Mrs. Lu is a sensation in the city every day

Chapter 355 355. Can't Explain
But there is no so-called solution, the thing is like this, it makes people feel that there is no way to say anything, it makes people feel that it is a bit of a headache, and they don't know what to explain, and it is the same in their own hearts.

In the past, when I was with this Lili, I actually knew that this Lili's talent was not very high, but because I knew it was a genetic problem, maybe it was in the genes of myself and my husband. Part of it is not very good, it just happened to be inherited by my daughter, but I admit that my daughter is good-looking. When I was a child, I also saved a lot of photos of my daughter in my mobile phone, because it is indeed good-looking, even now I have too.

Because I know that my daughter is actually a very independent person. When I was young, I and my husband treated this daughter so badly, but for my daughter, I and my husband I also needed their support. At that time, what I was most angry with was that I sometimes said that my daughter was not disapproving, but that I was worried that I was always sure that she didn't look good.

Because the vanity of children is actually much greater than that of adults. Sometimes it is just a kind of curiosity, but this is not good. When I said it, I really hope that children can stop it. I always think that as long as I look good, I am fine. It’s not right, I don’t need to worry about other things, this is wrong, so I talked about my child, I just want to be able to feel at ease even if the child looks good in the future, but that day I don’t know why suddenly When I was at work, I wanted to go home.

When I came home, I happened to meet my husband at this time, who is now my ex-husband, who was giving lectures to Lili, because my husband is an excellent teacher. I felt that this was actually nothing, and I was very happy. , because I feel that my husband seems to have understood how to face his daughter, but it sounds wrong to me. He said that his daughter is not talented, even if he works hard.

This sentence is actually really hurtful even if it is true, but if other people hear it, they will hate you. Now standing in front of you is your daughter, a person who needs to be cared for by you is Being said like this, although I understand whether my daughter's talent is indeed very high, but what I don't understand is that it is like this, how can you say such things in front of your own daughter? This is not right.

I told my ex-husband about this issue, but that person at that time didn't know that he was wrong, he just felt that he was just telling the truth, and as a child, he had to learn to accept the truth told by others Otherwise, there is no way for a person to grow up. This is what he said, let himself understand, it is to let a person who is really flawed be able to understand what others say, or to be able to really learn to admit mistakes sometimes. possible things.

It is that I actually understand in my heart that this person is not a person who is really emotionless, but if you can't even show the basic feelings of a person, it is actually really difficult to get along with others. In the past, I knew it because I knew This matter will make the child stay at the grandparents' house, thinking that sometimes this person really does not know how others feel about this matter, so he will talk about a lot of hurtful topics, that is, he knows when he is there. it is good.

If I don’t know when I’m not around, I can’t even imagine what this person said. I just feel that I don’t know how to explain it. In my eyes, I actually don’t like this kind of thing. Zhi Zhi’s daughter is not very smart, and I actually don’t like it, but I don’t want my daughter to be criticized by my husband all the time. Sometimes your words are not so-called or scolding, but for children harm.

You want to avoid these injuries, but sometimes you can’t avoid them. It’s just for your children to be happier. After all, you have caused a lot of harm to your children. It’s better to send them to the grandparents’ home, but no. What I thought of was that because I didn't explain it to the child, after going to the grandparents' house, the child already thought that he didn't want her anymore, and even if he went to pick her up later, he didn't come back.

Naturally, I feel uncomfortable in my heart, but there is nothing I can do, that is, I understand that I must respect the child's own choice, that is, if the child wants to come back, I will naturally go to pick him up, but the child does not want to come back now. There is no way, sometimes I feel really uncomfortable in my heart, and I can't express that kind of discomfort. After all, everything is my own business, and I can't say it because of this person's illness.

There are a lot of problems that I just can’t tell others about this, because as long as I tell it, I will feel sad. In fact, at that time, I saw my child as happy as when he was with his grandparents. I really can't tell whether it's happiness or discomfort, because I always feel that I am the source of this child's unhappiness, as if the child is happy as long as he doesn't follow me, and I discovered that kind of unstoppable happiness.

But this is what makes people feel uncomfortable, but they don’t understand their own discomfort. It’s because I have said it many times, and there will be no so-called cordial feelings between me and my child in the future, because the child already feels in his heart. My parents didn't like how I felt, so they let me live with my grandparents, because the child would always blame me, but at that time people didn't understand my own affairs or my own discomfort, so they just I can only feel suffocated.

I actually understand that my problem has always existed, because it has always existed. Sometimes I actually hope that this person can reply to me once. Later, the only time I found that this person’s emotions are different is this. When Lili called back, she heard that Lili didn't call her father when she opened her mouth. At that moment, her face changed when she saw this person, but she didn't dare to say anything, because she had never taken care of the child.

Because of this reason, even if you are unhappy, you have to endure it, and the state of this person I saw this time is actually even more pitiful, because I can see from him that it is that kind of regret, and maybe I didn’t think that it was my own things that would cause the current situation. This kind of regret will make myself sometimes unable to explain.

(End of this chapter)