Smile is very alluring: the charming temperament you want most

Chapter 11 There is one thing more important than beauty - elegance (3)
In short, women's walking postures are various, there is no fixed pattern, or vigorous and light, or solemn and elegant, or energetic, but as long as they can add women's healthy, virtuous, gentle, and elegant charm, reveal their own style, and express their own personality, then Just walk out of your own momentum, this kind of walking posture is beautiful.

Don't put the modal particles on your lips

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Since brevity is the soul of wisdom, and length is a superficial embellishment, let's keep it simple!
—Ben Jonson, English playwright
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In the process of dealing with people, some women often say some modal particles because of personal habits and other reasons.Sometimes, proper use of modal particles may add a friendly and gentle atmosphere to our communication, but if modal particles become a mantra, and every sentence is eager to have, then it will make the listener very troublesome.

After graduating from university, Cheng Cheng successfully entered an advertising production company.When it comes to working ability, she has nothing to say, no, within a month of joining the company, she made an advertising plan, and won unanimous praise from the leaders and colleagues, and was asked to come on stage to talk about her work experience .

"Well, hello everyone, hello everyone," Cheng Cheng stood on the stage and said with a smile: "As for me, as a newcomer, I'm very happy to be recognized by everyone. I know, I still have a lot of things I need Studying, right? In the future, I hope you can give me more advice! My work experience is like this..."

After hearing these few short sentences, the leader frowned, and the colleagues began to whisper: "Oh, although Cheng Cheng's work ability is so strong, but her expressive ability is really not flattering." "Yes Ah, 'ah', 'what', it's tiring to listen to her, it's boring..."

There is a saying, "Time is life, and consuming other people's time for no reason is tantamount to murdering one's life for money."Although this kind of statement is a bit exaggerated, but Cheng Cheng kept saying "ah" and "what", her image is bound to be affected by her many modal particles.In this way, how can she attract and infect others?

As the most basic form of interpersonal communication, language is one of the most powerful weapons to convey charm.How to show your own beauty with language, especially to influence the people around you?The simplest and most effective way is to speak less modal particles and speak concisely.

Mood particles are function words that express mood, and are often used at the end of a sentence or at the pause in a sentence to express various moods.

Inquiry tone: "what", "what" and so on.For example, "Have you ever been to Beijing?" "If you want to use it, just let me know in advance."

Declarative mood: "的", "了", etc.Such as, "You will not forget us." "I have agreed to your request."

Imperative or exclamatory tone: "ah", "bar", "ah".Such as, "How smart this kid is!" "Go back."

Although the modal particle can strengthen the tone, the best talkers seldom put it on their lips, but pay attention to the simplicity, conciseness, conciseness and forcefulness of language expression.The ancients said, "Let's set up a piece of words to make the most of it", which is the truth.

In the interview meeting, people who speak concisely and clearly are the most popular.Generally speaking, the time for the interviewer to "introduce himself" to the applicant is no more than 2 minutes. An interviewer once said unceremoniously: "Too many modal particles will make the expression complicated. Such a person appears very unconfident. It is definitely not the employee that the employer wants. Introducing yourself in a short language, sonorous and powerful, often leaves a very deep impression on people."

Indeed, if you don’t talk about modal particles, speak concisely and forcefully, decisively, and the aura in your body will burst out, and you will faintly reveal a kingly aura that cannot be ignored. It has a strong deterrent force and can easily suppress Hold your ground, be able to cover the people under the seat or under the stage, and make them shocked.

Therefore, if you don’t want your beautiful image to be greatly compromised by language, you must use less modal particles, speak more concisely, and don’t be sloppy, so that your charm will appear much more powerful. The force will also increase.

Be a "thriller"

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Secrets are weapons as well as friends.Man is the secret of God, strength is the secret of men, and sexiness is the secret of women.

—Irish writer Jan Stephens

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Although women's beauty and graceful posture make men overwhelmed, but sexy is the feeling of arousing lust, which is a kind of charm.When a sexy woman walks in the crowd, she will be very confident, because she knows that all she exudes is charming temperament.

Every woman needs beauty and loves beauty the most. She is especially eager to seek a kind of feminine beauty with charisma to show her best side.And sexy is the best rhythm endowed by the Creator to women, which forms a sharp contrast with the masculinity of men, forming a beautiful landscape.Men's preference for sexiness is more due to their preference for this temperament, because it is like a sigh before smelling flowers, or like a mist in a bath, or like a sleeve wind after turning around, or a look beyond the eyes. A glance... How can a man not be crazy, amazed, turbulent, and emotional?So, what exactly is sexy about a woman?
Many women believe that being sexy means having a devilish figure.It is undeniable that a good figure is the main way for women to show their sexiness, but it is not all, let alone the less clothes they wear, the better.Sexiness should be the charm that a person exudes when expressing his body and emotions. Any woman can make herself very sexy and show off her personality charm.

Regarding sexy, Jiang Peilin, China's leading supermodel, once said: "Sexy is not something superficial or superficial, and it's not sexy when you expose it in summer. In my opinion, sexy is often revealed through some inadvertent movements or expressions. Yes, a sexy woman should be elegant, casual and clean."

Mina has neither the tall and charming height of a model, nor the appearance that makes men fall in love at first sight, so she is very unobtrusive in the crowd.Once, she went to a gym opened by a friend to work as a substitute teacher. The students were a little disappointed when they first saw her, especially some male students, saying that she didn't look like a fitness instructor at all.

However, after half an hour, most of these male students changed their previous views and stared at Mina closely.

A male student muttered in a low voice, "I didn't realize that this teacher is very sexy when he exercises."

"That's right," another male student also came over, "You can see that her tight vest is soaked in sweat and stuck to her body, her twisted waist is soaked in a bumpy line by sweat, and her messy hair falls casually on her neck. In the meantime, beads of sweat on the back of her neck slid down the line of her stretched back, and I felt that her whole body was radiating."

When the other female students heard the male student's evaluation of Mina, instead of expressing objection with jealousy and disdain, they all agreed with them, thinking that the body language of the fitness substitute teacher full of passion, as well as her focused and intoxicated expression, were very good. Feminine, very sexy, captivating.

Mina didn't deliberately scratch her head and pose, but used her charming body language to show the students her sexiest side and charming temperament.It can be seen that sexy is not the exclusive charm of a woman with a devil figure, and sexy is not reflected in the hiding and revealing of clothing.

In fact, a woman's figure, appearance, clothing, voice, temperament, behavior, temperament, culture, cultivation, taste, etc. are all the conditions for constituting sexy, and the highest level of sexy is based on this foundation. of incomparable charm.

So, sexiness can be acquired through acquired practice.Now, let me tell you a few essentials of practicing sexy.

Eyes: full of spirit and charm, with a little feminine reserve, neither wild nor flirtatious.The reading is bright but not sluggish, moderately lingering but not boring, such eye waves are the birthplace of sex appeal.

Manners: Among all the body language, casual self-touching is some of the little gestures that reveal sexiness.Such as inadvertently biting your fingers, resting your cheeks, pulling your hair back chicly, gently holding your face with your hands, shrugging your shoulders helplessly, crossing your hands and stroking your shoulders or the back of your neck, etc. are some sexy little movements.

Clothing: The materials are not noble, but exquisite, decent and elegant in harmony.Even if it is far away from the forefront of fashion, it will never go with the world, do not blindly wear heavy makeup, do not blindly expose the body, but pursue taste, style, subtlety and charm in a unique and unique style.

Cultivation: Sexuality requires the cultivation of knowledge, personality, and taste, to truly understand the nature of sexy, not to be frivolous, pretentious, or vulgar and seductive. It belongs to the real sexy of women.

(End of this chapter)