Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 181

She was also planning to get married and live a mediocre life as everyone said!Because she found a little self-confidence after working, but life still seems to be like this. Day after day, doing what needs to be done well is already very tiring, and she has not found her career to pursue for life.Isn't that how everyone lives?Why make an enemy of the whole world and become someone else's gossip!Come on, according to everyone's opinion, get married and be a mediocre woman!
Just when she was about to do so, her friend dragged her to learn sand painting, and she found a career that she was willing to fight for her whole life.Then she said it well, had a good blind date, got along with a person, and then married this person, she refuted it!

She doesn't think that people will support her, and being a family has unavoidable responsibilities, housework, children, and worldly ways, these will make her lose her personal space, and she feels that she will eventually die without accomplishing anything!So, despite everyone's scolding and cursing, she said that she would regret it in the future, etc., she still resolutely chose "run away from marriage!" and devoted herself to the sand painting!Missed the best age for marriage.

Listening to the story of Teacher Sand Painting, I thought of a book "The Moon and Sixpence"!
Everyone wants a different life. Many people say that the painter in the book is irresponsible. Since he wants to give up his family, he shouldn't get married in the first place!
Teacher Sand Painting took the responsibility and did not choose marriage!

She once vowed that she would not regret it!She chose the life she wanted!She doesn't want a family, don't sacrifice her pursuit for the family, she can live a glorious life!
She has been pursuing what she wants, and she has made her life shine!She proved to those who thought her life could only be like that, her life is not just like that!And those who have become housewives and vassals of other people's lives according to the wishes of their families and according to the fate arranged by others, are they finally happy?
Is she happy again?

She would have been happy if her parents hadn't left her!After working against her parents for more than ten years, no matter what achievements she made, they were not proud of her, but ashamed of her, because she didn't have a family, and finally became a real old girl!This puts the whole family to shame!

At the end of his life, his father was also sad for her!He said, don't talk about whether it is shameful or not, he said, they left, and she is not close to the sisters, how can she live alone!It's just that the relationship is not good, there is no one to care about occasionally, and there is no one who loses his temper. No matter how hard-hearted a person is, there is always a place in his heart that needs comfort.In the future, there will be no one to comfort you when you regret it!
After that, my mother lived with her, but my mother became more pessimistic than before!Although her father always troubled her and annoyed her when he was there, but when her father left, she suddenly lost her backbone and often didn't know what to do!The forgetfulness is getting bigger and bigger, and then I get Alzheimer's!

Caring for someone with dementia is troublesome, hard!But she has the patience to do it!She is always afraid that her mother will go away, or something unexpected will happen, and she always has her mother in her heart, and she is not annoying or annoying at all!She enjoys her mother's dependence on her, even if it makes her unable to do anything.The only thing she was afraid of, worried about was that mom would leave her too!Then she really doesn't know what to do!It turned out that she needed company!She actually needs company!Does she regret it?

nor!In the past, she didn't feel that she needed company, so she didn't look for one!Now that you feel that you need companionship, just find a companion!
Didn't bother too much!At this time, Aunt Su's ex-husband appeared!Mr. Shahua, seeing that the father and daughter have a good relationship, felt that he was a very easy person to get along with. At the beginning, he just regarded him as a good person, made friends, and occasionally talked and chatted.

For so many years, she has only focused on her career, and she thinks that she doesn't need to care about such troublesome things, and she has never troubled herself to give them care, and there is no one around her who can talk freely!

Chatting with Aunt Su's ex-husband made her very comfortable, and the nerves that had been tense for so many years gradually relaxed!

One day, Aunt Su's ex-husband told her that he was divorced, and he only married for the sake of marriage at the time, and he had long since wanted to live with his ex-wife. She doesn't like her, she also thinks he is annoying!It's just that I'm afraid that my daughter will be sad, and I'm just begging for perfection!Now, his daughter is out of control, and he doesn't want to wrong himself anymore, so leave!The same goes for the ex-wife, who has no intention of keeping her!It's decent to be separated!
Since, he left, since it was an unsuitable marriage, a marriage that should have ended a long time ago.The sand painting teacher didn't ask too much.Then they start!She used to be very afraid of getting along with someone, and found that the other person was not suitable for her, what would happen then.In this era, don't be afraid, separation and reunion are very normal in this era.Just like she didn't care about the marriage he had!
Then, after getting along, she discovered that meeting the right person is not that difficult.He appreciates her, and she feels very comfortable with him.

That's how it came together.But of course, the two still have different habits, and even different views!There will be bumps and bumps in life, but they want to be with each other, so they are willing to run in!Married life is not as scary as she originally thought, the advantages outweigh the disadvantages!
Many things don't need to be faced by one person alone, someone can help, someone can discuss it, it turns out that the difficult marriage life is not bad!As long as the other party and your heart are together!

Although Aunt Su's ex-husband was a little concerned about her not caring about her daughter, she told him from the beginning that she didn't like trivial things in life, and he also extracted some opinions from some of her ideas.I feel that I am the master of my own life, and I should not live to please others, for others, or even depend on others.

She was not wrong about them being together!There is no reason for her to accept her daughter's making things difficult, even insulting!He was with her not to make her suffer. Since she is not willing to please and save her daughter, she should be respected!
See you soon!Everyone is not a bad person, and we have no intention of hurting anyone. One day, what should be understood will be understood!

(End of this chapter)