisdom
Frankness is a kind of self-cultivation, a kind of character, and a kind of wisdom.Honest people don't need to be sneaky, and they don't need to think hard about countless reasons and lies to cover up their unsightly words and deeds.A frank person has a bright heart and a calm life.

(End of this chapter)