Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 128
Uncle was very surprised to see me at the banquet. I would be here beyond his expectations, because he is also doing business in other places, and he will come back after a long time. It is very difficult for him to come back. When I come back .The last time I saw my uncle was during Chinese New Year last year.

My uncle and I only see each other about once every two years, not only for my father, but also for my uncle.When we were young, we all lived together, and the children grew up together, and he watched me grow up.I fell down, and he helped me no less than my father, but his back is bad for surgery, I only found out after listening to their chats a year later, there are many other good and bad things that happened to him Things I only heard about after the fact, or didn't know until now.

I'm very sorry, but I've been telling my story, when did I have the remaining energy, every day I was spurred by life and work in turn!Until now, it has not been let go.It's not that I don't care about them, it's not that I'm indifferent to people, but that I'm already exhausted, and I really don't have more energy to manage these things. Of course, they understand, and it seems that they can only understand, and then cherish every meeting.

Haohao has started to understand, he will be a little shy, he is not as generous as the children brought by other relatives, and the adults teased him for a long time before he played with others.The uncles showed Haohao his videos from the past two years, how joyous and likable Haohao was at that time.I will follow the beat of the music to cheer myself up, feel that I will intervene in everything, and make everyone laugh...

Seeing that Haohao is avoiding everyone and always sticking to his grandparents, some people say that the children raised in the countryside are not as confident as the children raised in the city, and they are not as good at trouble as the children in the city.

It hurts me to hear such comments, but it is also true that Haohao just sticks to us and does not join the group.I don't know how Mom and Dad feel when they hear such words. Dad pretends he didn't hear it, and continues to talk about other things with everyone.

Mom explained that usually there are not so many people around him, and he didn't get used to it for a while.

The sister-in-law said that he has now reached the point where he is ignorant and knows something, knowing that he is shy, it's just a stage.It's the same at their house, and now it's fine again.

Then everyone said it was a stage.

Encouraged for a long time, Haohao began to play with children, and he was not very relaxed. He would not go to the private room where the unfamiliar people were, no matter what the children did, and only stayed in the private room where the people he knew. Wait for the kid to come and play with him.

I guess it was at that time that my father was thinking about bringing his children here. People from ancient times to the present have spared no expense for their children. There were mothers of Meng in ancient times, and now almost all parents and even grandparents.

And will the child end up being what we hoped it would be?Is it true that all those who, like Mother Meng, do not hesitate to move three times for their children, will exchange for their children's sensibility and success?
Many parents I know, including me, are anxious about their child and don't know what is best for her.Seeing that people are sending their children to early education classes for intellectual development training, I hurriedly send her there. The current children are all excellent. It is conceivable that they will face a world with great competitiveness in the future, and they cannot let her fall behind. later.

But seeing her being integrated into the collective life at such a young age, and leaving her mother's arms, I feel very sorry for her, and seeing her cry, I feel sorry for her.The teacher said that it is enough to cry, and all the children nowadays come here like this.Only when the mother is around will she act like a baby. To put it bluntly, a loving mother is a loser.

It's really not good, but after a few days of getting used to it, she really played well with the children and stopped looking for me.Although every time I went to pick her up, she would still ask me why I left her there.I said I didn't leave, I kept looking at her, and I saw that she was having a good time with the children.

She will also talk about what she played with the children. Although she said she was interested, she still hoped that I would accompany her.

I still don't know if this is right or wrong.When I was bitter, I saw the argument that winning at the starting line and losing at the finish line, and I really wanted to agree with it, so that she would not be made to cry now, but seeing that other people's children are more skilled than her, and they behave calmly in front of the public, She is also afraid that her current intolerance will make her less social and knowledgeable than her peers.

Aunt Su said that she used to be like this, so she forced her daughter to learn a lot, but she didn't have time to understand what she liked.I'm afraid that when she is sensible and knows what she likes, it will be too late.Moreover, it is rare for her to have something she likes, and she supported her to learn it, but she didn't learn anything.For example, sand painting was what she wanted to learn by herself, but after studying for more than a year, her studies were delayed, so she didn't go on that road, but took a junior college exam.If she had been following the route set for her at the beginning and let her go, first of all, let her work hard to get into a good university, and then learn a little bit of talent. Of course, sand painting is also fine. In that case, she would have a more relaxed life now. .You don't have to be engaged in heavy work while continuing to study.

Aunt Su voted for sending children to early childhood education.I sent her there.

As a child, learning and getting in touch with the outside world will grow up faster than being protected at home. I want to believe that she knows more and can find things she likes better, although I don’t strongly demand that she will become a great person. , What a great achievement.

What I said to my mother is naturally inseparable from the rhyme of poetry, and by the way, the number of times I mentioned Aunt Su also increased. My mother said that my relationship with Auntie seems to be better than with her, and what people say is the truth. I said it too, but I couldn't hear it.I said how could I be like that, I don't remember her saying it at all.

Mom said forget it, don't tell me.Every time my mother said forget it, don't argue with me, and don't talk to me, I feel very wronged, as if it's her fault, but I'm unreasonable, and she feels very helpless about it.It makes me so aggrieved, how can I care about her being aggrieved at this time, no matter whether she said it or not, I feel that she hurt me, not that I ignored her.

Until one time, Aunt Su said, I really remember what I heard from my mother.Since when did we stop listening to what our mothers said, but took other people's mothers' words as wise words.Not us, probably just me.I didn't like how my mother always seemed to be partial to my sister, or that she lectured me about what I did wrong.

Although sometimes, I think she is right, but I have already blamed myself, but she never comforts me, but echoes me and says that I am doing something wrong.She felt that she was directing my life, but I only wanted favor and encouragement from her, not such guidance.

(End of this chapter)