Mrs. Lu is a sensation in the city every day

Chapter 353 353. State

In my life, I have always known that some things are embarrassing. I and Lili have realized that now I have always known that it is Lili's character, because I knew it before because it was a child. In fact, it is a personality that affects her growing up. Lili has always been a very strong person, but when she was strong, sometimes she did not have any self-confidence. In the past, she was obviously a very talented person who believed in other people's words.

It’s just that most of the time Lili’s lack of self-confidence comes from her parents, because when she was a child, her parents said that you are not good at this, and you are not good at that, how could you be such a child with such a tone It makes people wonder what to say. In fact, parents are the biggest source of children's self-confidence. If parents talk about children like this, in fact, children's original self-confidence is almost gone. This is why Lili is not confident. The source of the reason.

Later, when I became Lili’s manager, the most important thing was to tell this person that you are capable, that you are really capable. In the past, there were many opportunities for interviews. In fact, at the beginning, I I think it’s very easy to set up this Lili, but for Lili, she just feels that she is not suitable, and sometimes there are many opportunities, you have to try to determine whether you can do it, and you must believe in yourself at this time is the most important.

In the past, I didn’t know that I thought Lili was very cautious. In fact, I still listened to Lili’s own ideas, but later I realized that this person did not have self-confidence. When many problems came, the first sentence was I might not be able to do this, I won't, I can't do it, in fact, Gu Molian was angry at the beginning, in fact, my parents didn't affirm me, and I was always told when I was a child, always Which category is not favored, but I never say that I can't do it.

Because what I need is to constantly affirm myself, because others deny you, it is other people's business, it has nothing to do with yourself, if you don't believe in yourself, it is actually the biggest problem in your life, and then let people I feel that I don’t know how to explain it. In fact, when I faced Lili at the beginning, I didn’t know what to say about this problem, because I didn’t know where the root of the problem was. It can only be a compliment, which means that Lili is very good.

I thought that as long as it is your compliments, there will be more people. In fact, people have a habit, that is, they will think that they are really good people. As long as your compliments are sincere, everyone will believe them. It is because of this reason that when I praise a lot, I can't be serious when I praise it. In fact, I did a good job, but when this is not something worthy of praise, I will praise it. I think this Lili is awesome. Maybe it was because my praise was indeed very good, and Lili later on was fine.

That is, most of the time, it is actually a state of self-confidence, and sometimes when you are not confident, it is actually a time when this thing may be true and there is a deviation, and the rest is really a state of serious self-confidence. What I hope is that during Lili's career, she has always been confident, because as long as you are confident, in fact, you can use your own ideas to solve many things for many people.

Because in this case, most of the time, other people's words can't hurt your feelings at all, because people who are confident in themselves rarely think that because of other people's words, they are just a little different, and most of the time, what they need is you all the time. They are all showing your own feelings, that is, as long as you show your own feelings, and then let others understand that it is useless to attack you as a person, you have always been confident, in fact, it is the best weapon, that's all.

This is Lili, in fact, most of the time, she has always been in a state of being liked by people out of need. When I was with this Lili, I was always very good to this Lili. That’s a lot of things. As long as Lili doesn't want to go, then I will not go, I hope Lili can understand that many people love her, as long as this feeling exists in my heart all the time, I can Knowing that Lili will always believe in herself is also good for this acting.

Because what a good actor needs to do is to make himself believe in himself in time, and then believe that he is this person. This sense of belief comes from his own self-confidence. In fact, sometimes people who are not confident will always Doubting yourself for this role is shaping. In fact, when you doubt yourself, it is difficult for others to enter the play. This is very bad. If you want to play a role well, you need to be confident that you are this People, in fact, Lili is doing a very good job here.

He has always been the one who enters the show the fastest among all the people, and in a state of confidence, every shot is good-looking, so fans have always said that when he is acting, even when he is crying. I think your lens sense is the best, that is, you can experience the feeling of sadness from the eyes of this person, but when you look at this face, you feel that this person is really good-looking.

In fact, Lili has always been such a person who is easy to be amazed by. Gu Molian had already felt it before, thinking that the sense of this lens was born with that feeling, that is, the lens that others may not be able to control. It's a simple thing for this person, maybe it's just a simple look back at Gu Molian, as long as he handed it over to Lili when he came, he actually didn't worry about it, and thought it was really okay.

It’s just that I have always felt that Lili has always been excellent. I thought that when I was a child, I felt that I was not good enough. At the beginning, when I saw Lili, I knew that this person was not confident, because I never dared to follow her. To speak by herself means to speak on her own initiative, in fact, Lili also seems to be retreating all the time.

I actually understand that Lili has never been told that your strengths are your advantages. In the past, my parents basically said that this is not used to this, and this is not good. This is the state. In fact, when I meet new people, I see that it is possible. When meeting someone who is better than me, the feeling of inferiority rushes up in an instant, and that's why I can't control the state.

(End of this chapter)