Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 538 Two old ladies and a pair of new friends
In fact, the relationship between Qin Huayu and his friend had a rift after he went to Qin to meet Qin Jingru. However, neither of them said much because they consciously had some problems and could still try to reconcile them, but when he went to his girlfriend The family later understood that the difference between them was not different opinions, but different beliefs. Views can be constantly revised through learning, but different beliefs mean that there can be no change. Different beliefs create different families, and even clans. , that is the foundation for the development and growth of a certain family or family, and also the root of their decline!

Whether you are right or wrong is your own choice, but if you have different paths and do not work together, and if people with different beliefs form a family, it will definitely be the beginning of a tragedy.

Basic unity of beliefs is the most basic condition for ensuring a stable family life. Of course, there are exceptions for people like his mother and her sister. They live a simple and practical life. In their eyes, there are only gains and losses, and they have no firm beliefs at all.Of course, for the vast majority of ordinary people like them, life is already very difficult. Just follow the trend and live. There is no point in thinking too much. It is better to know where there are cheaper dishes or fresh and good meat. Come to reality.

Just like Zhao Jinhe's mother, she is now queuing up to buy meat with He Daqing's family.

"Have you heard? It is said that meat will be sold freely! They said that now..."

"The meat is almost there for those who want tickets or not. If you don't want tickets, you can still choose. Even if it's more expensive, it's still worth it."

"That's right, according to what the teacher said, Yu Lin needs to eat more and take supplements, otherwise he will be unable to withstand the climb before the college entrance examination!"

"Isn't it? Just studying is enough! How can you work so hard? I heard my boss say that if you study well, you must perform well. This is the true sense of a student who can study and take exams. Just rely on that Trying too hard sometimes can backfire!"

Now that Zhao Jinyang has returned to live in the courtyard, the relationship between Mrs. Zhao and He Yulin's mother is getting better and better. Especially on the issue of how to take care of an old man of He Daqing's age, Mrs. Zhao has a lot of experience.One is willing to teach and the other is willing to learn. He Daqing's body gradually begins to recover. Both old ladies have also worked hard. Old Mrs. Zhao has no other intentions. He Daqing is in better health and at least his younger son can have less things to worry about. .Moreover, when the two of them get together, they occasionally talk about their successes and failures in raising their younger son.

"Back then, I..."

"Can't you see that Dayang still has times like that? Isn't that too naughty?"

"Isn't that right? His fourth sister scolded him so much that neither I nor the old man dared to take care of it! It's all for the sake of the children! As parents, you can't bear to take care of it! It doesn't matter whether it's a talent or not!"

"Yes! If not..."

Why don't you tell me!Unlike not being a family, the two old ladies have a wife who is more than ten years older than themselves, and they both have a young son who was only born in his 40s. The similar situation makes the two of them have too many topics to talk about together. .

It was just that the seniority of the two people was a bit troublesome, so in the end they were simply called according to their own ages.

"Old Duan!"

"Xiao Chen...hehehe"

"Haha... Don't tell me, no one has called me Xiao Chen for many years, and I didn't even react." "Isn't that right? You are the first one to call me Lao Duan. Are we following the trend? "

"Yeah! That's what everyone calls me when I work. Give it a try!"

He Daqing is actually not much older than Mrs. Zhao, but because he was too tired when he was young, his body has many hidden dangers. In fact, most old people in this era are like this. They get married early, have children early, and join the labor force early. In the beginning, They all worked hard because of their youth and strength. Some of them died early, and some even if they didn't collapse, their health still had many hidden dangers.

On the contrary, women, although they suffer more, have more children, so they have time to rest and take care of themselves when they are young, not only for themselves but also for the children!Physical health is much better than that of men as they get older. In the city, if you go to the gossip center in Hongxing Village, they are all widows and old ladies. Basically, once they reach about 70 years old, old men The children all left, but the old lady got rid of the old man and began a life of boring gossip alone.

At the most exaggerated time in Hongxing Village.A gossip center can actually accommodate twenty old ladies.They all sat on the big rocks in the village to bask in the sun, and there were almost no old men.

What could we talk about while sitting there?

In addition to basking in the sun, so that you can live a healthier life, and don't cause trouble to your children, isn't the rest just a matter of household chores, sons, grandsons and girls?

certainly.The favorite topic of old ladies is to scold some of their daughters-in-law for being ignorant and unfilial.In fact, the same goes for my son.It's just that the son was born by himself, so he couldn't bear to scold him, and the daughter-in-law was from outside, so he said what needed to be said and exposed when needed.After scolding me, I felt happy. It was time to go home and eat the food cooked by my daughter-in-law.

If you don’t have enough to eat, how can you have the mind and energy to complain?

In fact, anyone who cares can find that most of these old ladies are living a good life.

Even if your living conditions are better, you will naturally live longer. But if your living conditions are worse, where will you have time to talk about your daughter-in-law?There was so much work to do at home that she had to do it herself. How could she not bother to talk to others when she was so tired that she was half dead?Seeing that my son and daughter-in-law are working so hard, I have to help them more or less to give them some time to breathe. If I don’t feel sorry for my wife, I have to feel sorry for my son!

Look at those old ladies who have exhausted their sons. How could they not know that without their sons, there would be no chance for them to sit back and take care of themselves in old age?

No matter how filial my daughters-in-law and grandchildren are, how can my sons be reliable?The key is to say it with confidence. If you don't have a son, why don't you ask your daughter-in-law to give it a try?Even the grandchildren are not so confident. After all, they are not born by themselves. People's hearts are separated from each other. Who knows what they think?
In the city and in courtyards, in fact, from a certain perspective, the situation is similar. After a daughter gets married, she doesn't care much about her parents' affairs. She only visits her parents during the holidays. If her daughter gets married, she often returns to her parents' home. , not to mention others, even her parents were worried about her.

Tradition is tradition. It cannot be established in one day, nor can it suddenly disappear one day. It cannot be said that daughters will not be filial when they get married, but they also have their own small families. If they do not put most of their thoughts on their own In a small family, not only the men cannot understand, but also the children are dissatisfied. Every family is the same, so why is their family so special?

He Daqing's three stepdaughters are like this. If they ask for too much, it will be difficult for the children. If they ask for too little, they will definitely have some problems in their lives. In fact, they are all small things in daily life. With Zhao Jinyang With the help of He Yulin, there is actually no problem. Coupled with He Yulin's company, it is not surprising that He Daqing can survive the 73-year-old hurdle.

(End of this chapter)