understand man in seconds

Chapter 1 The Prodigal Son
The prodigal son dies quickly

One of the men who can understand a man in five seconds: the prodigal son

Features: The three skills of the prodigal son to pick up girls are heart-warming, sincerity and confession.They are a group whose ultimate goal is to pick up girls and catch girls.Prodigal sons don't stop for a girl, they just keep getting girls and throwing girls for fun.

The biggest skill of prodigal sons is to be able to pretend. They pretend to be good people, bad people, rich people, and poor people. They will pretend to be whatever they want to attract girls.

Girls are easily attracted to prodigal sons, because they are always considerate and warm, always handsome and charming, and always full of personal charm.

But you have to understand that these are all disguises of prodigal sons and girls.Their appearance is resplendent and resplendent, but their hearts are a bundle of straw.You cannot touch the heart of the prodigal son, because they have no heart.

Love code: All prodigal sons are onions, you think you can find his heart after peeling off the layers.It's a pity that you will never find Onion's heart, and you will only shed tears for Onion.

The prodigal son is a mirage on the road of love, it looks so beautiful, but it will never reach it.

One of the real stories of men who can be understood in seconds: the prodigal son

Many girls will almost inevitably meet a kind of man, that is the prodigal son.

According to our statistics, two-thirds of the girls have been hurt by prodigal sons.

I made an analogy before, everyone is an independent small house, and normal good men and good women, because they don’t know how to pursue the opposite sex, so they stay in their own houses, waiting for others to take the initiative to knock on the door .

And those who will really knock on the door one by one are those prodigal sons in love, because they have dated many girls, so they have enough experience and confidence.

Therefore, those who can take the initiative to pursue you are generally experienced.Among them, prodigal sons accounted for the majority.

In our long-term case collection process, we found that prodigal sons have a relatively common phenomenon of eating more and occupying more—30% of prodigal sons own more than 70% of girls.And the remaining 70% of good men have become receivers.

In this chapter, we will talk about the matter of the prodigal son.

The hero in this story, Luan Ping, is a university teacher, taller and teaches acting, so he is very popular with girls in the university.

Luan Ping was in an art school, so there was no shortage of beauties in the school.Moreover, Luan Ping does not get married after the age of thirty, so he has no moral burden to be single, and he can fall in love with any girl.

In the previous book, I said that if a man wants to sleep with a girl, there are only a few methods——

Either use power, or use money, or use appearance, or use love.

Luan Ping is an ordinary university lecturer. He has no power, and financial resources are not enough. He has a little appearance, but he is not the type that makes people fascinated. At most, he has the taste of a mature uncle.

Therefore, the most important method for him to pick up girls and hunt for beauty is to fall in love.

Falling in love is a very normal thing, but why is it said that Luan Ping is a prodigal son?Because he has never been in a relationship for more than half a year, and he almost never has a relationship with more than one girl.

In other words, he will fall in love with several people at the same time, and each of them will not exceed half a year.This is not so much about falling in love, it is better to say that it is hunting for beauty in the way of falling in love.

Luan Ping's sex-hunting targets are basically his students, TV hosts, or young actors in the film crew, each of them is super glamorous and good-looking.

For such a high quality case, the quantity is not small at all.It is said that Luan Ping has dated more than forty girls, and the number of girls he has slept with is probably in the three digits.

Once when Luan Ping was drunk, he bragged to his brothers, saying that there was no girl he couldn't date, and as long as he was willing to do it, he would definitely be able to deal with her.

If he said this kind of thing, his brother would definitely not be convinced, so he specially designated a few good-looking people in the circle who were notoriously hard to chase for him to pick up.

Unexpectedly, in just a few months, he actually got all of these goals.All the brothers admired this jaw-dropping fact, and finally had to learn how to pick up girls from him.

Luan Ping is a prodigal son, and what exactly is the prodigal son's way of picking up girls?

Be professional.

If you regard picking up girls as a matter of simply falling in love, then you can do whatever you want; if you regard chasing girls as a matter of getting married for a lifetime, then you will give your all.

As Luan Ping, as a prodigal son, picking up girls is his specialty, and it is also something he has carefully studied. Therefore, he regards picking up girls as a professional scientific research project.

Luan Ping's first research conclusion is that every woman is different. When you want to date a woman, you must respect her, know her, and understand her.

You see, this conclusion sounds very good, but this kind of respect, understanding and understanding is actually just for picking up girls, not for falling in love with each other, which is very nonsensical.

But Luan Ping has tried and tested repeatedly, and the success rate is extremely high.

Because whenever he wants to pick up a girl, he will always first understand the other person's needs.

Of course, every woman's needs are different.

Some girls want to get married, so Luan Ping pretends to be a reliable man who wants to get married to approach them.

Some girls like a rich life, so Luan Ping pretends to be very rich, tall, rich and handsome to get close to them.

Some girls want to succeed in their careers and become popular, so Luan Ping approached them as consultants, screenwriters, and assistant directors of certain crews.

Some girls just lack love, so Luan Ping approaches them as a gentle man who cares about each other.

Why do ordinary boys always fail to pick up girls?Just because they just want to be themselves, and only be themselves.In the end, only girls who like them can accept it, and most girls don't like them.

The prodigal sons are different. Their goal is very clear, that is to catch up with the girl. For this purpose, they can make any changes.

So like Luan Ping, first understand the girl, get to know the girl, know the needs of the other party, and then pretend to be the person the other party needs.

This is of course a liar, of course it is also a scam, but it will make every girl feel very comfortable and caring.

This is the first trick of the prodigal son to pick up girls: to be a liar, but a warm liar.

For example, when Luan Ping was pursuing a host, he knew that the host was worried about being on a certain show, so he came up with various methods to give her advice as a teacher or a high-end person in the industry, and help her go through various channels , a look that can help her get it done.Although it was not settled due to various reasons in the end, the professionalism and strength he showed completely moved the host, and made the girl fall in love with him wholeheartedly.

This is to seduce people with the career the girl wants.

In another example, Luan Ping pursued an investment consultant of a certain bank.Yes, female investment advisors in the financial world tend to look good these days.What Luan Ping is after is a super beautiful woman. The clients in his hands are all tens of millions of masters. There is no shortage of money. It is estimated that this girl is worth tens of millions of dollars.

Such a girl, who works among rich people, will of course have unclear relationships with rich people, and there are many men.She is not short of money, not short of men, but really short of marriage.

That's right, if she wanted to make money, she had to stay in the circle of the rich.But in this circle, no one really married her.And when the girl is getting older, especially when she is about to turn 28, not only her family members are anxious, but she herself is also very anxious.So the girl urgently needs someone to marry her now.

Luan Ping appeared just right.He first pretended to be a rich man. Of course, it was impossible to really invest money. After all, his net worth didn't even have a fraction of what others invested, but it didn't prevent him from entering and leaving high-end places and spending lavishly.Spending money to pretend to be rich, in fact, it didn't cost much.

What's more, Luan Ping made it clear from the very beginning that he was single and that he pursued girls with the aim of getting married.This is a bit like what we call a married man.From the very beginning, he came up with all kinds of rhetoric about getting married and having children, which fascinated the girl.

When the girl committed herself to him and really thought about getting married and starting a family, Luan Ping quickly withdrew again.Anyway, his goal is to pick up girls.In the end, the girl suddenly discovered that this man had not invested in investment, married or not married, and had just tricked her into sleeping with him.

The second skill of the prodigal son in picking up girls is called sincerity.

Are those who go to nightclubs and bars, pick up girls everywhere, and talk glibly?It's okay, but it's the lowest rank of the prodigal son.

The high-ranking prodigal sons are all top-notch girls, and they don't even bother to be hooked up in nightclubs. They are extremely wary of slippery people.

Therefore, a high-ranking prodigal like Luan Ping has skills in picking up girls, and one of his important skills is sincerity.

For example, he met a beautiful woman who came back from studying in a top-ranked university abroad.If someone else picks up a girl, they must try their best to brag about what is good about them, and they are completely worthy of each other.

But Luan Ping was just the opposite. First of all, he was self-deprecating, and he clearly said that his biggest regret was not studying abroad, not having a high academic background, and not having enough culture.

After saying these words, the other party not only felt the pleasure of being flattered, but also felt that Luan Ping was very sincere.

After self-criticism is over and a sincere position is established, then start to say that you are good, and your credibility will be much higher.

Luan Ping summed up several methods to make himself appear sincere, for example, when speaking, he should look at the other person, and he should not speak too fast, but speak slowly and sincerely.

For another example, you must be restrained when you praise others, praise just right and not unscrupulous, make less jokes, speak more truth and less false.

And the most important thing is, when others are talking, you should listen more and stop interrupting. Only when you listen to others carefully, pretend to think for a long time and then reply, can you speak with enough power and sincerity .

Luan Ping practiced to the later stage, no matter what he said, even if he said he wanted to break up with others, others would slowly hear his sincerity.So he is like a big fool in a sketch, after cheating others, there are still people saying thank you to him.

Luan Ping's masterpiece is that after breaking up with several girls, those ex-girlfriends didn't hate him at all, but instead regarded him as a good person and a good memory, and some even wanted to continue to sleep with him.

The third skill of the prodigal son to pick up girls is called confession.

I know a female student from Luan Ping who studies acting and looks very sweet.Once, she came to me and asked me, if she met a man who was very caring, but he regretted it very much now and wanted to reform, should she help him and pull him out of the pit.

My first reaction was to ask, are you dating Luan Ping?

The conclusion is yes.

At that time, I advised this girl, don't believe any confession of a prodigal son, this is just a skill for them to pick up girls.

But the girl didn't believe it, and it turned out that within three months of their dating, Luan Ping used the same method to hook up with her best friend.In the end, the relationship failed and the friendship was broken. The girl was sad for at least two years.

Like this kind of thing where he asks for help in the pit, should I give him a hand, the final result is almost bound to be that you are dragged into the pit by him, and then he leaves, leaving you crying in the pit alone.

Most of the time, the prodigal son's reputation in a certain circle is already very bad. Almost all the girls know that he is not a good person. He has cheated on many women and slept on many people's beds, so no one is willing to let him succeed.

The way the prodigal son coped was, with the technique of confession.

To the girl he wanted to pursue, he completely admitted that his previous self was trash, a villain, and it was wrong.Although he has experienced so many women, his heart is still empty, and he has not found the woman who can fill his heart.

But in this world, everyone just passed by him, and they were unwilling to stop and give him a hand.

Therefore, he is the lonely prince in this world, sitting on the side of the road, watching many people pass by, but still lonely.

When the prodigal son finished this paragraph, he looked at the girl with sincere eyes, and said that he has now repented for everything he did before, and he is now at the bottom of the abyss, and he just wants someone to help him, and this person, It was the girl he would protect very hard all his life.

If you were that girl, would you be impressed?
Do you also think that he is so pitiful, do you want to give him a hand and take him out of the abyss?
If you also have such thoughts, then sorry, you are dead too.

Identify a man in 5 minutes and understand one of the men in seconds: the prodigal son

Finally, let’s talk about whether the prodigal son will get better.

There is an old saying in China that the prodigal son turns his head back and does not change his gold. It refers to the bad people in the past. As long as they change their minds, they are very valuable and worth cherishing.

Nowadays, many girls like to use this kind of words to trick the men around them, adding excuses for the prodigal son to turn around.

Luan Ping also had times when the prodigal son turned around.

I have said in several books before that no matter how young and vigorous prodigal sons are, there will be times when they are tired from playing, and when they are tired from playing, they will think about stability, starting a family, and getting married.

At that point and moment, the thought is real, not deceitful.

After playing for many years, Luan Ping finally got tired of playing.He found a colleague from his university, a girl who taught broadcasting, and got married.

At the beginning, the young couple had a really good life.

Luan Ping changed his usual habits, never picked up girls, never went out to play, and always came home on time at night.No matter who you meet for entertainment, you will bring your wife with you.

In such two years, life has been extremely stable.Everyone envied Luan Ping's wife, thinking that she really had the means and luck to turn the prodigal son back.

And Luan Ping's performance at that time was really worthy of the saying "the prodigal son will never change his money".

But in the third year, everything changed.

Luan Ping's wife felt that her life was stable now and her husband had improved, so she decided to have a baby.When she was pregnant, it was not convenient to go in and out, and it was impossible to follow Luan Ping all the time.

Luan Ping quickly reverted to his old ways.

He started to pick up girls again, started going to nightclubs again, and even put his hand into his wife's class without any scruples to seduce the students who just entered the school.

This incident became so big that Luan Ping was almost expelled from school.In the end, he could only return home obediently, taking care of his wife and children while taking care of some private work, as if the prodigal son had turned his head again.

But the child was not yet three years old, and Luan Ping relapsed into cheating, flirting outside.

After repeating this cycle for several times, Luan Ping's wife finally understood what it means for a prodigal son to return without giving money.

At the moment when you look back, it is indeed gold.But after that moment, people can still wave back.

I've been saying that the prodigal son is a creature of periodic escapades.Of course they will turn back and stabilize, but they will only be effective during that stable period.

When they get tired of the stability, they will go off the rails again very quickly, and the intensity and intensity will not be worse than before.

If you want to accept the return of a prodigal son, then please also prepare for him to fly away in the future.The prodigal son is like waves, he will go back, but he is accumulating more strength to beat forward!
If you want to keep the waves, you will only be beaten to death in the sand.

(End of this chapter)