understand man in seconds

Chapter 11

the nicest man you can ever meet
Understand men in five seconds and understand men in seconds No. [-]: Spare tire man
Features: Willing to change your life and destiny for your lover.As long as it is good for his lover, he is willing to do anything, even sacrifice himself.

Spare boys are not very good at picking up girls, nor are they passionate. They just use a slightly cooler but comfortable feeling to stay by your side.You can't feel their heat, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you.It's just that the way he loves you is to change himself to be more suitable for you.

Love password: When you meet such a person, don't miss it.

True stories of men in seconds No. [-]: Spare tire man
What is the most suitable drinking water temperature for the human body?Scientists say it's 28 degrees.

Because water at this temperature will not stimulate the peristalsis of the stomach, nor will it cause the constriction of blood vessels, and it is easily absorbed and utilized by the cells of the body.

Therefore, the colder the water is, the better, nor the hotter the better, nor is it as warm as the human body temperature.

Instead, there is a scientific temperature that can be the best for your body.

Sometimes, you don't even know the best temperature.

The same is true for men, the best man is a spare tire man with 28 degrees like this.It's not good to see it, but it really makes your life better.

Here, I will tell the story of a spare tire boy.

First, let me introduce the heroine in this story, a girl named Xiao Li.

Xiaoli is very good-looking. Since she was a child, she has been the kind of beauty who can make peacocks spread their tails when they go to the zoo, and attract wretched uncles when they get on the bus.

Not to mention the beauty of the city and the country, at least since studying, the class flower and school flower have never run away.

Such a good-looking girl, of course there will be many men to pursue. From the senior grades of elementary school, there have been various senior students who have come to pursue her.

Xiaoli's family has a family friend who has a son who is two or three years older than Xiaoli.Because of their familiarity, the two families even joked about making a baby kiss when they were young. Of course, this is not counted.

This boy is called Cheng Qian, because he is older than Xiao Li, and he has known him since childhood, so he often helps Xiao Li fend off those boys, and also takes care of Xiao Li from time to time.

Under such circumstances, it is only natural for Cheng Qian to fall in love with Xiao Li.But the sad thing is that Xiao Li has always regarded Cheng Qian as his elder brother and a good best friend, and he has never even had the slightest thought of being emotional.

Not only that, but Xiaoli will also tell Cheng Qian about her thoughts, enthusiasm, and even love for other boys, and listen to his opinions.

Cheng Qian also had no way to showdown with Xiao Li.Because the two families are too familiar, Cheng Qian is particularly worried. If Xiao Li really knows that he has always liked her, he will definitely have nothing to do with her forever. He can't afford this risk.

So since Xiaoli was in junior high school, Cheng Qian could only hide his love silently, and the only thing he dared to show was to make small changes according to Xiaoli's wish.

For example, in junior high school, Xiao Li liked to watch "Slam Dunk", so Cheng Qian went to learn how to play basketball, and trained without sleep or food, and finally made it to the school team and became a main player.After going to university in the next few years, she used to shine brightly, attracting the pursuit of many younger junior sisters.

But later, Xiaoli didn't know what kind of comics he liked to read, so he liked men in suits and leather shoes instead.Cheng Qian pestered his family and found all kinds of excuses to buy suits and show them to Xiao Li.

It's a pity that it's completely winking for the blind, Xiao Li is still fascinated by people who are like cartoon characters in his mind, and he doesn't care about the people around him.

After entering high school, Xiao Li began to fall in love with handsome hipsters, hip-hop dancers, dead flyers, rap singers, those who were at the forefront of street fashion, Xiao Li saw all kinds of star-studded people when he saw them. .Three years in high school, two boyfriends, all of this type.

Cheng Qianneng couldn't learn such things as Chao, and at that time, he had already gone to college and was far away from Xiaoli, so he couldn't help her to block people.

So Cheng Qian changed his approach, he no longer thought about what Xiaoli likes, after all, she is a little girl, her preferences change too fast, there is no way she can keep up with her!
Cheng Qian thought, Xiao Li likes singing and dancing so much, he must be engaged in the art industry in the future, so Cheng Qian actually forcibly changed his major in college.

He used to major in finance, and the whole family agreed that he had a bright future.After Cheng Qian's brain had a convulsion, he felt that Xiao Li liked art, so he switched to art studies.

This matter made the whole family unable to understand it, causing an uproar, and even Xiao Li's parents advised Cheng Qian not to be so willful.

No matter what, finance is a popular industry. Last but not least, you can get into a bank or something, but what the hell is art?What do you study art?Where do you go to work after graduating from art?neither knows.

Amidst the opposition, only Xiao Li gave Cheng Qian a thumbs up.Anyway, she didn't know what the hell art was, but she thought the word "art" sounded quite lofty, so she supported Cheng Qian's change of major.

With Xiao Li's support, Cheng Qian did it without hesitation.

The first year of finance, and the next three years of art, Cheng Qian spent money and time to learn an unpopular major.The direct result was that after graduation, Cheng Qian could hardly find a job.

His former classmates who studied finance just happened to encounter a good time for the great development of the capital market, so they went to investment banks, various funds, and various banks. Everyone's annual salary and future were decorated with gold rims.

Cheng Qian had no other choice. He wanted to go to university, but the teachers at the university all started with Ph.Art seems to be all-encompassing, but when it comes to application, no major is suitable.

In the end, Cheng Qian could only enter a small website and become a small editor. Fortunately, the category was entertainment, which was also considered to be related to art.

When Xiao Li was going to be admitted to university, it was the time when TV dramas were hot and concerts were bursting, and idol stars from all walks of life appeared one after another.

Xiao Li looks so good-looking, so naturally someone around her urged her to try it too.So Xiaoli began to take various tests in Beijing Film and Television, thinking about being able to make movies, become popular, and become a star in the future.

But these schools are not so easy to test. Xiaoli has never received professional training in music and dance since he was a child, and he can't draw or write. He basically can't get good results in the art test.All she can rely on is to look good.But this kind of good-looking is nothing more than their level, and it probably won't be enough to see in the whole country!
So Xiao Li hit a wall in the exam everywhere, and went to the whole country to try it out, and only then did he know how important he was.

Cheng Qian saw it in his eyes and was anxious in his heart.

He had no choice at first, but fortunately he started working as an entertainment editor, and finally got to know some people from brokerage companies and film and television companies.

Cheng Qian quietly sent Xiao Li's photos and model cards to various companies, but a few of them were really interested, and sent a notice asking Xiao Li to take model photos and appear on some small variety shows.

It was only then that Xiaoli realized that she didn't need to go to those art schools, she could still be famous and enter the industry.

After having these opportunities, Xiao Li threw himself into them crazily, even wanting to give up the university.Now Cheng Qian is really nervous. He has only been an entertainment editor for a few years, and he has seen too many people like Xiao Li who don't study and focus on being models and entertainers who want to be popular.

But among them, how many of them can really be popular?Don't say one percent, maybe not even one ten thousandth.The real big stars of the first and second tiers are all learned from the eight classics.

Just rely on a face, but the face will always be old. How can I do it without paying more and learning more?

The situation at that time was that Xiaoli planned not to apply for volunteering and to concentrate on being an artist. No matter how her family tried to persuade her, she refused to listen to her life and death, and even packed up her small bag and ran away from home.

Cheng Qian, on the other hand, was just picked up by the boss of the website and asked him to take charge of the entire entertainment section and be the chief entertainment editor.People in the industry may know that being an entertainment editor of a website is nothing special, but being an entertainment editor is a figure that every company must flatter, at least monthly gifts and annual gifts will never be less.

At this critical moment, Cheng Qian made another unexpected move for his family—he resigned from the website and his job as entertainment editor-in-chief, and then ran back to Xiao Li, offering to be her agent and assistant.

No matter how ignorant Xiao Li is, he still knows the good and bad of people's hearts.She knew how good Cheng Qian was to her. Those opportunities and contacts were all bought by Cheng Qian with his own face.Now that Cheng Qian managed to get ahead and gave up on being her manager, it would be a waste of all his previous efforts.

It sounds nice to be an agent, but it's better to be a big star.A little girl like Xiao Li who doesn't even count as a debut, what qualifications does she have to be a full-time manager?Don't talk about the future, maybe even the income is hard to come by.

However, Cheng Qian seemed determined to take Xiao Li along this road.His request was also very simple, Xiao Li could not give up on going to university, even if he only read one or three books in Beijing, he had to study.

Cheng Qian will take care of all the chores on the way of performing arts; Cheng Qian will grasp all the opportunities, but Xiaoli must not give up both acting and studying.

Xiaoli has no reason not to agree to this condition.

The key is that the parents on both sides were very opposed to Xiaoli's going this way, but now that Cheng Qian has stepped forward, they have nothing to say.Children themselves don't know what Cheng Qian means, but their parents know it all too well.Xiaoli's parents have long recognized Cheng Qian as his son-in-law. Since the young couple wants to work hard together and the daughter will not give up studying, what else can they say?
Cheng Qian's parents were not reconciled, they felt that their son was in this girl's hands for the rest of his life, but fortunately they had watched Xiao Li grow up, and he knew the basics, so they just sighed and couldn't help it.

But the problem is that almost everyone knows what Cheng Qian thinks, and everyone agrees with the relationship between Cheng Qian and Xiao Li.

Xiao Li herself didn't know, or rather, she didn't want to know at all.

That's right, she did regard Cheng Qian as her closest family member and favorite brother, and she didn't even hide from him when sleeping, bathing, or changing clothes, but Xiao Li really had no intention of falling in love.

Not only did he have no intention of falling in love, it seemed that just to make Cheng Qian give up, Xiao Li basically never broke up with her boyfriend.

These men include Xiaoli's classmates, models, actors, and directors they know outside, and some businessmen and wealthy second generations.

Xiao Li really didn't date anyone for money, but he was good-looking, and in this circle, he basically knew such a group of people.

Cheng Qian has nothing to do, he really has nothing to do.

Naturally, he was very sad, especially when he had to pick up Xiaoli to go on a date.Sometimes when Xiaoli was dumped by a man, he would cry all night with her.

But Cheng Qian couldn't do without it!

Over the past ten years, he has been with Xiao Li almost every day, and he has been walking around Xiao Li.

The focus of his life, the meaning of life, is Xiao Li.The love of his life was given to this girl.

Therefore, he would rather send the girl he loves to another man's apartment with his own hands, than never see her again from now on.

It is impossible for those who have never truly loved to understand this kind of inner torture.

So many years in a flash.

Xiaoli did not become famous.It took Cheng Qian a few years to get acquainted with a lot of people in this circle, and helped Xiaoli find quite a few opportunities, including TV dramas, movies, singing, and hosting.

Basically, I found all the opportunities I could find, and all the plays that should be performed.But it's not that simple for a person to become popular.

In the end, it was nothing more than becoming acquainted in the circle, but outside the circle, everyone still didn't know who Xiao Li was.

For a girl like her, when she is 27 or [-] years old, if she can't get along, the routine is to find a rich man to marry, and then go home to be a wealthy wife. When she is happy, she will come out to film some movies and take on some jobs.

Xiao Li also faced such a choice.After all, she has been working hard for a long time, and she also understands the hardships of this industry, but she has not seen her own prospects for many years, and she finally understands that in fact, she really has no way to become a big star.

Fortunately, in the past few years, there are still some beautiful scenes and beautiful skins, so it is definitely not too difficult for Xiao Li to get married.

She let out the news that she planned to get married before the end of the year, and a group of candidates rushed over immediately.

Any circle will seriously transform people, especially young girls, who have experienced so much feasting and feasting, and seen so many human relationships, people will become very realistic.

Among that group of people, of course there are handsome, powerful, rich, and richer than rich.Among this group of people, Xiao Li chose the richest one.

A certain super boss of electrical equipment, whose wealth is calculated in billions, has been divorced twice, and is 50 years old this year.

Xiaoli's selection criteria are also very simple. She knows that her beauty is time-sensitive. Since she can't go further on the road of stardom, let her future have no worries!
Afterwards things were logical, Xiao Li and the big boss let alone fell in love, they just talked about the marriage and both parties finished seeing their parents.Xiaoli's parents would naturally be angry, but the sincerity and strength shown by the big boss are also shocking.

In this matter, the best news is that this rich boss really likes Xiaoli, so it should allow her to live a peaceful and prosperous life.

Xiao Li finally had a result, and everyone in the circle was very optimistic about this result, the girls were so envious that they could only drool.

But to Cheng Qian, it was like a gloomy rainy season.After he accompanied Xiao Li to discuss the marriage with the big guy, he finally made a decision. He wrote a letter to Xiao Li, and then left.

In this long letter, Cheng Qian wrote about his mental journey for so many years, starting from high school, how he learned basketball for Xiaoli, how he learned to wear a suit later, why he changed his major in university, and why he went to school later. When he was an entertainment editor, why did he give up his position as editor-in-chief to become Xiao Li's manager, and why did he help Xiao Li shelter from the wind and rain all these years.

And the answer to all these questions is because Cheng Qian hopes that he can make Xiaoli better and let her live the happy life she wants most.

This is because of love, not because of possession.Cheng Qian said that now Xiaoli already has the best home, no matter what he does or changes in himself, it will not change Xiaoli's life.

So, it will be time for him to leave.

If it is said that Cheng Qian's life for more than ten years was entirely for Xiao Li, and his life changes were all for Xiao Li, then, when he can no longer do anything, he can leave and watch Xiao Li continue his life. happiness.

And he should have quietly disappeared.

After leaving this letter, Cheng Qian left, and no one saw him again for a year and a half.

Identify men in 5 minutes and understand men in seconds No. [-]: Spare tire man
Here, we want to talk about what is a spare tire boy.

As I said before, the temperature of water that is most suitable for the human body to drink is 28 degrees.Because water at this temperature is the easiest to be absorbed and utilized by the body, and it is the best for people.

Of course, the water is not naturally 28 degrees. It is waiting and changing, and it will be cooled slowly before people can drink it.

This is the case with spare tire boys. They may not be suitable for this woman naturally, but he is willing to change for her.

When is a man most valuable?Of course, he is willing to make sacrifices for love and make himself a different kind of person!
Just like Cheng Qian.

Of course, from our point of view, Cheng Qian is very stupid, almost completely abandoning his life, just for a girl who doesn't love him that much.I believe that Xiaoli's every love is a kind of masochism for Cheng Qian.

But there is no doubt that meeting such a man is the luck of every woman in her life.

Because they don't pay attention to their own lives, they just treat themselves as a piece of plasticine or a cup of hot water.

The spare tire man cares about the needs of his lover.When the other party needs this, that kind of man will always become like this appropriately, and then appear.

The happiest girl will enjoy such tight-fitting tenderness.

A spare boy may not be very good at picking up girls, and he may not be very popular, because a particularly popular man will always be spoiled by other women.

Such an ordinary man is willing to work hard for love, trying to make himself better or worse.Their ultimate goal is not to make themselves more dazzling, but to allow girls to use them better.

This point is cruel and sad to say, but it is reality.

This level of love is for the other party to make good use of it.They even feel that as long as they can be used by others, it is a kind of victory and satisfaction.

In fact, there are not only men with 28 degrees, but also women.Sometimes they don't even count as spare tires, and they don't have any hope in their hearts. They just want to pay for each other and change for love.

I am actually very opposed to girls and men becoming such 28 degrees.Although it will be our luck to meet such a person.

If you really turn into a spare woman or a man without hesitation, and really want to be a glass of water that the other party can absorb and use, then I must warn you in advance that it must be worth it.Because this kind of giving is not a normal love giving.

When we fall in love normally, we spend time, money, and emotions. If we break up, we will be very sad and our youth will be wasted, but at least, you still have the possibility to continue next time.

But what about spare tire men and women?They are actually using their lives to make a hopeless gamble.

They have almost no possibility of winning. They just pay and give and then watch others get better and better and go further and further.

On the day of the ending, the people they love must have a happy ending, but what about the spare tire men and women?Their lives have been completely changed, and they can never go back.

So the most depressing thing about this matter is that life is irreversible.When you give up your life for this without hesitation, it is almost impossible to pick it up in the future. Even if you put in dozens of times of effort, it will be difficult to get back on track.

Because of this, I would like to advise all spare tire men and women, you must strive for a good result, a satisfactory result.

You may not know that what you have paid is impossible to repeat and reverse in this whole life.The sacrifice you make is not a decision, not a job, but giving up on yourself.

Originally you could be a star, or at worst a planet.And when you give up the way you used to go to help others, you become a satellite, which will only revolve around others, and will never have your own trajectory.

With such efforts, shouldn't there be good results?
If you can't get something in return, it's not worth it.

If it's not worth it, don't do it.

Sometimes love doesn't need to be reciprocated.But your life needs rewards!

So, when you want to be such a person, please think clearly.

And when you meet such a spare tire man and woman, please cherish it.

Finally, the good news for everyone is that Xiaoli in the article did not marry a local tyrant.After reading the letter, she returned to her hometown, washed off her makeup, and waited quietly for Cheng Qian for a year and a half.

After Cheng Qian came back from traveling around the country, he realized that his past efforts had finally paid off.

They were soon married.

Married and had a son.

(End of this chapter)