Use a little mind reading every day
Chapter 4
Chapter 4
For an adult, the body shape is basically less likely to change, and it is indeed a convenient way to infer a person's psychological personality and other information from a person's body shape.For a person who doesn't have much dealings with you and you have no other way to get his relevant information, it at least gives you a general picture of a person.As for what this person is like, it depends on your first-hand information after contacting him.
In daily life, people often try to connect people's appearance and signs with their personality.For example, a plump body is often regarded as having an open-minded and cheerful personality; filial eyes, low eyebrows and short eyebrows are regarded as "thief appearances" and suspected of evil intentions; full heavens and big earlobes are regarded as rich in wisdom; With tall sword eyebrows, broad arms and round waist, they are regarded as heroic.In short, people are used to looking for correspondence between appearance, physique and personality, so that appearance and physique are regarded as personality signs and factors that determine personality.This attempt to simplify the complex is made possible by scientists.
In the 20s, German psychiatrist Krechmeer first connected body shape with personality psychology and conducted systematic research.He identified four basic body types: chunky, lanky, muscular, and dysplastic.He pointed out that people with different body types have different personalities and psychology, and found that people with different body types are susceptible to different diseases. His conclusions are roughly as follows:
The short and fat type, its temperament is manic, has an outgoing personality, is prone to manic depression, high blood pressure, high blood sugar, etc., and its psychological characteristics are acute and rapid.
Slender type, with split temperament, introverted, obedient, timid and shy, paranoid, prone to schizophrenia, and tends to be closed and self-conscious.
The strong type has a sticky temperament and impulsive behavior. The vast majority of epilepsy patients belong to this type, with mental instability and disorder.
Dysplasia, depressive temperament, weak personality, extremely closed psychology, isolated from the world.
In the 20s, the American doctor Sheldon inherited and developed Krechmere's theory.He distinguishes 40 body types:
Endoderm type (soft, plump, well-developed digestive organs).
Mesomorph (muscled, strong and powerful).
Ectomorphic (lanky, frail, nervous system).
From this, he distinguished 3 personality types:
People who are dominated by the endoderm type are "visceral dominant type", characterized by leisure, good food, slow behavior, social love, magnanimity, and their psychological characteristics are peaceful and understanding.
The mesoderm-dominated people are "physical tension type", which is characterized by self-confidence, boldness, robustness, energy, and adventurous impulse, and the psychological characteristics are willful and self-willed.
The ectodermal type is dominated by the "brain nervous type", which is characterized by introversion, restraint, timidity, social reluctance, enthusiasm and responsibility for work, love of art, and psychological characteristics of cowardice and stability.
It should be said that the theory of body shape has certain value as a concise auxiliary means to understand other people's personality psychology.But it associates complex personality and psychology with simple and obvious body shape, which is suspected of being too simplistic. Therefore, we should be careful about its negative effects in practical application, and avoid stereotyping or even prejudice because of judging people by their appearance.
Clothes reflect socialization
From an early age, we find clothes to be very attractive.During the holidays, we will especially look forward to their appearance.We especially love their vibrant colors and the assortment of logos, belts and embellishments.When we were in school, we learned through school uniforms that everyone wears the same clothes, which means we all belong to this group.When we get older, when we want to show that we are an independent individual different from others, and that we are the only one in the world, we try our best not to wear school uniforms, but to wear our own clothes, sometimes uniforms or uniforms designed by ourselves. clothing.It is at this time that we declare to ourselves and to the world through our clothes that I want to be myself.Our self-awareness is awakened.When we are older, we understand that clothes are also gendered, which helps us establish and consolidate social gender awareness.There are also many people who regard good dress as a manifestation of politeness and education.
Everyone's height is different, so the clothes that suit everyone are also different.So sometimes the choice of clothes should also take into account the advantages and disadvantages of your body.If you also consider that clothes should appropriately reflect personal style and suit the occasion, then the knowledge of dressing is even greater.Clothes are not only your face, but also a part of your psychological self-image.Generally speaking, the clothes a person likes to wear reflect his ideal self, a yearning state of life.So through a person's clothing and preferences, we can discover many little secrets that belong to him.
The identity of self-image is closely related to human dignity and pride.That is to say, when the clothes one wears reflect the ideal self, one will feel proud and dignified, the mind will be more balanced and stable, and one will behave more confidently in the world.The research results of Dr. Binney, a British psychologist, also proved that satisfactory clothes can relax people's nerves and give people a feeling of self-confidence and comfort.Therefore, even if a person does not understand the psychological factors of dressing, he will subconsciously choose clothes that suit him or make him comfortable according to his emotions.For example, if a person is nervous or in a bad mood that day, he is likely to give up those tight-fitting clothes made of hard materials and choose those soft and comfortable clothes made of cotton or wool.At the same time, if a person chooses brighter colors as clothing, it also shows that his mood at this time is bright and full of vitality, or he hopes to achieve this effect through clothing.
Generally speaking, clothes can not only reflect a person's emotions, but also reflect a person's family background, personal habits and degree of socialization.What is socialization?This is a sociological term. It refers to the degree to which a person acquires the habits and rules of this society during the process of growing up. It's called socialization.So from a person's clothes, we can see how much he understands the social activities he participates in.In a narrow sense, we can see whether a person is professional or not by his professional attire.
We can look at a person's clothes from the following aspects: collocation, color, texture, logo, and cleanliness.In the end, we also need to look at the state of a person wearing clothes, whether he is comfortable or not.That is what we are talking about is he wearing clothes or clothes wearing him.
I don't know if you have noticed that fashion people never simply wear clothes.Their favorite way to dress is to mix and match and wear layers.But there are also etiquette experts who tell us that it is best not to have more than 3 to 4 colors on a person.This advice and the demonstrations of the models may leave you scratching your head.You ask yourself who should you listen to?In fact, if you are confident, you might as well wear all the colors on your body, even if it is a contrasting color, you will have a very special feeling of dressing.Of course, if you are not so confident, you might as well follow the requirements of professional dress, with a few simple colors, as long as it reflects the professional and professional feeling.Okay, a little digression, let's go back to our topic of seeing people through clothes.
In fact, whether it’s mix-and-match or multi-layered, we want to emphasize only one point: usually a person who can wear this way has good financial strength and good taste in dressing; Complicated and usually requires a certain amount of time and effort.This is also one of the reasons why the average working class is reluctant to try to wear it-because there is not so much time and energy to waste.Perhaps more importantly, he doesn't think he has anyone around who appreciates dressing like this.From such small details, you can also have a small glimpse of his living and working environment and the people around him.As long as you are careful enough and can reasonably think about it.
We have already talked about the color before. In fact, through the color of the clothes, we can not only understand a person's mood and state, but more importantly, we can understand a person's identity and background.Usually a person who is engaged in literature and art professions will use bolder and richer colors. In a popular saying, they are more daring to wear.And a person in a bank office tends to wear uniforms or professional suits.This color will be more conservative.People with higher status tend to choose relatively low-key dark colors, such as navy blue.But they will not choose the more stain-resistant black, because it will make people feel that they care about the cleaning of their clothes.
Similarly, the texture of clothing can also reflect a person's financial situation.Such as whether the texture is natural or man-made.What kind of artificial ones are they? Usually, people with good economic conditions and who care about their quality of life will choose to wear clothes with natural textures.
Generally speaking, it is best not to have an obvious logo for us to distinguish a person's clothes.For example, "XX Company", "XX Gas Station" and "XX Beer".Usually the person who wears this kind of clothes will not be in a very good financial situation.Of course, some people may argue that he is just an employee there or that he is just informal, but you cannot deny that these clothes can save a fortune for the wearer.Some people may not wear such a logo on their bodies, but they will wear another logo on their bodies, usually the LOGO of famous clothes or fashion brands.There are quite a few people who do this. What are they trying to explain?I have money to afford this brand; or I have some relationship with this brand.Is it through the brand to seek an identity or just a sense of vanity?As long as you look at people's clothes, you can understand why people wear clothes.Because we try to hide what's inside us.It's just sad that, most of the time, our efforts fail.Others can still see who you are through your clothes.
Before the interview, freshmen who are new to society usually prepare one or several interview outfits in order to give the interviewer a good impression.These clothes are usually newly purchased with great "money".Not only among young people, but also among ordinary people there is a concept of new clothes and old clothes.Most people usually think that the best respect and attention comes from the crispness of new clothes or the cleanliness of a piece of clothing.People who have this kind of thoughts usually have mental tension, pay too much attention to the eyes of others, and often cannot easily face many situations in life and work.Sometimes they are too grand when they shouldn't be, and too frivolous when they need to be relaxed.It can be said that it is not that they do not pay attention to it, but that it is too much attention that causes this kind of person to dress improperly.So, if you see a guy who's overdressed, don't startle him anymore, he's already driving himself crazy.He is just trying to be decent and pursue his duty, but he just can't grasp the essentials.Needless to say, such a person must not have a bad heart, and he must not be smart enough, otherwise, he should have mastered the essentials of dressing long ago.If you're going to make friends, he's worth it.But if you consider the factor of profit, he should not be so useful, at least for a long time, he still needs to adapt to this society and continue the process of socialization.
There is also the most critical point: whether clothes wear people or people wear clothes.A smart person will definitely remember that clothes are always for wearing. If the cart puts the cart before the horse, it can only mean that he is not smart enough in the current environment, or that he needs to become smarter.When a person can freely wear any clothes and appear decently on various occasions, then you can be sure of one thing, that is, he is very identified with his own identity and does not feel uncomfortable.
If you're a young woman, here's what else you need to know about a man's "color":
He appears, with the color he likes, except for rare cases that do not represent his own wishes, the color of his sportswear, car, backpack, sofa, curtains, and sheets will show his personality.
A man who likes red is very passionate, but his temper is a little grumpy.
Men who like blue like to be alone and don't like to be noisy.
Men who like yellow are very cheerful and simple, but they are also somewhat childish.
Men who like green have a calm personality and good taste, and they are typical lovers of the public.
Like white, he has a flexible mind, but is a little nervous. He is a master at creating romance, and when he falls in love, there will always be surprises.
People who like black are reticent, not a good conversation partner, but steady.
Hands and feet reflect quality
I still remember how Sartre described the lady in his novel: "She is very young, but her skin is haggard. Her cynical eyes, rational and vigilant attitude reveal her identity. The real lady does not know the price Yes, they love a good deal. Their eyes are beautiful innocent flowers, hothouse flowers."
Therefore, to see whether a woman is pampered or not depends on her eyes.If it's not easy to master, then you look at her hands.Most women are willing to be a pampered woman, but look down at our hands, and you will understand that we are still a long way from being pampered.I still remember that in "Rouge Button", in order to make the girls earn more money and better reflect their style and grade, the bustards are specially equipped with various personnel to serve them, so as to reduce the possibility of their hands-on and make them pampered. She is more like everyone's lady than a prostitute.In this way, they can attract more attention and attention from pretentious playboys.They even pretend to be other people's hands for things like fanning.
But in today's society, it is almost impossible for a woman, especially a professional woman, to keep her hands from touching anything.Because of this, even though she is naturally beautiful, she cannot stand the temper of time and labor.Hands are a direct reflection of a woman's level of labor, which is reflected in the creation of characters by our ancestors.Lifting, lifting, carrying, pulling, carrying, pulling, and rubbing are all done by the handle, that is to say, they are all done by hand.Especially in our daily life, washing clothes, cooking, cleaning the floor... Only a truly pampered woman does not have to do so many things that hurt her hands, and her hands may be white, soft, smooth and delicate.
It is actually quite difficult for a woman to want to be pampered. Either her family is superior and she does not have to work, or she has a good husband who loves her and takes care of all the housework.Of course, the first possibility is relatively large.A woman who works a lot can reveal her hands at a glance, especially for women from families with poor living conditions. Usually, their hands are darker than other parts of the body, with thick joints, rough skin, and bald nails , is a trace of simplicity and hard work.
In your spare time, you may wish to pay attention to the hands of the women around you. A pair of hands are similar but not necessarily the same. There are always some stories hidden in the texture of the hands.In fact, there are many kinds of beauty. I don’t know who said that the laboring people are beautiful, so the laboring hands are also beautiful. The beauty of vicissitudes may also include love for family or children.Of course, well-maintained hands are also beautiful. Maybe you can imagine her elegant taste or temperament of a scholarly family, which is also a kind of pleasing to the eye.
It is not enough to read these alone, you can also read a person's hand to read more deeply, as long as you have mastered the following knowledge in advance.In Chinese palmistry, hands can be divided into seven types.They are square, conical, spoon-shaped, bamboo-shaped, slender, primitive, and mixed.In general:
People born with square, spoon-shaped, primitive-shaped, and mixed-shaped hands are practical talents with strong executive ability, most of them have mastery, pioneering spirit, dare to take risks, and mostly have great achievements in politics, industry, management, and technology. as.Can bear hardships, be patient, energetic, and spend a lifetime seeking happiness in the midst of busyness.Most people are worry type, and their physique is mostly musculoskeletal.
People with conical, bamboo-shaped, and slender-shaped hands belong to the cultural and artistic type, research type, and inspiration type. Most of them have well-developed wisdom lines and emotional lines.Very sensitive to beauty, advanced consciousness, delicate feelings, deep thinking, rich in philosophy, romantic, fantasy, persistent, neurotic.Most of them have made great achievements in culture, academics, education, and scientific research.
People have the five elements of metal, wood, water, fire, and earth, and the hands correspond to them. There are also five types of gold, wood, water, fire, and earth.
Wooden hands: palms are thin, fingers have many long lines, knuckles are obvious, emotion line and wisdom line are relatively developed, emotion line is generally long, extending to the index finger and middle finger crevice, many downward feathery lines, wisdom line is flat , more curved, the main reason and thinking, the respiratory system and digestive system are good, too much work.
Fire-type hand: The big finger of the palm is short and pointed, the root of the finger is thick, the muscles and bones are strong, and the muscles and bones are exposed, but they are relatively round.Energetic, strong in self-healing, impatient, devoted to everything, prone to duodenal ulcers.
Earth-type hand: The palm is square and thick, short, thick, with firm flesh, hard bones, and thick flesh.Strong sexual desire, strong physique, poor intelligence, strong ability to act, operate, and do things, relatively stable, adventurous, pay attention to material life, and neglect emotions.
Gold-shaped hand: round and thick palm, fingers from bottom to top from thick to thin, relatively small overall, long nails, small arc of fate line, sharply curved wisdom line, often cold hands, most of them are talented women, like dreams, and act in practice Poor ability, heavy mental consumption, if the fingers are short, thick, rich in emotion.
Water-type hands: palms are swollen and slippery, knuckles are not exposed, fingers are short and round, sexual desire is strong, and practical.
I don't know if the above palmistry has confused you.In fact, in our daily life, we have no time to look at a woman's hand in this way.Therefore, if there is a more appropriate way that allows us to quickly glance at a person's hand, we can draw a rough conclusion.In fact, looking at a person, especially a woman, is the most labor-saving and convenient way to see her life status and birth class.Most celebrities have well-manicured or even overly beautiful nails.Why is it said to be too beautiful?Just think about it.For ordinary people, manicure is a costly and time-consuming thing. If it's just that, it's fine. After the manicure, basically the hands can't do anything, and she can only be taken care of.I remember that the Guinness Book of Records has the owner of the world's longest nails. Basically, the record-setting hands have nothing to do with labor.Therefore, fingernails can reflect a woman's life status.
Some palmistry masters in India think through in-depth research on nails: By carefully observing and studying a person's nails, one can understand his health status, nature and personality, as well as what major events will happen in his future life.It is said that a person whose nails look like a layer of frost is born weak, and a person with uneven nails is a beggar's life.There are also legends that if a newborn baby does not grow nails within a year, or if the nails are shell-shaped, or the nails are incomplete, it indicates that the child will be very poor.On the contrary, people with shiny, smooth, slightly pink nails are very happy.There are many descriptions of these aspects in the holy scriptures of Hinduism.A person's nails can reflect his destiny, or in other words, nails are a window into a person's life, through which we can perceive the person's culture, thoughts, working methods, etc.
Women with pink nails: Women with slightly pink and protruding nails are lucky, and they are materially affluent.On the contrary, if the nails are rough, spotted, dull, yellowish or whitish in color, such a woman is poor and may be corrupted.Their lives are always full of misfortune, worry, lack of material, mental pain, etc., and their lives are precarious.
Women with very short fingernails: born with a bad temper.They always want to control and manipulate their husbands.The husband of such a woman should proceed with caution and be very courteous to his wife.Their children are also strictly controlled.This woman has a good personality.But if the nails are short and pale, the woman is a great liar, a liar in essence.
Marks and lines on nails:
If there are black spots or dots on the nails, this kind of person has a tendency to commit crimes.They may suffer from skin diseases or blood glass
White spots on the nails indicate poor blood circulation.If the white spots on the nails are shiny, it means that the person is in love.
A white crescent at the base of the nail is a good sign.This kind of person is always improving.
Index finger: There is a white crescent on the nail of the index finger, which indicates that the situation that will happen is very beneficial to one's own development.However, if there are black spots on the nails, it portends unexpected financial loss or loss of business.If the inner half of the nail is white, the owner can not only win business but also win the respect of others.
Middle finger: white spots appear on the nail of the middle finger, and the white crescent shape at the root of the nail indicates that the owner will go out, and there will be wealth and new development.If there are black spots on the nails, it means that someone close can help him with problems and troubles.If there are raised yellowish spots on the nails, the owner will be rewarded, but it may be against the wife and brother.
Ring Finger: If a white crescent appears on the nail of the ring finger, the person will be successful in mechanical work.If there are white spots on the nails, the person is interested in religious activities.If there are black spots on the nails, the person may lose the respect of others because of rash words.
Little Finger: The white crescent on the nail of the little finger indicates profit in business.White spots are ominous, which may lead to business failure and financial loss.
Textures on nails: Textures on nails can reveal a person's true condition.Vertical lines on the nails suggest nervous disorders, problems with the nervous system.And if the vertical lines on the nails are not straight, it means that the person's blood pressure is unstable.Whenever there are horizontal lines on the nails, it means that the disease has invaded the body.
What you don't know:
Modern science also proves that nails are very important to a person, because there are a large number of sensitive nerves at the top of the fingers.Nails can be divided into the following categories, and different types of nails have different properties.
short nails:
People with short nails are impatient.They are easily excited and agitated, relatively stubborn, and they are very fragile and introverted. A considerable number of these people will suffer from neurological diseases or heart failure.
Ultra-short nails:
This kind of nail is shorter in length and width, and often appears on the kind of knotted fingers, just like a small point at the end of the finger.Most of these are stupid and excitable, but a woman with such nails will be self-disciplined, stern and manly, and likes to control her husband.
big nails:
These nails are the same length and width.People with this kind of nails are naturally serious and have perfect plans in their work, so they can succeed in any field.
Short flat nails:
People with this type of nail are naturally prone to panic, heart disease, and death from a heart attack.
Short and thick nails:
People with such nails always cover up their mistakes and like to blame and complain about others.They are natural critics.
Broad and boxy nails:
Nails are broad and square, pink in color, and rounded at the edges. People are simple, upright, and can't keep their words in their hearts.But if the nail color is not pink, the degree of integrity will be compromised.
Nails that are wider than they are long:
People with this nail have strong analytical skills.They can achieve great success in literature, music, speech, etc.They like to argue with others.Such people can maintain a healthy physical condition, but because of their habit of debating with others, they will often be in a tense mental state.
Thin nails:
People with slender nails are never tired in their spiritual pursuits, but they are physically weak.They even doubt themselves.
Long, slightly curved nails:
People with this kind of nails will not live happily and smoothly after marriage.They are extremely greedy for lust and pleasure, and their thoughts are very unstable, and they are very interested in the opposite sex.
Narrow nails:
People with narrow nails are weak and have poor digestive system.If the nails are fragile and easy to break, it means that their nerves are too tense and there is a problem with the liver.Such people are born parasites.
Swollen and protruding nails:
The fingers covered under this nail become thick and hard.They may be on drugs and be suicidal.They are prone to tuberculosis or other lung diseases
Round nails:
Nice shape for nails.People with round nails are kind, straightforward, well-behaved, diligent, cautious, and confident enough.
Small triangle nails:
People with this kind of nails like to close themselves and have a scholarly temperament.But besides that, there are also lazy and careless people who can be very useful people if their abilities are fully appreciated.
Pale/Yellow Nails:
People with such nails are basically liars and liars, even gamblers.They are always stuck in a state of poverty.
Blue Nails:
If the nail is blue from the root, the person with this kind of nail has a very bad heart and may suffer from bronchial disease.
Okay, now that we've finished talking about women's hands, it's time for us to focus on men's feet.Why do you say to look at a man's feet?Readers may feel that there are many places that are sufficient to reflect how a man sees himself and how he faces the world.So why single out the feet to talk about things?Don't be impatient, that's it.Here we look at the feet mainly refers to the following three aspects: the state of the feet, socks, shoes.
After research, British psychologist Morris found an interesting phenomenon: "The farther the part of the human body is from the brain, the greater its credibility." The face is the closest to the brain center and the most dishonest.When we are with other people, we always pay the most attention to their faces; and we know that others pay attention to us in the same way.Therefore, people are lying with a frown and a smile.Looking further down, the hand is located in the middle and lower part of the human body, and the honesty is also considered moderate. People use it to tell lies.But the feet are far away from the brain, and most people don't care about this part, so it is much more honest than the face and hands.Therefore, it is the easiest to leak people's inner thoughts.
Just like all other signals of body language, the habitual movements of feet also have their own language. In the rich language vocabulary of our country, there are many adjectives describing feet.These adjectives are not so much describing the lightness, heaviness, slowness, haste, steadyness, heaviness, and chaos of footsteps as they are to describe the state of a person's inner stability or imbalance, tranquility or impatience, serenity or confusion.People's moods are different, and their walking postures are also different; people's dispositions are different, and their walking styles are also different.Therefore, feet also have their own unique language.Let's call it footsteps.
In addition to reflecting people's emotions, footsteps can also reflect people's character qualities.If a dignified and beautiful woman walks in a hurry, with heavy and chaotic steps, then we may guess that she must be a cheerful, straightforward, and careless person; on the contrary, she looks rough, but walks cautiously It seems that such a person must be a shrewd person who is rough on the outside and fine on the inside. When he does things, he often uses a bold appearance to cover up his inner strict rules.
People's psychological direction is often leaked from footsteps.If someone kicks his feet up as soon as he sits down, it usually means that he has a sense of confrontation that will not admit defeat.If a woman raises her feet boldly, it means that she has enough confidence in her appearance, and it also means that she has a strong desire to show herself.
When people are standing, their feet are often facing the direction or things that the subject minds or pursues.For example, there are three men standing together. On the surface, it seems that they are concentrating on talking, and no one pays attention to the beautiful girl standing aside, but in fact this is not the case. Each of them has one foot facing her.That said, everyone is paying attention to her.Their wholeheartedness is just a mask, and their true feelings are concealed, but their footsteps have revealed their respective secrets.
Although people's footsteps vary from place to place, everyone has their own fixed footsteps.In this way, we can explain a phenomenon: for a familiar person, you don't need to see him, you can judge him just by the sound of his footsteps, whether urgent or light, heavy or steady.This can also be used in the prophecy of "Say Cao Cao, Cao Cao will arrive".
You may have encountered such a situation.The person you are talking to suddenly turns around and sits with their feet facing the door.The gesture of feet towards the door means that the person wants to end the conversation, party, or other activity that is currently going on as soon as possible.Please note that the guests who come to your house will turn their feet towards the door half an hour before their visit will end.As soon as you receive this signal, you should sincerely say to the visitor: "It's getting late, thank you for coming to see me. Time flies so fast with you!"
When you're angry, frustrated, or psychologically troubled, do you ever get the urge to kick the door?Maybe you kick the ground, pebbles, or whatever you imagined in your head.We believe that most of you have played.A team player who stamps his feet to express regret when he makes mistakes in passing or throwing, smashing, shooting, etc.Similarly, when you accidentally do something wrong, you will also stamp your feet to express regret.Of course, there is also such a special situation, when some people are thinking about a matter, they often kick the ground lightly, as if to say: "I want to kick this matter away like a football!"
Next, let's take a look at the body language sent out by the ankles and toes.Although the ankles and toes are not as free and expressive as the wrists and fingers, and they are located in an inconspicuous place at the bottom of the body, the emotions or desires they directly express are surprising enough.
For example, when some people are sitting in a restaurant waiting for the food to be served, and some people are sitting in the waiting room waiting to get on the bus, they will tap the floor with their toes, which shows their strong impatience.Sometimes, he expresses it by shaking his feet.Whether he taps the ground with his toes or shakes his feet, he is sending the signal to those who approach him: "When you are near me, I will feel uneasy." If you strike up a conversation with him or ask something, you will often be met with blank stares from him.
When talking with you, he not only crossed his legs, but also kept shaking the foot that was hanging in the air. This is a signal that he is in a good mood to convey to the other party.If you shake your feet like this when you meet someone for the first time, or when you are facing someone at work, it is silently calling you: "You can relax a little bit."
If a person with their ankles crossed and their hands gripping the arms of a chair, what do you think the pose looks like?Maybe you will laugh and say, "Looking like you are in a hurry to go to the bathroom." You are right, this gesture does show some kind of "repression".
You may have the experience that when sitting in the dentist's chair, or lying on your back in the barber chair to shave, you can't help but tightly overlap your ankles and hold your hands tightly. Hold the arm of the chair.This posture is unconsciously adopted by a person when he or she is suppressing a strong feeling or emotion.
There is a proverb in the American army: "Let your ankles overlap tightly at all times." The meaning of this proverb is to ask soldiers to control themselves at all times and not to talk too much, especially when it is not about their own affairs. .
Some people usually seldom overlap their ankles, but when they get on the plane, their ankles keep overlapping and loosening.As a result, he admitted that he was extremely nervous when flying.Therefore, the stewardess seems to have a unique ability to distinguish passengers who really need service but are ashamed to speak up.They could see his nervousness and anxiety from the tightly overlapping ankles of the passenger.In the same way, many people will naturally cross their ankles tightly when facing the examiner during an interview, showing tension.
Experienced nurses will tell you that patients who cross their feet before entering the operating room are usually those who are terrified and must operate.
Some may say that adopting this posture makes them feel comfortable.This is an attempt to use comfort as an excuse to disguise the real reason.If you also have this problem, please pay attention, once you find that your ankles overlap when you rest on your back, please release them, and then taste it again to see if this makes it easier to relax.People who are prone to insomnia, if they sleep with their ankles crossed, it is even more difficult to fall asleep.
It can be seen that the feet are always silently pouring out your heart.If you're sitting face to face with someone, you might have a chance to see the soles of their shoes.Where the soles wear first varies from person to person.Experienced shoemakers can learn about other people's personalities based on the wear on their soles.For example, those with wear on the outside of the toes are aggressive and aggressive, while those with wear on both sides are moderate.Why can such a conclusion be drawn?Because a person with a positive personality always walks in brisk steps when walking, so the outside of the toe is more likely to wear.
In addition, feet are also a yardstick for inferring the degree of intimacy between people.For example, if A and B are standing and talking, if their toes are facing each other and the distance between them is very small, it means that they are very close.
In body language, this is called the state of shared sphere of influence.In other words, have a close relationship that does not allow a third party to intervene between them.
On the other hand, if A and B stand on their toes at right angles, or stand apart at a 60-degree angle, then the relationship between them is not very deep, and a third person is allowed to join their conversation.
Not only the feet, but the legs can also let you see a person's inner waves.
How many body language signals can you get from your legs?There are many opinions on this point, but there is no doubt that the legs are an important joint to express people's subconscious emotions.
We all know that when you see a person's legs shake involuntarily, if he is still in a restaurant, coffee shop or other places at this time.We generally judge that he is waiting for someone, and the other party is delayed.He is expressing anxious and tense awareness in this way.In addition, if one of the family crosses its legs first, and everyone else learns to do so.Then, the first to put his legs up is the head of the family.Even if he wasn't, he was actually the most powerful person in the group.
It can be seen that understanding the movement of the legs is a powerful weapon to decipher the secrets of the heart.Here, we must first analyze the silent language expressed by the legs from the perspective of the sphere of influence.
When feeling uneasy or wanting to reject the other party, most people often cross their hands or legs.This is an unconscious attempt to protect one's own psychological expression and a defensive posture to prevent others from invading one's sphere of influence.
When you make a suggestion to your superior, if he listens for a while and then crosses his legs, you should pay attention that he may not be interested in your suggestion.If this is the case, you should end the topic as soon as possible and leave.If you continue to chatter uninterestedly, the superior will inevitably change the movements of the legs frequently, and eventually become more and more impatient.When he can't help but interrupt you, you'll feel embarrassed.
On the other hand, if people want to show his aggressiveness, or that he intends to accept the other party's words, he will adopt the open-legged posture.Legs spread out widen his sphere of influence more than legs held tightly together.
Those with a strong desire to dominate and own themselves tend to rest their feet on desks and open desk drawers.This behavior can be seen as connecting the table with one's own feet to expand one's sphere of influence and express one's self.On the contrary, if his subordinates show this gesture in front of him, he will feel that his sphere of influence has been violated, and will have a very unpleasant feeling.Once he puts his feet on the table or drawer in front of people he meets for the first time or in front of unfamiliar people, it is inevitable that people will not think "that guy is really arrogant and rude".
In the body language expressed by the legs, one thing that must be paid attention to is the way the legs are crossed.There are differences in the way men and women set their legs, even if they use the same way to set their legs, the meanings it expresses are not the same.
According to the survey, 99% of the people who put the ankle of one foot on the knee or thigh of the other belong to men; and 99% of the people who put the two thighs tightly on each other are women.Because, from an anatomical point of view, the higher the leg is, the closer it is to the sexual organs.Therefore, some foreign scholars believe that the thigh is a sensitive part with sexual consciousness.Even in babies, we can see the kind of infantile masturbation action where thighs rub against each other and cling to each other.
In short, as far as body language is concerned, leg movements are often very sexually suggestive.Therefore, women seldom use leg crossing, especially women wearing short skirts. If she didn't intend to tease the opposite sex, she would never express it like this.Apparently, the way of using the legs to forcefully press the legs has the meaning of defending against the invasion of others and protecting chastity.
There are also people who sit on a chair with one foot raised and straddling the arm of the chair.This gesture may seem relaxed, but if you thought it indicated he was open and cooperative, you'd be wrong.People who pose in this way are indifferent to others, even a little bit hostile.The stewardess has a deep feeling that all male passengers who adopt this sitting posture are often the most difficult to serve.In business, between the buyer and the seller, the buyer will also adopt this posture in his own office to show his superior dominance, and the superior will also use this posture to reflect his authority in front of the subordinate.
There is another kind of sitting upside down with legs apart and facing the back of the chair. This posture is the same as putting your feet on the desk. It usually occurs between superiors and subordinates to show his dominance.No matter how pleasant and friendly a person who adopts this posture may appear on the surface, it may not be the case.Because this posture shows that he is dominant and aggressive.
When the two parties are in fierce competition, one or both parties will involuntarily cross their legs.There was a chess player who, whenever he hesitated in a game, would unknowingly cross his legs.For a chess player, this position is extremely inconvenient, because each time it is his turn to move, he must put his foot down and lean forward to play.Then, when he finished a move, he would cross his legs as usual.Put it down and then set it up, set it up and put it down again, until he felt that he was sure of winning, and then put his feet on the floor peacefully.
This is true when playing chess, and it is also true when negotiating.When an issue is brought up for discussion, or when a heated argument occurs, one or both negotiators will always cross their legs.If the two parties put down their raised legs and lean forward, it means that the negotiation will reach an agreement smoothly.Once the opponent crosses their legs, it is sending you a signal to compete and challenge you. At this time, you must increase your vigilance and concentrate your attention so as not to miss Jingzhou carelessly.
Not only the feet, but also its extended legs, even socks can reveal a man's secrets inadvertently.Perhaps the basic principles of men's socks can give you a deeper understanding of the connection between a man's socks and his person.
The most important principle for men to wear socks is to pay attention to the overall matching. In most cases, the long trousers will cover the upper of the shoe, and the existence of socks can only be seen inadvertently.At this time, its color, texture, and cleanliness will provide the basis for scoring your taste.
Men's socks should be a basic neutral color and darker than the trousers.Matching the color of men's socks with a suit is the most fashionable and easiest way to wear them. If the suit is gray, you can choose gray socks; a navy blue suit should be matched with navy blue socks; a beige suit should be matched with a darker tea color or brown socks.
A common mistake in daily life is: when a man is sitting, a section of white cotton socks is exposed from between his trousers and leather shoes. This disharmony is caused by the confusion of formal suits and casual socks.White and light-colored cotton socks should be paired with casual-style pants and loafers.When wearing formal clothes, socks that are too long look rustic, so wear short socks that are below the calf length, and try to choose unobtrusive light colors; if you wear pure white sports clothes, the socks must be spotless white sports socks.
In particular, make sure that the length of the socks is such that you don't show the skin of your legs when you sit down, or when you put one leg on the other.
A lot of facts show that a man who throws his socks around and a man who puts them by color are two different creatures.The latter take nitpicking for pleasure.Their highest expectation from a woman is tidiness.In comparison, a man with a mess in the room is more like a man. He may be loose, but he is open-minded, and his requirements for women are not limited to housework.However, if a man can't even find a decent broom and a shoebrush in his house, the man is most likely very immature, or lazy.
In addition, generally married men's socks are bought by their wives, so the quality of socks reflects his wife's preferences and the overall style of their home.
Men in life don't like to talk about their personality preferences to women (except for some men who want to use this to establish a relationship with women). Most of the time, men like to hide themselves.Fortunately, the way to get to know a man is not limited to his open heart. Every man unconsciously has the "inertia" in his life.Therefore, from the most casual "shoes" and "shoe-wearing habits" of men, we can learn some of their inner information.
I often encounter such a scene: ask how many pairs of leather shoes does a man have?Men usually answer you naturally without even thinking about it, double pairs!One pair of sneakers and another pair of sneakers that go with casual attire.What a man thinks is a matter of course, but in a woman's eyes, it is purely spoiling herself, and a woman will think: behind this man, there must be no woman who supports and loves him.
However, there is one thing that needs to be explained. If a man's items must be chosen in terms of quantity and quality, then the principle to be adhered to is always rather than excess.
So how many pairs of shoes should a man own?Experts’ suggestions make many men feel ashamed. Slippers, leather shoes, sandals, sports shoes, and boots are all available, except for women’s patents—high heels. Moreover, experts advocate that men should keep up with fashion trends and keep clothing and shoes It fits seamlessly.
I asked several men who "know how to live" how many pairs of shoes they have, and the answer was quite classic: three or four pairs, black leather shoes and brown leather shoes are essential, and one or two pairs of casual shoes is enough.A mature man must never wear sandals. They almost stubbornly stick to this line of defense that does not exist among fashionable people.
And some men think that the simpler the life, the better. Buy a pair of high-quality leather shoes, don’t cherish them when you wear them, and buy another pair when they are worn out. You don’t have to be as colorful as a lady.But it is very important to keep leather shoes clean and tidy. Interestingly, men have more experience in this area than women.So how do you read a man from his shoes? Look at his shoes when dancing with him, and inadvertently ask him about his shoe habits, and you can get a better understanding of his attitude towards love and life in his heart.The following are a few for your reference.
(1) A man who repeatedly buys a fixed shoe style.
This type of man is a very nostalgic man.There is always a deep attachment to the people, things, and things he is used to. Even if his lover is unreasonable and childish, he will treat her and love her with a tolerant heart until she gradually matures and understands.And he has many "old friends", and he is very loyal to his friends, making his old friends feel that he is a trustworthy backer, and he will stand up for his friends and lend a helping hand in due course.
Therefore, if you fall in love with him and become his other half, you may wish to listen to his troubles more, be more considerate of the details of his life, and the relationship between each other should be carried out in a stable and growing way, and don’t forget to be with his "love". "Old friends" can also mingle together and have a common topic of life.
(2) A man who wears shoes sparingly.
After buying a pair of shoes, he cherishes them very much, and hopes that the shoes can be worn for a longer time, which can save a budget for decoration, and the shoes in his shoe cabinet have a long "shoe age", which makes you very impressed.In terms of personality, he is a conservative man who is reserved and can't let go; he is not smooth enough in dealing with others, and often offends people without knowing it; he has a small pattern in interpersonal relationships; Work hard silently and have a chance of success.
Therefore, if you fall in love with him, be careful!He was a man with a "passion at heart".When we were on the first date, I had infinite fantasies about you in my heart. I hope that I can become a lover with you as soon as possible.His reserved and conservative personality suppresses the turmoil in his heart, and he doesn't dare to confess his love to you, making it hard for you to figure out what he really thinks.Therefore, you might as well take the initiative and create more opportunities for him to express his love, so that you can accelerate each other's love temperature and move towards another stage of life.
(3) A man who wears shoes casually.
This type of man is a man who doesn't care what kind of shoes he wears, and wears them indiscriminately.Sometimes the shoes don't match the clothes at all, even if the shoes are already worn out and the style is outdated, he doesn't care, even if he doesn't wear socks, and the socks are worn out and wrong, he can bear it.In terms of personality, he is an unconstrained man, often with high-mindedness and low-handedness.His private life is not organized, and he likes to daydream, believing that one day he will be able to reach the sky in one step, so he is easy to live a life of self-deception.When I first dated him, he would deliberately arrange the date location, paying attention to the atmosphere and sentiment, but he dismissed it casually.What he pays attention to is high-quality and low-cost consumption. Unless he wants to have a big meal himself, he will never take the initiative to invite him.
If you fall in love with him, you will find that his emotional world is complicated, often unable to forget the old love, and unable to reject the new love.Love triangles and love squares are entangled, and when all disputes detonate, he will choose to "escape" and avoid reality, making the people who love him miserable.So, be careful not to fall in love with this kind of man too quickly!
(4) A man who likes to wear formal black leather shoes.
This type of man is a big man who is used to wearing formal black leather shoes and has them polished brightly. He can't bear to go out with a pair of dirty shoes or old shoes.If this type of man is used to wearing his formal black leather shoes even on vacation or on a date, you have to be prepared.He is an out-and-out male chauvinist and traditional man, and he values his mother's opinion very much. You have to win the favor of your future mother-in-law before you can change from his girlfriend to his wife.
If you fall in love with him, don't try to influence his thoughts. He has his own set of principles for dealing with people and the world, and he will never modify it because of you. He will ask you to agree with his views, and even tolerate everything about him.
(5) A man who loves to wear casual shoes.
This type of man is a man who pays attention to leisure life and quality of life. He has high requirements for shoes. Not only must they be comfortable, but he also pays more attention to the style of shoes, which must match clothes.In terms of personality, he likes to take the initiative, has a strong subjective consciousness, is very strict with himself, and is even more picky about the opposite sex.In life, he is a regular planner, but occasionally he will have a carnival on Christmas Eve or a birthday party. When you date him, you can feel that he is a very considerate and good lover, with a gentle and polite attitude, and a humorous conversation. It is easy Make the dating atmosphere harmonious.He is also a man who knows exactly what kind of girl he likes.So when dating him, even if you don't meet his ideals, he will send you home very kindly, but don't think that he has a good impression of you, he is just a gentleman.
Women who know fashion brands can also judge every aspect of a man by looking at the shoes he wears.
Men who wear Converse and men who don't. Converse, like "Kimura", has been popular for 20 years, and it has a price and a market.You just need to pay attention to the images of male celebrities being interviewed in fashion magazines. Whether they are wearing a suit, Tee or sportswear, 90% of the lower body is jeans and Converse shoes. This kind of man makes people feel very comfortable.
The man who wears the Adidas [-]-Stripes and the Adidas Trefoil.
People who like three stripes may not necessarily like the brand Adidas, but they must be people who like some kind of sports, sunshine type.Those who like clover must be fans of Adidas, and most of them are engaged in advertising, design, artistic creation, modeling and other industries. They like a quality life, imagination and creation.For me, the latter is a bit more attractive.
A man in CAT and a man in Timberland.
Many people think that CAT and Timberland have some shoes that are similar, but in fact, the supporters of these two brands are two completely different types of people. CAT became well-known for its production of heavy machinery shoes for construction, industry and agriculture. The image of its industrial leather boots has since been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Most of them are not suitable for outdoor mountaineering.The man wearing CAT has a more or less industrial smell, with a calm personality and a sense of security.And Timberland is positioned as outdoor casual shoes. They like challenges, surprises and excitement, and also like a leisure lifestyle.Like Chow Yun-fat and Louis Koo are all supporters of Timberland.
I don’t know if you have gained anything after reading such a chapter with practical significance.If you haven't, or haven't figured it out, you might as well do the following two tests, maybe you will be pleasantly surprised!
【Test 1】
Socks are clothes that are directly attached to the skin. According to the touch between the socks and the skin, you can know the softness of the person's heart, and it can also be used as a subtle judgment basis for personality; in short, from the choice of socks, you can also See a person's main character.
See his character from the socks: A. White cotton socks B. Cotton socks of various colors C. Dark-colored socks D. Cartoon pattern socks E. Sports socks
Answer: A. Kind-hearted type
White is a symbol of cleanliness, and the cotton material that can bring gentle touch to the skin means that the person who chooses this kind of socks is very good at taking care of others.
B. Mood changeable
Cotton socks are the most comfortable to wear, while the color represents the person's emotions at the time.If the colors of your socks change frequently, you may be an emotional person.
C. Stable and mild
Dark colors have a sense of balance and stability, which means that people who choose this kind of socks know how to control their emotions and know how to take care of those around them.
D. Childish and innocent type
Cute cartoon characters or dolls represent a certain degree of toddler nature.No matter which pattern you choose, it means that the spiritual level is immature.
E. Playful and family-loving
This style represents a strong playful mood and is also very dependent on parents.People who choose this kind of socks may need complete care from those around them.
【Test 2】
Your hands determine your character
1. Clasp your hands together like a prayer and look at your hands
The left thumb is pushed under the right thumb > left-brained users
Right-brained users whose right thumb is pinned under the left thumb
2. Cross your hands in front of your chest (wrap yourself), and look at your hands
Right arm presses left arm > left-brained users
Left arm over right arm > right-brained users
Rules: Look at your results from 1+2 (you should look at them in the order of 1→2)
Answer: A. Right and left people: the traditional gentle type who is good at caring for others
Right-left people who can intuitively understand each other's mood and respond naturally and kindly.Although he can't take the initiative to move forward, he will take a step back to accommodate others. He is stable and caring by nature, giving people a sense of peace of mind that he will take care of others in everything.But once you have been entrusted once, it will be difficult to say NO to others in the future, which is the biggest shortcoming.No matter how much pain I have, I will do my best for others... This kind of enthusiasm is the best in the world!
B. Right Right People: The type of challenge I love most
Naturally courageous, once you decide [this is the [-] o'clock, you will take action immediately!This is the right person who is full of curiosity and loves challenges.A reckless family who can calmly challenge dangerous things with a single aura.But on the other hand, it also has a delicate and fragile side that is easy to be moved when its weakness is caught.Basically, I don't listen to what other people say, and I skip to the content of the conversation, and it is easy to speak subjectively.However, it is also loved by everyone because of its personality, and it can often become popular!
C. Zuo Zuo people: serious and cold perfectionists
Although quite feminine (masculine), it is the most masculine of the four types!The theoretical thinking that can be organized in everything will quickly defeat him with a piece of great truth.He has a high self-esteem, and his sense of justice is twice as high as others.As a friend, he is very trustworthy, but as an enemy, it will be very troublesome.However, because he is serious by nature and a perfectionist, he often leaves a bad impression that people who meet for the first time are difficult to get along with.
D. Left and right people: like to take care of people, leadership
With a calm observation ability to see through the other party or the atmosphere of the scene, but also has a side that can take care of the other party in a considerate way, this is a person who is both calm and warm.Because of her calm nature, masculinity and strong sense of responsibility, she is often admired by the same sex like a big sister.Able to gather people naturally and get along with them neatly.However, sometimes I can't help but love to take care of others too much.I am very concerned about how the world sees me, and I am always vigilant.
(End of this chapter)
For an adult, the body shape is basically less likely to change, and it is indeed a convenient way to infer a person's psychological personality and other information from a person's body shape.For a person who doesn't have much dealings with you and you have no other way to get his relevant information, it at least gives you a general picture of a person.As for what this person is like, it depends on your first-hand information after contacting him.
In daily life, people often try to connect people's appearance and signs with their personality.For example, a plump body is often regarded as having an open-minded and cheerful personality; filial eyes, low eyebrows and short eyebrows are regarded as "thief appearances" and suspected of evil intentions; full heavens and big earlobes are regarded as rich in wisdom; With tall sword eyebrows, broad arms and round waist, they are regarded as heroic.In short, people are used to looking for correspondence between appearance, physique and personality, so that appearance and physique are regarded as personality signs and factors that determine personality.This attempt to simplify the complex is made possible by scientists.
In the 20s, German psychiatrist Krechmeer first connected body shape with personality psychology and conducted systematic research.He identified four basic body types: chunky, lanky, muscular, and dysplastic.He pointed out that people with different body types have different personalities and psychology, and found that people with different body types are susceptible to different diseases. His conclusions are roughly as follows:
The short and fat type, its temperament is manic, has an outgoing personality, is prone to manic depression, high blood pressure, high blood sugar, etc., and its psychological characteristics are acute and rapid.
Slender type, with split temperament, introverted, obedient, timid and shy, paranoid, prone to schizophrenia, and tends to be closed and self-conscious.
The strong type has a sticky temperament and impulsive behavior. The vast majority of epilepsy patients belong to this type, with mental instability and disorder.
Dysplasia, depressive temperament, weak personality, extremely closed psychology, isolated from the world.
In the 20s, the American doctor Sheldon inherited and developed Krechmere's theory.He distinguishes 40 body types:
Endoderm type (soft, plump, well-developed digestive organs).
Mesomorph (muscled, strong and powerful).
Ectomorphic (lanky, frail, nervous system).
From this, he distinguished 3 personality types:
People who are dominated by the endoderm type are "visceral dominant type", characterized by leisure, good food, slow behavior, social love, magnanimity, and their psychological characteristics are peaceful and understanding.
The mesoderm-dominated people are "physical tension type", which is characterized by self-confidence, boldness, robustness, energy, and adventurous impulse, and the psychological characteristics are willful and self-willed.
The ectodermal type is dominated by the "brain nervous type", which is characterized by introversion, restraint, timidity, social reluctance, enthusiasm and responsibility for work, love of art, and psychological characteristics of cowardice and stability.
It should be said that the theory of body shape has certain value as a concise auxiliary means to understand other people's personality psychology.But it associates complex personality and psychology with simple and obvious body shape, which is suspected of being too simplistic. Therefore, we should be careful about its negative effects in practical application, and avoid stereotyping or even prejudice because of judging people by their appearance.
Clothes reflect socialization
From an early age, we find clothes to be very attractive.During the holidays, we will especially look forward to their appearance.We especially love their vibrant colors and the assortment of logos, belts and embellishments.When we were in school, we learned through school uniforms that everyone wears the same clothes, which means we all belong to this group.When we get older, when we want to show that we are an independent individual different from others, and that we are the only one in the world, we try our best not to wear school uniforms, but to wear our own clothes, sometimes uniforms or uniforms designed by ourselves. clothing.It is at this time that we declare to ourselves and to the world through our clothes that I want to be myself.Our self-awareness is awakened.When we are older, we understand that clothes are also gendered, which helps us establish and consolidate social gender awareness.There are also many people who regard good dress as a manifestation of politeness and education.
Everyone's height is different, so the clothes that suit everyone are also different.So sometimes the choice of clothes should also take into account the advantages and disadvantages of your body.If you also consider that clothes should appropriately reflect personal style and suit the occasion, then the knowledge of dressing is even greater.Clothes are not only your face, but also a part of your psychological self-image.Generally speaking, the clothes a person likes to wear reflect his ideal self, a yearning state of life.So through a person's clothing and preferences, we can discover many little secrets that belong to him.
The identity of self-image is closely related to human dignity and pride.That is to say, when the clothes one wears reflect the ideal self, one will feel proud and dignified, the mind will be more balanced and stable, and one will behave more confidently in the world.The research results of Dr. Binney, a British psychologist, also proved that satisfactory clothes can relax people's nerves and give people a feeling of self-confidence and comfort.Therefore, even if a person does not understand the psychological factors of dressing, he will subconsciously choose clothes that suit him or make him comfortable according to his emotions.For example, if a person is nervous or in a bad mood that day, he is likely to give up those tight-fitting clothes made of hard materials and choose those soft and comfortable clothes made of cotton or wool.At the same time, if a person chooses brighter colors as clothing, it also shows that his mood at this time is bright and full of vitality, or he hopes to achieve this effect through clothing.
Generally speaking, clothes can not only reflect a person's emotions, but also reflect a person's family background, personal habits and degree of socialization.What is socialization?This is a sociological term. It refers to the degree to which a person acquires the habits and rules of this society during the process of growing up. It's called socialization.So from a person's clothes, we can see how much he understands the social activities he participates in.In a narrow sense, we can see whether a person is professional or not by his professional attire.
We can look at a person's clothes from the following aspects: collocation, color, texture, logo, and cleanliness.In the end, we also need to look at the state of a person wearing clothes, whether he is comfortable or not.That is what we are talking about is he wearing clothes or clothes wearing him.
I don't know if you have noticed that fashion people never simply wear clothes.Their favorite way to dress is to mix and match and wear layers.But there are also etiquette experts who tell us that it is best not to have more than 3 to 4 colors on a person.This advice and the demonstrations of the models may leave you scratching your head.You ask yourself who should you listen to?In fact, if you are confident, you might as well wear all the colors on your body, even if it is a contrasting color, you will have a very special feeling of dressing.Of course, if you are not so confident, you might as well follow the requirements of professional dress, with a few simple colors, as long as it reflects the professional and professional feeling.Okay, a little digression, let's go back to our topic of seeing people through clothes.
In fact, whether it’s mix-and-match or multi-layered, we want to emphasize only one point: usually a person who can wear this way has good financial strength and good taste in dressing; Complicated and usually requires a certain amount of time and effort.This is also one of the reasons why the average working class is reluctant to try to wear it-because there is not so much time and energy to waste.Perhaps more importantly, he doesn't think he has anyone around who appreciates dressing like this.From such small details, you can also have a small glimpse of his living and working environment and the people around him.As long as you are careful enough and can reasonably think about it.
We have already talked about the color before. In fact, through the color of the clothes, we can not only understand a person's mood and state, but more importantly, we can understand a person's identity and background.Usually a person who is engaged in literature and art professions will use bolder and richer colors. In a popular saying, they are more daring to wear.And a person in a bank office tends to wear uniforms or professional suits.This color will be more conservative.People with higher status tend to choose relatively low-key dark colors, such as navy blue.But they will not choose the more stain-resistant black, because it will make people feel that they care about the cleaning of their clothes.
Similarly, the texture of clothing can also reflect a person's financial situation.Such as whether the texture is natural or man-made.What kind of artificial ones are they? Usually, people with good economic conditions and who care about their quality of life will choose to wear clothes with natural textures.
Generally speaking, it is best not to have an obvious logo for us to distinguish a person's clothes.For example, "XX Company", "XX Gas Station" and "XX Beer".Usually the person who wears this kind of clothes will not be in a very good financial situation.Of course, some people may argue that he is just an employee there or that he is just informal, but you cannot deny that these clothes can save a fortune for the wearer.Some people may not wear such a logo on their bodies, but they will wear another logo on their bodies, usually the LOGO of famous clothes or fashion brands.There are quite a few people who do this. What are they trying to explain?I have money to afford this brand; or I have some relationship with this brand.Is it through the brand to seek an identity or just a sense of vanity?As long as you look at people's clothes, you can understand why people wear clothes.Because we try to hide what's inside us.It's just sad that, most of the time, our efforts fail.Others can still see who you are through your clothes.
Before the interview, freshmen who are new to society usually prepare one or several interview outfits in order to give the interviewer a good impression.These clothes are usually newly purchased with great "money".Not only among young people, but also among ordinary people there is a concept of new clothes and old clothes.Most people usually think that the best respect and attention comes from the crispness of new clothes or the cleanliness of a piece of clothing.People who have this kind of thoughts usually have mental tension, pay too much attention to the eyes of others, and often cannot easily face many situations in life and work.Sometimes they are too grand when they shouldn't be, and too frivolous when they need to be relaxed.It can be said that it is not that they do not pay attention to it, but that it is too much attention that causes this kind of person to dress improperly.So, if you see a guy who's overdressed, don't startle him anymore, he's already driving himself crazy.He is just trying to be decent and pursue his duty, but he just can't grasp the essentials.Needless to say, such a person must not have a bad heart, and he must not be smart enough, otherwise, he should have mastered the essentials of dressing long ago.If you're going to make friends, he's worth it.But if you consider the factor of profit, he should not be so useful, at least for a long time, he still needs to adapt to this society and continue the process of socialization.
There is also the most critical point: whether clothes wear people or people wear clothes.A smart person will definitely remember that clothes are always for wearing. If the cart puts the cart before the horse, it can only mean that he is not smart enough in the current environment, or that he needs to become smarter.When a person can freely wear any clothes and appear decently on various occasions, then you can be sure of one thing, that is, he is very identified with his own identity and does not feel uncomfortable.
If you're a young woman, here's what else you need to know about a man's "color":
He appears, with the color he likes, except for rare cases that do not represent his own wishes, the color of his sportswear, car, backpack, sofa, curtains, and sheets will show his personality.
A man who likes red is very passionate, but his temper is a little grumpy.
Men who like blue like to be alone and don't like to be noisy.
Men who like yellow are very cheerful and simple, but they are also somewhat childish.
Men who like green have a calm personality and good taste, and they are typical lovers of the public.
Like white, he has a flexible mind, but is a little nervous. He is a master at creating romance, and when he falls in love, there will always be surprises.
People who like black are reticent, not a good conversation partner, but steady.
Hands and feet reflect quality
I still remember how Sartre described the lady in his novel: "She is very young, but her skin is haggard. Her cynical eyes, rational and vigilant attitude reveal her identity. The real lady does not know the price Yes, they love a good deal. Their eyes are beautiful innocent flowers, hothouse flowers."
Therefore, to see whether a woman is pampered or not depends on her eyes.If it's not easy to master, then you look at her hands.Most women are willing to be a pampered woman, but look down at our hands, and you will understand that we are still a long way from being pampered.I still remember that in "Rouge Button", in order to make the girls earn more money and better reflect their style and grade, the bustards are specially equipped with various personnel to serve them, so as to reduce the possibility of their hands-on and make them pampered. She is more like everyone's lady than a prostitute.In this way, they can attract more attention and attention from pretentious playboys.They even pretend to be other people's hands for things like fanning.
But in today's society, it is almost impossible for a woman, especially a professional woman, to keep her hands from touching anything.Because of this, even though she is naturally beautiful, she cannot stand the temper of time and labor.Hands are a direct reflection of a woman's level of labor, which is reflected in the creation of characters by our ancestors.Lifting, lifting, carrying, pulling, carrying, pulling, and rubbing are all done by the handle, that is to say, they are all done by hand.Especially in our daily life, washing clothes, cooking, cleaning the floor... Only a truly pampered woman does not have to do so many things that hurt her hands, and her hands may be white, soft, smooth and delicate.
It is actually quite difficult for a woman to want to be pampered. Either her family is superior and she does not have to work, or she has a good husband who loves her and takes care of all the housework.Of course, the first possibility is relatively large.A woman who works a lot can reveal her hands at a glance, especially for women from families with poor living conditions. Usually, their hands are darker than other parts of the body, with thick joints, rough skin, and bald nails , is a trace of simplicity and hard work.
In your spare time, you may wish to pay attention to the hands of the women around you. A pair of hands are similar but not necessarily the same. There are always some stories hidden in the texture of the hands.In fact, there are many kinds of beauty. I don’t know who said that the laboring people are beautiful, so the laboring hands are also beautiful. The beauty of vicissitudes may also include love for family or children.Of course, well-maintained hands are also beautiful. Maybe you can imagine her elegant taste or temperament of a scholarly family, which is also a kind of pleasing to the eye.
It is not enough to read these alone, you can also read a person's hand to read more deeply, as long as you have mastered the following knowledge in advance.In Chinese palmistry, hands can be divided into seven types.They are square, conical, spoon-shaped, bamboo-shaped, slender, primitive, and mixed.In general:
People born with square, spoon-shaped, primitive-shaped, and mixed-shaped hands are practical talents with strong executive ability, most of them have mastery, pioneering spirit, dare to take risks, and mostly have great achievements in politics, industry, management, and technology. as.Can bear hardships, be patient, energetic, and spend a lifetime seeking happiness in the midst of busyness.Most people are worry type, and their physique is mostly musculoskeletal.
People with conical, bamboo-shaped, and slender-shaped hands belong to the cultural and artistic type, research type, and inspiration type. Most of them have well-developed wisdom lines and emotional lines.Very sensitive to beauty, advanced consciousness, delicate feelings, deep thinking, rich in philosophy, romantic, fantasy, persistent, neurotic.Most of them have made great achievements in culture, academics, education, and scientific research.
People have the five elements of metal, wood, water, fire, and earth, and the hands correspond to them. There are also five types of gold, wood, water, fire, and earth.
Wooden hands: palms are thin, fingers have many long lines, knuckles are obvious, emotion line and wisdom line are relatively developed, emotion line is generally long, extending to the index finger and middle finger crevice, many downward feathery lines, wisdom line is flat , more curved, the main reason and thinking, the respiratory system and digestive system are good, too much work.
Fire-type hand: The big finger of the palm is short and pointed, the root of the finger is thick, the muscles and bones are strong, and the muscles and bones are exposed, but they are relatively round.Energetic, strong in self-healing, impatient, devoted to everything, prone to duodenal ulcers.
Earth-type hand: The palm is square and thick, short, thick, with firm flesh, hard bones, and thick flesh.Strong sexual desire, strong physique, poor intelligence, strong ability to act, operate, and do things, relatively stable, adventurous, pay attention to material life, and neglect emotions.
Gold-shaped hand: round and thick palm, fingers from bottom to top from thick to thin, relatively small overall, long nails, small arc of fate line, sharply curved wisdom line, often cold hands, most of them are talented women, like dreams, and act in practice Poor ability, heavy mental consumption, if the fingers are short, thick, rich in emotion.
Water-type hands: palms are swollen and slippery, knuckles are not exposed, fingers are short and round, sexual desire is strong, and practical.
I don't know if the above palmistry has confused you.In fact, in our daily life, we have no time to look at a woman's hand in this way.Therefore, if there is a more appropriate way that allows us to quickly glance at a person's hand, we can draw a rough conclusion.In fact, looking at a person, especially a woman, is the most labor-saving and convenient way to see her life status and birth class.Most celebrities have well-manicured or even overly beautiful nails.Why is it said to be too beautiful?Just think about it.For ordinary people, manicure is a costly and time-consuming thing. If it's just that, it's fine. After the manicure, basically the hands can't do anything, and she can only be taken care of.I remember that the Guinness Book of Records has the owner of the world's longest nails. Basically, the record-setting hands have nothing to do with labor.Therefore, fingernails can reflect a woman's life status.
Some palmistry masters in India think through in-depth research on nails: By carefully observing and studying a person's nails, one can understand his health status, nature and personality, as well as what major events will happen in his future life.It is said that a person whose nails look like a layer of frost is born weak, and a person with uneven nails is a beggar's life.There are also legends that if a newborn baby does not grow nails within a year, or if the nails are shell-shaped, or the nails are incomplete, it indicates that the child will be very poor.On the contrary, people with shiny, smooth, slightly pink nails are very happy.There are many descriptions of these aspects in the holy scriptures of Hinduism.A person's nails can reflect his destiny, or in other words, nails are a window into a person's life, through which we can perceive the person's culture, thoughts, working methods, etc.
Women with pink nails: Women with slightly pink and protruding nails are lucky, and they are materially affluent.On the contrary, if the nails are rough, spotted, dull, yellowish or whitish in color, such a woman is poor and may be corrupted.Their lives are always full of misfortune, worry, lack of material, mental pain, etc., and their lives are precarious.
Women with very short fingernails: born with a bad temper.They always want to control and manipulate their husbands.The husband of such a woman should proceed with caution and be very courteous to his wife.Their children are also strictly controlled.This woman has a good personality.But if the nails are short and pale, the woman is a great liar, a liar in essence.
Marks and lines on nails:
If there are black spots or dots on the nails, this kind of person has a tendency to commit crimes.They may suffer from skin diseases or blood glass
White spots on the nails indicate poor blood circulation.If the white spots on the nails are shiny, it means that the person is in love.
A white crescent at the base of the nail is a good sign.This kind of person is always improving.
Index finger: There is a white crescent on the nail of the index finger, which indicates that the situation that will happen is very beneficial to one's own development.However, if there are black spots on the nails, it portends unexpected financial loss or loss of business.If the inner half of the nail is white, the owner can not only win business but also win the respect of others.
Middle finger: white spots appear on the nail of the middle finger, and the white crescent shape at the root of the nail indicates that the owner will go out, and there will be wealth and new development.If there are black spots on the nails, it means that someone close can help him with problems and troubles.If there are raised yellowish spots on the nails, the owner will be rewarded, but it may be against the wife and brother.
Ring Finger: If a white crescent appears on the nail of the ring finger, the person will be successful in mechanical work.If there are white spots on the nails, the person is interested in religious activities.If there are black spots on the nails, the person may lose the respect of others because of rash words.
Little Finger: The white crescent on the nail of the little finger indicates profit in business.White spots are ominous, which may lead to business failure and financial loss.
Textures on nails: Textures on nails can reveal a person's true condition.Vertical lines on the nails suggest nervous disorders, problems with the nervous system.And if the vertical lines on the nails are not straight, it means that the person's blood pressure is unstable.Whenever there are horizontal lines on the nails, it means that the disease has invaded the body.
What you don't know:
Modern science also proves that nails are very important to a person, because there are a large number of sensitive nerves at the top of the fingers.Nails can be divided into the following categories, and different types of nails have different properties.
short nails:
People with short nails are impatient.They are easily excited and agitated, relatively stubborn, and they are very fragile and introverted. A considerable number of these people will suffer from neurological diseases or heart failure.
Ultra-short nails:
This kind of nail is shorter in length and width, and often appears on the kind of knotted fingers, just like a small point at the end of the finger.Most of these are stupid and excitable, but a woman with such nails will be self-disciplined, stern and manly, and likes to control her husband.
big nails:
These nails are the same length and width.People with this kind of nails are naturally serious and have perfect plans in their work, so they can succeed in any field.
Short flat nails:
People with this type of nail are naturally prone to panic, heart disease, and death from a heart attack.
Short and thick nails:
People with such nails always cover up their mistakes and like to blame and complain about others.They are natural critics.
Broad and boxy nails:
Nails are broad and square, pink in color, and rounded at the edges. People are simple, upright, and can't keep their words in their hearts.But if the nail color is not pink, the degree of integrity will be compromised.
Nails that are wider than they are long:
People with this nail have strong analytical skills.They can achieve great success in literature, music, speech, etc.They like to argue with others.Such people can maintain a healthy physical condition, but because of their habit of debating with others, they will often be in a tense mental state.
Thin nails:
People with slender nails are never tired in their spiritual pursuits, but they are physically weak.They even doubt themselves.
Long, slightly curved nails:
People with this kind of nails will not live happily and smoothly after marriage.They are extremely greedy for lust and pleasure, and their thoughts are very unstable, and they are very interested in the opposite sex.
Narrow nails:
People with narrow nails are weak and have poor digestive system.If the nails are fragile and easy to break, it means that their nerves are too tense and there is a problem with the liver.Such people are born parasites.
Swollen and protruding nails:
The fingers covered under this nail become thick and hard.They may be on drugs and be suicidal.They are prone to tuberculosis or other lung diseases
Round nails:
Nice shape for nails.People with round nails are kind, straightforward, well-behaved, diligent, cautious, and confident enough.
Small triangle nails:
People with this kind of nails like to close themselves and have a scholarly temperament.But besides that, there are also lazy and careless people who can be very useful people if their abilities are fully appreciated.
Pale/Yellow Nails:
People with such nails are basically liars and liars, even gamblers.They are always stuck in a state of poverty.
Blue Nails:
If the nail is blue from the root, the person with this kind of nail has a very bad heart and may suffer from bronchial disease.
Okay, now that we've finished talking about women's hands, it's time for us to focus on men's feet.Why do you say to look at a man's feet?Readers may feel that there are many places that are sufficient to reflect how a man sees himself and how he faces the world.So why single out the feet to talk about things?Don't be impatient, that's it.Here we look at the feet mainly refers to the following three aspects: the state of the feet, socks, shoes.
After research, British psychologist Morris found an interesting phenomenon: "The farther the part of the human body is from the brain, the greater its credibility." The face is the closest to the brain center and the most dishonest.When we are with other people, we always pay the most attention to their faces; and we know that others pay attention to us in the same way.Therefore, people are lying with a frown and a smile.Looking further down, the hand is located in the middle and lower part of the human body, and the honesty is also considered moderate. People use it to tell lies.But the feet are far away from the brain, and most people don't care about this part, so it is much more honest than the face and hands.Therefore, it is the easiest to leak people's inner thoughts.
Just like all other signals of body language, the habitual movements of feet also have their own language. In the rich language vocabulary of our country, there are many adjectives describing feet.These adjectives are not so much describing the lightness, heaviness, slowness, haste, steadyness, heaviness, and chaos of footsteps as they are to describe the state of a person's inner stability or imbalance, tranquility or impatience, serenity or confusion.People's moods are different, and their walking postures are also different; people's dispositions are different, and their walking styles are also different.Therefore, feet also have their own unique language.Let's call it footsteps.
In addition to reflecting people's emotions, footsteps can also reflect people's character qualities.If a dignified and beautiful woman walks in a hurry, with heavy and chaotic steps, then we may guess that she must be a cheerful, straightforward, and careless person; on the contrary, she looks rough, but walks cautiously It seems that such a person must be a shrewd person who is rough on the outside and fine on the inside. When he does things, he often uses a bold appearance to cover up his inner strict rules.
People's psychological direction is often leaked from footsteps.If someone kicks his feet up as soon as he sits down, it usually means that he has a sense of confrontation that will not admit defeat.If a woman raises her feet boldly, it means that she has enough confidence in her appearance, and it also means that she has a strong desire to show herself.
When people are standing, their feet are often facing the direction or things that the subject minds or pursues.For example, there are three men standing together. On the surface, it seems that they are concentrating on talking, and no one pays attention to the beautiful girl standing aside, but in fact this is not the case. Each of them has one foot facing her.That said, everyone is paying attention to her.Their wholeheartedness is just a mask, and their true feelings are concealed, but their footsteps have revealed their respective secrets.
Although people's footsteps vary from place to place, everyone has their own fixed footsteps.In this way, we can explain a phenomenon: for a familiar person, you don't need to see him, you can judge him just by the sound of his footsteps, whether urgent or light, heavy or steady.This can also be used in the prophecy of "Say Cao Cao, Cao Cao will arrive".
You may have encountered such a situation.The person you are talking to suddenly turns around and sits with their feet facing the door.The gesture of feet towards the door means that the person wants to end the conversation, party, or other activity that is currently going on as soon as possible.Please note that the guests who come to your house will turn their feet towards the door half an hour before their visit will end.As soon as you receive this signal, you should sincerely say to the visitor: "It's getting late, thank you for coming to see me. Time flies so fast with you!"
When you're angry, frustrated, or psychologically troubled, do you ever get the urge to kick the door?Maybe you kick the ground, pebbles, or whatever you imagined in your head.We believe that most of you have played.A team player who stamps his feet to express regret when he makes mistakes in passing or throwing, smashing, shooting, etc.Similarly, when you accidentally do something wrong, you will also stamp your feet to express regret.Of course, there is also such a special situation, when some people are thinking about a matter, they often kick the ground lightly, as if to say: "I want to kick this matter away like a football!"
Next, let's take a look at the body language sent out by the ankles and toes.Although the ankles and toes are not as free and expressive as the wrists and fingers, and they are located in an inconspicuous place at the bottom of the body, the emotions or desires they directly express are surprising enough.
For example, when some people are sitting in a restaurant waiting for the food to be served, and some people are sitting in the waiting room waiting to get on the bus, they will tap the floor with their toes, which shows their strong impatience.Sometimes, he expresses it by shaking his feet.Whether he taps the ground with his toes or shakes his feet, he is sending the signal to those who approach him: "When you are near me, I will feel uneasy." If you strike up a conversation with him or ask something, you will often be met with blank stares from him.
When talking with you, he not only crossed his legs, but also kept shaking the foot that was hanging in the air. This is a signal that he is in a good mood to convey to the other party.If you shake your feet like this when you meet someone for the first time, or when you are facing someone at work, it is silently calling you: "You can relax a little bit."
If a person with their ankles crossed and their hands gripping the arms of a chair, what do you think the pose looks like?Maybe you will laugh and say, "Looking like you are in a hurry to go to the bathroom." You are right, this gesture does show some kind of "repression".
You may have the experience that when sitting in the dentist's chair, or lying on your back in the barber chair to shave, you can't help but tightly overlap your ankles and hold your hands tightly. Hold the arm of the chair.This posture is unconsciously adopted by a person when he or she is suppressing a strong feeling or emotion.
There is a proverb in the American army: "Let your ankles overlap tightly at all times." The meaning of this proverb is to ask soldiers to control themselves at all times and not to talk too much, especially when it is not about their own affairs. .
Some people usually seldom overlap their ankles, but when they get on the plane, their ankles keep overlapping and loosening.As a result, he admitted that he was extremely nervous when flying.Therefore, the stewardess seems to have a unique ability to distinguish passengers who really need service but are ashamed to speak up.They could see his nervousness and anxiety from the tightly overlapping ankles of the passenger.In the same way, many people will naturally cross their ankles tightly when facing the examiner during an interview, showing tension.
Experienced nurses will tell you that patients who cross their feet before entering the operating room are usually those who are terrified and must operate.
Some may say that adopting this posture makes them feel comfortable.This is an attempt to use comfort as an excuse to disguise the real reason.If you also have this problem, please pay attention, once you find that your ankles overlap when you rest on your back, please release them, and then taste it again to see if this makes it easier to relax.People who are prone to insomnia, if they sleep with their ankles crossed, it is even more difficult to fall asleep.
It can be seen that the feet are always silently pouring out your heart.If you're sitting face to face with someone, you might have a chance to see the soles of their shoes.Where the soles wear first varies from person to person.Experienced shoemakers can learn about other people's personalities based on the wear on their soles.For example, those with wear on the outside of the toes are aggressive and aggressive, while those with wear on both sides are moderate.Why can such a conclusion be drawn?Because a person with a positive personality always walks in brisk steps when walking, so the outside of the toe is more likely to wear.
In addition, feet are also a yardstick for inferring the degree of intimacy between people.For example, if A and B are standing and talking, if their toes are facing each other and the distance between them is very small, it means that they are very close.
In body language, this is called the state of shared sphere of influence.In other words, have a close relationship that does not allow a third party to intervene between them.
On the other hand, if A and B stand on their toes at right angles, or stand apart at a 60-degree angle, then the relationship between them is not very deep, and a third person is allowed to join their conversation.
Not only the feet, but the legs can also let you see a person's inner waves.
How many body language signals can you get from your legs?There are many opinions on this point, but there is no doubt that the legs are an important joint to express people's subconscious emotions.
We all know that when you see a person's legs shake involuntarily, if he is still in a restaurant, coffee shop or other places at this time.We generally judge that he is waiting for someone, and the other party is delayed.He is expressing anxious and tense awareness in this way.In addition, if one of the family crosses its legs first, and everyone else learns to do so.Then, the first to put his legs up is the head of the family.Even if he wasn't, he was actually the most powerful person in the group.
It can be seen that understanding the movement of the legs is a powerful weapon to decipher the secrets of the heart.Here, we must first analyze the silent language expressed by the legs from the perspective of the sphere of influence.
When feeling uneasy or wanting to reject the other party, most people often cross their hands or legs.This is an unconscious attempt to protect one's own psychological expression and a defensive posture to prevent others from invading one's sphere of influence.
When you make a suggestion to your superior, if he listens for a while and then crosses his legs, you should pay attention that he may not be interested in your suggestion.If this is the case, you should end the topic as soon as possible and leave.If you continue to chatter uninterestedly, the superior will inevitably change the movements of the legs frequently, and eventually become more and more impatient.When he can't help but interrupt you, you'll feel embarrassed.
On the other hand, if people want to show his aggressiveness, or that he intends to accept the other party's words, he will adopt the open-legged posture.Legs spread out widen his sphere of influence more than legs held tightly together.
Those with a strong desire to dominate and own themselves tend to rest their feet on desks and open desk drawers.This behavior can be seen as connecting the table with one's own feet to expand one's sphere of influence and express one's self.On the contrary, if his subordinates show this gesture in front of him, he will feel that his sphere of influence has been violated, and will have a very unpleasant feeling.Once he puts his feet on the table or drawer in front of people he meets for the first time or in front of unfamiliar people, it is inevitable that people will not think "that guy is really arrogant and rude".
In the body language expressed by the legs, one thing that must be paid attention to is the way the legs are crossed.There are differences in the way men and women set their legs, even if they use the same way to set their legs, the meanings it expresses are not the same.
According to the survey, 99% of the people who put the ankle of one foot on the knee or thigh of the other belong to men; and 99% of the people who put the two thighs tightly on each other are women.Because, from an anatomical point of view, the higher the leg is, the closer it is to the sexual organs.Therefore, some foreign scholars believe that the thigh is a sensitive part with sexual consciousness.Even in babies, we can see the kind of infantile masturbation action where thighs rub against each other and cling to each other.
In short, as far as body language is concerned, leg movements are often very sexually suggestive.Therefore, women seldom use leg crossing, especially women wearing short skirts. If she didn't intend to tease the opposite sex, she would never express it like this.Apparently, the way of using the legs to forcefully press the legs has the meaning of defending against the invasion of others and protecting chastity.
There are also people who sit on a chair with one foot raised and straddling the arm of the chair.This gesture may seem relaxed, but if you thought it indicated he was open and cooperative, you'd be wrong.People who pose in this way are indifferent to others, even a little bit hostile.The stewardess has a deep feeling that all male passengers who adopt this sitting posture are often the most difficult to serve.In business, between the buyer and the seller, the buyer will also adopt this posture in his own office to show his superior dominance, and the superior will also use this posture to reflect his authority in front of the subordinate.
There is another kind of sitting upside down with legs apart and facing the back of the chair. This posture is the same as putting your feet on the desk. It usually occurs between superiors and subordinates to show his dominance.No matter how pleasant and friendly a person who adopts this posture may appear on the surface, it may not be the case.Because this posture shows that he is dominant and aggressive.
When the two parties are in fierce competition, one or both parties will involuntarily cross their legs.There was a chess player who, whenever he hesitated in a game, would unknowingly cross his legs.For a chess player, this position is extremely inconvenient, because each time it is his turn to move, he must put his foot down and lean forward to play.Then, when he finished a move, he would cross his legs as usual.Put it down and then set it up, set it up and put it down again, until he felt that he was sure of winning, and then put his feet on the floor peacefully.
This is true when playing chess, and it is also true when negotiating.When an issue is brought up for discussion, or when a heated argument occurs, one or both negotiators will always cross their legs.If the two parties put down their raised legs and lean forward, it means that the negotiation will reach an agreement smoothly.Once the opponent crosses their legs, it is sending you a signal to compete and challenge you. At this time, you must increase your vigilance and concentrate your attention so as not to miss Jingzhou carelessly.
Not only the feet, but also its extended legs, even socks can reveal a man's secrets inadvertently.Perhaps the basic principles of men's socks can give you a deeper understanding of the connection between a man's socks and his person.
The most important principle for men to wear socks is to pay attention to the overall matching. In most cases, the long trousers will cover the upper of the shoe, and the existence of socks can only be seen inadvertently.At this time, its color, texture, and cleanliness will provide the basis for scoring your taste.
Men's socks should be a basic neutral color and darker than the trousers.Matching the color of men's socks with a suit is the most fashionable and easiest way to wear them. If the suit is gray, you can choose gray socks; a navy blue suit should be matched with navy blue socks; a beige suit should be matched with a darker tea color or brown socks.
A common mistake in daily life is: when a man is sitting, a section of white cotton socks is exposed from between his trousers and leather shoes. This disharmony is caused by the confusion of formal suits and casual socks.White and light-colored cotton socks should be paired with casual-style pants and loafers.When wearing formal clothes, socks that are too long look rustic, so wear short socks that are below the calf length, and try to choose unobtrusive light colors; if you wear pure white sports clothes, the socks must be spotless white sports socks.
In particular, make sure that the length of the socks is such that you don't show the skin of your legs when you sit down, or when you put one leg on the other.
A lot of facts show that a man who throws his socks around and a man who puts them by color are two different creatures.The latter take nitpicking for pleasure.Their highest expectation from a woman is tidiness.In comparison, a man with a mess in the room is more like a man. He may be loose, but he is open-minded, and his requirements for women are not limited to housework.However, if a man can't even find a decent broom and a shoebrush in his house, the man is most likely very immature, or lazy.
In addition, generally married men's socks are bought by their wives, so the quality of socks reflects his wife's preferences and the overall style of their home.
Men in life don't like to talk about their personality preferences to women (except for some men who want to use this to establish a relationship with women). Most of the time, men like to hide themselves.Fortunately, the way to get to know a man is not limited to his open heart. Every man unconsciously has the "inertia" in his life.Therefore, from the most casual "shoes" and "shoe-wearing habits" of men, we can learn some of their inner information.
I often encounter such a scene: ask how many pairs of leather shoes does a man have?Men usually answer you naturally without even thinking about it, double pairs!One pair of sneakers and another pair of sneakers that go with casual attire.What a man thinks is a matter of course, but in a woman's eyes, it is purely spoiling herself, and a woman will think: behind this man, there must be no woman who supports and loves him.
However, there is one thing that needs to be explained. If a man's items must be chosen in terms of quantity and quality, then the principle to be adhered to is always rather than excess.
So how many pairs of shoes should a man own?Experts’ suggestions make many men feel ashamed. Slippers, leather shoes, sandals, sports shoes, and boots are all available, except for women’s patents—high heels. Moreover, experts advocate that men should keep up with fashion trends and keep clothing and shoes It fits seamlessly.
I asked several men who "know how to live" how many pairs of shoes they have, and the answer was quite classic: three or four pairs, black leather shoes and brown leather shoes are essential, and one or two pairs of casual shoes is enough.A mature man must never wear sandals. They almost stubbornly stick to this line of defense that does not exist among fashionable people.
And some men think that the simpler the life, the better. Buy a pair of high-quality leather shoes, don’t cherish them when you wear them, and buy another pair when they are worn out. You don’t have to be as colorful as a lady.But it is very important to keep leather shoes clean and tidy. Interestingly, men have more experience in this area than women.So how do you read a man from his shoes? Look at his shoes when dancing with him, and inadvertently ask him about his shoe habits, and you can get a better understanding of his attitude towards love and life in his heart.The following are a few for your reference.
(1) A man who repeatedly buys a fixed shoe style.
This type of man is a very nostalgic man.There is always a deep attachment to the people, things, and things he is used to. Even if his lover is unreasonable and childish, he will treat her and love her with a tolerant heart until she gradually matures and understands.And he has many "old friends", and he is very loyal to his friends, making his old friends feel that he is a trustworthy backer, and he will stand up for his friends and lend a helping hand in due course.
Therefore, if you fall in love with him and become his other half, you may wish to listen to his troubles more, be more considerate of the details of his life, and the relationship between each other should be carried out in a stable and growing way, and don’t forget to be with his "love". "Old friends" can also mingle together and have a common topic of life.
(2) A man who wears shoes sparingly.
After buying a pair of shoes, he cherishes them very much, and hopes that the shoes can be worn for a longer time, which can save a budget for decoration, and the shoes in his shoe cabinet have a long "shoe age", which makes you very impressed.In terms of personality, he is a conservative man who is reserved and can't let go; he is not smooth enough in dealing with others, and often offends people without knowing it; he has a small pattern in interpersonal relationships; Work hard silently and have a chance of success.
Therefore, if you fall in love with him, be careful!He was a man with a "passion at heart".When we were on the first date, I had infinite fantasies about you in my heart. I hope that I can become a lover with you as soon as possible.His reserved and conservative personality suppresses the turmoil in his heart, and he doesn't dare to confess his love to you, making it hard for you to figure out what he really thinks.Therefore, you might as well take the initiative and create more opportunities for him to express his love, so that you can accelerate each other's love temperature and move towards another stage of life.
(3) A man who wears shoes casually.
This type of man is a man who doesn't care what kind of shoes he wears, and wears them indiscriminately.Sometimes the shoes don't match the clothes at all, even if the shoes are already worn out and the style is outdated, he doesn't care, even if he doesn't wear socks, and the socks are worn out and wrong, he can bear it.In terms of personality, he is an unconstrained man, often with high-mindedness and low-handedness.His private life is not organized, and he likes to daydream, believing that one day he will be able to reach the sky in one step, so he is easy to live a life of self-deception.When I first dated him, he would deliberately arrange the date location, paying attention to the atmosphere and sentiment, but he dismissed it casually.What he pays attention to is high-quality and low-cost consumption. Unless he wants to have a big meal himself, he will never take the initiative to invite him.
If you fall in love with him, you will find that his emotional world is complicated, often unable to forget the old love, and unable to reject the new love.Love triangles and love squares are entangled, and when all disputes detonate, he will choose to "escape" and avoid reality, making the people who love him miserable.So, be careful not to fall in love with this kind of man too quickly!
(4) A man who likes to wear formal black leather shoes.
This type of man is a big man who is used to wearing formal black leather shoes and has them polished brightly. He can't bear to go out with a pair of dirty shoes or old shoes.If this type of man is used to wearing his formal black leather shoes even on vacation or on a date, you have to be prepared.He is an out-and-out male chauvinist and traditional man, and he values his mother's opinion very much. You have to win the favor of your future mother-in-law before you can change from his girlfriend to his wife.
If you fall in love with him, don't try to influence his thoughts. He has his own set of principles for dealing with people and the world, and he will never modify it because of you. He will ask you to agree with his views, and even tolerate everything about him.
(5) A man who loves to wear casual shoes.
This type of man is a man who pays attention to leisure life and quality of life. He has high requirements for shoes. Not only must they be comfortable, but he also pays more attention to the style of shoes, which must match clothes.In terms of personality, he likes to take the initiative, has a strong subjective consciousness, is very strict with himself, and is even more picky about the opposite sex.In life, he is a regular planner, but occasionally he will have a carnival on Christmas Eve or a birthday party. When you date him, you can feel that he is a very considerate and good lover, with a gentle and polite attitude, and a humorous conversation. It is easy Make the dating atmosphere harmonious.He is also a man who knows exactly what kind of girl he likes.So when dating him, even if you don't meet his ideals, he will send you home very kindly, but don't think that he has a good impression of you, he is just a gentleman.
Women who know fashion brands can also judge every aspect of a man by looking at the shoes he wears.
Men who wear Converse and men who don't. Converse, like "Kimura", has been popular for 20 years, and it has a price and a market.You just need to pay attention to the images of male celebrities being interviewed in fashion magazines. Whether they are wearing a suit, Tee or sportswear, 90% of the lower body is jeans and Converse shoes. This kind of man makes people feel very comfortable.
The man who wears the Adidas [-]-Stripes and the Adidas Trefoil.
People who like three stripes may not necessarily like the brand Adidas, but they must be people who like some kind of sports, sunshine type.Those who like clover must be fans of Adidas, and most of them are engaged in advertising, design, artistic creation, modeling and other industries. They like a quality life, imagination and creation.For me, the latter is a bit more attractive.
A man in CAT and a man in Timberland.
Many people think that CAT and Timberland have some shoes that are similar, but in fact, the supporters of these two brands are two completely different types of people. CAT became well-known for its production of heavy machinery shoes for construction, industry and agriculture. The image of its industrial leather boots has since been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. Most of them are not suitable for outdoor mountaineering.The man wearing CAT has a more or less industrial smell, with a calm personality and a sense of security.And Timberland is positioned as outdoor casual shoes. They like challenges, surprises and excitement, and also like a leisure lifestyle.Like Chow Yun-fat and Louis Koo are all supporters of Timberland.
I don’t know if you have gained anything after reading such a chapter with practical significance.If you haven't, or haven't figured it out, you might as well do the following two tests, maybe you will be pleasantly surprised!
【Test 1】
Socks are clothes that are directly attached to the skin. According to the touch between the socks and the skin, you can know the softness of the person's heart, and it can also be used as a subtle judgment basis for personality; in short, from the choice of socks, you can also See a person's main character.
See his character from the socks: A. White cotton socks B. Cotton socks of various colors C. Dark-colored socks D. Cartoon pattern socks E. Sports socks
Answer: A. Kind-hearted type
White is a symbol of cleanliness, and the cotton material that can bring gentle touch to the skin means that the person who chooses this kind of socks is very good at taking care of others.
B. Mood changeable
Cotton socks are the most comfortable to wear, while the color represents the person's emotions at the time.If the colors of your socks change frequently, you may be an emotional person.
C. Stable and mild
Dark colors have a sense of balance and stability, which means that people who choose this kind of socks know how to control their emotions and know how to take care of those around them.
D. Childish and innocent type
Cute cartoon characters or dolls represent a certain degree of toddler nature.No matter which pattern you choose, it means that the spiritual level is immature.
E. Playful and family-loving
This style represents a strong playful mood and is also very dependent on parents.People who choose this kind of socks may need complete care from those around them.
【Test 2】
Your hands determine your character
1. Clasp your hands together like a prayer and look at your hands
The left thumb is pushed under the right thumb > left-brained users
Right-brained users whose right thumb is pinned under the left thumb
2. Cross your hands in front of your chest (wrap yourself), and look at your hands
Right arm presses left arm > left-brained users
Left arm over right arm > right-brained users
Rules: Look at your results from 1+2 (you should look at them in the order of 1→2)
Answer: A. Right and left people: the traditional gentle type who is good at caring for others
Right-left people who can intuitively understand each other's mood and respond naturally and kindly.Although he can't take the initiative to move forward, he will take a step back to accommodate others. He is stable and caring by nature, giving people a sense of peace of mind that he will take care of others in everything.But once you have been entrusted once, it will be difficult to say NO to others in the future, which is the biggest shortcoming.No matter how much pain I have, I will do my best for others... This kind of enthusiasm is the best in the world!
B. Right Right People: The type of challenge I love most
Naturally courageous, once you decide [this is the [-] o'clock, you will take action immediately!This is the right person who is full of curiosity and loves challenges.A reckless family who can calmly challenge dangerous things with a single aura.But on the other hand, it also has a delicate and fragile side that is easy to be moved when its weakness is caught.Basically, I don't listen to what other people say, and I skip to the content of the conversation, and it is easy to speak subjectively.However, it is also loved by everyone because of its personality, and it can often become popular!
C. Zuo Zuo people: serious and cold perfectionists
Although quite feminine (masculine), it is the most masculine of the four types!The theoretical thinking that can be organized in everything will quickly defeat him with a piece of great truth.He has a high self-esteem, and his sense of justice is twice as high as others.As a friend, he is very trustworthy, but as an enemy, it will be very troublesome.However, because he is serious by nature and a perfectionist, he often leaves a bad impression that people who meet for the first time are difficult to get along with.
D. Left and right people: like to take care of people, leadership
With a calm observation ability to see through the other party or the atmosphere of the scene, but also has a side that can take care of the other party in a considerate way, this is a person who is both calm and warm.Because of her calm nature, masculinity and strong sense of responsibility, she is often admired by the same sex like a big sister.Able to gather people naturally and get along with them neatly.However, sometimes I can't help but love to take care of others too much.I am very concerned about how the world sees me, and I am always vigilant.
(End of this chapter)
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