Like the New and Dislike the Old

Mu Yi originally wanted to trouble Su Man, but when she saw the situation, she thought about it and let it go. With Suman's current state of mind, he has gone up, and it is not necessarily who suffers.

In the mood to be long in the future, Mu Yi walked down the stairs quietly. When she returned home and closed the door, the more she pondered, the more she felt wrong. What happened to Su Man? Why do you have to be with Xin Zhao all of a sudden? Didn't she just want to pedal two boats before?

Is it possible that after breaking up with Xin Zhao, she discovered that she couldn't live without Xin Zhao?

Gossip is human nature, and Mu Yi is actually a little gossip. But the only person she knew who knew about Su Man seemed to be Lin Qianshan. You can't ask Lin Qianshan about Su Man, right?

Just then Lin Qianshan sent her another joke about two pilots escaping from the mental hospital. After reading it blankly, Mu Yi replied with a message.

[Gusu Murong: Last time you said that Su Man’s matter was resolved, how did you solve it? ]

Seeing the news, Lin Qianshan frowned subconsciously.

[lin: Did she trouble you again? ]

[Gusu Murong: No, I'm just curious to ask. ]

[lin: Oh, I just told her parents everything and urged her parents to discipline her. ]

It's that simple? Mu Yi is a bit unbelieving to tell the truth. Looking at Su Man's state today, is this really just being disciplined by his parents?

When Jun Jun went to Lin Qianshan's home to deliver the documents, he saw the boss's mouth always smiling, and he must have been chatting with Miss Mu. The boss always calls people directly because he dislikes chatting on WeChat because it is too inked.

Hehe, chatting with Miss Mu is no longer too inked.

He sorted out the documents and said to Lin Qianshan: "All sorted out, I will go back if there is nothing else."

"Yeah." Lin Qianshan held the phone in both hands, staring straight at the screen, and reached a state where there is nothing but nothing outside of his heart.

have to! Jun Jun left Lin's house and called Liang You in the car, "Is Miss Mu already with our boss?"

"No." In Liang You's mind, Mu Yi is an extremely innocent child, "We Lao Mu no longer likes your boss."

"Are you sure?" Jun asked.

"Of course it's confirmed." Liang You said to herself: "If she falls in love, she must tell me as soon as possible."

Juniper felt very distressed when he heard it, Liang You, my silly girl, don't you know why I called you out in the middle of the night on New Year's Eve, all to create a chance for the boss and Miss Mu to be alone.

Lin Qianshan received a call from a friend over there. This friend has been abroad, and they have not seen each other for several years. After the Chinese New Year, that friend finally returned to China, and wanted to meet Lin Qianshan for a meal together.

Alas, Lin Qianshan could only put down the phone with pride.

In the restaurant, Huang Tao and Lin Qianshan had a drink.

"I thought that when I came back this year, I could drink your wedding wine by the way, but I didn't expect you to have retired." Huang Tao said with a smile: "It doesn't matter if you retire, I think Su Man is not your good match from the beginning."

Lin Qianshan frowned and looked at him, "Then why didn't you say it in the first place?"

"I said it." Huang Tao felt very wronged. "When you first had this plan, I said, Su Man is not worthy of you, she doesn't really like you. Do you remember how you answered?"

Lin Qianshan recalled, he seemed to say that it doesn't matter whether there is feeling or not?

After slapped her face, Lin Qianshan was silent.

Looking at his expression, Huang Tao couldn't smile.

"Look at you like this, do you have someone you like?" Huang Tao winked and asked, "Who is it? Do I know?"

"You don't know." Lin Qianshan thought for a while, and asked sadly: "You are an expert in psychology, I ask you a question. If someone has liked you very much, and has liked you for several years, is it possible? She suddenly doesn't like you?"

"Oh?" Huang Tao looked at Lin Qianshan with interest. He naturally could see that Lin Qianshan was talking about himself, which meant that a woman had liked Lin Qianshan for several years, but suddenly she didn't like it anymore. The reason why Lin Qianshan was so upset was that he fell in love with that woman.

"Of course it is possible." Huang Tao analyzed with him seriously, "The most common reason for this is to get tired."

Lin Qianshan: "What?"

Huang Tao: "For example, you like to eat drunk shrimp, but let you eat it often, almost every day, for several years, will you get tired of it? The seven-year itch is such a truth. You have been together for a long time. , The feeling of freshness in the past will also pass."

"Is that so?" This reason did not convince Lin Qianshan, because although he and Mu Yi were together in those two years, there was no emotional exchange, even if they met infrequently.

Huang Tao saw that he did not believe him, so he said: "There is a scientific explanation. People secrete dopamine when they are in love. The stronger the secretion of dopamine, the stronger the feeling. But the strong secretion of dopamine will make the brain feel tired. It will reduce the secretion of dopamine. The relative feelings will be weakened, and if they are extremely weak, there will be no feelings."

Lin Qianshan is a person who believes in science. He thinks this explanation is a bit reliable. But at the same time, it is difficult for him to accept, is the so-called love just the secretion of hormones?

Lin Qianshan whispered: "If this is the case, is it possible for her to like me again?"

"It's possible." Huang Tao said: "It's just that the brain is temporarily tired, and it's not that dopamine is no longer secreted."

Lin Qianshan was a little excited, and Huang Tao said gossiping: "Tell me, tell me what kind of person your girl is, maybe I can help you analyze what kind of person she likes."

Speaking of it, Lin Qianshan had never talked about Mu Yi with his friends, and suddenly he didn't know where to start.

He turned his head and saw the neon signs on the street outside the restaurant window. He and Huang Tao are very good friends, and he can trust Huang Tao's character. But he still exhorted, "I've only told you about these things, you have to keep them secret."

He started talking about getting to know Mu Yi, talking about the separation of the two, talking about how he discovered Mu Yi's love for him for many years, and talking about what happened later.

Lin Qianshan's eyes were a little blurred, "To be honest, I don't know why I like her, but suddenly I always think of her. I will feel distressed when I know what happened to her, and I will be jealous when I see other men around her... …"

Huang Tao listened to him with a smile, and then comforted: "It is very mysterious to like this kind of thing, just like some people like to eat durian, just like this smell, it is natural that there is no way."

"But..." Huang Tao suppressed his smile, "I think your Miss Mu suddenly didn't like you because of the reasons I mentioned above."

"Oh?" Lin Qianshan looked at this friend, he saw seriousness on his friend's face, "how do you say?"

Huang Tao sighed, lowered his head slightly, and drank half a cup of coffee in one breath. Then he folded his hands on the table and began his diagnosis seriously.

"All the emotional sacrifices in this world need to be responded to, not just love. This Miss Mu has an ill-fated fate and has hardly felt love since she was a child."

There was sympathy in Huang Tao’s eyes, “When she was a child, she was only with her mother, but her mother didn’t give her love. It’s not that she didn’t have love, but her mother didn’t know how to express love. Later, she had only her father beside her, and her father didn’t treat her. Love. She yearns for love and gives love, but the love she gave has never received a response, which is actually very painful."

"Children who grow up in such an environment will be emotionally sensitive, inferior, and timid." Huang Tao: "As the age grows and the knowledge and knowledge are accumulated, the situation may improve, but once the personality is formed, it will be very strong. It's hard to change."

Lin Qianshan seemed to have an enlightenment, but it was like a cloud of mist. He seemed to understand but not understand, "So what is your conclusion?"

"It is too painful to give love but not get a response. But children will understand a truth in pain, as long as they don't give love, they won't be painful." Huang Tao looked directly into Lin Qianshan's eyes, "Dang She subconsciously feels that she won't get a response in a relationship, and she will definitely be hurt if she continues, and she will withdraw the relationship, like a snail retracting into her shell."

After that, Lin Qianshan was silent for a long time.

"What should I do?" Lin Qianshan was in a daze.

Huang Tao stretched out his hand and lightly tapped Lin Qianshan's heart.

"Let her understand your heart, what you have to give her is absolute love and absolute security. You have to let her know one thing clearly, that is, she can love you without reservation, because no matter what You will always be by her side and always love her."

That night Mu Yi was about to fall asleep, when the phone vibrated suddenly, and it was Lin Qianshan who sent her a message.

[lin: Good night, I love you. ]

Mu Yi was taken aback, his heart beat violently. She calmed down quickly, saying that it was a trick every day.

After thinking about how to reply for a long time, it seems a bit too cold to refuse seriously, after all, they can be regarded as friends now. It's not okay to pretend that you haven't seen it while sleeping, because she has to get up sooner or later.

Are you kidding me? It doesn't seem appropriate either.

The phone vibrated again, another message from Lin Qianshan.

Mu Yi suddenly didn't dare to look at it. What if he urged him to answer?

After tangling, she exhaled and looked down bravely.

[lin: There is no need to reply to the above message, I just want to confess from the bottom of my heart. Go to bed early, next time you meet you will allow you to pretend to be okay/cute/cute/cute]

Mu Yi stared at the news, his mind went blank.

Is that cute face with a slight smile really suitable for someone like him?

Mu Yi's mind was muddy, and he thought it was a little funny. Did people in their company know that their boss would use such a cute emoji in private?