Chapter 814 first meet

This is the image. In addition, the teacher also taught us how to speak, table manners, speaking on stage, introducing ourselves, talking with others, and holding a debate contest. At that time, I had the honor to participate in this debate. It was a debate about the pros and cons of social media. As a result, we were fortunate enough to win the victory and we were the winner. So happy. The teacher gave us cookies

Do rewards. Let me briefly talk about what I have learned in these courses.

First. About dressing. I am a girl, I love beauty, I love beauty, and everyone has a heart for beauty. From the very beginning, the teacher taught us that the image and impression of the first time we meet is very important, and the most important thing is clothing, because the first thing we see when we see people is clothing. Relative to the body as a whole, clothing occupies a large area. For example, shoes, face, hairstyle, head


The decorations are more impressive without clothes. We often say: Buddhas rely on gold clothing, and people rely on clothing. This speaks out the importance of dressing up, the teacher is correct, and I agree. But the words are a bit vague, it seems there is something in the words. What I mean is: Does it mean that only clothes are important for a person, and the three views are not important? No. It’s not like this. Teacher taught us

. I was particularly impressed by the teacher who said something in class. The teacher said that we should show respect and politeness, but we don’t want us to flatter others. It is also what Confucius said: the poor are happy and the rich, the rich and the courtesy. Clothing and clothing are of course important, but only when they are decent, that is, when to wear what clothes, while being decent, they can also make themselves comfortable. clean.

concise. Not ostentatious. It’s generous.

In short, of course, people’s clothing is important, and politeness is equally important. A person’s speech and demeanor are a test of character. Let’s talk about it below.

second. say. Mouth preparation has many functions. For example, eating. For example, singing. For example, talking. When we get along with people, work and cooperate in leisure time, sometimes it is inevitable to talk a few words to promote feelings, but if we speak well, we don’t speak well, and it makes a difference whether we can speak. Speak well and make everyone happy. In one word, no. Wordy and humorous

Funny, deep, difficult, especially difficult. I think that in order to do that, in addition to experience and experience, we must read more books and newspapers. The other party knows a little bit, and has something to say with others, even if it is not Grandmaster, know more about common sense and all aspects of common sense. Of course, this is the world. The goal is not so high for the time being. Start with the basics. I think the basic foundation is:



To be honest, don’t quarrel with others. The so-called harmony is the most precious. It’s not bad. Don’t be likable, and don’t be annoying. If that is the case, when someone hears our voice, they mutter in their hearts or behind: This person is talking again. Why is this person so annoying to talk? Already lost.

third. Image. Of course, the image includes a wide range of issues, such as dressing issues, speaking issues, and polite issues. Whether it can give people a good impression is not only a subject of knowledge, but also a test of time. Some people are like this, some people start to give people a good impression, but after getting along, they feel bad, annoying, and very annoying. The so-called road knows horsepower

This makes sense. So how to give people a good impression in long-term or short-term communication and establish a good image of oneself, I personally think that the most important thing should be integrity, civilization, harmony, and friendliness. This is the twenty-four-character socialist core value and the secret of interpersonal communication. It is well summarized. Needless to say, integrity and civilization, as one

College students who have received nine years of compulsory education and higher education should have this concept. As for harmony and friendliness, it is to be convenient with others, to help each other, and to unite and love.

fourth. Courtesy and eating. I put this here because the teacher talked about this in the last few lessons, table manners, Western food, Chinese food, how to sit, how to use knives and forks, etc., I sneered that it was talking about food on the surface, but in fact, it is polite to pass through. Etiquette class, to put it bluntly, is a course of politeness. In the classroom, the teacher lectures wittily and silently, explaining in a simple way

Thought-provoking. I also learned about the regional differences in politeness and eating issues. For example, at the beginning of school, learn to shake hands and learn to bow. The teacher talked about which countries need to shake hands, bow and hug, and which countries do not. What about the celestial dynasty, what about Japan, what about Britain, what about India. In the last few lessons, the teacher also taught us which ethnic groups do not

What to eat, what to eat, and how to eat is correct. Of course, we must know that we are learning foreign languages ​​and English, and we may be able to deal with foreigners, or travel. If we don’t even know this common sense, we shouldn’t make a lot of jokes.

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To sum up, I learned in the teacher’s class. I may not say it well, but I did learn it. Thank you, teacher.

阳央 China, the country of etiquette. Beginning from the Zhou Dynasty, and later in the Spring and Autumn Period, Sengoku’s Confucianism emphasized etiquette, while Dong Zhongshu in the Han Dynasty dismissed a hundred schools and respected Confucianism, so Confucian culture almost influenced the entire Chinese history. Political thoughts are still like this, and it is needless to say in society. During the “May 4th” period, Chinese people put forward the slogan to knock down Kongjiadian. Someone later pointed out that this

It is a misunderstanding of Confucius. Confucius’s “ritual” is actually a “ritual”, which has nothing to do with ordinary people as the norms for nobles and people with status. Although this is true, there is a suspicion of beautifying Confucius.We have to admit that the older Confucius is, the more clever he is, the subtle and humorous, and likable, but Confucianism is not without dross, it is all the essence, such as

Confucius’s “-kun -kun ministers, fathers and sons” and Mencius’s “shamelessness, shamelessness”, obviously no longer try the trend of the times. This is just a digression, it’s naughty to make up the number of words.

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People today talk about etiquette, and they mainly talk about the politeness of interpersonal relations. The people of the celestial dynasty have always been the most humane, and the celestial dynasty is simply a huge network of human relationships with history. The previous paragraph is the proof. When I was in middle school, my teacher told us about the same thing several times. He said that in the Japanese toilet, the only word in Chinese was “please flush”.

There is no other language. It is said because the Japanese believe that only the Chinese people use the toilet without flushing, and other ethnic groups will not. Husband,

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