Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 132 High School Classmates
Anyway, I think it's better now, anyway, it's better for me.It's that sentence again, parents are always more partial to the child who is not doing well.They just feel sorry for my sister's tired life, and they don't have any opinions on me. Even if I refuse to help, they will not do anything to me, and they will put good food in my bowl.

Still treat Tang Yufeng very well, and give him this and that.

The children have something to play with, but they don’t eat well. They run to get this one, and then another, and they simply let them sit on the dining table to play. Dad said, "What does it look like? Why buy so many toys if there is nothing to do? Children are used to being unruly."

We caught the children, my sister watched one, my mother watched one, and I watched one, forcing them to eat before they were allowed to play, and the three children competed in eating.

I said, "It's better to bring a few together!"

My mother said, "Let's go for a while! When this one cries and that one makes a fuss, it's a crime.

Several children coincidentally, after a big bite, they ran to play again.

My sister said, "It's better to have toys, and I don't need to be with them all the time."

My mother said, "Now there are several children together! When I am alone, the toys are useless. When I think back to the time when Xiaobao can only hug him, I feel pitiful. There are no fewer toys at home than here, and he is willing to play with them." , but no one pays attention to him, he is also lonely. Come to play with me, I am taking Xiaobao, come to play with me, I have to do laundry again, come to play with me again, I am cooking again. Then he cries, He said no one played with him."

My sister said, "Didn't you say that Dad brought Haohao?"

Mom said, "When I'm here, I'm not all alone!"

I finally remembered some things at that time. My mother couldn't eat every day, couldn't sleep well, and felt guilty for ignoring Haohao, and was accused of not being able to take care of the child... That person is really not human.I probably thought about the situation today, and I would have decided to do it that way rather than the situation today.That person can have a child like Haohao, it is also a kind of unfairness from God.

The child will become a bond between the two of them. Now that Haohao is in the same city with them, they will probably meet each other. Seeing such a cute Haohao, I feel reluctant to show him to such a person.This kind of reluctance made me start to magnify that person's badness again, and those things that I thought I had forgotten appeared vividly again.However, my relationship with Haohao is of course not as good as their father-son relationship, it seems that I am reluctant to part with it.Therefore, I have some more grievances.

I understand the mentality of those mother-in-laws who don't like their daughter-in-laws, and don't like their sons being kind to their daughter-in-laws they don't like.The daughter-in-law they saw was not worthy of their son's contribution. In their eyes, the daughter-in-law was so incompetent and unqualified, and the son still flattered his wife like this, which made them feel wronged and heartbroken!
I have to choose to escape again, out of sight is out of sight, and I will take care of it. If Haohao, whom I like so much, also hates me, the loss outweighs the gain.I don't want to do this kind of thing again, let them go, I don't care, no matter what my parents say, I don't care!In a relatively safe position, look at them quietly, no matter who they are in, no matter what kind of relationship they have, no matter how they live, our relationship will not change.

After eating and sitting for a while, Tang Yufeng and I took Shi Yun home. We were a little tired from playing this day, and Shi Yun fell asleep.The child is so nice, he really doesn't seem to be troubled, and he can sleep without heart when he is tired.

Tang Yufeng looked at me listlessly and asked, "Are you tired?"

I looked at him, "Go to sleep for a while, there is a traffic jam right now, I don't know how long it will take!"

He said, "Talk with you, you don't seem to talk to me very much recently! I used to have endless things to say, why are you running out of words?"

I said perfunctorily, "Are you busy!"

He "Normally, you should complain!"

I laughed, "It's not normal not to complain, am I a resentful woman?"

"I think that's being coquettish!"

"Act like a baby? Can you use words? I'm such an adult! Shi Yun is the only one who acts like a baby!"

"I can't ignore my elder daughter just because I have a younger daughter, it makes me feel very guilty for my elder daughter!"

"What elder daughter and younger daughter?"

"That big lover, little lover!"

"I'm still trying to get my lover, I'm forcing my lover!"

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It’s really been a long time since I talked about boring conversations. Either discuss family matters and quickly find a solution, or each is busy with his own business, so that the relationship is busy and the other party is busy. It is the same as the furnishings at home, except that it always exists there.

This is the so-called passion faded!I got used to it, and the admiration for him is also decreasing day by day, all the excellence has become disapproving, and I began to shift the focus back to myself, maybe not so focused on him, so that it gave him a sense of neglect.I thought that having him would be enough for my life, but now I am not satisfied again.There are always endless pursuits in a person's life.

A classmate in high school suddenly contacted me, saying that she met her parents a few days ago and they gave her my contact information.As far as I remember, she stayed in her hometown after graduation. I asked her if she came to play?

She said, no!She got married, and her husband works here, so she followed her here, and now she is also working.First-tier cities are not like home. The pressure is too great. One person’s salary is not enough to live on. It’s okay for two people to earn money together. When one person loses his job, he is worried every day.

I thought she was joking, but she said she was serious.

She said that if she knew about it, she would find someone to marry in her hometown.

When she was in her hometown, she earned two to three thousand a month, and she could live a good life. She could buy whatever she wanted, and go wherever she wanted.There is a surplus at the end of the year.The monthly salary here is [-], not to mention the end of the year, when the end of the month does not know where the money goes.

When I was in my hometown, I heard that the other party’s monthly salary was 8 or 9, and I thought it was very high.Only when I came here did I realize that 8 or 9 thousand is not enough for anything.

The house is said to be bought, 40 square meters, two bedrooms, and a loan, 40 square meters, my own room in my hometown is 40 square meters, but this 40 square meters has to be made into two bedrooms and one living room, there is no place to turn around, what? I dare not buy it, for fear that there will be no place to put it!Just don't buy it, you won't have any money until the end of the month.

I bought a car when I got married, but I couldn’t afford it. It costs money to park anywhere, even in the community at home, and to park a company. That month is equivalent to earning money for the parking lot.It’s also the same when going out. It’s 15 for half an hour here, and 18 for half an hour there. There’s a traffic jam, and the fuel costs are high. A car that has been maintained here for one year can be maintained for 5 years in the hometown. Who can afford it?I bought it half a year after I opened it, and even if I lost money, I had to sell it!It's worse to keep driving!
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