The day I shared a flat with my female boss

"Nothing..." Gu Tong faltered and whispered, "one of my colleagues has a good time playing in the beauty's clothes..."

I turned to see her and did not immediately expose her lies. Her answer was undoubtedly "there is no silver here for 300 Liang", which confirmed my guess again!

I pointed to the sofa beside me and motioned Gu Tong to sit down.

Gu Tong hesitated to come over, sat down on the sofa and looked at me carefully. She seemed to realize whether I had overheard what she said just now.

I took two puffs and decided to go straight in.

I said: "Tong Tong, are you in love?"

Gu Tong immediately changed his face, quickly waved his hand and said: "brother! I didn't... "

"Well," I interrupted her and looked at her. "I know you can't cheat me!"

Listen to me say so, Gu Tong deeply hooked his face down.

I just want to talk to Gu Tong and tell her how girls should treat love, especially first love.

I think Gu Tong is lack of knowledge in this aspect. My mother is a rural woman. She won't tell her daughter about this. My father left early. I think my elder brother has this responsibility and obligation!

"What's the man's name?" I look at Gu Tong.

Gu Tong looked up at me, hooked his face and whispered, "Arthur..."

"Chinese name!" I said.

What about Arthur? You want to be King Arthur, right?

Gu Tong whispered: "Hu Feng!"

It's not a good thing to listen to this name. It's full of mischief and romantic everywhere!

I stare at Gu Tong and continue: "what does he do?"

Gu Tong looked up at me and whispered, "freelancer..."

"Freelancers?" I stare at Gu Tong and say, "that is to say, unemployed?"

"No, brother," Gu Tong looked up at me and waved his hand. "He's a musician. He's a bass player."

"Bassist? Hu Feng I pretended to meditate, then stared at Gu Tong and said, "it seems that there is no such person in the domestic music industry?"

Nowadays, many men act as artists engaged in music and literature to lure girls. Many girls who are good at it are very easy to get hooked!

Gu Tong waved his hand and pleaded for Hu Feng: "they are not so famous now!"

I nodded thoughtfully and said, "I see. Is it a young man of literature and art? By the way, where does he live? "

Gu Tong looked up at me and said, "brother! Do you check your household registration? "

"I care about you!" I looked at her and said, "I'm your brother. Don't you have the right to inspect your boyfriend?"

Gu Tong lowered his head and whispered: "brother, love is totally my personal business, OK?"

"How can love be entirely personal to you?" I flicked the ash and looked at Gu Tong. "Love involves a wide range of family problems. How can it be your personal thing? I tell you, Gu Tong, if you want to fall in love, I have no objection, but I absolutely have the responsibility to help you investigate your boyfriend! "

"How to investigate?" Gu Tong looked up at me and said.

I met her eyes and said, "it's very simple. In other words, when you fall in love, you must let me know that you must get my approval before you decide to establish a formal relationship with your partner."

"Brother, you are too autocratic!" Gu Tong frowned at me and said.

I raised my hand and pinched my nose, looked at her and said, "I'm doing it for you!"

"For my good, don't interfere with my freedom of love!" Gu Tong said.

I said: "love freedom is right, but love freedom must be built on a certain basis, otherwise there is no freedom, no freedom!"

"What basis?" Gu Tong blinked at me and asked.

I lowered my head to flick the ash, and quickly straightened my mind by the way.

"First, the other party must be a good person," I looked up at Gu Tong and said solemnly, "second, the other party must be sincere to you!"

"And the third?" Gu Tong looks up at me provocatively and says.

I looked at her and said with a smile, "as for the third, he can't be a vagrant! That is to say, he must have a fixed income! "

"Brother, why have you become so vulgar?" Gu Tong looks at me to say, thin eyebrow tight Cu rises.

Vulgar? Vulgar is vulgar! I can't ignore others, but I have to have this requirement for Gu Tong's man. No elder brother doesn't want his sister to be hurt by love all his life. He just wants to have a love that doesn't break up all his life. Although it's not very realistic, we still have to think about this good wish.

I looked at Gu Tong and said, "it's not a matter of vulgarity. Love doesn't have to be associated with money, but if you can't afford a bunch of roses, how can you date? Love needs to be based on bread. All fairy tales will be marked with "pure fiction"! ""Brother, I don't agree with your view of love!" Gu Tong frowned at me and protested, "in fact, I think your view of love is quite superficial! Quite vulgar! True love should be the highest spiritual activity of human beings, and spirit and material are incompatible! If we associate love with material things, it is no longer love, or it is just deteriorated love! "

Gu Tong's mood appears a little excited.

"Bad love? Is that right? " I looked at her and repeated with a smile.

is a girl who has fallen in love with her, and believes in her love concept from love books and bubble TV dramas.

Roglin is right, love makes all people become orators!

"Yes! Faye. Bailey said, love gave everything, but still rich! I don't think we have to love like Romeo and Juliet, or like Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, but I firmly oppose to equate love with material! I think love is sacred and great! As Thurber and white said, love has a wonderful magic, it makes one person fall for another

Look! Think like a spring! I don't know if Gu Tong has read Weiser's famous love saying: "fast hot love, fast cold!"

I didn't say that, but I said, "do you know Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory?"

It's easy to say that we are firmly against equating love with material things! Facts have proved that without solid material security, there will be no beautiful love, or even love!

Maslow's theory of needs has revealed the irreversible relationship between material and spirit! If we can't guarantee food and clothing, we can't have such high-level spiritual activities and needs!

Gu Tong looked at me very displeasantly and said, "brother, I didn't expect your thoughts to be so vulgar! You don't know what women are thinking? You You are self righteous

I twisted out my cigarette butt in the ashtray of the tea table, looked up at Gu Tong and said, "Tong Tong! Whether I am vulgar or not, whether I am self righteous or not, in a word, I am for you! You are still young... "

"I'm still young?" Gu Tong looked at me and said, "brother! Don't you feel tired of it when I'm seven and I'm twenty? yes! you 're right! I am always younger than you! But I'm twenty now! Can't I tell a good person from a bad one? "

"People have ulterior motives! Tongtong I looked at her and said, "what you see is just what you see. It's all a kind of appearance. Others will carefully hide their real ideas. In order to achieve their personal goals, others will give you a stage play that you think is real and credible! You've never been in love before, so be careful when you fall in love for the first time

"It's because I haven't been in love that I'm going to talk about it," Gu Tong said, looking at me. "Do you want me to never fall in love and never be liked?"

"What is that?" I glared at Gu Tong and said, "I said that when you fall in love, I don't object, but you should choose a honest and trustworthy man to fall in love, and in the process of falling in love, you must grasp your own principles!"

Gu Tong "withdraw", looking at me: "brother! Don't you think your words are contradictory? Just now you said that people have ulterior motives and it's hard to grasp them. Now you say that you want to find a honest and trustworthy man to fall in love. How do you know if he is honest and trustworthy? Don't you want to get in touch with him and find out later? "

I am dumb, because they are all urgent words, so what I said seems to be contradictory!

"Well," I looked at Gu Tong and shrugged, "I agree with you that you need to contact a person before you know whether he is honest and trustworthy, but I want you to remember that you must grasp yourself in the process of contact!"

"What do you mean by grasping yourself?" Gu Tong looked directly at me.

I am dumb again, Gu Tong is really don't understand, also false don't understand?

For women, in love to grasp their own, of course, is not sure with men should not happen. In short, don't be fooled into going to bed by the other party before you are sure of the other party, and take the most precious chastity for women!

Does Gu Tong really not understand me? How can I tell her directly?

In the end, I decided to go straight.

I raised my hand and pinched my nose. Looking at Gu Tong, I said: "for men's unreasonable demands, we should all refuse! Even if you like him

"What unreasonable demand?" Gu Tong looked at me and blinked.

I lit another cigarette, took two puffs, looked at her and said, "don't you understand? It's better not to have premarital sex! "

Gu Tong's face turned red. She hooked her head and whispered, "brother! What are you talking about? "

I turned my eyes to the TV screen and said, "your brother, I'm a man, so I know what men think. I tell you, there is hardly any man in the world who doesn't care about a woman's chastity. If you are easily cheated of your virginity, and finally he does not want to marry you, it will have a certain negative impact on your future marriage! Do you understand? "