see you in spring

Chapter 88 Different Positions [-]

Han Guyu was on Dongqing's side in her heart, but Jia Lie was her best friend, and this incident also happened because of her. When she helped Jia Lie, she felt that it was against her own ideas; when she helped Dongqing, she felt that she had betrayed her best friend.No matter how he said it, Han Guyu felt that he was unhappy on both sides.

In the end, she could only advise Jia Lie: "Don't mention divorce at all times. You won't have the temper to say anything nice when you are angry. Dongqing must have been angry too. During the epidemic, you two were staring at each other in the small house. A little friction is normal, don’t get caught up in the situation.”

Zhou You, who was next door, shook his head: "You are indeed a role model for others. He talks about others but not himself."

"Is this still a small friction? He already wants to take action. Grandma, when I got married, I thought I had found a safe haven in this life, but I didn't expect that until now, he has brought all the storms in life."

"It's definitely wrong for him to want to take action, but this special situation requires special analysis. You two should calm down now. Think about the children. Xiao Donggua is so young. Neither you nor Holly will be happy with you."

"What age is it now? This child is more open-minded than us. It's better to separate if it doesn't fit, than to torture each other in a row." Jia Lie insisted.

"It's understandable that they are all performed for parents. Don't believe it. Of the 34 students in my class, which children's parents have a good relationship, which children's families are noisy, and which children's families are divorced? Judging from their expressions and eyes , it can be seen at a glance. Do you really have the heart to let Little Winter Melon suffer this?"

"How could this be my fault? You should figure it out. Holly is the one who did the wrong thing."

"Okay, okay, it's him, but it's the child who has to bear the pain." In Han Guyu's heart, although Dongqing didn't make money, there was no need for the Gu family to take care of their children.There is no harm without comparison. Compared with Liu Quantao and Zhou You, living with Dongqing is simply too worry-free. Jia Lie is obsessed with the authorities and can't think about it for a while. Han Guyu can see it clearly by the onlookers.As a girlfriend, of course she wanted to persuade Jia Lie.

Of course Jia Lie was not willing to let his child suffer, but he couldn't swallow this breath: "Am I going to have to endure it forever? Do you know that in order not to go to work, he actually said that he would return to his hometown to take care of his father after the quarantine period. He has no idea how hard I have worked outside for the sake of this family these years. Back then, I was also working hard in the workplace, but he felt a little marginalized and quit. He was marginalized in the workplace, so wouldn’t I be marginalized as well? ? Just because I am a woman, I am more severely marginalized in the workplace. But in order to support this family, what can I do? I can only grit my teeth and bear it down. "

Of course Han Guyu is aware of gender discrimination in the workplace, but because she is in the education industry, where there are relatively more women, she feels less unequal treatment than women like Jia Lie who work hard in the company.

"Then in your current position, no one would dare to exclude you, right?" Han Guyu asked.

Jia Lie smiled bitterly: "Where there are people, there will be exclusion. Have you ever heard of a joke on the Internet? It talks about how during an interview, HR asks a woman if she plans to get married in the near future. How should she answer? The answer is that there is something wrong with the uterus. You can’t have children. Only in this way can women get the chance to enter the company.”

"So how are you doing in the company now?"

Jia Lie sniffed: "From the time I started working until now, except for giving birth, I have never asked for annual leave or sick leave. As a woman, I have had drinking with my suppliers that increased intracranial pressure and ruptured eyeball capillaries. From a little girl who was cared for in the palm of my hand, I was overwhelmed by the busy work every day. Several people often come to me at the same time. Have you noticed that in the past few years, I have been speaking faster and faster? I talk like a barrage of words, so fast that it makes people feel breathless. I know that people often say that I interrupt others and that I feel particularly domineering. That is because I feel that others speak too slowly and waste me. time. That’s because I couldn’t slow down. Once I slowed down, I would be surpassed and squeezed out.

On weekdays, Jia Lie always had the image of a strong woman in front of them. Seeing her rise all the way up, and rarely hearing her talk about things in the company, Han Guyu thought that she was just like him and had a smooth career, but he didn't expect that she Just didn't mention it to anyone.

Han Guyu said distressedly: "Then when you gave birth..."

Jia Lie felt sad when he recalled that time: "Before I gave birth, I worked harder than other male colleagues. I worked overtime until ten o'clock, and I still worked overtime in the company two days before giving birth. The company has half a year of maternity leave, and the company must bear certain costs. Social responsibility, but it is not a charity after all. There are too many new people behind me who can take over at any time. The competition in Jincheng is fierce, and the risk of being eliminated is too great. I am afraid that I will not be able to have my place when I go back in half a year, so after giving birth to the child In the third month, I went back to work immediately. Just because I was cruel to myself, others could not be cruel to me, and I was able to get to where I am today."

Han Guyu's nose felt a little sore: "Lie Lie, if you are really uncomfortable, just tell me that I won't sleep tonight, and I will stay with you on the phone until you feel comfortable."

(End of this chapter)