Loftly Temptation

Xiaolin, you're back. Sun Fei said.

And now the phone is still ringing. I answer it and hear Xiang Lan's voice.

"Xiang Zong, are you looking for me?" I just think Xiang Lan pressed the wrong phone or something.

"Lin Feng, is it convenient to come out and sit down?" listen to Xiang Lan's voice, how can I sound strange? What happened to Xiang Lan

"OK, I'll be right there." Xiang Lan is in a restaurant. After hanging up, Sun Fei looks at me and says.

"Xiao Lin, what can I do for you?"

"Sister Fei, I'm leaving now. I'm sorry, I can't cook porridge for you. I'll put it down when I buy it." When I said that, Sun Fei's eyes were full of tears, and this time Sun Fei's ex husband took the things from my hand.

"It's up to me to take care of Feifei. I'll trouble you these days. Let's make an appointment later and I'll treat you to a good meal." This is what Sun Fei's ex husband said. I can feel that he has a good heart, so I can rest assured that Sun Fei will be taken care of by him.

"OK, I'll make another appointment." I said.

"Thank you, Xiaolin." Sun Fei is also polite to me. I just shake my head and walk out of Sun Fei's house. I don't know how. My mood is a little up and down. For Xiang Lan and Sun Fei, I'm still uncomfortable with my feelings. In fact, there is no emotion at all. Maybe it's just the only subtle love left.

I stopped a taxi with a smile. Unexpectedly, there was a topic about love on the radio at this time.

The content is: after my "age is still a big problem" was published, the netizen asked: "why didn't you talk about the problem of big women and small men? I'm a 30-year-old single woman, and I like each other with a 24-year-old man. I also know that age is a big problem, but I don't have the courage to make decisions. I often feel confused. " The host replied, "when it's broken, it's broken. There's chaos.

Another audience retorted: "age is nothing. Love is the most important thing. I've also fallen in love with boys who are much younger than me. It's not surprising that they are sincere. " I said: "women in the age gap, confused by love, will eventually be hurt by love."

More confused voice: "why is age the gap between two people? Is this gap really so difficult for the world to accept? Sad that this gap can not be crossed? Why is this purely personal thing? Why do so many people oppose this kind of thing? In this case, I think the parties dare to be together, Originally very happy, very happy, very good thing, let two people feel like doing something rebellious. Is there a mistake

Yes, it's right to love. It's wrong in real life.

Each of us does not live in a vacuum, but in a living real society. If we look at problems from a short distance, we can forget the consequences. If we look at life for a long time, we can't get out of it and we can't ignore the consequences. The host added: "love can overcome any difficulties, but whether it can overcome the difficulties of age depends on the consideration of time and the firmness of emotion."

And at this time I remember a word Xiang Lan once said!

Lin Feng, find a girl to fall in love. When she said this word to LAN at that time, I felt that her heart was struggling. It didn't seem to be her original intention, but she had no other choice. What should she be avoiding? Is this the symptom of the problem

Another audience asserted that love does not develop according to logic, and there is no law. Now it seems that a law can be formed, saying: "a marriage in which a woman is older than a man has almost no good days. It's either a life-long affair or a man kicking her. The possibility is proportional to the age gap.

Thirty one flowers for men and thirty for women. A man is not fully mature in his thirties. A man who is fully mature should be after thirty-five, and his age of maturity should be after forty. Women are different. Before they are 30 years old, they are as beautiful as flowers. But after they are 30 years old, unless they are born with pets, they are aging slowly. Besides taking care of their families, many housewives don't know how to take care of themselves, so they wither very quickly.

In the face of marriage of the same age, Chi Li said: "when a woman is as rich and ripe as a peach, a man is still wet."; When men grow broad shoulders, women wither However, the marriage of elder sister and younger brother is cruel. The law of nature seems to be specialized in breaking up the marriage of elder sister and younger brother. I don't know how. Women age faster than men. When they were both 20 and 30 years old, the difference was not big. Once a woman is in her forties, the difference is widening rapidly. After 50 years, some couples in the street look like a mother and son nestling together. It's a killing scene.

"The love between the male and the female is a kind of abnormal love, which is different from the most common love between the male and the female. If a woman is rich and powerful, for example, if a 50 year old woman falls in love with a 30-year-old man, even if the love is sacred, all her neighbors, relatives and friends will shine a kind of light in their bright eyes, which is enough to destroy her. It's not to amuse herself. Once a woman is considered to have a white face, Once a man is considered to be the little white faced one who has been raised, and the so-called "old horse only eats tender grass", his life will be extremely embarrassing. "

It's not a big tragedy for a woman to fall in love with her little brother. The biggest tragedy should be that she also falls in love with her little brother. Although modern science and technology can delay women's aging, the rule that women are more prone to aging than men is unbreakable. Women age faster than men not only physically, but also psychologically. Therefore, I advise my sister and brother in love not to believe in the power of love too much. Because, as the temperature of love drops, the power of worldly prejudice makes the younger brother in love give up. A sister in love with her younger brother is likely to end up in tears until dawn. There is also a personality reason for sister brother love. Due to physiological and domestic reasons, men are more likely to age than women. When a woman's youth is gone, her face is declining, and her skin is flabby, all of these will weaken a man's sexual fantasy and wrapped sexual feelings, bring a man psychological and physical sexual barrier love, and then make love discount. Bo Yang said: "once a man has accepted the love of an older woman, he will be finished. He will be supported and protected like a baby. The woman who has lost her youth will look for her youth and take good care of her. In the boudoir, there is another world. No matter how ambitious she is, she will be eroded away. The problem is that this kind of happiness can only be achieved under the precise mental arrangement. It seems that the significance of age to a woman is not only to grow old, but also to alarm her love life. Fundamentally, it is the beginning of a tragedy. If her husband is younger and more beautiful than her, the fear of being abandoned at any time will be more intolerable. Even if God shows special pity on her and makes her little husband love her forever, the psychological burden will also make her grow old faster, One day, I will be nervous and become mentally ill. " Listen, listen, we're at our destination. When I saw Xiang Lan, she was wearing sunglasses, her eyes were a little bit free, and I called her to react“ Here comes Lin Feng. " She said softly“ Yes, Mr. Xiang She seemed to look at me unhappily as I said it“ He told me to call the general manager, my elder sister. "“ Oh, sister Actually, I'm a little absent-minded“ Lin Feng, what are you thinking about? "Xiang Lan asked me before he picked up the cup to drink. I shook my head. In fact, I didn't know what I was thinking. Anyway, when I saw her calm, my heart was quite confused“ I saw you and Sun Fei go to the hospital in the morning. Is she OK Xiang Lan turns a topic. When she asks about Sun Fei, I also want to ask her“ It's no big deal with Feijie. You also went to the hospital in the morning. Is there something wrong I asked, but Xiang Lan was obviously a little unnatural“ I'll be fine. Don't worry. " Then she continued to drink water and looked out of the window, as if each other became a little calm after the topic“ Elder sister, do you really want to marry Ma Guangming? "Although I know the answer and that she is going to have a premarital examination, I still asked. But after my topic falls down, Xiang Lan is still calm. I understand her and I understand her. She doesn't want to respond positively, but let me count "Lin Feng. In fact, I'm afraid that I don't deserve you."“ Sister, what are you talking about? I don't deserve you. "“ No, I'm not young anymore. I'm not a girl anymore. " At this time, I suddenly understood the most real idea in her heart“ Elder sister, how can you think so? You are very young in my mind Originally, in Xiang Lan's mind, she feels that she is not worthy of me. Is this the key factor for her marriage to Ma Guangming? Does she want to let me get rid of the relationship with her earlier because of this“ Lin Feng... "Sister, you say."“ I really want to be young, but I'm 30 years old. " Speaking of this, Xiang Lan seems to have some feelings“ Sister, you are a girl in my mind, 30 is just a record of time, we don't care about it is OK Xiang Lan nodded seriously, her eyes have a very happy flash, she is happy, she is happy, she is from the heart“ Silly girl, you make me unable to extricate myself At that time, I don't know why to say this, but I know Xiang Lan doesn't resent it. She seems to be blushing slowly. Suddenly, there is a little bit of ambiguity between us. Under this relative space, we become a little different atmosphere, which is a different kind of amorous feelings. We just stare at each other for a long time, and no one speaks, but who doesn't want to break this good feeling. From Xiang Lan's eyes, I read out a kind of unprecedented words, a kind of power that she wants to express for love. But then I heard Xiang Lan's cold voice: Lin Feng, we can't do this. I'll always be your sister, and Ma Guangming and I are going to get married. Don't let my sister have any more thoughts.