Siheyuan, I am He Yushui's classmate

Chapter 537: I didn’t understand love when I first fell in love
He Jingwen also successfully gave birth to a fat girl weighing seven and a half pounds in the hospital, and then Wang Fang took over. After discussion, they arranged for Zhao Jinyang to return to the courtyard to take care of He Daqing. It was also convenient for them to take care of him. In addition, they had He can really help with anything at a young age. He needs to have physical strength, culture and executive ability. In doing this, he is actually more reliable and professional than Silly Zhu. After all, he has experienced taking care of Mr. Zhao when he was 80 years old. The general situation of the day was relatively similar, and it was easy to take good care of He Daqing. After all, he was just old and weak, and it was not really a serious illness. As long as all the details were properly arranged, He Daqing's His health was slowly recovering. He gradually got through and adapted to the decline in physical fitness at the age of 74. After slowly adapting to more precautions, He Daqing began to go out again.

And He Yulin has begun to sprint for the college entrance examination again. Maybe this is his only chance!

He is very clear and understands that his family conditions are indeed different from ordinary people in some aspects. He should go to college quickly and find a wife to marry and start a family after graduating from college. Otherwise, his problems will pile up. This time It was successfully solved with the help of my niece and son-in-law. Who can I rely on next time?
It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on anyone. If he does not take care of his father and relies entirely on his mother, his mother will not be able to bear it after a long time. Someone must take turns to take care of him, so the situation will be much better.

In fact, he and Zhao Jinyang have talked about these things together for a long time. They share a common situation and have a lot of experiences and experiences that they can exchange in this regard. Not only his father, He Daqing, but also his mother will basically take care of him in the future. , the three sisters can only come here once in a while in rotation, and even when their families are busy, they may be just passers-by in a hurry, leaving their gifts and leaving.

Everyone has things at home, and they have to go to work every day to earn money to support the family. The era of relying solely on men to support the family has passed. The conditions of dual-income families are obviously much better than those of single-income families. Nowadays, what are the conditions of housewives who do not have a job? There are fewer and fewer children. As the family income increases, there are fewer children. Just like He Yulin's eldest sister, she immediately wanted to give up her three children, two boys and one girl. She decided not to give up anymore. It was too tiring.

His second sister couldn't even give birth to two daughters. There were family factors and work influences. The couple's jobs were no longer profitable, so it wouldn't be a heavy burden to raise just two daughters. If they had another son, that would be He is asking for trouble, and his third sister is simply a son.On the one hand, the country does not allow more children, but on the other hand, the couple don't really want to have more children. Now that they have time and the conditions, wouldn't it be good to live a more relaxed and wealthy life?As for future problems, they can only be considered in the future. If you can take care of the present, just take care of the present first!
Zhao Jinhe left after his fifth brother Zhao Jinyang returned to the courtyard. Wouldn't it be more free to live in his own home at school?Just get up half an hour later every morning. Wouldn’t it be nice to sleep a little longer?

At the age of 45, his physical strength has begun to decline. Sometimes he is so tired from the daily lectures that he sits down to give lectures. After giving too many lectures, what is left is purely physical work.

All old teachers understand this deeply, including Lao Li next door.

Recently, Lao Li took his two grandsons to live in Zhao Jinhe's house, and his granddaughter lived with his wife. This made his house a little less crowded, and the quarrels between the two daughters-in-law naturally stopped. , the younger daughter-in-law said something aggressive, but she didn't do anything. The eldest daughter-in-law was reluctant to spend money to buy a new bed, but she was willing to spend money to buy a new bed?

But it’s all just chatter!Whoever takes it seriously is really stupid, is it still them?
It has to be said that the sons have little ability, and the daughter-in-law also naturally has little ability. They are all people who barely work to earn money and save money to live. No one is much better than the other. If something happens, they will have to find a way. It was solved. In fact, it was Lao Li who stepped forward to solve the problem. Lao Li's wife was also found when he was decentralized for training. She has average abilities and appearance. The only advantage is that she never leaves Lao Li when he is in trouble and gives him life. He has five children. The daughter got married smoothly like her father. She is not pretty but at least has good intelligence. When she was young, she was not pretty but at least she was cute. She got married and left early. The three sons are in trouble. Now, my ability is not good, so I have found a job by make do. Only one of them is a regular worker, or a sanitation worker that no one wants to be. The other two are directly in a large collective, so the problem of dividing the house will be a big trouble. Only the sanitation workers were given a house to move out, but the remaining two sons and daughter-in-law were unable to move out. They crowded together to eat their food and drink theirs, and they were scheming and quarreling with each other. The sons were not obedient. Participate, otherwise it will really be chaos!
However, a small house with too many people is a real problem. Seeing that only one person lives in Zhao Jinhe's house next door, Lao Li asked for help!
"Dahe! You all know the situation in my family. If it weren't for the conflicts between my daughter-in-law and my daughter-in-law, I would also..."

That's what happened. He brought his two grandsons to live with him, and his granddaughter lived with her grandmother. Most of the problems were solved at once. Moreover, these two children were educated and trained by Lao Li. They are not particularly smart and capable. But at least he is a polite and sensible boy, so come here!After many years of friendship, Zhao Jinhe couldn't bear to refuse.

Besides, living with a companion is not a big deal, as we are not living together. "Then come over here! You're just here to keep me company. If I go out again in the future, you can also help me check on my house and help me with anything I need."

"No problem! Don't worry..."

Zhao Jinhe was living happily, but Qin Huayu felt a little uneasy because he was also going to meet the adults at the woman's house!This is also a step that must be experienced in falling in love. After passing the hurdles of parents, the relationship between the two of them can begin to prepare to enter a new stage.

It is equivalent to an interview for the younger generation at the parents' place. Just because Qin Jingru's place is easy, it does not mean that the obstacles in the woman's family are also easy.

Facts have proved that his feeling was accurate. The other party's parents despised his incomplete family!

Of course, this is the reason they said, a reason that can be stated openly and directly. Although Qin Huayu did not continue to fight, it was not only because of the setbacks her parents and brothers encountered, but the atmosphere in her family actually made her He didn't like it very much!She is hypocritical and polite, but his home is simple, direct and casual. What he likes is her temperament, and she likes his gentle personality. All temperaments will look different after they are truly expressed, and His gentleness is not without temper. People in different worlds have different pursuits, and the means, methods, methods and paths to achieve their goals are also very different.

"You don't want to fight anymore?"

"No, the dream I pursue and what your family expects are completely different directions. If you feel that you can't change and adapt, why should I insist on coming? We have different paths and we don't want to work together. , in the future when we are separated, it will be a sunny day if everyone is safe, don’t think about it!”

Qin Huayu seemed to leave without any nostalgia, even though she kept looking at him with tears in her eyes.He did not look back. Her tears were shed for herself, but he had no tears long ago. The two women in the family were already able to shed tears. Although he was the youngest, he was also the only man in the family, and there were also His persistence!
(End of this chapter)