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Chapter 167: There must be my teacher among the three of us?This is not a reason to teach children! ([-]-in-[-])

Teacher Lin's first reaction was to ask to communicate with the child?

However, the viewers in the live broadcast room will understand after thinking about it for a moment.

"This kind of thing really cannot be unilaterally listened to by the parents."

"That's right, if parents could realize their problems, they wouldn't come to Teacher Lin."

"Teacher Lin's request is right. Jiang is still old and spicy [dog head]"

"I also want to see what's going on with the children in this family."

"Didn't his mother just say that this child is depressed?"

"Depressed? Wouldn't it be possible to resist communication or something?"

"Damn it, wouldn't it be impossible to communicate with Teacher Lin?"

"If this is the case, how should the matter be resolved??"

"..."

Outside the studio.

Facing Lin Feng's request, Zhao Zhixing and his wife looked at each other in embarrassment.

"This is how to do?"

Zhang Liufang said softly to her husband:

"This child Sheng Rui has been hiding in his room. No matter how we knock on the door, he doesn't answer. Now if we call him, can he open the door?"

Why didn't Zhao Zhixing know about this situation?
He told his children about the connection through text messages.

But until now, the child has neither replied nor shown any intention to come out. He is also very helpless.

Therefore, facing his wife's words, he was a little anxious. After turning around in circles a few times, he gritted his teeth and said:

"They say it's hard for a good woman to make a meal without rice. If Sheng Rui doesn't cooperate, Teacher Lin, even the Great Luo Immortal, can't save my family."

When Zhang Liufang heard her husband's words, she slowly let go of the entanglements in her heart:

"That's right. The opportunity is right in front of you. You can't just give it a try, right? Then let's go knock on the door together?"

"Come on one at a time? Give them some room to relax."

"Okay, I'll knock first."

After the two agreed, they walked to Zhao Shengrui's bedroom door with anxiety.

Then, Zhang Liufang raised her hand and knocked on the door gently.

"Dong Dong Dong~"

A knock on the door echoed through the room.

Zhao Shengrui was half lying on the bed, listening to this voice, and then looking at the mobile phone in his hand that was playing the live broadcast, his mood was very complicated.

At the beginning, when he heard his parents talking about what they did for themselves, he felt very uncomfortable inside.

Then, I saw the barrage area of ​​the live broadcast room. Many netizens were identifying with their parents, and they felt so stressed that they couldn't breathe.

At that time, Zhao Shengrui's chest was heaving violently, and he felt that he was unable to communicate with his parents in this situation.

It wasn't until Lin Feng gently stated his guess and firmly asked to call him to understand the situation that he felt that he could breathe much easier.

Because what Lin Feng revealed in his words was respect for himself.

This feeling was something he had never felt from his parents. At that moment, a warmth arose in his heart, and he felt the warmth and emotion he had not seen for a long time.

After thinking for a while, Zhao Shengrui finally got out of bed, straightened his clothes, and gently opened the door.

At this moment, the person knocking on the door has been replaced by Zhao Zhixing. His hand is still hanging in the air, preparing to knock on the door a second time.

He watched the door suddenly open suddenly, and his first reaction was a little surprised.

Of course, Zhang Liufang also opened her mouth in surprise.

The couple hadn't knocked on this door for a long time...

Then, joy surged into both of their hearts at the same time——

The child Sheng Rui didn't want to communicate with their parents, so it didn't matter to them.

Anyway, things have reached this point, and they feel that their ability to bear it is not bad.

However, now that the child is willing to communicate with Teacher Lin, this is the family's hope. Maybe the problem can be solved.

Thinking of this, Zhang Liufang handed the phone to her son:
"Son, Teacher Lin wants to talk to you."

At this moment, the audience in the live broadcast room finally saw Zhao Shengrui's true face in Lushan.

The hair is yellow and the exposed skin is sallow and dull.

Dark circles and bags under the eyes hang on the face, and the cheeks have become sunken...

The whole person was also listless, and it looked like he was severely malnourished.

"Oh my God! This kid looks like a skeleton!"

“This is how I intuitively understand what anorexia means.”

"I just watched a documentary about depression. The image of this child is similar to the patient in it."

"It turns out that depression is like this. It's so scary and distressing."

"If you continue to be depressed, something will happen!"

"Teacher Lin, please save this child, he is so pitiful."

"I hope Teacher Lin can find a way to save him, otherwise it will be really troublesome."

"..."

Lin Feng was also shocked by Zhao Shengrui's image.

Not to mention that he was extremely thin. What was terrible was that there was no trace of yearning or expectation for the future in this child's eyes.

"Weary of studying, anorexia, depression..."

Lin Feng sighed softly.

These things were pressing on the child, and it seemed that it had reached the limit of what he could bear!
There must be a way to save this poor child.

Just when Lin Feng was thinking about how to open the child's heart and have a good chat with him, Zhao Shengrui took the initiative to speak:

"Teacher Lin, I want to talk to you alone, is that okay?"

While talking, Zhao Shengrui did not visit his parents.

In other words, from the moment he opened the door to now, he has had zero interaction with his parents, not even a single eye contact.

Coupled with the request made by Zhao Shengrui, the audience in the live broadcast room suddenly understood.

Blatantly rejecting parents!

"Why do you specifically ask to avoid parents?"

"This request is unexpected, but it seems reasonable??"

"??What exactly happened in this family? Why is this situation happening today?"

"It feels like these parents actually care about their children, but the behavior of their children avoiding them is very thought-provoking!"

"That's right, why did the child do this?"

"It depends on whether Teacher Lin can open the child's heart!"

"..."

Outside the live broadcast room, Zhao Shengrui's parents looked at their child in surprise.

They knew that their son didn't want to communicate with them, otherwise they wouldn't have locked him up.

However, now they are connected to Teacher Lin. In their imagination, it is appropriate for the whole family to talk to Teacher Lin together.

However, it didn't matter what they said, so the couple turned to Lin Feng for help.

"Teacher Lin, this...??"

Lin Feng looked at the child and understood clearly that if the child could make such a request, it seemed that the parents really had a big problem.

The lesson of family education is really a long way to go.So, Lin Feng said directly:
"Sheng Rui, you can go back to the room with your phone and let's talk slowly."

Now that Lin Feng had spoken like this, Zhao Shengrui took the phone, turned around and closed the door again.

Outside the door, Zhang Liufang and Zhao Zhixing looked at each other helplessly, and then returned to the living room.

At this time, Zhao Zhixing had an idea and quickly turned on the TV.

Although the child refuses to speak in front of him, it’s okay to watch the live broadcast, right?

on the screen.

Lin Feng smiled at Zhao Shengrui and said kindly:
"Sheng Rui, you can tell the teacher whatever you want to say. Just say it and I'll listen."

Lin Feng is also familiar with educational psychology and knows that when faced with depressed children, they are most afraid of talking incessantly.

At this moment, it is best to be a quiet listener and guide the child to express what is in his heart.

Sure enough, Lin Feng's gentle attitude and understanding words moved Zhao Shengrui even more.

He thought for a moment, then slowly said:
"Teacher Lin, I feel really sad because my parents often compare me with other people's children."

“No matter what I do and how well I do it, there will always be a child from a friend’s family, a child from a colleague’s family, or even a child from a news report that comes up to explain that my achievements are nothing. "

"I'm really uncomfortable!"

As soon as he opened his mouth, Zhao Shengrui choked up.

For him, it's a scar deep within him.

Lin Feng looked at Zhao Shengrui distressedly and said with understanding:
"I know how you feel, so feel free to cry if you want."

For depressed children, when the mood rises, it is better to block than to relax.

After Zhao Shengrui shed tears for a while, he continued:
"Actually, I have told my parents about this, but they always have their own reasons."

"It is said that when we are walking among three people, I must be my teacher. Letting others set an example for me motivates me to keep catching up with others and work hard."

When Zhao Shengrui said this, the tears in his eyes became even more uncontrollable and fell one after another.

"Teacher Lin, I'm so tired and uncomfortable."

"After I improve my academic performance, they don't mention academic performance, but social activities. When I catch up with social activities, they will mention doing housework and honoring their parents..."

When Zhao Shengrui burst into tears, his parents were sitting in the living room, watching the live broadcast, with expressions of confusion on their faces.

"This child's mental capacity is really not good enough."

Zhang Liufang shook her head and sighed:
"Other people say he is a loving mother but a loser, but that doesn't exist in our family. We are very strict with him. Why is his ability to withstand stress so weak?"

Listening to his wife's doubts, Zhao Zhixing answered helplessly:
"Maybe the living conditions are too good and there is a lack of training in this area. If this child is like us back then, he will never be like this."

Zhang Liufang nodded, looked at her son in the picture, and said to herself:
"Son, we as parents are here to inspire you. You will understand when you grow up."

Zhao Zhixing nodded, with a look of agreement.

Just because children do not understand their education methods does not mean that their education methods are wrong.

If it weren't for their encouragement, would his results have been so good?How many friends can you have?
It's a pity that this kid has poor ability to withstand pressure and didn't catch anything in the end!

Just when they were sighing, the audience in the live broadcast room empathized with Zhao Shengrui.

"Damn it, other people's children are the most annoying!"

"This method of motivation is simply my childhood nightmare, and the dead memories are starting to attack me."

"You look at others, they are better at studying than you; you look at others, they win prizes for playing the piano; you look at others, they all know how to help their parents work; you look at others, they are more sensible; you look at others, they are more obedient; you look at others, they never Don’t be called parents…”

"Stop talking, it smells like that! There are so many parents of the same style!"

"Ever since I was little, I have always wanted to know who 'other people's children' are. I promise not to beat him to death [anger]"

"I can sympathize with Zhao Shengrui. I was really forced to do it."

"In this way, I finally know what the problem is with this family."

"As expected of Teacher Lin, without the heart-to-heart talk with Zhao Shengrui, who would have noticed?!"

"Teacher Lin is very careful and doesn't talk to the children about this. I really can't figure out what the crux is."

"In terms of education, it still depends on Teacher Lin."

"..."

Lin Feng, after listening to Zhao Shengrui's description, sighed softly.

Love is enough to harm.

Improper parental care can really destroy a child.

Looking at the overwhelmed Zhao Shengrui in front of him, Lin Feng comforted him:

"Sheng Rui, teacher can understand your fatigue and hard work, as well as the fear in your heart."

“When you’re growing up, whether you do well or poorly, you get negative feedback.”

"Other people's children are like a curse. All of them are better than you, all of them make your parents envious, and all of them help your parents criticize you for not living up to expectations and not achieving your talents."

"You are driven by your parents to run all the way, chasing the other person who is better than you, but if there is more than one, there is another one. The other person is always in front of you, serving as your example and contrasting your incompetence..."

Following Lin Feng's words, Zhao Shengrui gradually calmed down, because every word Lin Feng said spoke to his heart.

Even if he keeps saying that he is so tired and in difficulty.

But Teacher Lin actually saw the fear in his heart!
Yes, he is also afraid, afraid that he is really the good-for-nothing loser...

At this moment, Zhao Shengrui looked at Lin Feng with eyes full of indescribable admiration.

Teacher Lin really understands me!

At this time, Lin Feng's affirmative voice sounded:
"But the teacher doesn't think you are incompetent!"

"In the teacher's heart, every child is unique!"

"Sheng Rui, you are who you are, there is no need to compare with others."

After the words fell, Zhao Shengrui's tears burst out of his eyes again!

"I am who I am, I am unique and there is no need to compare with others..."

At this moment, Zhao Shengrui's eyes finally shone.

In front of the TV, Zhao Shengrui's parents saw their child's reaction. They changed their previous attitude and fell into thinking.

Teacher Lin can impress this child Sheng Rui with one sentence, which shows that what he said makes sense!

Think again.

They always use other people's children to motivate their children.

In this kind of thing, from a parent's perspective, what we see is setting an example.

But from a child's perspective, no matter how hard you try, you can't catch up with others...

At this moment, Zhang Liufang bit her lips and said with some embarrassment:

"Old Zhao, it seems we have done bad things with good intentions?"

Zhao Zhixing thought for a moment and said nothing.

Because he didn't know what he should say, let alone what he should do.

If you don't use other people's children to motivate Sheng Rui, then you just let it go?
Not right!

At this time, Lin Feng's calm voice came out from the screen:
"Sheng Rui, the choice of teacher for your question is already clear."

"Don't worry, the teacher can help you."

"Now, please take out your phone and give it to your parents!"

After the words fell, Zhao Shengrui was stunned, and his tear-stained face was full of confusion and uneasiness.

Teacher Lin already knows what to do?

Does that mean I have to take the initiative to find my parents now?
Did they hear what I just said?

What should I do now?
Also, will parents listen to Teacher Lin?

(End of this chapter)