Like the New and Dislike the Old

Lin Qianshan was speechless, and he went downstairs fifteen minutes later, standing beside the flower bed downstairs, looking melancholy at the sky.

Mu Yi would not let him live here anyway, his attitude was extremely determined, and he couldn't do such a desperate thing, so he had to leave.

As the saying goes, good fortune does not come singly, and when people are unlucky, they tend to be even more unlucky. As soon as he was driven downstairs, he caught up with Juniper and Liang You cuddling hand in hand for a walk.

"Isn't that Lao Lin?" Liang You now calls Lin Qianshan as Lao Lin, "Why are you standing here alone? I thought he didn't smoke."

"Our boss just doesn't smoke." Juniper led Liang You to walk over and greeted doglegally, "Boss, is the plan going well?"

Lin Qianshan turned his head and looked at him blankly.

"What's the plan?" Liang You didn't know anything, but she knew how to observe Lin Qianshan's expression, she said, "No matter what the plan is, it must not go well."

Lin Qianshan turned his head and continued to look at the sky.

Juniper's flattery slapped on the horse's leg, entangled not knowing how to remedy it. Liang You shook his arm, "What is the plan?"

A failed marriage proposal is inherently unglamorous, not to mention that it happened to people like their boss, and it must not be spread. Jun desperately winked at his wife, "Don't ask."

At this time, Lin Qianshan suddenly said, "I am...Is there something very annoying?"

Jun shook his head, "How come? Boss, you are so good..."

"You are quite self-aware." Liang You nodded appreciatively, "This is also an advantage."

Juniper: "..."

Juniper almost collapsed. Do you want to make your husband unemployed?

Fortunately, Lin Qianshan is not the kind of narrow-minded person. Instead, he asked seriously: "What annoying things do I have?"

Liang You also thought about it very seriously, and said: "For example, you are very arrogant, and you always have a kind of stinky temperament like Laozi's best in the world. You are very arbitrary, do whatever you want, and don't think much about other people's feelings. "

Lin Qianshan felt wronged, "I have considered other people's feelings..."

"But you didn't consider the problem from someone else's perspective." Liang You grabbed his hair, "For example, before you chased the old admirer, you just wanted to let her know how much you like her, regardless of your behavior. Has it bothered her."

Well, this is indeed a bit, but Lin Qianshan corrected it in time after discovering the problem.

Lin Qianshan touched his nose, feeling worse, "It turns out I really did a bad job."

Du Song couldn't stand it anymore, and he was the boss no matter what, how could he be disciplined by his own wife. He hurriedly looked for supplements, "Boss, you are not that bad. You still have many advantages, such as you are handsome, more golden, responsible, and healthy in private life... Miss Mu refused your proposal. I think it is not your problem, it should be because The time for your formal contact is still too short..."

"What?!" Liang You exclaimed in shock, "Did you propose?!"

Juniper: "..." Damn it, I missed it.

"Yes, you." Liang You admired Lin Qianshan's action ability very much, "This shows that you are very sincere to our old admirer, and I am optimistic about you."

Lin Qianshan smiled bitterly, "But she refused."

"Tsk." Liang You shook his head, his expression a little tangled.

As a Miyoshi employee, Du Song naturally wants to consider the boss all the time, so he asked: "You are Miss Mu's best friend, do you know why she rejected the boss?"

"It may be because..." Liang You pondered his words, "She is timid."

"No." Juniper obviously couldn't accept this reason. "I think Miss Mu is quite courageous. She dared to go home alone to face her father and stepmother, and even dared to threaten them. Can this be called courage? "

"What do you know? She went back with the feeling of dying together." Liang You sighed and said: "She seems to be very strong on the surface, but in fact she is very courageous. And in big things, she is always very Hesitated. When she was about to graduate from university, her grades were very good. The school was already preparing to offer her a postgraduate insurance program. After considering it for a long time, she finally refused."

"why?"

"Because there is no money." Liang You said: "Because she has been using my money in college, she is almost unable to bear it. Let her study for three years of graduate school, she will not be able to bear it. She would rather miss such a good one. Opportunity, I have to come out early to work and pay back my money."

When Juno listened, he sighed inwardly, there is no way for this kind of thing. People like them who grew up in a good family sometimes really have a hard time understanding the ideas of people like Mu Yi.

"Oh, that's right." Liang You asked Lin Qianshan, "Isn't there a saying that says that, the less you have nothing, the more you envy others. Although I think you are proud and arrogant, but we always like it. With regard to you, she can envy someone like you who can do whatever they want."

"Really?" Lin Qianshan reluctantly smiled, "Does she still like me now?"

"I like it, but I like it." Liang You patted Lin Qianshan on the shoulder, "She refused you, not because she didn't like you, or because she counseled. You give her a little more time, and it will be better in the future. I will too Do some psychological work for her, keep working hard, come on!"

What Lin Qianshan has in time is that he just doesn't know where the problem is.

But now he is absolutely unable to go home, and Li Xiu must never know about the failed marriage proposal. Knowing this with Li Xiu's character, I don't know what will happen. So he could only stay in the hotel, aggrieved.

The fact that he was staying in the hotel was soon found out by his good friend Huang Tao. There was no way. Who would let that hotel be owned by Huang Tao's house?

In the middle of the night, Huang Tao found him to go out for supper, and asked him strangely, "What's the matter with you? If you don't live well at home, you have to come out and stay in a hotel."

Lin Qianshan was full of sadness, and the two of them were talking while eating hot pot in the hot pot restaurant.

Huang Tao almost laughed to death after hearing this, "You are really capable, do you have such a calculation of your own mother?"

"There is no way." Lin Qianshan sighed, "The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. I can only work harder as a son."

"But that's also a way." Huang Tao couldn't stop laughing. "You have been a thief since you were a kid. After so many years, this skill has not fallen at all. Uncles and aunts were played around by you, thinking you were fascinated by the fox spirits. It's so pitiful."

"Huh." Lin Qianshan ate chopsticks beef. "The analysis you helped me last time was quite useful. You will help me analyze and analyze it this time. What should I do to make her feel relieved and boldly marry me. Am I not doing enough?"

"Tsk." Huang Tao shook his head, "Your thinking direction is completely wrong. Your girlfriend's problem is not a problem of courage at all. Didn't you realize that no matter how good the relationship between you is, she Does she rarely tell you her own business?"

Lin Qianshan really didn't think about it. He said, "I know everything about her, so I don't need her to say..."

"It's not like that." Huang Tao put down his chopsticks, "One thing, where you learned from others, is different from telling you by herself. Others can only tell you what happened, and only she can tell you. , What was her feeling at the time. Out of that time in the hospital, she told you about her mother, and she hardly opened her heart to you."

Lin Qianshan suddenly enlightened, "Yes, what should I do?"

He can't eat the quail eggs he likes. "You told me last time that you want me to give her absolute security. I have tried to do this. Isn't it enough?"

"How do you say it." Huang Tao thought for a while, and said: "You have done a good job, but her problem is not only insecurities, I think she is still an avoidant personality."

Huang Tao analyzed: "According to what you said, she acted very sad after knowing that your mother and you were having trouble with her. This was not because she was afraid, not because she was afraid of paying back after being with you. What frustration will be encountered, but because she feels she is responsible for this matter,"

"There are many children with unhappy families in their childhood who have such troubles. They may not realize that when they grow up, they can't open their hearts and show avoidance and aggressiveness because they subconsciously feel that they are responsible for some things. "

"What do you mean?" Lin Qianshan didn't understand, "why does she need to be responsible?"

"For example, if your girlfriend’s mother was unhappy in her marriage, she would feel that it was her fault. If it weren’t for her own birth, her mother might have divorced long ago to pursue her own happiness. Her father treated her badly. She may feel that it is because she is not good enough. If she is good enough, her father's attitude towards her will be different."

Huang Tao clicked on the table, "There is also this matter right now. Of course you and I know that she is not wrong, but she will subconsciously feel that the contradiction between your mother and child, she bears certain responsibility, and will be hurt in the future. When she When this kind of emotion arises, one will subconsciously escape."

The hot pot in front of him was gurgling and rolling, and Lin Qianshan stared at the vegetables floating on it.

"Then what am I going to do?" He thought for a while, and said, "May I bring her to see you?"

"This kind of treatment may not be effective when she comes to see me. It is the best treatment to influence in a subtle way." Huang Tao frowned and thought for a moment.

He held the chopsticks in his hand and pointed at Lin Qianshan with the chopsticks, "You have to find a suitable opportunity and tell her a truth."

Lin Qianshan: "What is the truth."

"this is not your fault."

"Neither her mother’s misfortune nor the pain she suffered when she was a child is not her fault. There are people in this world who treat you badly without a reason. You are very good and worthy of being loved by someone..."