The day I shared a flat with my female boss

Lin Xiaotian explains fate in this way. Besides uncontrollable natural and man-made disasters, fate is closely related to a person's character. As the saying goes, character decides fate. He told us that what kind of character a person has determines what kind of things he can do, as well as his career and emotional fate.

Character is human nature. The so-called nature is innate and difficult to change. Therefore, character is undoubtedly the most critical factor in fate.

After three rounds of wine, Lin xiaotianxing also talked about his youth, the early stage of his career and the entrepreneurial stage.

When Lin Xiaotian was 17 years old, he came to Binhai City alone from Northeast China. In the first few years before he came to Binhai City, he did everything, most of which were hard work.

Later, he joined an engineering team. In the engineering team, he met a fellow countryman in Northeast China. He was as old as he was. They saw each other at first sight and soon regarded each other as a confidant and a brother.

At that time, he did everything, the hardest, the most tired and the dirtiest work. Of course, he also had a lot of strength at that time!

In this way, he worked with the engineering team for five years and became the right-hand assistant of the contractor, but he still couldn't see his future. After five years in the engineering team, he is still a coolie, and his salary is not much better.

Finally, the two brothers decided to leave the engineering team and work alone.

They pulled a group of young people who couldn't find a job to form a new engineering team, but the problem soon appeared, they couldn't find a project!

It doesn't matter. Without extra funds, they can't open the social network at all!

What kind of money do you earn without work?

Finally, it's so easy to find a business opportunity, which is like a life-saving straw. He wants to fight hard!

Of course, Lin Xiaotian also knows that where there are business opportunities, there must be fierce competition. The two brothers discussed together and decided to give gifts on the birthday of the daughter of the person in charge of the project!

Money is a key thing. The problem is that they don't have enough money to give gifts!

So the two brothers went to the illegal blood collection clinic and each sold 400 blood. Only then did they collect enough money for the responsible gift of that project!

They used the money to send two bottles of Maotai to the person in charge of the project. Afterwards, they learned that the gifts they gave were the least valuable. People gave gifts worth tens of thousands of yuan. Some people gave a lot of cash directly!

But the miracle happened!

They managed to get the project!

The reason is that they met a noble man! The person in charge of the project also climbed up from the grass-roots level step by step. At the beginning, he also suffered a lot. It was said that these two bottles of Maotai were bought by them with the money of selling blood, so he was quite moved and decided to hand over the project to them.

Of course, there are deeper reasons why the project leader left the project to their brothers. Lin Xiaotian did not elaborate on this aspect, but just pointed out the general environment at that time.

The two brothers lived up to the expectation of the project leader and successfully completed the project. This is the first pot of gold they made!

After that, they started their career!

With more and more projects in hand, the scale of the engineering team can only be expanded.

A year later, they registered a company called "Pengcheng" real estate. At first, although the company was small, it was built on the ground. At that time, they were energetic and ambitious, and vowed to make "Pengcheng" real estate into the largest real estate group in Binhai city and even the whole country!

After listening to Lin Xiaotian's story, I feel deeply that there is no success without reason in the world, and every success comes from hard work. We only see the bright side of the winners, but we can't see the pain behind them.

I looked at Lin Xiaotian and said, "Dong Lin, who is your good brother?"

Lin Xiaotian lowered his head, flicked the ash of his cigar, looked up at me and said, "I've told this story many times, and I've told it to different people, but only you mentioned it, which means you've listened attentively!"

"Dad, who is your good brother?" Xi'er also asked.

Lin Xiaotian puffed out a mouthful of cigar smoke, looked up at us and said, "this man, as you all know, used to be my best brother, but now he is my strongest opponent. Now he is in Tenghui real estate. Maybe you can guess who it is."

I looked closely at Lin Xiaotian and said, "is that Xiao Yi, the chairman of Tenghui real estate?"

"Xiao Yi?" Xi'er is startled. She looks at Lin Xiaotian with wide eyes and says, "is it Xiao Yi? Dad

Lin Xiaotian nodded and lowered his head to smoke a cigar.

"Why cocoa?" Xi'er looks at Lin Xiaotian puzzledly and asks, the thin eyebrow frowns tightly.

Lin Xiaotian sighed: "it's a long story. It's too much to say! "

I could see that Lin Xiaotian didn't intend to tell us more, so I said with a smile: "when Dong Lin has time, let's listen to the following story. Ha ha haXi'er had no choice but to put away his curiosity, turned to look at me, complained about his father, and said: "my father always likes to play tricks!"

Later, Xi'er gave me a psychological test question. It is said that this psychological test is a set of classic psychological test questions drawn up by the famous Rand Company of the domestic modern psychological research institute. It is a psychological test question formed after appropriate transformation according to the psychological characteristics of Chinese people.

Xi'er looked at me with a smile and said, "Gu Yang, please pay attention! You can only choose one answer for each question. It should be your first impression. Add the score of the corresponding answers together to get your total score! "

Then Xi'er began to test me, a total of 15 small questions, each question I can't think about, just by the first feeling to say the answer.

Xi'er asked me questions while calculating my score on her mobile phone.

Gu Yang looked at her and said, "I scored 120 points in the end!"

I looked at her and said, "more or less?"

Xi'er looked at me with a smile and said, "between 100 and 139 points, it means that you are a fanciful person. Your thinking is more emotional. You choose your friends according to whether you are congenial to yourself. His character is more aloof, sometimes more urgent, sometimes indecisive. I have a strong sense of career, like creative work, do not like to do things according to routine. Stubborn personality, sharp language, not good at compromise. They advocate romantic love, but their ideas are often unrealistic. The desire for money is average. "

I touched my nose and said with a smile, "is that so?"

Xi'er smiles at me and nods.

I said: "you test Mr. Ouyang to see."

"He has been tested for a long time," Xi'er said

I said, "what's the score?"

Xi'er said, "150 points!"

I said, "so much? More than me

Xi'er said with a smile: "it has nothing to do with the score. The score only reflects the result of the test

I said: "the result of Mr. Ouyang's test is..."

Xi'er looked at me and Ouyang Ze and said with a smile: "aze's score is between 140 and 179, which shows that he is smart, lively, popular, good at making friends and deep in mind. Enterprising and eager to succeed. They think rationally and advocate love, but when love conflicts with marriage, they will choose the marriage that is good for them. There is a strong desire for money. "

Xi'er turned to look at Lin Xiaotian and said with a smile: "the person who scored the highest is my father! 190 points! "

"190 points? It's so high I look at Xi'er.

Xi'er nodded, looked at me with a smile and said: "those who score more than 180 have strong willpower, cool head, strong desire for leadership, strong ambition, and will not stop until they reach their goals. He is kind-hearted in appearance and proud in heart. He pays more attention to the interpersonal relationship that is good for him. Sometimes he appears to be impatient, aggressive, unreasonable and unforgiving. When it is not good for him, he will fight tenaciously and not easily admit defeat. Rational thinking, realistic view of love and marriage, general desire for money. "

Ouyang Ze disapproves of it and says, "it's just a psychological test. You don't have to be serious."

I said with a smile, "yes! Human nature is complex. How can a psychological test come out? "

"Who knows?" Xi'er glanced at me and Ouyang Ze and said, "this psychological test question has been used as an important auxiliary test paper by some famous companies, such as Lenovo, Changhong, Haier and so on. It is said that the effect is very good! Now it has been suggested that this test should be used as a necessary supplementary psychological test for civil servants in the future. Are you sure? "

Lin Xiaotian sat opposite. Although he didn't make a sound, I felt that he had been paying attention to Xi'er's test of me.

To be honest with my test results, I don't have the strength to refute at all. Because every one of them seems to be right. This is the characteristic character of a typical literary youth.

"Romantic love is advocated, but the idea is often not practical."

This is also true. Since I was a teenager, I have been full of many beautiful hopes for love. But I didn't know at that time that this kind of vision was divorced from reality, and now I have gradually realized this, and feel pain for it!

If I am a practical man, maybe I should not fall in love with Xi'er. In other words, I can't take a serious attitude to fall in love with a second-generation rich woman, just like Hao Jian, who takes a playful attitude, so that I can at least protect myself from being scarred in the end.

"Money is a common desire."

This is also true. Although I am trying to pursue money, but the importance of money in my world outlook and outlook on life is ranked third, the first is health, the second is love, and the third is money. In other words, I don't believe that money can buy everything.

After money exceeds a certain amount, it becomes a pure number.

Health and love are more important. Without health, you can't enjoy the material enjoyment brought by money. Without love, you can't share everything with your lover. Is it interesting for you to count money at home every day?

I have to say that Xi'er's psychological test is really effective!