Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 155 My fault, it's all the adults' fault
My darling, she poured all the water in the water glass on the sofa, and said that she made a river to drink water for the toys and swim!

You can imagine my collapse at that time!She ruined my entire Saturday day, starting with washing the couch!I immediately asked her why she played like this, and she looked at me innocently.I remembered that I told her to play whatever she wanted as long as she didn't bother me!
So I apologized to her and told her not to play like this in the future.Of course, she doesn't have a long memory, and I still have to watch her all the time.

Just like Jimmy said, "My fault is all the fault of adults!"

After having a child, I especially like Jimmy's picture books. Although I don't have time to read them, I can often recall the classic words in them.

Gradually, I stopped blaming the kids!Also start to find problems from yourself!

When people reach middle age, they face more and more problems, but because they become more and more sensible, they can only bear all the problems silently, and learn not to look for problems from others!
Middle-aged people are probably the most difficult people in this world!I don't know if one day, I will become like my mother, doing everything and saying everything carefully, and in the end, no matter what I say or how I do it, it's wrong.It's just because I'm out of society and my thoughts can't keep up with the trend that I lose the ability to speak.

I made a small decision, I still have to buy my own shampoo in the future!Always have a more level of understanding of a certain aspect of the world, and you can't put all your heart on your family.Maybe Tang Yufeng is right, cherish yourself and don't put all your energy and spirit on others.In this way, even if you love the other person wholeheartedly, you cannot escape the bad luck of being rejected.

Tang Yufeng soon brought Shi Yun over, and the three children were arguing endlessly, uncontrollable at all. Fortunately, Haohao is already very sensible, and he can take care of his younger sisters!

Not long after, my father and sister came too!
Dad said, "I bought so many vegetables at home, why did I go out to eat!"

I said, "Everyone is very tired. There are so many people, how many dishes have to be cooked! Let's eat outside! When you are free someday, if you cook together, you can eat at home!"

Tang Yufeng also said, "The food here is not bad, each order what they want, Dad, take a look at the menu!"

"Look at it!" Since the joke last time, Dad seldom ordered food outside.Tang Yufeng is right again, although he often pretends to make mistakes to amuse us, but in fact, he really minds about mistakes.

Mom's mentality is much better than that of Dad, she is still happy, no matter what we say, she is happy!I happily ordered two dishes. One said Haohao liked it, the other Xiaobao liked it. She asked Shiyun what she liked to eat, and I said, she is not picky about food.

In fact, the three children in our family are not picky eaters, and they eat everything except bitter things that cannot be chewed.What my mother said Haohao and Xiaobao like to eat are dishes that are difficult to prepare at home, or dishes with relatively rare ingredients. If they eat them by chance, the children will prefer to eat more.Isn't it the same for adults?No matter how delicious the dishes you eat often, you will sometimes get tired of them. If you change the taste, maybe the things you didn't eat before will taste better than the ones you often eat.

Before placing the order, my mother ordered another dish for my father, saying that it is a side dish!Yes, Dad is a man who drinks too much!I can drive and my sister can drive, so he and Tang Yufeng can drink some wine.If there's anything wrong with having two daughters, it's probably that you can't drink with him!He drinks when he is happy, and he also drinks when he is depressed.

Putting down everything at home and coming to a city without relatives and friends, the only person who can drink with him is Tang Yufeng!It's rare to sit and eat together, and you must have a good meal!
Mom thinks she knows everyone, and I don't know if she does, because I don't know that well.Of course not as thoughtful as her!I vaguely remember that when I was young, my mother took me with me, just like she takes Haohao and Xiaobao now, putting the child first in everything, as I said before, she often dressed us up, and when I didn’t have time to pack myself, I went out with a pair of slippers!
Dad said that she has a lot of forgetfulness, who doesn't forget after too many things!
Eat it too, add vegetables to this one, pick fish bones from that one, and peel the shrimp shells!
To be honest, since Haohao checked the trace elements last time, I don't know if he realized that something was wrong, or he was tired of eating. He doesn't like shrimp that much anymore!

But my mother still gave Haohao some shrimps, because now his trace elements are normal, and he doesn't need to be taboo.My mother thinks that the trace elements were so heavy that time because he ate a lot of shrimp before the check, so the check was inaccurate.My mother still thinks that there is nothing wrong with eating too much natural food.Of course she didn't say it so bluntly, it's just that she acted like this.

My sister would still say to my mother repeatedly, "You eat your own, I'll peel it for him! He still has a lot in the bowl! Don't peel a big bowl like last time, and pour it out in the end!"

Every time we said mom, dad would hold up the wine glass and say to Tang Yufeng, "Drink!"

Tang Yufeng would pick up the wine glass, take a sip with his father, and then add more to his father.Dad would still ask us about our work and life, Tang Yufeng also answered very seriously, and told Dad about everything in detail.Many times, I feel that my father's understanding of these things is different from the actual situation. After all, life patterns in different environments will be very different.What's more, I don't even understand Tang Yufeng's work.I only know that he is very busy, with endless documents, endless phone calls, and endless meetings with clients...

From my father's point of view, all of this is grand, but from the point of view of me, who faces Tang Yufeng's work every day, it's actually very hard work!

Tang Yufeng met all kinds of people, some were easy to deal with, and some were unreasonable!They are not as glamorous as those lawyers on TV. Lawyers in real life do service work.It's just that they have mastered the knowledge of law and have a certain level of service providers, but they are still service providers.

They are Party B. Although they can provide professional advice, they cannot make decisions for the client. However, the decision of the client leads to bad results, which is also their incompetence. Because the lawyer is professional, he should provide professional advice to let the people he serves The object strives for the greatest benefit.Even if the person involved insists on going his own way, he must find a way to persuade the other party, otherwise, it will be your incompetence and incompetence!In this world, there really isn't an easy job, nor is it a good person who can do everything with ease.

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