Carrying ex-boyfriend to farm

Chapter 15 The Key Points of How to Get Along

Yun Xiaoxiao obviously heard something from it, and thought that this woman is really difficult, being a virtuous wife is not good, and being a shrew's wife is not good, why did women have such a hard life in ancient times?In the final analysis, the status of this woman is too low, otherwise how could she be bullied like this.

Thinking up to this point, Yun Xiaoxiao secretly decided in his heart.If you can't travel back with Bai Chi this time, you have to work hard to make money yourself, and you can't completely rely on Bai Chi, the ex-boyfriend.Although the ex-boyfriend is the only acquaintance Yun Xiaoxiao knows in this world.But this guy is completely unreliable. He has already fallen into the trap once by himself, and he will never fall into the pit again and repeat the same mistakes.

Xu Meiying didn't finish her sentence, she seemed to be tired from standing for a long time, so she changed her posture, then crossed her hands on her chest, leaned into Yun Xiaoxiao's ear and whispered, "So this woman, in order to live a good life after marriage, You have to learn this way of getting along as a husband and wife. Only by firmly grasping this man's heart, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and family conflicts will naturally be resolved."

When people get along with each other, there is a set of invisible rules, not only for husband and wife, but also for friends and family members.Yun Xiaoxiao felt that what Xu Meiying said made sense.

Xu Meiying, who had already started talking, couldn't hold back and continued, "As for how to catch a man's heart? There are methods and methods. But because men have different personalities, my method may not be useful to you. So Xiaoxiao, you just need to listen to it and learn from it, you don’t need to copy it, you have to be flexible.”

Yun Xiaoxiao nodded to show that she understood.

When talking about this, Xu Meiying glanced outside the door inadvertently, and saw that her man and child hadn't come back, so she confidently and boldly began to talk about the insignificant ways of getting along with husband and wife that she understood, "Xiao Xiao, this Men and women can’t get used to it, men can’t do whatever they want. Why? Maybe there’s nothing wrong with getting used to it for a short time. After all, the newlyweds are still hot on the kang. But after getting used to it for a long time, All kinds of problems arise. After all, the role of women is not only to bear children, but also not only to do housework, but also to mediate the family."

Xu Meiying was afraid that Yun Xiaoxiao wouldn't understand the long-winded argument, so she began to give examples online, "For example, if the man doesn't make money to support the family, the woman has to get up and say it. At this time, the man knows that you are doing it for him and for the family." Well, at this time, my parents-in-law will think that my daughter-in-law is sensible, and even outsiders think you are virtuous. Another example is that this man must be tired and thirsty when he comes back from a busy day in the field under the sun. This woman has to be gentle and give herself A man pours a glass of water and lets the man sit at home and take a good rest. At this time, the man thinks you are considerate and gentle, the parents-in-law thinks the daughter-in-law is virtuous, and even outsiders think you are a good daughter-in-law. After a long time like this, your actions will surely be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, you man Your heart is not in your control."

Yun Xiaoxiao's eyes lit up, it turned out that this was okay.

Xu Meiying's voice involuntarily lowered a little, and she said mysteriously, "Xiao Xiao, none of the above is the point. The point of getting along with a husband and wife is that your new daughter-in-law will be a little bit tired within half a year after entering the house. In front of outsiders, you should do more good things for the family, for the man and for the parents-in-law, and establish the image of a good wife. And you can’t be low-key, but high-profile, and it’s best to be high-profile so that everyone in the ten miles and eight towns knows that you are a good wife. If you have a good reputation, others will trust everything you say. Even if you say that your man is a fool, no one will doubt it. But if your man’s parents-in-law want to say bad things about you outside, no one will believe them, and they even dare to bully you. , and you have to consider whether you will be drowned by the spittle of the folks in the village. After half a year, you will be able to behave properly and continue to maintain the image of a good wife. This woman has a good reputation, and the men and in-laws in the family will not go too far .”

Yun Xiaoxiao drank a big mouthful of porridge thoughtfully, and felt that she had touched the essence of how husband and wife get along, but felt that it was still far behind.In short, the translation of Xu Meiying's words is... This woman must be good at acting, she must be a smart actress in front of outsiders, and establish a good image and reputation.Instead of working hard at home like a cow, and not like a mad dog, making trouble at home.You have to learn to adapt to any situation and deal with it calmly.I don't know how to sum it up, right?It seems that we have to accumulate a lot of experience in life after marriage.Talking on paper can only be used for reference.

Because of Xu Meiying's earnest teachings, Yun Xiaoxiao's road to being a drama star went further and further away and she couldn't get back.

(End of this chapter)