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Chapter 20 Affordable Male

artist who takes care of the family
Understanding Men in Five Seconds and Understanding Men in Seconds Part [-]: Affordable Men

Features: They generally have no ambitions, no strong ambition, and it is impossible to make a lot of money, but they are good to their families and willing to take care of them.Everything is to think about your own home first, and then think about work.

He will not give you the best life, but will give you the most stable life.

Love code: There is no great wealth, but it will accompany you to the end.

Real Stories Understand Men in Seconds No. [-]: Affordable Men

Affordable men are not a concept I came up with. After it was mentioned many years ago, I spent a long time observing several different groups of affordable men and wanted to use this as a case.

Although many places and many articles have talked about affordable men, there should not be any articles that have specifically demonstrated it, and no one has specifically analyzed what kind of man is an economically affordable man.

In fact, many times, people have misunderstood economically applicable men.

For example, if a man has no big ambitions, doesn't want to make progress, and still picks up girls everywhere, is he considered an affordable man?Of course not, this is a trash man.

For example, a man who used to be very poor, but through his own efforts, has become a person with good conditions, is this considered an economically affordable man?Of course not, this is what we said earlier about being poor.

A real affordable man should be the kind of person who has no ambitions, does not think about making progress, and indeed does not earn much money in his life, has no skills, and is even unable to make his children live a good life.But they will be loyal to their families and wives, and they really have never thought about going out to find flowers and ask willows.

Here, tell a story about an affordable man.

The heroine of the story is Xiaofan.Xiao Fan is a girl with a high spirit. Although she is not good-looking, she is quite tall. She is 1.7 meters five, and she can reach 1.8 meters zero in high heels.

So Xiao Fan has dreamed of being a model since she was a child, but unfortunately, her appearance is really a bit worrying.I wanted to be a model several times, but I was rejected because of my appearance.

I can't be a model, but my height is still there, so I was chosen by the volleyball team instead.

Although Xiaofan has no professional talent in volleyball, he still has a little talent. He soon became a master that cannot be underestimated. He entered the high school team and helped the school team win the city championship. He was specially recruited into a certain university as a student.

In college, Xiao Fan's love affair began.But she encountered almost insoluble problems, one was height and the other was appearance.

Because the height is too high, most men can't avoid it.In fact, men really don't love tall girls very much, and many tall girls will encounter similar problems.

The appearance is even more fatal, the range of choices for tall and ugly girls is too small.

Xiao Fan secretly fell in love with others time and time again, but was rejected again and again, and was really disheartened in the end.

The failed love experience in college made Xiao Fan very sad, and she never dared to have a crush on someone in school again.

Once, Xiao Fan represented the school team in a friendly match and met a boy.This boy is also a sports student, but his level is very high. He has already been selected into the city team and is regarded as the main star of the city team in the future.

This boy, Xiao Yi, is nearly 1.9 meters tall, with a strong body, a bad appearance, and a bit dull.Xiao Yi and Xiao Fan didn't even know each other.

At that time, Xiao Fan was the main force of the school team, playing a friendly match with the second team of the city team.In the friendly matches organized below, this kind of mixed play between men and women is quite common.

The school team has five players, and the city team has only three players. Xiaofan and Xiaoyi are the main players of course. Xiaofan focused on double-teaming Xiaoyi that time, but Xiaoyi still easily scored goals again and again.At the end of the fight, Xiaofan became angry and directly fought with his body, hitting the man.

Although Xiao Fan is also tall and heavy, how can he win against a man against his body?She didn't knock down Xiao Yi, but was bounced off herself.

Xiao Yi wanted to pull her, but he didn't have time.After Xiaofan was knocked away, he didn't do a good job of cushioning, and finally his bones cracked.

Now Xiao Yi was really embarrassed, after the game, he sent Xiao Fan to the hospital, and for the next month, Xiao Yi didn't even play the game, and asked for leave from school repeatedly, spending four days a week with Xiao Fan to recuperate from his injuries.

In fact, a bone fracture is not a big deal. After the plaster is applied, you can go back and raise it by yourself.So Xiao Fan has been living in the school, and the one who takes care of her life is a 1.9-meter strong man.

This incident made Xiao Fan almost a joke in school.Think about it, a big and strong man who is two meters tall, goes to the cafeteria to cook food all day long, carries a kettle, and runs in and out of the girls' dormitory, what kind of picture is that!

Xiaofan was very annoyed at first, and drove Xiaoyi out several times.But Xiao Yi was begging for nothing to keep her and take care of her, and it dragged on for almost half a month. Later, the girl in the same dormitory pointed out the man in her dream, saying, don't let Xiao Yi fall in love with you!
Everyone suddenly realized that it turned out that Xiao Yi was not because of guilt, but because of liking, and that's why he clings to her every day!
Xiao Fan, who was pierced through the window paper, hadn't been shy for a long time, but quickly discovered that he actually had feelings for Xiao Yi.That being the case, the two of them didn't have so much to be hypocritical, and they quickly developed into lovers.

In the remaining years of their study career, the two have been in love, so there is no need to repeat them.

After graduation, Xiao Fan's sports career was over, but because he won many awards and won honors for the school, he was retained by the school and became a university PE teacher.

And Xiaoyi is a little more lucky. There is a professional team in the domestic league and wants to sign him as a reserve.

In the city where they are located, this is quite a remarkable thing. After all, it is a professional team, and Xiaoyi's future is bright.

Xiao Fan and the people around him tried their best to get Xiao Yi to join the professional team, but Xiao Yi was full of worries.

Because the professional team is in a remote western frontier, if he really wants to join the team, he has to leave his home (Xiao Yi is a local), and he has to live separately from Xiao Fan.

Most importantly, Xiao Yi actually has no interest in being a professional gamer.Although many people think that he is talented and that professional players can make a lot of money, Xiao Yi really doesn't want to be so tired and hard.

According to his words, being a human being is simpler and more relaxed, as long as you have enough to eat, why do you have to work so hard!
The city they live in is quite a laid-back place. Everyone drinks tea in the morning and plays mahjong in the evening. They don't have the urge to do anything for their career.

Xiao Yi, who grew up in this environment, has always had the mentality of muddling along.

In the end, Xiao Fan didn't persuade her boyfriend, Xiao Yi resolutely gave up the opportunity to be a professional team member, and joined an agency unit as a small agency employee.

This matter caused a big quarrel between the two people, but in the end, under the mediation of both parents, it subsided, and the parents began to prepare for the wedding of the two.

There are ordinary families on both sides, and the advantage is that they can support a nice little family without any effort.The man bought a house for the young couple, not big, just a one-bedroom.The woman provided the decoration and appliances for the house.

The two families worked hard together, and this little life went smoothly.

After getting married and giving birth to a child, it is said that life is going well.

But Xiaofan is not reconciled. Many of her classmates in college, or herself, or her married husband, have already started to make a fortune.Those girls carry Chanel and platinum bags every day, only Xiao Fan seems to be no different from her previous life.

She was really not reconciled, she even thought that it was a huge mistake for her husband not to go to the professional team when he graduated.If they really became professional players at that time, they would at least be worth tens of millions now!
With such a mentality, Xiao Fan finally couldn't bear her husband to be a small office worker, reading newspapers from [-] to [-] every day. She forcefully ordered Xiao Yi to resign immediately, and then start a business to make money.

Although Xiaoyi has no career ambitions, the advantage is that he is good to his wife and children. He commutes to and from get off work on time every day, and he can also go home to cook and take care of the children.

He was really obedient to his wife.But now that Xiao Fan wants him to make such a big decision, Xiao Yi has no ability to object, and he has doubts in his heart, but he has no choice but to suspend his job without pay, and then really listen to his wife. do business.

Xiao Yi used his family's savings to go to a certain market to buy a shop, and then sold clothes.

This matter is really nonsensical. Xiao Yi and Xiao Fan have never done business before. They only heard that selling clothes can make money, so they rashly invested in it. How could they make money?
In half a year, there were countless losses, and the savings of both of them were wiped out.

That's right, Xiao Yi is indeed a man who has no ambitions and doesn't want to make himself too tired, but in order to do this business, he also worked hard.If you don't understand, you don't understand, if you don't know, you don't know, if you can't make money, you can only lose money.

After being emptied of his family fortune for half a year, Xiaofan put all the responsibility on her husband's lack of ambition.She became more and more angry, and even determined to divorce and find a man with self-motivation.

While thinking about divorce, she suddenly discovered something.Those former classmates of hers, those classmates who married her husband, all divorced before her.

Now Xiaofan didn't understand, she just wanted to find a husband who was ambitious, but why did all the successful people get divorced?So one by one to ask.

Some of those women are looking for women everywhere after men get rich (this is the majority), and some are because their husbands are too ambitious, so they work overtime every day and have no time to take care of their families, and some men feel that women are not good enough for them after they develop themselves So I insisted on getting a divorce.

Xiaofan looked around, and basically her husbands had achieved a little bit, and their career ambitions were vigorous, but they were all divorced.

And those women who were divorced told Xiao Fan a blood-tear experience: "Repent to teach your husband to find a Marquis."

What does that mean?That is to say, to marry a man, the most important thing is not the man's career at all, but the family life.The more a man develops in his career, the less he can leave for his family.So, really looking back, it would be better not to start a career!

Xiao Fan was awakened suddenly, and she suddenly discovered that her husband was actually an advantage in everything except his lack of professionalism.

For example, being loyal and honest, not daring to hook up with other women.

For example, love to cook and do housework.

For example, if you listen to your wife, you are willing to take care of your own children.

For example, I never work overtime and come back every day to stay with my family.

For example, being nice to your father-in-law and mother-in-law is almost as good as being nice to your own parents.

Aren't these advantages a man's greatest contribution to his family?
Xiao Fan came to understand that a man's career is actually not the help of the family, but the poison of life.Sometimes the better the career, the better it becomes a weapon that hurts the family.

Although my husband has no big ambitions, but sincerely, he wants to live his little life well.

And this little day, isn't it life?

Understanding Men in 5 Minutes and Understanding Men in Seconds Part [-]: Affordable Men

The first characteristic of economically applicable men:
All affordable men have no great ambitions for their careers.

A man who is ambitious about his career cannot become an affordable man.Because no matter whether their careers are successful or not, it is impossible for them to put their minds on their families.

Therefore, when a man wants to break into the world, he has no way to take care of women and his family, let alone make his family feel warm.

The affordable man doesn't put his mind on his career at all. His mind is completely on his own one-acre three-point land. Outsiders seem to be useless, but his family can just accept the best.

The second characteristic of economically applicable men:
They all hate change, especially things that change their living habits and lifestyle.

Almost all affordable men are the best at living.

Many girls think that knowing how to live is a matter of taste, but they are actually wrong.Some men have taste, but don't do housework; some men can cook a meal, but refuse to clean up, and finally ask a woman to clean up the mess; some men can travel, but don't know how to take care of others.

Affordable men do not have much money, but they are willing to do housework, cook, and arrange their families in order.This kind of life, even if it is not quality enough, can make every woman live comfortably without having to work hard.

The third characteristic of affordable men:
Although not capable, but love his wife.

Few people know that a man without ability does not necessarily love his wife.Although some men are incapable, they still bully their wives after returning home, and use this to regain their self-esteem.

But economically affordable men are not. The focus of their lives is to love their families and wives.Although they cannot achieve great achievements, the stability of their families is their greatest achievement.

Most affordable men don't have much confidence in themselves, so they always feel that the greatest luck in their lives is that a woman is willing to marry them.In this case, loving their wives has become their biggest goal. They are always willing to do things that are beneficial to the family, but they are definitely unwilling to do things that their wives object to.

Many people think that an affordable man is a man who swallows everything lukewarm.

Not really.Affordable men are often economically unpromising, but can be called artists in taking care of the family.

It is precisely because they have devoted their best energy to their families that they have no achievements in their careers.

This is complementary and a sacrifice.

(End of this chapter)