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Chapter 170 Lin Feng’s words brought up countless people’s childhood scars! (Three-in-one monthly pass plus updates)

During the silence between Zhang Zhixing and his wife, some viewers in the live broadcast room also expressed their feelings.

"Using 'achievement' to trade, you will raise a child who has no love for his parents... Oh, I think of myself! I have always had good grades since I was a child, and my parents are what Teacher Lin said are 'happy for their children's grades' Parents', they are also the kind of parents who will accept what the teacher calls a 'score trade'. When I was in high school, my grades dropped terribly for a period of time, and I heard them say a lot of heart-wrenching words every day. I still remember those words. Not only I will never forget it, and it is even harder to have love for my parents... Sigh!! It’s so sad.”

"Hug you! Teacher Lin's words really see through to the essence and have good intentions! I think it will cause many parents to reflect, right?"

"That's right, as a parent, remind yourself that family is a place about 'love', not a place about 'transaction'."

"..."

Outside the studio.

Director Liu Yong, who was next to Lin Feng, saw this scene through the screen, then looked at the audience's speeches, and sighed:

"This program has connected so many parents, and now it feels more and more meaningful."

“The topic of family education is really not easy!”

"In farming, one can say which seeds will bear what kind of fruit. But raising children is full of misunderstandings, and even sweet trees can bear bitter fruits."

It was also at this moment that Liu Yong felt even more admiration for Lin Feng, who was still able to cope with different family education problems.

Just how to reward children correctly, there are so many ways to do it!
Moreover, Teacher Lin can easily remind Zhao Shengrui's parents through a small scene.

Tell them where the pitfalls are and how to avoid them.

Judging from the appearance of this couple, their family's problems should have been resolved.

Teacher Lin is indeed an educator!
Cattle!
However, after sighing, Liu Yong continued to stare at the couple curiously.

What will they do next?

And how would Zhao Shengrui react to their actions?
At this moment, beside Liu Yong, Sun Wei looked shocked and said with emotion:

"Teacher Lin is really arrogant! Incorrect rewards can really kill people!"

Sun Wei couldn't help but think of herself and said to Wu Peng:

"I can speak out with my own experience! My parents always gave me material rewards in order to let me learn something. In the end, I really felt from the bottom of my heart that I learned things just for my parents."

"In the end, I became unmoving in the face of rewards..."

Sun Wei was quite embarrassed when talking about the past.

Wu Peng also brought himself in, nodded, and said with sadness:
"I'm not much better. At home, my father would dump me a wad of money at every turn, and then I ended up like this."

At this time, Wu Peng's face turned red as he thought of his stupid behavior before coming to Xiangzhang Village.

At this moment, the two children suddenly felt as if they were in a different world from their past.

After a long time, Sun Wei smiled and said:
"Zhao Shengrui's family, like ours, met Teacher Lin. From the looks of it, we should be able to get out of the misunderstanding."

Wu Peng nodded, his heart moved, and he said:
"Looking at their performance, have they learned or failed?"

After saying this, the two children looked at each other and smiled when they saw the anticipation in each other's eyes.

What will Zhao Shengrui’s family do next?
At this moment, the discussion in the live broadcast room was also extremely intense.

Because Lin Feng's educational views opened up everyone's childhood memories and aroused everyone's desire to talk.

"Every word Teacher Lin said hit my heart!! It reminded me of my dad."

"I remember that in my senior year of high school, I performed exceptionally well and ranked 27th in my grade. My dad bought me drinks and food along the way. When I got home at night, I washed my hair, and he insisted on blowing it! My life I have never enjoyed this kind of treatment in the first half of my life. However, I felt so uncomfortable at the time! I would rather my parents treat me how they want to treat me, and never treat me particularly well just because I got a good score in the exam. This makes me I feel like they are only treating me well because of my grades.”

"Teacher Lin is so right! I once scored 98 points on a math test in elementary school, ranking first in the class. The result was because the math teacher accidentally said to my mother that if this child was more careful, he could actually get a perfect score. Because I got one small question wrong, which is a pity. Just because of these words from the teacher, my mother grabbed my ears and scolded me when I got home, saying that I was careless and embarrassed... The joy of being first in the class was gone. And I I really don’t understand what this kind of thing has to do with being embarrassed... But from then on, I felt that I studied for my parents, and the more they said they were doing it for my own good, the less willing I was to study."

"After reading your story, I feel like crying for no reason. I give you a hug."

"It would be great if Teacher Lin was my teacher! This is the first time I saw someone talking about "love", and I really cried. I didn't get normal love when I was a child. My parents were not strict, but I like to emphasize how much I have paid, which makes me always feel guilty. I always feel that if I don't do better in the exam, I will be sorry for their love, and if I don't do better, I won't be worthy of their efforts. When I fail, I can't sleep at night. This problem, It’s not getting better so far.”

"What you're talking about is really a shadow of childhood. Don't ask me how I understand you. Just ask, it's almost the same."

"I cried too! Normally I don't cry when I watch tear-jerking movies, animations, comics and books. When I saw Teacher Lin saying, 'Making requests from your parents is normal and something that can be met', I burst into tears. Oops. Because my grades can determine my treatment at home! Moreover, I am always very extreme and moody in private. I don’t know if it is because of this kind of education. In fact, when I was younger, it was When I was not in school, they were very nice to me, so this polarization of attitudes made me particularly conflicted. Now it doesn't matter, just leave it at that."

"I heard Teacher Lin's surprising answer - 'Dad is very happy to hear that you are happy, so I am very happy'. This sentence directly made my heart skip a beat! Thinking about myself, I can't learn from my parents. I heard such words from my mouth. At home, they all practice repressive education. They only criticize and rarely hear praise. As a result, when I grew up outside, I was also very unconfident. I felt uncomfortable with praise and praise from others. I feel uncomfortable all over and don’t know what to do. And now, when they see other people’s children being generous, confident, and well-spoken, they will ask me to learn to do the same... But, I learn? I really don’t understand what I am doing How to learn! I have discussed this problem with my parents, but they said there is nothing they can do, and they won’t praise others... I am really desperate.”

"Zhao Shengrui's parents are pretty good. In my family, before every final exam, they would always promise me how much the reward would be for 90, 95, and 100, but they never fulfilled it! I cried with laughter. "

"You are a child with excellent grades, but you don't love your parents? Ha! I think of my sad experience. When I was a child, my classmates all had pocket money, and I only had breakfast money every day. At that time, my family's salary was not low, but I thought When drinking drinks or buying snacks, I would not ask for them. In addition to being introverted, I am also a little afraid of my parents. Because of the two of them, one of them was able to take an exercise arm bar and aim at his own son when I was in the third grade of elementary school. The father who was missing from my lap was able to beat my mother with a clothes hanger at the door of my house in front of four or five of my classmates. I couldn’t kiss them! Later, I wanted to eat snacks and would rather be hungry and skip breakfast. I save money to buy those things, but I don’t want to ask my parents for them. To be honest, the fact that I don’t want to get married is caused by the fear my parents gave me. Until now, I only have one or two friends, who are very ordinary for a few months. The kind that can't speak even once. I'm really living with low self-esteem now. My parents always tell me not to stay at home, go out to play with friends more, and talk to my girlfriend. But they don't want to think about who did it in front of my friends, In front of my classmates, he took off my clothes and beat me. Just like this, what kind of friends can I have..."

"Oh my God, Teacher Lin's words have opened up the scars of so many families and children!"

"..."

The discussion in the live broadcast room was filled with barrages, but at the scene, Zhao Shengrui's parents had recovered from the silence.

"Old Zhao, the way we treated our children before was all wrong..."

Zhang Liufang felt bitter and uneasy:

"...Although his intentions were good, he hurt the child."

Zhao Zhixing glanced at Lin Feng in the picture, bit his lip, and said to his wife:
"Stop talking about this, how about we go talk to the children? It might be useful to make up for it before it's too late."

Hearing Zhao Zhixing's words, Zhang Liufang nodded, her eyes full of relief:
"Yes, we can't help our children. At this time, we should take the initiative."

"However, with the child's current situation, what should we say at the beginning? Don't say a few words before the child doesn't want to hear it."

"Let me think about..."

Lin Feng listened to their discussion without saying anything. At this time, they should try to deal with the problem on their own. If something happened, it would not be too late to speak out.

And just when the couple was discussing how to find the child next.

Zhao Shengrui stared blankly at Lin Feng crying in the picture.

This time, the tears were not sad, but moved!

Teacher Lin is attentive and insightful, and he also understands himself very well.

When he was studying in the past, when he saw Boya Ziqi, mountains and rivers, he still seemed to understand. Is there really such a feeling of confidant in the world?

Looking at Lin Feng now, he suddenly understood.

Teacher Lin has such charisma!Moreover, he is really his best friend!

While being moved, Zhao Shengrui looked at the picture again to see his parents who were discussing coming to see him.

Listening to their voices getting quieter and quieter, until he couldn't hear anything specific anymore, his heart suddenly lifted.

"Are you going to come to me now? And you want to be so solemn."

Zhao Shengrui took a deep breath, feeling his heart beating like thunder at this moment, and his mouth began to feel dry.

What will parents do?Have they learned the essence of Teacher Lin?
Can the problem between me and my parents be solved today?
He has no answer for all this...

Just when Zhao Shengrui was extremely nervous.

"Dong dong dong."

The bedroom door has been knocked by parents!

Even though he already knew that this would happen, he was still so nervous that his heart suddenly got stuck in his throat!

The violent heartbeat and hot blood made Zhao Shengrui's hands and feet weak at this moment, and he could hardly move.

And outside the door.

His parents also had sweaty palms and were extremely worried.

If the child doesn’t open the door, what happens next?
They were also confused and nervous!

They even look at Lin Feng in the picture from time to time, hoping that he can say something, even though they know that there is nothing to say now...

In such a delicate atmosphere, the air seemed to have stopped flowing.

The audience who were still expressing their emotions in the live broadcast room were interrupted by the knock on the door.

Everyone suddenly came to their senses and stared at the door intently.

Until it felt like the opening time was beyond their expectations. At this time, everyone became anxious.

"Zhao Shengrui, your parents are looking for you, please open the door quickly!"

"If this door is not opened today, there will be trouble next time."

"Hurry, hurry! Open the door, kid! You must give your parents and yourself a chance!"

"..."

And Zhao Shengrui, who they were urging, had no time to distract himself from watching these barrages.He just stared blankly at the door in front of him, and with every step he took, he became more worried.

Gradually, Zhao Shengrui began to have tinnitus.

At this moment, he only felt that he was put into a transparent cover, and the air was gradually being sucked out, and he almost couldn't breathe.

His bedroom was not big, but at this moment, he felt that the way to open the door was far away.

After Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing knocked on the door, they wanted to listen to what was going on in the child's room as before.

But at this moment, all they heard was their own violent heartbeats.

"Plop, plop, plop..."

The violent heartbeat made the couple lose their sense of time.

I don’t know how long it took, maybe it was very long, so long that they felt despair.

Or maybe it was very short, so short that they had already planned what to say, but they were still caught off guard.

Just listen to "squeak".

door, open!
A family of three, looking at each other, collectively speechless!
They looked at each other speechlessly, with tears streaming down their faces...

a long time……

It wasn't until Zhang Liufang sobbed and hugged her son that she broke the silence.

And she had already forgotten all the words she had discussed with her husband before, and only said one sentence:
"Son, I'm sorry!"

At this time, Zhao Zhixing suddenly came to his senses, reached out to wipe the tears on his son's face, and asked him with choked sobs:

"Son, dad was wrong, can you forgive me?"

After hearing what his parents said, Zhao Shengrui changed from sobbing to bursting into tears!
The parents were heartbroken and cried until they were overwhelmed.

Is my son’s behavior because he has too many complaints against us?

Just when they were uneasy, Zhao Shengrui's voice sounded:

"Dad, Mom and Dad, I don't blame you, I blame myself..."

Zhao Shengrui choked and spoke:
"I don't like how you always use other people's children to motivate me, but you keep it in your heart because you don't believe you will change."

"I'm very sad and don't want to study. I gradually don't want to go out, eat, or even talk to you..."

"Actually, at night, I have been blaming myself and why I hate you."

"Mom and Dad, I don't want this, I don't want it at all."

Listening to Zhao Shengrui blaming himself incoherently, Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing felt as if their hearts had been ripped out, burning with pain. Then, they couldn't help but look at Lin Feng on the screen——

Teacher Lin is really amazing, he has deduced all this!

Lin Feng saw this scene through the camera and sighed slightly:
"A depressed child is not because he has a weak psychological endurance, but because he understands everything but cannot understand it."

Unfortunately, there are too few parents who understand this!

Hearing Lin Feng's words, the couple remembered their previous accusations against their children, and their guilt reached its peak, and they quickly said:
"Son, don't say that. It's your parents' fault."

Zhang Liufang hugged Zhao Shengrui and said with distress and self-blame:

"It's because we have never thought about things from your point of view, and we are always self-righteous and hurt you."

"sorry."

"Mom and dad didn't do it on purpose, they just don't know how to educate their children."

After hearing what his parents said, Zhao Shengrui burst into tears and buried his face in his parents' arms.

In this way, the family of three hugged each other tightly.

At this moment, they finally understood each other.

The love that had been solidified in this family slowly began to flow between the three of them at this moment.

After a long time, Zhang Liufang wiped her tears and said:
"Son, my parents promise that they will listen to your opinion on anything in the future. You don't have to keep your worries in your heart."

"Uh-huh."

Zhao Shengrui nodded, crying and laughing, his heart filled with gratitude to Lin Feng.

If it hadn't been for Teacher Lin, I don't know what kind of twists and turns their family would have gone through before they could understand each other!

Seeing the interaction between their family of three, the corners of the mouths of the viewers in the live broadcast room slowly turned up.

"I can see my aunt's smile and we are reconciled. It's so good!!"

"As Teacher Lin said, depressed children understand everything... Alas, what Zhao Shengrui needs is the understanding of his parents. With understanding, everything will be easier to say."

"Thanks to Teacher Lin's guidance, the family understands each other now."

"Teacher Lin, do you accept the older children who are between 40 and [-] years old?"

"Hey, you might as well ask: Teacher Lin, do you educate 60-year-old parents here?"

"Take the bamboo shoots!!"

"..."

Outside the live broadcast room, director Liu Yong looked at Lin Feng's back, his eyes sparkling with admiration.

When the child Zhao Shengrui appeared on the stage and saw his condition, he was really worried, both for the child and for Teacher Lin.

On the one hand, I am worried about my children.

On the other hand, I am not sure whether Teacher Lin can cure such a difficult problem with medicine.

But now that I see this scene, I feel completely relieved.

While feeling relieved, Liu Yong couldn't tell whether he was confused or emotional, and murmured to himself:
"How much effort does Mr. Lin have to keep things under control? I feel like he can't trouble him about any family education issues."

After the words fell, Liu Yong's heart suddenly moved:
When we were connected before, the program team was really timid about the registration conditions and the selection of registered families.

Because this is a live broadcast, any problem may be magnified, and it will be very serious if something goes wrong.

However, now I can see that Teacher Lin has a strong knowledge reserve, as well as excellent on-the-spot response and field control abilities.

It seems like... this show could be a little bolder? ?

Liu Yong rubbed his chin, thinking about this possibility, and then began to lose focus.

Beside him, Sun Wei and Wu Peng were already clapping their hands.

"This is how we become a family! If everyone understands each other, everything will be easy to talk about."

Wu Peng said with emotion:
"Zhao Shengrui tortured himself and had no outlet for his emotions, which led to depression."

Sun Wei nodded and patted Wu Peng on the shoulder:

"That's right. You keep everything in your heart. It would be strange if nothing happens...Eh? I think you are pretty good at speaking now."

Wu Peng raised his eyebrows and pointed at Lin Feng not far away:
"Don't even look at whose student I am!"

Sun Wei clicked her tongue twice and said:
"I just complimented you, and the prototype has been revealed. Can't I change it to something more educated?"

“Educated??”

Wu Peng looked confused.

Sun Wei chuckled and nodded at him:

"You're stupid, 'the one who is close to the vermillion will become red', 'famous teachers will produce great disciples', 'the eyes and ears are affected', which one can't be used?"

After Wu Peng listened, he thought seriously for a moment. Just when Sun Wei thought he had an idea, Wu Peng opened his mouth and said:
"Sister Sun, you still know how to flatter me."

When Sun Wei heard this, she was ready to fight. Wu Peng begged for mercy again and again, and the two of them laughed together.

Lin Feng listened to the laughter of the children next to him, and then looked at the smiling faces of the children on the other side of the screen. The smile at the corner of his mouth widened unconsciously.

This is the point of doing your own education!

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