understand man in seconds

Chapter 15

You can bring back a cheating man, the key is whether it is necessary

Understanding Men in Five Seconds No. [-]: Cheating Men

Features: It is indeed easy for cheating men to fall in love with other women, but it is difficult to get used to other women, so time is not in favor of the mistress.As long as there is enough time for a man to get tired of the woman outside, he will follow the habit and go home.

If you want to redeem, don't cry.Either break up decisively, or wait patiently.It is absolutely impossible to vent your anger and want the man to turn back.

Love code: first think about whether it is necessary, and then think about what you should do.

True Stories Understand Men in Seconds No. [-]: The Cheating Man

This woman is called Aris, a little younger, but also about 38 years old.

When she was young, her experience was similar to that of the miserable woman above.But life is not the same. The slight difference is that Aris gave birth to a daughter.

Her husband is now the boss of five big companies, and Aris naturally doesn't need to go to work every day, so she eats and drinks with a group of rich ladies all day long, living a comfortable life, but eating and drinking too much will make her fat, and Rich wives don't understand anything except shopping and eating, and they are becoming more and more tacky.

Without exception, after Aris's husband got rich, he started to go wild outside. On the one hand, his sexual desire was full of desire to find young girls, and on the other hand, those friends around him urged him to marry other girls and have a son.

So the biggest problem for men is making bad friends.Under the guidance of his friends, Aris' husband began to go to those romantic places, and even took care of a college student from an art college.

Her husband kept it a secret, and Aris didn't know about it.But what kind of news can be hidden from the circle of rich wives? It didn't take long for a few rich wives to forgive Aris intentionally or unintentionally.

Although Aris is ignorant, he is also a person with a high degree of education after all. After listening to it a few times, he understood it. He forced the rich wives to know what her husband was doing outside.

For a moment, Aris was completely taken aback.But the wealthy wives seem to have seized the opportunity and kept trying to persuade Aris to swallow his anger.

It turns out that the husbands of these rich wives are not clean on the outside, but their collective wisdom is to endure.

Because you couldn't bear it, in the end, there was a divorce.After divorce, even if you can share a few money, you can't live your current life.

But if I can bear it, I will naturally feel a little bit aggrieved, but I can't help but live a good life!I want to play whatever I want, I buy platinum bags by the dozen, Hong Kong today, Japan tomorrow, wherever I want to travel.

This kind of day is just exchanging half of my husband, no matter how you calculate it, it is a good deal.What's more, if a man feels guilty in his heart, he will treat you better!

This theory is very popular among rich wives.Everyone regards the theory of "Hardness to Make Gold" as a well-studied theory.

Aris, who had been bombarded by rich wives for several days, still seemed to be floating in the clouds, having nightmares night after night, as if all his strength had been drained.

After three days of not eating or drinking at home, Aris finally figured it out.

She doesn't want a divorce.Not to mention the relationship, just look at my age, I will be 40 years old in a year, and I still have a daughter. I can live a divorced life, but it is impossible to have a family.

But she absolutely can't bear it.Although she has been with wealthy wives for many years, she has never forgotten that she also went to college and worked hard in her career.Now her husband's company looks big, but at least half of the foundation of the family business is due to her.

So Aris don't bear it, and don't sit still, she wants to change.

The first change was that she quickly left the group of rich wives. Aris understood that the so-called rich wife was nothing more than a parasite living on her husband, she had no dignity or status, and she was nothing without her husband.

Then, Aris started to lose weight.

I used to be with wealthy wives, and I often went shopping, but I always bought luxury items, and the rest of the time was just eating, so I got fatter and my taste became more and more extravagant.

Luxury and beauty are different.

After becoming a fat middle-aged woman, no matter how many luxuries there are, they can only use extravagance instead of looking good.

Aris looked at his obese self in the mirror, and recalled the years when he was young and never weighed more than [-] catties, and felt extremely regretful.

So she started the arduous journey of losing weight, skipping lunch for three months, eating only one salad a day, and running for a long time.

Many people think that losing weight is a matter of willpower. In fact, what you need most is time, because maintaining a state of hunger and low blood sugar for a long time will make people tired and unmotivated to work.

In the whole process of losing weight, there is only exercise and sitting, so you can't do anything else at all.If you still have the strength to work, it can only mean that you are not losing weight at all.

After three months of hard work, Aris lost forty catties.She has never been so thin since giving birth to her daughter.According to her words, the big breasts of a young woman are only a hundred catties, which is the pinnacle of big breasts and thin waist.

After losing weight, Aris has taken on a completely new look. Others don't dare to recognize it when they see it.She used to have a baby face with well-maintained skin, and now she is a beauty again.

Aris's husband was also shocked by the change in his wife, and he didn't go out for a long time, even the little vixen who was fostered rarely went there.

But that's not what Aris is aiming for.

Next, Aris is determined to get out of the rivers and lakes and start working.This matter caused a lot of controversy at home.Neither the husband nor the parents-in-law are very supportive.

In the eyes of the elderly, the conditions at home are already so good, why go out to show their faces, isn't it good to be a husband and a child at home?Doing a good job in logistics is the greatest contribution to a man.

This is the greatest injustice to women by the elderly and society.It is said that men and women are equal, but as long as the man in the family is good enough, everyone will naturally hope that the woman will become his accessory.

But what hit Aris the most was her husband's attitude.The man didn't say whether it was possible, but instead said contemptuously that Aris hadn't had a job for so many years and knew nothing but being a wealthy wife, and it was very difficult to find a job.

Aris's husband just missed a word, that is, Aris has no way out except to let him raise him.

If those rich ladies, maybe they will admit it.But in Aris's heart, there is always a bit of dignity hidden.

It was this dignity that made her determined to change herself completely.

Of course, even if you gnash your teeth and want to change, you don't just rush around without thinking.If one head crashes against the south wall and dies, it is not ambitious, it will only be ridiculed for being stupid.

Aris did not rush to find a job, but enrolled in an MBA class at the best local university.

The entire course is close to 100 million yuan. If Aris was reluctant to part with it in the past, but now spending her husband's money to improve herself is of course "why not do it".

So, every day Aris dressed up beautifully, and then went to school to attend classes.Everyone knows that the so-called MBA nowadays is not so much about learning things as it is about socializing and getting to know people.

The most famous story is that Tian Pujun got Wang Shi in Cheung Kong Graduate School of Business, so that Wang Shi divorced, and Tian Pujun transformed into a business genius from then on.

Aris was good-looking in the first place, and even more graceful after losing weight successfully. In the MBA class with many men, he seemed to stand out.

Since she entered school, she has become a prominent figure in the class, and she is the key target for men to date.

Rich people nowadays are very cautious, but not all women dare to hook up.Those who look like young models or actors look forward to seducing a rich man to marry, and they all avoid it.

What are the benefits of Aris?She came to class in a Cayenne, no matter from which point of view, she was from a rich family.

So, women still need to be rich, otherwise rich people may not think highly of you.

In just a few months, a group of rich men are pursuing Aris.She didn't accept it, but she didn't refuse it either.

The pursuit of these men became more and more explicit, and some even drove luxury cars to her door to wait.

Such an exaggerated behavior certainly shocked Aris' husband.When he was about to fly into a rage, Aris unhurriedly revealed the matter of her husband having a woman outside.

Flipping the cards on both sides, Aris' meaning is also very simple, or get divorced, the family property will be [-]/[-], and she will live a free life.As for whether she will marry a richer person, I don't know if I will use half of my husband's property and business to post to others.

How can a man bear this? When he thinks that his wife is going to find another man with her own money, he even has the heart to die.But in fact, it was his fault again. After all, his wife was only being chased by someone, and he really had a mistress.

The two quarreled for a long time, and even the man moved out to live with the mistress. Aris took her time, continued to attend classes, began to have men willing to invest in her career, and also had more and more social interactions.

In her husband's eyes, these things were as sad as scratching her heart and lungs.No matter how hard she tried, it was difficult for her husband to accept that his wife was pursued by another man.

After several battles between heaven and man, Aris's husband finally chose to compromise. He negotiated with Aris to see how he could kill the matter of his wife's cheating in the cradle.

Today, Aris finally gained the upper hand in the whole incident.She didn't cheat in revenge or make a scene, she just made herself better.And it was precisely this kind of betterness that made her husband feel an incomparable crisis.

The pain point of a man is not how well-behaved you are, but how many men pursue you.Almost all men are afraid that the woman they once had will have a better love and better development. For this reason, they can even sacrifice some of their hobbies to keep them and tie them down.

The negotiation between Aris and her husband finally came to an end. Aris continued to maintain her right to study independently, and even to start a business independently, but she had to reject all men's pursuit of her, and she could only use family money to invest in her career.

As for her husband, it is natural to cut off contact with women outside, and he needs to report his itinerary on time every day, and he is not allowed to go out with his friends.The most important point is that according to Aris' request, he went to the hospital for a ligation, and since then, the possibility of having an illegitimate child has been cut off.

Whether such a result is good or not is a matter of opinion.But for Aris, she didn't want a divorce at first, she just wanted to keep a complete family.

So it is the best result to let the husband go home, improve himself, and get better benefits for himself.

Women are sometimes very simple, nothing more than wanting a home and keeping it.But you must always remember that the best way to keep this home is not to make men better, but to make yourself valuable.

The value of a woman is her capital to protect her family and keep her marriage.

Identify men in 5 minutes and understand men in seconds No. [-]: Cheating men

The first characteristic of cheating men:
You think it is impossible for your man to cheat, but often they will, because cheating is related to time.When you don't worry about it, the other party has the space and time to cheat.

Many people think that money is what men need most to cheat, but they are actually wrong.

Although there are some women who love money, they are not the most.A considerable number of women pursue spiritual communication.

In other words, most of the cheating men are picking up girls, not spending money to buy women.

What does it take to pick up a girl?Of course it is time.

Whether it's companionship, hooking up, daily greetings, dating, or even opening a room, it all takes time.

Therefore, to see if a man has cheated, first of all, to see if he is with you as before.If a lot of time is not with you, and you don't know where he is, then there is probably a problem.

The second characteristic of cheating men:
The degree and courage of their derailment gradually increased.So when a man is unscrupulous and not afraid of you finding out that he is cheating, it is actually you who are used to it.

Are men naturally lustful?Indeed.But are you born with the skills and guts to cheat?not really.

Especially for some people who didn't have much fun before marriage, cheating after marriage came step by step.

At the beginning, it might just be flirting with others, but you didn't realize it.

Then it was dating other women, eating out occasionally, and going out to play occasionally.At this time, you still don't care.

Later, you really cheated and slept with someone, but you still didn't understand.

A man will find that no matter what he does, as long as he is careful enough, you really can't find it.So he will cheat again and again, and hook up with women outside without telling you.

And when he has completely turned cheating into a habit and a way of life, it will be too late for you to take care of it.

Even if he manages it well once, it is difficult to prevent him from committing another crime.

Therefore, if you want to prevent men from cheating, you must take precautions from the beginning.

Without a start, there is no harm.

The third characteristic of cheating men:
They will agree to divorce other women, but they don't really want to divorce in their hearts.Because what they covet is freshness, not a change of life.

Basically, during the journey of a cheating man to pick up girls, he would promise some people to get a divorce.Sometimes it is a means, sometimes it may be a real promise.

But the vast majority of cheating men, even though they say it, they don't really know how to do it.

Don't believe what a man said that the relationship is not in harmony, and you will have to divorce a long time ago.It turns out that when the wives wanted a divorce, these men were already divorced.

Men who cheat in marriage are generally harmonious in their families.What they want is just a new girl, but never a different life.

For men, picking up girls is a good thing, and sleeping with girls is fun, but if they want to change their life in the past ten or twenty years and enter a completely different way of life, it will kill these men.

They will not change their living habits for the sake of a momentary passion.

The fourth characteristic of cheating men:
The best way to get them back is not fighting, or being gentle, but making them jealous.

For a cheating man, it is useless for you to cry, you often push them out.The more they cry, the more they feel the benefits of women outside.

Cheating man, of course your gentleness is useful, but it's too much of a failure.When a man is playing outside, you have to wait for him bitterly. Waiting for him doesn't count, but you still treat him gently. Why?

So, when your man cheats, the best way is to dress yourself up beautifully, learn something that makes you better, and then go out and go to the group of men.

Let those better men see you and even be attracted to you.You don't necessarily have to do anything, but at least, you can gain complete confidence.

And at this time, the man who cheated will collapse instead, because he always thought you were his safest backup tire.But now, you have become the target of other men's competition.

Then the position is reversed.The girl who cheated your man is worthless, and you are the most valuable.

When that man comes back to you, you have complete control.You can get back together, but you must negotiate conditions.

But it's also okay to leave and find a better man.

Your life is up to you.

(End of this chapter)