Roaming in the dark

Chapter 522

The boyfriend Jing Jing found again was a doctor at National Taiwan University Hospital. At that time, Jing Jing was already studying at National Chengchi University.Her boyfriend accompanied her to the Taipei Institute of Sexology and found a teacher. With the help of this teacher, An Jing finally returned to normal, and began to truly experience the joy of men and women and the pleasure of sex.

During the treatment, Jing Jing came into contact with many people who, like her, had various sexual disorders for one reason or another.The number of people is far beyond her imagination. These people usually hide in the crowd, silently enduring asexual pain, and some enduring sexual violence.

Jing Jing wanted to help these people very much, so she gave up her studies at National Chengchi University to study at the Taipei Institute of Sexology.The Taipei Institute of Sexology is not a formal scientific research institution. She didn't even have a formal diploma when she studied there, but she felt that it didn't matter. Compared with a diploma, being able to help others is more meaningful.

The level of the Taipei Institute of Sexology, including the sexology research in Taiwan as a whole, is still relatively low, which cannot be compared with developed countries in Europe and the United States. Jing Jing decided to study at the University of South Carolina in the United States in order to improve her own level.

When she finished her studies and returned to Taipei, her boyfriend at the National Taiwan University Hospital already had a new love, and the two broke up peacefully.Quiet returned to the Taipei Institute of Sexology and continued to work for a year. Their Taipei Institute of Sexology has academic exchanges with the Mainland Sexology Society.

In foreign countries, sex therapists are as common occupations as psychological counselors. In the United States, there are 3 officially registered sex therapists.But in China, this profession is still in a gray area. Sex therapists have not been officially recognized by the health department and labor department.

In [-], the Chinese Society of Sexology, Peking University School of Medicine, and the School of Clinical Sexology of Mamorie University in the United States held the "China's first batch of sex therapists training courses" in Shenzhen, hoping to promote the promotion of sex medicine in the country, but it was difficult. After the first session of the training class, there is no follow-up.

There are currently officially listed sex clinics in the country, only Peking University School of Medicine and Sun Yat-Sen University School of Medicine in Guangzhou. The sex clinics of many other hospitals can only play side-by-side, affiliated with psychological diagnosis and treatment, and even directly assigned to urology and infertility departments. .Including the general public also feel that if it is not for the treatment of infertility, who would go to the so-called sex clinic.

Some experienced sex therapists can only hold the title of psychological counselor because there is no formal professional certification, and there are even many who can only practice in the name of nurses or even nurses.

In recent years, some sex therapists who have returned from abroad, as well as Hong Kong and Taiwan, have carried out diagnosis and treatment activities in the mainland, but this...

"We are very, very careful." Jing Jing and Sheng Chuncheng said, "We can only exist in the name of a studio. In the actual diagnosis and treatment process, the contact with sweat patients is reduced to the minimum. We will never demonstrate by ourselves, but We just teach them the method and let patients and their couples try it themselves. Including men and women who come to see a doctor, we must first confirm that they are legal couples.

"Also, this is also the reason why I want to seek the cooperation of Khan and you to turn the skin-to-skin contact with patients into a normal medical Khan health massage to help them. This is all to avoid unnecessary trouble."

Jing Jing told Sheng Chuncheng that the reason why she came to the mainland and Hangzhou was because a friend introduced her to Lin Shuwan.Lin Shuwan knows a lot of people here in Hangzhou. She also encourages Jing Jing to come to the mainland to work in this field. She feels that this is something that many people need and can help many people.

An Jing came over because of this, "Mainland is not very concerned about relationships. Sister Shuwan has a lot of relationships here. I am here. She helps me set up this studio. If there is any problem, she can also help me. Yes ?"

Quietly asked Sheng Chuncheng.

Sheng Chuncheng nodded. He thought it was right. With Lin Shuwan's help, Quiet in Hangzhou could indeed reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles. It can be said that Lin Shuwan, a fellow villager, can and has the ability to become Quiet's backer.

Sheng Chuncheng also understood, no wonder there was no nameplate at the door of Quiet Studio, only a bunch of symbolic roses.

"I don't dare to publicize it at all. All our patients rely on word of mouth from one patient to another." Quiet smiled and said, "That's it. There are still many patients who come every day, and those with sexual problems and sweating disorders The number of people is more than we imagined. We must know that those who can come to us now are those who dare to face up to their own problems and want to seek help.

"There are more people who actually have problems in this area, but they are ashamed to speak out about their problems, and feel that if they admit that they have problems in this area and look at sexual problems, it will be a shameful thing.

"I have seen many patients like this. At the beginning, it was just a small physical defect, and some were even due to lack of sexual knowledge. As long as they seek help in time, the problem can be solved quickly. But because they dare not cross Taking this step, in the end, let the physical problem become a double problem of physiology and psychology.

"Sometimes, I also feel very confused. Obviously everyone is pursuing sexual pleasure and enjoying sexual pleasure, but why, it seems that there must be something like a shackle, is it wrong to lock yourself up and pursue happiness? Normal, reasonable Shouldn't legal sexual pleasure be advocated?
"It's very interesting. The current situation is that, for example, the normal sex life between husband and wife, everyone is embarrassed to talk about it. They feel ashamed to talk about it, and they will not openly promote this kind of sexual happiness that can promote the relationship between husband and wife. But those The messy and promiscuous life, Bao Xiaosan looking for dating girls and so on, everyone is very interested.

"I know that many men in mainland China and men are together. They don't think it's shameful whether they have an affair or compensated dating. Instead, they will brag and compare each other to see who knows the compensated dating girl. A lot, isn't it?"

Sheng Chuncheng laughed and said:

"Well, I really don't know much about it, but I've heard of it. Including in some groups, everyone seems to like to brag about each other. In a dating group, the same female group friends, Everyone is chatting privately, talking about when did you sleep with her and when did I sleep with her, ranking first among the eldest brother, second brother and third brother, I don’t think this is a shameful thing.”

"No, this is very abnormal behavior."

An Jing shook her head, and said firmly to Sheng Chuncheng:

"In the whole society, normal sex education and sex medicine are absent, so this phenomenon occurs. Including the mainland, I see that I like to make evaluations of civilized families and five good families. This is true, but they are all moral. Khan preached in terms of education, in fact, ignoring the most fundamental issues and forgetting about the sexual relationship is the basis of the relationship between husband and wife.

"And the relationship between husband and wife is the foundation of family relationship. A family needs to be civilized and harmonious. How can it be possible without a healthy sexual relationship? This is supported by scientific data. A couple with a harmonious sex life has a very good relationship in bed. Well, their relationship under the bed will basically be good, even if there is a bit of conflict, they will resolve it soon. It's really a quarrel at the head of the bed.

"You see two people coming in, they are holding hands, they are very intimate with each other, no need to ask, their sex life must be very harmonious, many couples who come to us are like this, they don't have any sexual problems, but Is to pursue higher quality.

"Especially for some middle-aged couples, because of biological reasons and gender differences, men still have strong needs in this area, but women have gradually become indifferent in this area and are not very interested. They came to me, I told them that this is a normal phenomenon, at this time, as long as both parties make changes.

"In terms of women, it's not that their needs have decreased, but that they feel tired and numb to the same position and posture every time. In comparison, women have higher requirements and are more sensitive to sex. , they have more emotional needs in sexual activities.

"At this time, I taught them how to recognize this problem, taught them new methods, and asked them to try. When they came back for the second time, the problem was solved, and they thanked me again and again. Such a couple, what is the relationship? Maybe it's not good? Their relationship is good, so how could it not have a big impact on the relationship between family members?

"As I said earlier, couples with a harmonious sex life must have a good relationship with each other, but there are also many couples who used to have a good relationship, but because of the discordant sex life, the two sides become more and more indifferent. When encountering such a , I really want to help them, solve their problems on the bed, and also solve their problems under the bed.

"Seeing their reconciliation as before, I am really happy. I feel that it is worthwhile for me to engage in this industry. This is why I decided to study sex medicine at the beginning. I want to help a lot, like me. Original intentions for people who have had a sexual disorder."

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