Carrying ex-boyfriend to farm

Chapter 14 It should be said about the way husband and wife get along

Xu Meiying glanced outside the door, seeing no one passing by, she pulled Yun Xiaoxiao into the kitchen.The two of them suddenly looked like little sisters who had known each other for many years, shoulder to shoulder, and began to whisper about women with their voices suppressed.Xu Meiying lowered her voice and reminded, "I said Xiaoxiao, we can't talk about the art of controlling husbands in the future. If that bad-hearted guy listens to this, you, a new wife who just married, will be accused of disobedience." hat. Then your new daughter-in-law will be disliked by everyone in the village."

Yun Xiaoxiao nodded half-understood, it was the first time for this big girl to be a daughter-in-law in ancient times, and it was absolutely right to listen to her seniors talk about her experience.So Yun Xiao asked modestly, "Sister Yingzi, what should I say?"

It's a man who doesn't like to hear his wife use some kind of messy tricks to control her husband. Naturally, men don't like women riding on their heads and domineering.Men are the sky, men are the land, men go to work in the fields to support a large family, naturally hope that women will do housework and take care of the family well and be obedient.

Xu Meiying, who had already figured out the temperament of men in the village, changed the art of controlling husbands into another sentence, that is, "Xiao Xiao, we should talk about the way of getting along with husband and wife."

As soon as these words came out, she instantly became high-end and upscale, and even made people think that this woman was sensible.After getting married, it's not that you are idle and have no troubles, but you are thinking about how to get along with husband and wife to make the family harmony more perfect.

Yun Xiaoxiao was instructed, and hurriedly responded in a low voice, "Sister Yingzi, I will remember."

Seeing Yun Xiaoxiao's teachable appearance, Xu Meiying nodded in relief.As a woman, I naturally understand that it is not easy for a woman to marry into her husband's family for the first time.Xu Meiying also wanted to help Yun Xiaoxiao, so she would point out some of her experience as a wife and what she had seen over the years.

There is no need to organize words on this topic, Xu Meiying can say, "Xiao Xiao, as long as this woman gets married, she will leave the home she is familiar with and live with a group of strangers. Of course, this is the case for everyone. Women have to go through things, there is no need to be afraid, no need to worry."

Yun Xiaoxiao became a new daughter-in-law out of nowhere, so she didn't worry about these problems.But even so, Yun Xiaoxiao still listened carefully, maybe it will be useful in the future?
Xu Meiying continued, "This woman marrying a man is like being reborn in a new home, but she can no longer live freely in her mother's home like when she was a little girl. In order to integrate into the new home as soon as possible, this woman has to grow up as soon as possible. Lose your self-nature, get used to the living habits of your in-laws, and make concessions and changes for them. For example, you like to eat sweet and not sour, and your in-laws like sour and not sweet. It is impossible for your in-laws Change for you, but you have to change for your in-laws."

Yun Xiaoxiao frowned slightly when she heard this, obviously she didn't like it.

Xu Meiying didn't finish her sentence, "If the mother didn't teach her daughter how to get along with husband and wife when she was not married at home. Many daughters have to suffer a lot when they marry and become the new daughter-in-law of the husband's family. When they really understand the truth, It's too late."

Yun Xiaoxiao nodded in agreement, it was the first time for this little girl to be married as a new daughter-in-law, and she had no one to teach her, so she would face obstacles everywhere, if her husband's family didn't like her, life would be hard.

As soon as Yun Xiaoxiao thought of this, Xu Meiying used the factual case of the daughter-in-law in the village as an example, "The daughter-in-law of Zhang's family in the village was very sensible when she first married, she did what she was asked to do, kept silent, and tolerated even if she was wronged. In the end, she became a new daughter-in-law who could be bullied by anyone in the family. In the end, her husband looked down on her, her parents-in-law looked down on her, and even relatives at home were looked down upon.”

Xu Meiying continued, "The daughter-in-law of the Wang family in the village, when she was at home, was used to her eldest daughter's temper by her parents. She would cry, make trouble and hang herself for a trivial matter. In the end, this trouble hurt the harmony of the family. The title is destined to never be picked in this life. I separated from my husband, and my father-in-law, mother-in-law, brother, aunt, and sister-in-law naturally don't like it, and the days to come will be hard."

Speaking of this, Xu Meiying sighed deeply, and finally had to sigh, "Only a woman with a better life will meet a good husband, mother-in-law, and father-in-law. But it is estimated that only one woman out of ten has such a good life." .”

(End of this chapter)