see you in spring

Chapter 41 New Year’s Nightmare Three

Han Guyu has always been an emotional, unrestrained and enthusiastic person, but Jia Lie's relatively rational mind cannot understand these feelings of hers.Jia Lie only knows that marriage is not love, love is liking, and marriage is responsibility.It's like two people investing in a company. As long as the company develops healthily and has no bad debts, it can continue to operate. It has nothing to do with whether the relationship is as warm as it was at the beginning.

"I don't think this is a big problem, right?" Jia Lie tried to convince her.

Han Guyu almost jumped: "The relationship between husband and wife is the closest, but also the most fragile. If the heart is separated, it is nothing!"

Jia Lie couldn't laugh or cry: "After ten years of marriage, I have realized a truth. Human dopamine is a parabola, and the peak of happiness is the years of passionate love and newly married life. When looking at each other, they all wear beauty filters. How do they look at each other? Pleasant to the eye. Being unruly and willful is called coquettishness, being controlling is called affectionate, and being sticky is called a milk dog. But after those few years, the filters of both parties suddenly disappeared, and the image of the other party quickly collapsed in his eyes with a devastating force. . In fact, no one has changed, but the secretion level of hormones has dropped. You have been married for ten years now, and it is already above the level. If you say divorce because of this, then there are many couples in the world who need to divorce. .”

"You and Dongqing are like this too?" Han Guyu didn't believe that Jia Lie could be worse off than her because of how caring Dongqing was about her family.

"It's okay to be like you, but it's actually more dull than yours, so it can be more intense when you quarrel. Zhou You just quarreled with you recently, and Dongqing and I often quarrel. You can understand that every day at eight or nine o'clock When you come home from work and are exhausted physically and mentally, is it like a man recharging his energy at home and waiting for you to come back and quarrel?"

Han Guyu was amused by Jia Lie's words: "What are you all arguing about?"

"What are you arguing about? You can argue about anything, and sometimes it can make you doubt your life. I thought I found a soul mate, but I didn't expect that I found a soul stumbling block. A simple thing can make you angry. It's rare to be together. When you go out to play, you tell him that you want to book a fun and interesting B&B, but he insists on choosing those boring hotels, saying that safety comes first. You ask him to take a photo of you, but he looks impatient and says that there are flowers and plants everywhere. , what is there to photograph? You said that the scene he took was too big and the people were too small, he said that the people were not as beautiful as the scene, and the scene was too big to ruin the scenery. You said he made you look old, but he said, then you still let me take pictures? It’s just a photo shoot, and I haven’t said that I have to go to the toilet before I go out. I can’t hold it in for even half a minute. The more anxious I am, the more I can’t hold it in. Are you going to get angry or quarrel?”

Han Guyu hadn't noticed before that the serious Jia Lie and Dongqing were actually jokers. She was depressed for several days, and finally the couple succeeded in making them laugh.

"I didn't expect your Dongqing to have such a funny side. Zhou You and I would never quarrel because of this, because he doesn't care about anything, but he is also very obedient. He will obey me wherever he lives and eats, even if it's not good for him. Never complained. So we're fine with those things."

"You just treat your husband like a son. This is called Zhou Yu's beating of the yellow cover. One is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. You, if you have nothing to do, you should let him change the lights and sockets. If nothing happens, let him sweep the floor. He doesn’t have so much thought about running out and always thinks about playing.”

Han Guyu shook his head: "Zhou You is just a child who won't grow up. He is different from Dongqing."

"I just can't figure it out. If you can't even argue about these daily trivial matters, why are you getting divorced?" Jia Lie was speechless.

"People's emotions need to be conserved. A quarrel is to vent. After venting, I feel comfortable. If you don't quarrel, you will die." Han Guyu smiled helplessly: "After you quarrel, how do you let each other go down the stairs? When you quarrel at the end of the bed? And, let's forget all the grudges?"

"Sister, we have been married for ten years and have a steely revolutionary friendship! It is impossible to hold hands anymore. Do you think there will be any other moves?"

Han Guyu twitched his lips: "Then how did you reconcile?"

"This is not easy, let's scold the children together."

A trace of envy flashed in Han Guyu's eyes, and he took a deep breath: "As expected, a husband and wife still have to have a child."

Jia Lie didn't know how to convince Han Guyu, because in her opinion, Zhou You liked to play and didn't care too much about the children.The person who cares is actually Han Guyu herself.And those questions of love and dislike she mentioned were not problems at all.

Han Guyu pretended to be free and easy: "Don't worry, I am not a narrow-minded, resentful, self-doubting poor woman. I have already figured out that one's life cannot be in vain. He and I have been together for half of our lives, and he will spend the rest of his life with me." There is nothing wrong with wanting to live the life he wants. Although I have been taking care of this family for more than ten years, he has been good to me, and I feel no loss. From today on, he and I are no longer together. I don’t have to be his mother-in-law anymore, I also want to live my own little life, and I don’t have to worry about renewing incense for anyone’s family anymore.”

Jia Lie sighed helplessly: "Then will you continue to live in one room each, or will you?"

"Whoever wants to continue to be his mother, I will definitely let him move out when the epidemic is over. I will divide the divorce property today."

"Are you serious?" Jia Lie was anxious.

"Of course, when we were married, we were brothers in the trenches who were born and died to fight against the enemy. When we broke up, we were independent individuals, and each child was very clear. This is the respect for the opponent."

(End of this chapter)