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Chapter 135 The lonely back!Children understand parents!But parents don’t understand their children! ([-]-in-[-])

Is there something wrong with Zhang Xin’s family or family education? !

As soon as Lin Feng said this, the audience in the live broadcast room was deeply surprised!

"Isn't it? Could it be that Zhang Xin's family has a problem with family education?!"

"Zhang Xin's father has done so many things for Zhang Xin, what can be wrong? Is there any aspect that was not done well?"

"Yes, I have the same doubt. Where did Teacher Lin get this judgment? Let me take a look at their conversation."

"Zhang Xin's father took the initiative to go to the school to communicate with the teacher for Zhang Xin's study. Is this for Zhang Xin's sake?"

"In order for his children to calm down and study, Zhang Xin's father doesn't even let Zhang Xin do the housework. He also contributes a lot at home!"

"Let me add that even if you have conflicts with your children, you will try your best to solve them and even go to the program team. How many parents can achieve this kind of intention?"

"You've finished talking... Come on, let's brainstorm, why is there still a problem with family education? I think Zhang Xin's father has done a good job!"

"Stop brainstorming, I'm in such a mess here, it's impossible to get positive and negative, right?"

"If what Zhang Xin's father did is wrong, then what is right? It's not about leverage, it's because I really can't figure out what Teacher Lin is thinking!"

"I can't figure it out...forget it, let's see what Teacher Lin says next. Maybe we missed some details."

"Well, wait for Teacher Lin's analysis!"

"..."

In front of the TV, a violent coughing sound sounded!
"Cough cough cough..."

Wang Jianfeng's mother choked on the water and coughed until her face turned red.

When Wang Jianfeng's father saw this, he patted her on the back repeatedly.

"Why are you so careless?"

But Wang Jianfeng's mother, who had regained consciousness, immediately pointed at the screen and said in surprise:

"Dad, did you hear what Teacher Lin said? This, how is this possible?!"

Wang Jianfeng’s father nodded helplessly:

"I heard, I wanted to say this too, but wasn't you interrupted? But..."

Wang Jianfeng's father lengthened his tone and said thoughtfully:

"Since it is said that there is a problem with family education, think about Wu Peng, Wang Yuqian before..."

"Is it possible that our family also has a problem with family education?"

Seeing her husband's thoughtful expression, Wang Jianfeng's mother fell silent, put away her shocked emotions, and began to think.

Wang Jianfeng smiled softly in his heart as he listened to his parents' discussion.

There's something wrong with family education...isn't it? !

At this point, he felt vaguely sympathetic to Zhang Xin.

The same goes for his home and his own home.

In the eyes of parents, everything must make way for learning, and everything else is one-size-fits-all.

Wang Jianfeng sighed in his heart.

I don’t want to think about it anymore, let’s see what Teacher Lin will say next!

A trace of curiosity now arose in his heart:
Zhang Xin didn't talk to Teacher Lin much. How did Teacher Lin come to this conclusion?
Next, how will Zhang Xin’s father be educated?
As a result, Wang Jianfeng pricked up his ears and listened intently to what Lin Feng would say next.

……

And on the spot.

Wu Peng looked at Lin Feng's profile and touched his chin thoughtfully.

Is there something wrong with Zhang Xin's family education?

Zhang Xin obviously went too far...

But the next second, he thought of himself again:
"Actually, I'm quite exaggerated... What does the eldest brother say about the second brother?"

Wu Peng let it go.

Immediately, he became very curious - where did Zhang Xin's family education fail?
"My father didn't have clear rules at home, so he let me run wild all over the world."

"But Zhang Xin's family is obviously not like this. His father is very strict with him."

"Could it be that it's not enough to be loose, but it's not enough to be too strict?"

Wu Peng had a flash of inspiration and immediately stared at Lin Feng, waiting for the answer.

Sun Wei beside him pursed her lips with a hint of inquiry in her eyes:
"Zhang Xin's family, is there also a problem with family education?"

After thinking for a moment, Sun Wei felt like she had caught something.

Zhang Xin's family and his own family also have something in common.

That is, parents are doing their best to add things to their children that they think are good for their children.

However, the children's wishes are always ignored.

Then, if the crux is the same, are the prescriptions prescribed by Teacher Lin the same?
With this curiosity, Sun Wei stared at Lin Feng with burning eyes, waiting for his analysis.

The director behind the monitor looked at Lin Feng who pointed out the problem calmly, and his heart was full of doubts.

Then, he looked down at the thick information in his hand - these were all things Zhang Xin's father had painstakingly written down.

It is not difficult to see how much Zhang Xin's father attaches great importance to Zhang Xin.

Moreover, even if there is no such information, listen to Zhang Xin’s father’s previous description and look at the barrage in the live broadcast room.

Liu Yong felt that everyone's doubts in the live broadcast room were reasonable.

Zhang Xin's father took good care of Zhang Xin in both study and life.

"In this case, why does Teacher Lin think that the problem of Zhang Xin's family is a problem of family education?"

Liu Yong was a little confused.

There are many parents who don't care about their children and cause problems for their children. This does not include the case of Zhang Xin's family.

"Let's wait for Teacher Lin's next analysis!"

Liu Yong, full of doubts in his heart, carefully tilted his ears, preparing to listen to Lin Feng's next words.

……

At this moment, Zhang Xin, who was secretly watching the live broadcast in the room, was also staring at Lin Feng in the screen with surprise.

"Why would Teacher Lin say such a thing? I obviously didn't answer anything except game-related questions."

Zhang Xin thought about what just happened.

It is indeed my father who communicates more with Teacher Lin.

But the things my father said were actually the truth.

Looking at the barrage in the live broadcast room, they all say this.

Why can Teacher Lin draw completely different conclusions from others?
At this time, Zhang Xin became curious and looked at Lin Feng with bright eyes, looking forward to his next explanation.

And in the living room.

After hearing Lin Feng's judgment, Zhang Xin's father was petrified on the spot.

After a long time, he finally moved and swallowed, his heart full of shock:

After all...is there something wrong with family education?

I looked at the Wu Peng family and the Wang and Qian family before. The root of their problems was family education.

At that time, he had vaguely thought that the various abnormalities that occurred in his family Zhang Xin were also caused by problems with the foundation of family education?
However, at that time, I was just thinking about it and couldn't grasp the crux, so I tried every means to ask for a program team.

Now, when he heard Teacher Lin say this, he was shocked, but a big stone dropped in his heart.

Now that I’ve said that, let’s ask Teacher Lin for some guidance!

So, Zhang Xin’s father said:
"Teacher Lin, may I ask what is wrong with our family education?"

Hearing what Zhang Xin's father said, Lin Feng sighed softly.

The key to this matter is not whether you speak clearly or not, but whether Zhang Xin's father can truly understand Zhang Xin.

In this case, simple narration will not have any effect, and another method must be used.

So, Lin Feng spoke:

"Dad Zhang Xin, I want you to close your eyes and empty your mind."

Ok? ? ?
Zhang Xin’s father didn’t know why Teacher Lin suddenly said this, but he still obeyed it obediently.Then, Lin Feng continued:
"Imagine that there is a child playing games in the room. Behind him are his parents, teachers, classmates and others. These people are all pointing at the back of him playing games and do not approve of him."

"He can only stare at the computer screen, constantly communicate with his teammates in the game, win game after game, and try hard to ignore the voices that poke his spine."

"However, once the game is over, his thoughts are withdrawn, and the whole person falls into emptiness, the voices in his head cannot be removed, and he can only start another game immediately."

"He knows that the outside world is disappointed and angry at what he has done, but he can't turn his head, and he doesn't dare to turn his head."

"At this time, does this child feel cold and uncomfortable in his heart?"

"Think about it, does his rickety back look feel lonely?"

After Lin Feng finished speaking, the audience in the live broadcast room felt a sigh of relief.

"Think about it this way, this child is indeed quite lonely."

"That's right! It seems that everyone is standing behind him, but no one understands. It's equivalent to looking back and seeing no one..."

"That's how I am. Sometimes while playing the game, I don't know what I should be doing. And because no one understands me, I can only bite the bullet and continue playing the game."

"Facing Teacher Lin's words, I can only respond honestly. In fact, when playing games, I feel lonely and helpless many times."

"As a person who has been there, I feel a lot of emotion when I hear this. It feels like I am back to that time, hug myself and tell myself - it's okay, you are not alone."

"To be honest, I feel this kind of loneliness now. I want to edit this video and send it to my parents, hoping they can understand me a little bit."

"..."

The audience in the live broadcast room were all deeply moved by this scene.

In front of the screen, Wang Jianfeng's parents fell into silence.

Because this kind of scene does not require the two of them to imagine it, but a scene that often happens in their homes.

The little son huddled in the corner of the room, head lowered, playing with his mobile phone.

And they, including every relative who came to the door, pointed at the child's back and blurted out:
"This child is useless...what will we do in the future?"

They have good intentions, but what good is it to the children?
Just like what Teacher Lin Feng said, maybe Jianfeng felt very sad and lonely at that time.

So, how should this situation be solved? ?

This time, the couple didn't speak, which made Wang Jianfeng on the side feel strange.

His parents were as supportive as Teacher Lin. No matter what Teacher Lin said, they would always talk about it.

It's suddenly quiet now, which is quite uncomfortable.

So, Wang Jianfeng turned to look at his parents' faces.

Then, he saw a kind of... confusion and understanding in his parents' eyes for the first time? ?
Wang Jianfeng felt that he had been burned and immediately looked away.

He sighed softly. Indeed, he felt quite lonely.

But I'm used to it.

He was quite uncomfortable with his parents' reaction.

……

And on the spot.

Wu Peng followed Lin Feng's thinking and imagined that scene, and it was difficult not to bring it to himself.

"At that time, I was addicted to games, just like Teacher Lin said, lonely and uncomfortable..."

I knew it was wrong, but I still fell into it.

However, happiness is short-lived. The more you play, the emptier you become. The more you play, the more you want to attract the attention of your family.

In the end, he started causing trouble deliberately to attract his father's attention.

However, this approach was negative and ultimately intensified the parent-child relationship between myself and my father.

Then, the two of them went further and further apart...

Until everyone thought they were hopeless and were sent to Xiangzhang Village to participate in the show.

Thinking of this, Wu Peng laughed again:

"I'm lucky enough to meet Teacher Lin here and finally reconcile with my father. I believe I won't be lonely in the future."

Then, Wu Peng suddenly turned his head and looked in the direction of the kitchen, secretly making up his mind:
"The first meal when I reunite with my father must be a good one. It is equivalent to a fresh start for me and my father!"

Wu Peng clenched his fists and thought happily that from now on, I will never be alone.

……

After listening to Lin Feng's words, Zhang Xin's eyes turned slightly red, and a long-lost feeling surged in his heart.

Obviously Teacher Lin didn't know him at all before, but what he said was like seeing his current situation with his own eyes.

"Teacher Lin... thank you for your understanding."

Zhang Xin said this silently in his heart.

Then, he looked at the barrage that filled the screen discussing "loneliness" and realized that there were not a few people who had the same experience as him.

As a result, Zhang Xin's tears began to well up in his eyes.

A sentence suddenly appeared in his mind:

At the same time, the world is reduced to people.

At this moment, he had a feeling——

What Teacher Lin said makes sense, and I am not alone, because there are still people in this world who can understand me.

And on the other side.

Zhang Xin's father followed Lin Feng's thinking and began to imagine.

The more I think about it, the more I feel that Teacher Lin is right.

Although Zhang Xin said that he locked himself in the room all day long, according to his observations, he did not play games all the time.

He actually spent a lot of time in a daze.

At that time, he didn't understand what the child was thinking and why he would rather be in a daze than step out of the room and talk to himself.

But now he understands——

Not much speculation.

For Zhang Xin, if he steps out of the room, he might have to argue with his parents again, so why bother?

Thinking of this, Zhang Xin's father's eyes felt a little hot, and he paused before speaking:
"Teacher Lin, I imagined it, and I can understand what you said. The back of the child playing games is very lonely."

Having said this, Zhang Xin's father smiled bitterly before continuing:
"But Zhang Xin doesn't have to play games. I don't force him to play games. I even hope he doesn't play games."

"Why would children rather endure their loneliness and play games than actively communicate with our parents and give up playing games?"

Facing Zhang Xin's father's question, Lin Feng smiled helplessly and answered:

"Alas! So the child can understand you, but you don't understand the child."

After the words fell, Zhang Xin's father felt confused. Why did Teacher Lin say that?

What do you mean I don't understand Zhang Xin?

But then I thought about it, didn’t I just not understand my son?

If I could understand my son, I wouldn't be helpless and watch him fall, unable to find a way to save his son.

Therefore, Zhang Xin's father simply said to Lin Feng directly:

"Teacher Lin, can you elaborate on this?"

Lin Feng knew that Zhang Xin's father would definitely ask, so he said directly:
"Zhang Xin's father, you were also present during the whole communication process between me and Zhang Xin."

"Did you notice that when I asked about his academic performance and how he got along with his family, he was silent."

"What I want to say is that this silence is not because Zhang Xin doesn't know how to answer, but because he knows very well that what he did is wrong."

"Zhang Xin clearly knows that because of playing games, his grades have dropped and his relationship with you has become estranged."

"At the same time, I also know that the series of measures you have taken are out of concern for him."

"What makes him feel helpless is that he also knows that your point of view is that he is not listening to advice and that he is willing to degenerate."

"But, he can't change your opinion, so he might as well just stay silent."

"Actually, Zhang Xin's current performance is precisely because he can understand you and your starting point!"

"But as a parent, you don't understand Zhang Xin's thoughts at all!"

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