Roaming in the dark

Chapter 523 Tell me, Mr. Sheng
"Come on, Mr. Sheng, we're only halfway through the topic we just talked about, right?" An Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng and asked.

Sheng Chuncheng was caught off guard and flustered. He had an idea in his mind, but he still asked, "What topic?"

Jing Jing smiled slightly: "As you just said, that friend of yours is actually yourself, right?"

Sheng Chuncheng blushed. It turned out that An Anqian was in the office, not because he didn't want to listen anymore, but because he intentionally interrupted the conversation between them.

This is her technique for talking with patients. When she finds that the other party is trying to cover up something, it is meaningless to continue such a dialogue.She must stop in time, and not let the other party fall into the quagmire of lies, otherwise, the deeper the sinking, the more difficult it will be to get out.

Professional training also made it impossible for her to directly tell the other party that you were lying, but she had to avoid other topics as she is doing now, and then go back when the time is ripe.

Including her frankness to the other party, which should be the most embarrassing thing for her to talk about, such as being raped, she can speak out in a calm tone.In this way, the other party can completely let go of his defenses, and also candidly tell her the secret hidden deep in his heart.

In their line of work, if they cannot grasp the real situation of patients, they will make mistakes in judgment, and then the entire plan they design will be completely wrong in the end because of the slight difference at the beginning, and it is impossible to achieve the therapeutic effect at all. .

When An Jing talked to him, his tone was calm, as if leading him into a language garden, where the sun was warm and there were no shadows, everything was so natural and real.Such an atmosphere gave Sheng Chuncheng the desire to confide, to open up and be honest with himself.

So when An Jing asked him, he felt that he had no way not to be honest with her, no way to hide it anymore.

Sheng Chuncheng looked at Jing Jing, who was also looking at him, Jing Jing said:
"Mr. Sheng, don't forget, I'm a therapist. I have no acquaintances or friends here. There are only people who need help. Even if we don't sign a confidentiality contract, what you say to me is like sweat. The tree hole says the same thing, you know the tree hole, right?"

Sheng Chuncheng nodded.

"I'm just a tree hole in the shape of a human being. Here, there is no right or wrong, and no moral judgment is made. It doesn't matter whether you are a saint or a rapist..."

Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng, was silent for a while, and continued:
"Forget Khan, you said that the man who raped me had cognitive impairment. He later became my patient, and I cured him."

Sheng Chuncheng looked at An Jing, but hesitated to speak.

"It's hard to understand, isn't it?" Jing Jing said with a sigh, "When Zahan and he sit face to face, we are not the relationship between the victim and the perpetrator, but the relationship between the patient and the therapist, hey, don't say I will tell you when I have a chance, if this story is filmed, it will be another "The Distance Between Us and Evil."

Jing Jing raised the glass with a smile, Sheng Chuncheng also raised it, touched her, and then drank the wine, but he still didn't have the courage to look directly at Jing Jing.

"Am I right, Mr. Sheng?" An Jing asked.

Sheng Chuncheng nodded, and he said that's right, the friend I mentioned was indeed myself.

Jing Jing stretched out her hand and held Sheng Chuncheng's hand. Jing Jing's hand was very cold and soft. She gently squeezed Sheng Chuncheng's hand and said to him:

"It doesn't matter. Each of us is actually a patient. We all have this sweat and that problem. It doesn't matter, okay?"

Sheng Chuncheng nodded.

An Jing straightened her body a little, and assumed a posture of ready to listen carefully, and Sheng Chuncheng began to speak.He started from Ah Qiang's studio, and finally talked about Shanshan's visit to him last night and what happened afterwards.

"Did this happen to you when you were with other girls?" An Jing asked.

Sheng Chuncheng shook his head and said no.

"How did you feel when they were together?" An Jing continued to ask.

Sheng Chuncheng told her that when he and Ding Huamei were together, Ding Huamei rode on top of her. After driving for more than half an hour, she was still very strong, and Ding Huamei was so tired that she cursed.He also said that when he and Yanyan were together, they could have fun again and again in one night, and they felt very beautiful.

The chatterbox opened, and Sheng Chuncheng had the desire to confide in him.He even told Jing Jing, because at that time, he often needed to go to the door to serve the opposite sex, and he had frequent physical contact with them.In order to avoid embarrassment and make himself insensitive, he usually listens to women's moans and rubs sensitive parts with burlap to make himself dull.

Jing Jing nodded, and she said, yes, when we meet very sensitive patients, we will also give advice and provide similar methods to let them reduce their sensitivity. Mr. Sheng, you are a master without a teacher.

Sheng Chuncheng couldn't help laughing.

"Do you love her, this girl, Shanshan?" Quiet asked.

Sheng Chuncheng was stunned for a moment, then lowered his head and thought carefully for a while. He felt that if he quietly asked himself whether he loved Yanyan, Sun Hong, and Xueer, he would say love to her without hesitation, even though he loved her a bit. Too much, but this is how he feels about them in his heart, he can feel his love for them, and he can say it out loud.

But if it's Shanshan, Sheng Chuncheng said: "It's hard to say, I don't even understand it myself."

"That's not to love. Love is very simple and can be blurted out. This feeling is very direct." Jing Jing said, "However, this girl is very beautiful, and it is difficult for you not to be attracted to her, so when she sweats you are together , and very proactive, when you have no pressure from other aspects, there is no way to refuse her, right?"

Sheng Chuncheng nodded and said yes, he muttered: "It's a man, it seems that there is no way to refuse."

"But you are still under pressure. You feel that it is not good for you to have sex with her. In your subconscious, you are actually very repelled to have such a relationship, so when there is a relationship, as long as there is a little bit of other factors interfering, It will make you ejaculate prematurely."

Jing Jing said: "Your sensitivity actually comes from the fear in your heart. You are afraid of being found out, you feel sorry for someone, etc. For example, the painter A Qiang you mentioned, subconsciously, you will feel that he is like this now. You were harmed because you Han Shanshan had a relationship.

"You, it's just a psychological reason, it's easy to overcome, but..."

Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng, and said to him word by word: "I don't think it's necessary."

"Why?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.

"She will still come to you, and you won't be able to control her sex. Don't lie to yourself, the body is very honest, and you will definitely not be able to control it." Jing Jing said, "If this is the case, there will be no happy sex, right For you, it will be a good thing instead. You will become more and more repulsive to her, and she will become less and less interested in you.

"Your relationship, after two or three times, will quietly end. Isn't that the best outcome for you?" Jing Jing said, "For two people who love each other, happy sex is the glue, and for two For a person without love, happy sex will turn into drugs and narcotics, deep into it, and eventually it will be out of control."

Jing Jing sighed, looked at Sheng Chuncheng, smiled wryly: "This is probably another paradox."

"what?"

"You didn't know what was going on with you, Shanshan. When you have a relationship again, you will be more nervous and want to behave better, to prove that you are not a useless man, and the result will only be worse. But now, Know what's going on, this is like a switch, turn it on, so that you can see clearly, when you have sex again, it may have a different result."

Jing Jing looked at Sheng Chuncheng, and continued: "I don't even know, if I tell you this, whether it will help you or hurt you."

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