Beauty and Marriage

Chapter 127 You Can't Choose Life With Hard Work

The uncle said that my daughter just wants her parents to be good, and if she sees that you are all good, she will always accept it.

Aunt Su said that her daughter wanted to see good things, but it was too difficult for her.

With one worry and one enlightenment, Aunt Su and uncle gradually got acquainted, and felt that each other was pretty good.There is also the idea of ​​living with a partner. After all, it is difficult to work hard alone. At this time, I always hope that someone can give me some warmth and lend a shoulder.Moreover, the two adults share the pressure of life, so the daughter can concentrate on pursuing her ideals.Aunt Su discussed it with her daughter in this way, but her daughter's reaction greatly hurt Aunt Su's heart.

She said that if people give up themselves, they will be abandoned by the world. Why should they give up on themselves?When you divorced, didn't you swear that you would have a good life?Why do you have to live like this, doing a humble job while finding a bad partner!Is this to make people laugh?
Aunt Su was of course very angry. She asked her daughter what it means to give up on herself, what it means to be humble, and what it means to be bad!The daughter said that her current attitude towards life is to give up on herself, her job is humble, and the partner she is looking for is called bad!

Aunt Su cried bitterly and said how she gave birth to such a daughter. With such a daughter, how could she not give up on herself, how could she not be humble, how could she not be bad!

The daughter was also wronged and cried, saying that she just wanted her mother to stand up and live a more elegant life, why is it so difficult.She works so hard and studies so hard to recharge, but she just wants her mother to live better. Why can't my mother go according to her plan?

Aunt Su said, let her daughter make her own plan, study with peace of mind, work steadily, and don't have to plan for her, the two of them probably won't be able to live together.Just let your daughter live on her own!

The daughter was devastated and didn't understand why her mother did this!Aunt Su didn't understand why her daughter was so harsh on her. She felt that there was something wrong with her daughter's psychology.But her daughter's logic is very clear. She doesn't understand what's wrong with her daughter's education.She has been focusing on nurturing her daughter for 20 years!She never thought that her daughter would say such things to her one day, let alone that she would say such things to her daughter one day.

That is to say, from that time on, the rift between Aunt Su and her daughter was no longer closed, but opened.Aunt Su didn't care whether her daughter didn't like her job, her friends, herself... In fact, she didn't ignore it, she didn't have any contact with that uncle anymore.

I know that Aunt An told me about that uncle. After all, she introduced him to me. Although I am satisfied with the work, I think it is better to settle the personal affairs.

Aunt Ann told me, don’t worry, Aunt Su’s daughter will not affect her work, because her daughter is too hurtful, Aunt Su has broken her heart, she doesn’t know what to do with her, and she will not consider taking her again What to do!This child is the legendary one who came to collect debts. Poor Aunt Su!

Aunt Su said that it may be that when her daughter was young, she forced her daughter to learn the piano and dance, and to study hard, telling her that only hard work can make her a better person, and she used too much force. ask for it!In fact, I have endured all the hardships and have not become a master.But now that her daughter believes in this sentence, and her daughter has such a pursuit, Aunt Su believes that her daughter will become the person she wants to be, but Aunt Su herself is really powerless!At the time of the divorce, I was still a little naive.After all, didn't the abandoned women in TV dramas become better?After all, she is still a hard-working person.

It turned out that she just lived in seclusion and didn't understand this society.Now she fully knows that this society is not so friendly to abandoned women, no matter how hard she tries, she can't choose a better way of life.

In fact, it's not just Auntie Su who has left society and it's not easy to return to society. The world is full of difficult people.

The last time I went home to see my parents, it happened to be my cousin's child's first birthday, so I went with my parents.

Dad asked his cousin, "Is your brother back yet?"

"No! I called and said that I can't ask for leave!"

My cousin's child's first birthday, his brother, my eldest cousin did not come to attend.The first birthday is very important in our place. Of course, it is very important in many places, so people with the status of uncle should be present.

But in middle age, the big cousin is also under great pressure. Seeing that his two children are spending money, his job is the only source of income for the family, but he is facing unemployment crisis. He is engaged in computer work of.When he graduated that year, he got the best salary among the children of our generation, which was several times that of other majors at that time, and it is still the same now!Everyone said that he chose his major well!He is the first among the children of our generation to buy a house in a first-tier city, and everyone envies him.However, everyone does not know that technical talents engaged in IT are actually young people.

My eldest cousin is already 40 years old. I heard that those who start working in IT at the age of 35 will face elimination.So he works hard every day, and he is a very down-to-earth person.I just want to exchange the essence of bowing for a reasonable remuneration, but I was ruthlessly laid off a year ago.At that time, the company he worked for had some problems and hired a group of employees. It took him more than a month to find a job within this group of employees. His salary was reduced by 10%, but he was even more afraid of being eliminated. A big family People, the pressure of two children living and going to school in a first-tier city is overwhelming.

So he didn't come back, everyone can understand.The current relationship can only be maintained by understanding.

I saw in the book of favors that many gift money methods are "WeChat". Not only the big cousin, but many relatives and friends did not attend the child's birthday party. It's not that they don't want to come, but they can't come!Many people say that the current human relationship is cold, everyone is busy making money, and people's hearts are impetuous. What can I do?Everyone is walking under the pressure of life, being carried away by the rhythm of life, and many things are not under their own plans and control.

If I hadn't just come back, I wouldn't have come back specifically for my child's birthday party. Although the high-speed train is fast, it would take a few days to come back, and my father would have to find time to pick him up at the station, and my father would have two days to spare.Time cost is one thing, and I need a few days to adjust after being tired.How convenient is it to send a red envelope on WeChat?
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