Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 133 I Don't Care About People
I thought life would be better if I stopped keeping a car, and the child came again!There was no social security at that time, and the childbirth was all paid for by myself. I never thought that I would worry about money when I had a child. I really shouldn't have come!

Looking for a monthly salary of [-] in my hometown would not be so tight.After all, the house at home is cheap, the transportation is cheap, and many things don't cost money, so there is no need to be vague when spending money on serious things.People are also a habit.

People here don't have much ability to live, and they still hold on to the airs, as if they are more high-end and more classy.

You obviously can't get used to it, you can't complain if you don't have a good life, you will be called squeamish!Who hasn't grown up coquettishly, how come he has to endure torture when he grows up!Now that the child is still young and needs his parents, he can't just leave and take him back to his hometown.But I was so miserable that I didn't even find anyone to complain about, so I finally found my old classmate.Finally survived.

In the past, I would call her, and simply leave and go back, but now, I just listen and say a few polite words that are not painful or supportive, saying that every family has a difficult scripture to recite, and everyone's situation is similar.

After I said a few words like this, she began to talk less, and gradually she had nothing to say, and finally said something, and we can talk again when I have time.

Maybe she felt that I had lost my former authenticity and become more tactful and sophisticated. After that, she never talked to me again.

It's really hard to be a human being, if you do something wrong, you may end up being hated by others. If you are more tactful, you will be told that you are sophisticated and won't talk to you!
I don't know how to treat everyone. That classmate told me everything about her, good and bad. She really didn't treat me as an outsider and wanted to entrust some friendship to me. right!But I can't do the same to her, maybe I'm wrong.Every time I picked up the phone, I wanted to save her feelings, but I didn't know what to say, and then I put down the phone again.I can't give her good advice or even basic comfort. What I understand must sound perfunctory. She thinks I don't understand and pretends to understand. What I don't understand is how to express my concern for her. It's true, but I don't know how to treat her well!So I was a bit restrained in speaking, and after thinking for a long time before I said something that was not sincere, I felt uncomfortable, but she misunderstood that I was not sincere!
She said that she was not close to each other in this city, and when she was very happy when she contacted me, I was also happy. I also wanted to be her warmth in this city and make her feel better.But what she said was all about her unfortunate encounters, regrets, wanting to leave, wanting to divorce, hating the people around her now, etc., I can only listen to these things, and if I hear too much, it will be disturbing.In this way, I really don't know what to say to her when I contact her.

I asked my mother how she was when they met her.Mom said, very good, smiling!I said, she told me that she had a bad life.

My mother said that sometimes everything goes well with everyone, and told her that all hurdles will pass.Let her take a look at life.

This kind of statement sounds reasonable to ordinary people, but it sounds desolate to people in adversity.People like me who don't know how to forgive people know that it seems that my mother really doesn't know how to take care of people's feelings. That's right, she doesn't even know how to comfort me.

I asked the wrong person, my sister always understands people's hearts better, but I don't know when I talked to her.

Although Tang Yufeng asked me to talk to him more, but he would get impatient if he listened to this kind of short-sighted things.Although he didn't express his impatience, I knew it.Sometimes when I told my mother-in-law and Xiaojia about these things, he would walk away.

By the way, but I told my mother-in-law that since Tang Yufeng was hospitalized last time, her mother-in-law rarely came to our house, and she rarely contacted us. It’s probably like I said before that Haohao was reluctant to treat that person well, so it’s pure if you don’t see him Bar!I think my mother-in-law has some thoughts about me, and she also chose to keep out of sight and not interfere. I should be aware of this situation.This relationship requires me to take the initiative to repair it.

It's an excellent way to use other people's affairs to create resonance, I'm sorry classmates.I am a bad person!Don't tell me anything.

I told my mother-in-law about my classmate, saying that they came to me for comfort, but I didn't know how to comfort them.

The mother-in-law said that it is very pitiful for a person to be alone in a city with no relatives, and the people around him don't know the cold or the hot.My mother-in-law asked me to care more about others, not to say that I can do it.Inviting someone to have a meal at home is the easiest way to give people a sense of intimacy.Especially now that the doors of every household are always closed, and neighbors don't know whether your home is an open kitchen or a closed kitchen.

Let her feel your concern, not necessarily that you want to help her solve the problem, give her a good idea, let's jump out of her problem circle, think about what care you want to give her, even if you can't solve her problem effectively , Let her know that there is still a good side to the world, and it is good to have a friend in this city who can visit.

My mother-in-law unexpectedly gave me a very good idea. Originally, I just wanted to find a topic to chat with my mother-in-law.My mother-in-law untied my inherent thinking.This is really unintentional.

Because I don't know how to give advice to my classmates, I am afraid of facing her.But everyone has their own problems to face, and you may not be able to solve every problem for her. She told you, maybe she didn't ask her to help her out of the predicament, but just told you that she was unhappy.There's absolutely nothing you can do to make her happy.Say something to her, "Don't think about unhappy things, my sister will take you to eat delicious food, play fun, and let troubles go to hell."

I invited a classmate to come to my house to play, but she refused at first, saying that she had to go to work and take care of the children, so she couldn't leave!I said that my children always want to find a companion to play with, and it happens that the two children can play together, so that they can also make friends!She did not delay.

The person is just like what my mother said, with a happy smile, which is very good.Originally, she was good-looking when she was in school. At that time, I was particularly envious of her beautiful hair, and she could do her own makeup. In my memory, she has always been very delicate.But she is also a bit naughty, she can dye her hair, it was a big taboo in high school, she originally looked pure and innocent, I never thought that she would commit such a taboo.And a good girl like me is somewhat resistant to this kind of child who is not so good, so we were not close when we were in high school.It’s just that when I left the classroom of the third year of high school and joined the class of the second year of high school, when I took the message board and asked a few close friends to write down blessings for me, they passed it on to the whole class, and everyone wrote me a sentence If so, the last one is her.

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