Quick Transmigration Goldfinger Trialist

But this harmony did not last long.

Xu Ping and Zhu Wenwen have completely accepted the fact that their daughter was pregnant out of wedlock, had a child, and even brought up the child alone. They basically don't mention these things in their normal chats to avoid hurting their daughter.

But other people don't have this awareness.

The second day after Ding Yun came back.

I heard some people in the community discussing that the unmarried and pregnant daughter of the Zhu family came back with a child in a oily bottle. I am afraid that she really can't get along outside.

At the same time, they are also enthusiastic to worry about others.

A few years ago, I just heard about it, but I didn't expect it to be true. She really brought a child back. If she is not married, she brings a child. Who will she marry later?

I'm afraid I can only marry a second marriage, or else only old bachelors can accept her.

Or be someone's stepmother.

What if she gets married outside?

How is it possible? If she gets married outside, even if she doesn't come back for the wedding, she has to take her parents over to hold the wedding no matter what. And if she is going to get married, can her parents quickly refute the rumors?

Hey, that's really dishonest.

If my daughter dares to do this, she will get pregnant before she is married, I will be blamed if I don’t break her leg, so what if she studies well and goes to college, she is not as sensible as my daughter who didn’t go to high school, and it’s fine to get married and have children now.

What was her girl's name in ancient times? In ancient times, she was called an illegitimate daughter. It's disgusting. The household registration has been released in these years. Otherwise, her girl wouldn't even be able to get a household registration. She really has everyone. ah!

Don't speak too harshly.

What's wrong with it? We didn't spread rumors. Is it a fake that she gave birth to a child, or is it a fake that she wasn't married?

Yeah, she dares to do it and not let people say it?

That is to say, the concept of the clan is not so deep now. In the past, if such a daughter was born in the family, it would be difficult for the daughters of the entire family to marry in the next ten or twenty years, and even the village has nothing to do with their family. Everyone has to be affected, and people will think that their family's family style is not good, and people will think that the atmosphere in the village is not good.

Oh, why are you talking so much about other people's affairs? It's not hindering you. Besides, that girl did this because she was cheated. Even if you want to talk about it, you should talk about her ex-boyfriend!

But we don't know her ex-boyfriend!

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Although they didn't say their words in front of Ding Yun, but there is a small shop downstairs from her house, and the door of the small shop is an important place for those people to play cards or chat. Instead of whispering with his mouth close to his ears, he almost yelled with a loudspeaker, so Ding Yun in the room could hear him clearly.

But Ding Yun had nothing to do with them.

Because she couldn't rush down and beat them up.

And these are exactly the reasons why Xu Ping and the others thought it was good for their daughters to leave their hometown. Living at home, it is inevitable to listen to these gossips, and it is even not easy to tear their faces with them. It's better to be a stranger.

Originally, Xu Ping and the others thought that six years had passed since the incident, and the residents in the community should forget about it anyway, but they didn't expect to come back with the person involved.

They brought up what happened back then, and even spread the discussion to their granddaughter.

This really made Xu Ping, who also discovered this situation, so angry that she wanted to rush down and fight with them, but Ding Yun stopped her in the end.

Because this kind of thing is like defending the mouth of the people.

The mouth of the people is better than Fangchuan.

It's not illegal or criminal for them to discuss in private, but if they go down and fight with them, it's really a violation of the Public Security Punishment Regulations, which cannot be stopped.

But because of this incident, both Ding Yun and Xu Ping were obviously depressed. At the same time, Ding Yun could better understand why Yuanchen's mother tried her best to prevent Yuanchen from keeping the child, and the child had to face The predicament may not be only money and energy, and the greater pressure may not come from itself.

but from outside.

Although many people say that you don't need to care about other people's opinions when you do what you think is right, but it's easy to say it, and it's easy to say it with a few touches of the upper and lower lips, but it's not easy to actually do it.

Who can really ignore outsiders' opinions at all?

Sometimes parents urge marriage, or even force their children to study and enroll in cram schools. To a large extent, it may not be that they think so at the beginning, but because of outside discussions and other people's persuasion, and other people are doing it. Parents will actively transfer this emotion to their children if they do not do the emotional promotion that seems to be behind, and turn it into a marriage urge or a cram school.

Mom, I'll be back in a while.

I can afford to hide if I can't be provoked, I don't care about it myself, I am afraid that the child's accidental hearing will affect her.

I don't want my children to feel inferior because of me.

I have already told you where I live now. If you miss me, you can visit me when you are free. To be honest, I don’t really want to come back during the Chinese New Year, so let’s talk about the Chinese New Year this year. I will come back if I am free, otherwise you You can also take Zhu Cong to celebrate the New Year with me.

I will cover all travel expenses.

After persuading Xu Ping, Ding Yun had no choice but to make such a decision. Even if she didn't think about her own feelings, she had to think about her daughter. Even though her daughter might not understand these rumors, she still She doesn't want her daughter to hear it often, or live in an environment where people around her are always gossiping about her.

She couldn't possibly drive all these neighbors away.

Or knock them halfway through the sap to teach them a lesson.

Besides, she didn't plan to stay in her hometown for a long time, so avoiding them was the best choice.

And Xu Ping felt that she could understand her daughter, so she didn't superfluously ask why, but nodded directly: It's really not good for children to hear.

Come back when you are free. If we are free, we will visit you. I will retire next year. If you don’t have time to take care of the children, I can take care of the children for you. Anyway, I don’t dare to count on your brother’s studies. If something happened to him, he would be able to worry less.

When you retire, live for yourself.

There is no need to find trouble for myself anymore, I will take care of the child by myself, anyway, she will start elementary school next year.

Not that difficult to take care of.

And the child is also sensible, not troublesome.

If you want to go out to play, I will sign up for a tour group for you when you retire, and you can go with the tour group.

Anyway, just enjoy yourself.

I had a good day, nothing happened.

Ding Yun did not say that she started two companies, because it is hard to say the source of her start-up capital, so she only said that she has an easy job, earns a lot, and it is easy to raise a child by herself. At this time, her mother expressed her willingness to Help her take care of the children, and persuade her mother to stop looking for trouble for herself after she retires. If you do a lot, no one may appreciate it. It's better for one generation to manage the next generation.

But Xu Ping waved her hands again and again:

No, no, why travel? If I go on a trip, what will happen to your father and brother?

They also had to starve to death at home.

If I'm not at home for two or three days, they can ruin the house like a kennel, forget it, I'm just working hard, so that's it, you stay at home, I go downstairs to buy vegetables, wait Will be back soon!

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