Immortal Becomes a Stay-at-home Dad After Return

Half past three in the afternoon.

It’s still half an hour away from school, but it’s already crowded with black people.

Don't guess, you know, these are all parents who come to pick up their own children.

Chen Yu, a young man in his twenties, standing among the aunts and grandmothers, seems to have a taste of standing out.

The children are playing games on the kindergarten playground.

Chen Hao looked at the little guy across the wall and found that she was playing on the slide. She did not notice herself standing outside the fence.

It seems that I have been happy to forget to look for it, which makes Chen Hao feel a lot of peace of mind.

He is really afraid that he will not adapt to the kindergarten environment.

You must not let your child suffer from a strange disease such as autism and depression. Because these involve heart disease such as mental health, he really has no rule of law...

Chen Hao stood outside the wall and looked at it. At this time, an aunt suddenly reached out and patted him.

"Hey, boy, are you the child of Zhang Dajie's family?"

Chen Hao looked back and saw him standing behind a smiling big sister.

But it is not the fat aunt that he came back on the first day and just met in the community.

"Ah? Yes, I live in 5 units, Unit 1, 302. What are you?"

"Hey, I said, I always feel that you are familiar with it. It seems to have seen it several times in the community. I suddenly saw that I was in it, so I thought, will it be your child... I The surname is money, you call the money Auntie is good, my grandson is also inside, look, that is the trickster."

Fat aunt said, but also smiled and pointed to the boy who was running like a wind on the playground.

Looking at her posture, I am afraid that I have completely forgotten that I used to think of Chen Hao as a madman who wants to have a meal.

"Hello Auntie, I am working outside, just going home for a while, so I can't even recognize the neighbors next door..."

"It's okay, you know it some time."

Aunt Qian swayed and waved and said: "I told you, your family is the most embarrassing child in our community. The little girl is cute, and our family Peng Peng likes to play with her."

"Is it? lol……"

Chen Yu smiled politely.

It may be because I am not used to dealing with the aunts and aunts, so he does not know what to say now, can only laugh and listen to the money aunt.

"That must be. Last time I teased my silly boy, and said that when he grows up, he will marry him. Oh, you didn't see it. At that time, the silly boy blushes like a monkey's butt. It is."

"really?"

"Of course, you don't say, now the children of four or five years old are much smarter than we were at that time. This is a big point to be able to distinguish who is good to see who is not good. Many children in the community like to play with them." However, only Zhang Dajie used to take a child alone, so she did not have much time to read and play. Since you are back, you can often take it out and play it later..."

Wen Yan, Chen Hao still smiled and nodded his face, but suddenly there was some vigilance in his heart.

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Martinson (S.M.) believes that children from the age of 3 began to have a sense of love and behavior towards the opposite sex.

The child's desire for knowledge is strong, and he cares about everything, including his concern for human organs.

Sometimes it's a person, sometimes a heterosexual partner, or let each other look at the X organ, or touch it with your hand.

Most of his expressions are [Imitation Doctor], [掀 Skirt], [Fake Marriage], [Family House] and other games.

According to the RB Nagoya City Youth Issues Association survey of 290 children in 1970, there were 201 people doing 掀 skirt movements, while 70% of children stopped squatting skirts under the eyes of adults; 167 people peeked into toilets; There were 164 voyeurs and 108 people who played with X organs.

This shows that this is a common behavior among children and cannot be effectively avoided.

At the thought of this, Chen Hao felt a little uncomfortable.

Dare to hit my daughter's idea?

No, I have to find an opportunity to share the knowledge of **** education.

Human sexual psychology, its development and the formation of gender roles have certain rules. Generally, if it is allowed to develop naturally, the results are usually normal; if it is imposed on children's incorrect educational methods, it is likely to form abnormal results. .

Especially for children between the ages of 3 and 5, through **** education, the sexuality of children should be confirmed by society and individuals in the sense of sexual sociology and sexual psychology. ?

If you find that your child has an incorrect performance in terms of sex, you should calmly and patiently correct it, guide naturally, and not roar or intimidate.

For example, if a child plays with an X organ, some mothers will anger and stop: "Don't move!" "Dirty! Don't touch this place!" "Shame! Don't touch it later!"

Or forcibly pulled open by hand, even giving a dozen beats.

This is actually very easy to affect children from a small form of misconception: X organs are dirty, unspeakable, untouchable, and therefore X-related activities are to be suppressed, otherwise they will be punished.

Children are in this relatively closed or conservative environment for a long time, and the sexual needs are suppressed by tangible or invisible. In severe cases, they may even cause physical and mental disorders or pathological changes.

Therefore, letting go of the law and guiding it correctly is the only effective and correct approach.

Perhaps because of the traditional concept of blame, after talking with Qian Aunt, Chen Yu’s mood is very complicated.

After all, the girl is a girl, so he always feels that his daughter is going to suffer...

Although Chen Hao also understands that it is all children's troubles, more of them as a kind of nature and instinct of human beings, but he still feels a little uncomfortable...

Very unhappy...

Very unhappy...

At 4 o'clock in the afternoon, the kindergarten was out of school.

Chen Hao squeezed into the school gate, and the little guy saw Chen Hao in the crowd at a glance.

She shouted "粑粑" while trying to get out of the iron gate, but was stopped by Wang teacher in time.

The children in the kindergarten can not be picked up by anyone. When Wang sees Chen Hao, she takes the hand of the mind and brings the little guy out of the school.

"Hey!"

The little guy just stepped through the iron gate and suddenly fell on Chen’s leg. Then he held Chen’s thigh and leaned back on his small head and said, “Hey, I miss you!”

"Hey, mua!"

Chen Hao laughed and hugged the little guy, then asked her to say to Teacher Wang: "Say goodbye to the teacher."

"goodbye teacher!"

The little guy is swaying with a small hand, and it looks good to Mr. Wang.

Teacher Wang and Chen Yu were very polite, and then praised the little guy very sensible, she was busy sending another child.

Chen Hao is holding his thoughts and walking on the road. The little guy is excited to tell him what he has experienced today.

"Missing, do you like kindergarten?"

"like!"

The words, the little guy nodded immediately.

She has always been a person to play with, and suddenly there are so many friends of the same age, naturally will be happy.

"The father will bring you again tomorrow, okay?"

"it is good!"

"be good."

Chen Hao touched her little face, and her heart was guessing, when will the little guy say that she should not go to kindergarten...

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